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By *ovelybum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

'Bi-curious'. ............So exactly how long does it take for one's 'curiosity' to be met???

There's countless profiles that list the female as 'curious', but yet they've been on the site for multiple years. ...ummm, O.K.,lol!!! Just seems to us that after being in the lifestyle for awhile and surely having had numerous 'Bi' encounters, a person would be able to figure out where they stood on the subject. .......................Just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

'Bi-curious'. ............So exactly how long does it take for one's 'curiosity' to be met???

There's countless profiles that list the female as 'curious', but yet they've been on the site for multiple years. ...ummm, O.K.,lol!!! Just seems to us that after being in the lifestyle for awhile and surely having had numerous 'Bi' encounters, a person would be able to figure out where they stood on the subject. .......................Just curious "

Great post,

It really pisses me off seeing profiles with curious on it and they have fucked a fair few of the same sex lol i think alot of women on here only do it for there men which is sad, im fully bi not just for my hubby as ive been sleeping with girls since i was 15 i can have a reletionship with men and women ( not just about the sex ) i have a love for women x

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By *ovelybum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"

'Bi-curious'. ............So exactly how long does it take for one's 'curiosity' to be met???

There's countless profiles that list the female as 'curious', but yet they've been on the site for multiple years. ...ummm, O.K.,lol!!! Just seems to us that after being in the lifestyle for awhile and surely having had numerous 'Bi' encounters, a person would be able to figure out where they stood on the subject. .......................Just curious

Great post,

It really pisses me off seeing profiles with curious on it and they have fucked a fair few of the same sex lol i think alot of women on here only do it for there men which is sad, im fully bi not just for my hubby as ive been sleeping with girls since i was 15 i can have a reletionship with men and women ( not just about the sex ) i have a love for women x"
Although I prefer the guys, still classify myself as bisexual as love my girlie time too

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By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

'Bi-curious'. ............So exactly how long does it take for one's 'curiosity' to be met???

There's countless profiles that list the female as 'curious', but yet they've been on the site for multiple years. ...ummm, O.K.,lol!!! Just seems to us that after being in the lifestyle for awhile and surely having had numerous 'Bi' encounters, a person would be able to figure out where they stood on the subject. .......................Just curious "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a few liken bisexuality to 'wanting a relationship with someone of the same sex', they don't, so they remain straight or curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've remained curious as I've only had one experience so far and still sit on fence lol. I don't think I'll ever be fully bi as I'm just not bothered about playing with ladies I much prefer men and I'd never be interested in playing with a lady on her own. I'm probably classed as straight who will play with a lady when mood strikes me. I don't crave a ladies touch or kiss but I certainly didn't try it for Benz. It was me who brought it up and me who pushed to try a lady so I did it for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think some people use it as a happy medium,

like they wouldnt go out with someone of the same sex, but play with them for the purpose of sexy fun

so they might not say they bi-sexual, but put bi-curious to let you know they game for it in some ways but not whole hog

thats my theory anyways lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remain curious as well because although i love playtime with women i wouldn't go off and have a relationship with one. I love my man to much!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've remained curious as I've only had one experience so far and still sit on fence lol. I don't think I'll ever be fully bi as I'm just not bothered about playing with ladies I much prefer men and I'd never be interested in playing with a lady on her own. I'm probably classed as straight who will play with a lady when mood strikes me. I don't crave a ladies touch or kiss but I certainly didn't try it for Benz. It was me who brought it up and me who pushed to try a lady so I did it for myself. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bi curious on my profile and I am very happy with that! Only had one experience so far, for my own benefit not the OH!!

I can't see a problem with being curious as and when the mood takes me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think some people use it as a happy medium,

like they wouldnt go out with someone of the same sex, but play with them for the purpose of sexy fun

so they might not say they bi-sexual, but put bi-curious to let you know they game for it in some ways but not whole hog

thats my theory anyways lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have bi curious on my profile and I am very happy with that! Only had one experience so far, for my own benefit not the OH!!

I can't see a problem with being curious as and when the mood takes me!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit, i've been persuaded that having the category "bi playful" would be a great idea...for people who are happy for bi play to occur in a swinging situation but wouldn't like to fully classify themselves as bisexual...

For me, I've never been curious, only bi even before I had experiences...what I can't bear is women who say they are bi purely for the male attention it gets them...I once had a girl say she might reciprocate "if she could bring herself to do it..." don't do me any favours love, reciprocation is not compulsory, I love to give, but the tiniest hint that you might be into it without closing your eyes would be good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well guess you could say then that I am bi playful, wouldn't want a full blown relationship with another woman as I love my OH to much, oh and cock!!

I would never play with anyone just to please my OH and he would never expect me to either!!!

Happy to play with another fem ( giving as well as recieving) in a meet, but not in normal everyday vanilla life, as the two are separate!!

So I am going to stay bi curious , as it suites me!!

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By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"a few liken bisexuality to 'wanting a relationship with someone of the same sex', they don't, so they remain straight or curious.

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Bisexuality is romantic OR sexual attraction or BEHAVIOUR toward males and females. Therefore, if you have even fantasised about having sex with both sexes and especially if you have participated in it and enjoyed it (even if you have no intention of doing it again), that makes you bi going by the dictionary definition.

But who needs labels? We are all just sexual and the orientation can, and usually does, change at different times throughout your life

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"a few liken bisexuality to 'wanting a relationship with someone of the same sex', they don't, so they remain straight or curious.

Bisexuality is romantic OR sexual attraction or BEHAVIOUR toward males and females. Therefore, if you have even fantasised about having sex with both sexes and especially if you have participated in it and enjoyed it (even if you have no intention of doing it again), that makes you bi going by the dictionary definition.

But who needs labels? We are all just sexual and the orientation can, and usually does, change at different times throughout your life "

I couldn't agree more re the definition....

I don't want to snuggle up at night with either sex but my tongue flicks a clit and a bellend

so am Bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a few liken bisexuality to 'wanting a relationship with someone of the same sex', they don't, so they remain straight or curious.

Bisexuality is romantic OR sexual attraction or BEHAVIOUR toward males and females. Therefore, if you have even fantasised about having sex with both sexes and especially if you have participated in it and enjoyed it (even if you have no intention of doing it again), that makes you bi going by the dictionary definition.

But who needs labels? We are all just sexual and the orientation can, and usually does, change at different times throughout your life "

I agree in general...I hate being shoehorned into categories but for the purposes of this site and how we use it, they are useful in looking for like minded individuals or giving them an idea about the kind of play we're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bi-curious on my profile only because, as someone already said that there is no option to put bi playful.

I too have no desire to play one on one with a woman, I love kissing and touching another female and i def do not do it just for my hubby. He prefers to see me with a guy.

So if i remove the bi curious from profile, what do i replace it with! I wont put bi sexual because i dont think i am, but I cant be straight or i wouldnt even like to touch or kiss another woman so a bit stuck really which is why i leave it as it is. I always make sure I explain this to any females we meet and so far have not had any problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well guess you could say then that I am bi playful, wouldn't want a full blown relationship with another woman as I love my OH to much, oh and cock!!

I would never play with anyone just to please my OH and he would never expect me to either!!!

Happy to play with another fem ( giving as well as recieving) in a meet, but not in normal everyday vanilla life, as the two are separate!!

So I am going to stay bi curious , as it suites me!! "

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By *eedafuck1210Man
over a year ago

Helston

I think people stick to 'curious' because saying bisexual is too close to 'gay'. If they stick at curious then they don't have to admin that actually they like it both ways

The other random one is someone who says they are straight but then admits to being 'orally bi'

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

IMO you are either bisexual or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was curious as to how the remake of the movie 'total recall' turned out, so, i went to watch it! Afterwards, i wasn't curious anymore!! Doesn't this apply to most things regarding curiousity?? Once you have satiated your curiousity about something, how can you still be curious?? I think a lot, (not all) of people use this option to attract a certain type of person in the hope of having some ffm/mmf fun!!

P.s. The film was crap!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I've been Bi-curious all my life .... have been on here about 6 months ... still curious ... still not managed to quench it *whistles, gazes round room, twiddles hair, bites lip*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good point you make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was curious as to how the remake of the movie 'total recall' turned out, so, i went to watch it! Afterwards, i wasn't curious anymore!! Doesn't this apply to most things regarding curiousity?? Once you have satiated your curiousity about something, how can you still be curious?? I think a lot, (not all) of people use this option to attract a certain type of person in the hope of having some ffm/mmf fun!!

P.s. The film was crap!! "

Actually no..because:

"Curiosity (from Latin curiosus "careful, diligent, curious," akin to cura "care") is a quality related to inquisitive thinking such as exploration, investigation, and learning, evident by observation in human and many animal species."

So in theory all people are who listed as curious, are still learning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were both still bi-curious for the following reasons ....

D (male) has had 'experiences' with only a handful of guys and is still finding his feet and his likes and dislikes. Its more of a sexual thing for him in the right enviroment. Its the bi mfm/mmff etc that turns him on.

V (female) has had 2 experiences with girls and although enjoyed it was very brief so still considered a newbie.

Hence why were here ... Too push this further and find out what we like and experience the wonderful joys of bi 3 ways / 4 ways and more ways

Ps any single ladies / men / couples in the midlands area that want to show us the way and take lead a lil ... PM us

D & V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great post always wonderd why someone would still have bi curious after a few meets surely u would no one way or the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love sex with other women and it's an itch I have to scratch. I don't want a relationship with another woman though. I consider myself totally bisexual and my bi-curiosity finished the first time I played and loved it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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For me, I've never been curious, only bi even before I had experiences...what I can't bear is women who say they are bi purely for the male attention it gets them...I once had a girl say she might reciprocate "if she could bring herself to do it..." don't do me any favours love, reciprocation is not compulsory, I love to give, but the tiniest hint that you might be into it without closing your eyes would be good... "

Ditto

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