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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My wife has been on and off of Fab a few times, she is currently off but talking about rejoining as she would like to try a mmf, but she thinks she would rather start one on one with a guy to build trust etc..

She has asked me a few times what guys might ask of her if she met one, so we came up with an idea to try stuff, some of what might be a bit out of her comfort zone, but we are a little lost for ideas besides oral (she isn't the biggest fan of giving blow jobs), anal, mutual masturbation, tying up, we have recently tried watersports. She wants her eyes opened to what she could potentially be asked so I am putting it out to the hive mind.

Thanks in advance.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

So you want to know what single men might expect/ask of her if they met one on one?

Surely that would in part be based on what she enjoys doing and what her limits are?

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By *oldenbrownMan
over a year ago

Sussex

It’s always difficult to say she should try x or y, because everyone has different turn off and turn ons.

Some of the things you have suggested make it seem like she may enjoy someone taking control softly. If she is into the idea of restrained, how about her being blindfolded and then played with by her selected playmate. The sensory deprivation will heighten the senses and the anticipation of what might be next will add to the excitement.

I’m sure it could develop into something more challenging but as a starting point that might excite her.

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By *oldenbrownMan
over a year ago

Sussex


"So you want to know what single men might expect/ask of her if they met one on one?

Surely that would in part be based on what she enjoys doing and what her limits are?"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think it's a question of what she'll be asked, more a question of what she'll enjoy.

I suggest she rejoins and sees what messages she receives on the understanding that just because someone asks doesn't mean she has to do it. I also suggest she sets her filters for her requirements too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it's a question of what she'll be asked, more a question of what she'll enjoy.

I suggest she rejoins and sees what messages she receives on the understanding that just because someone asks doesn't mean she has to do it. I also suggest she sets her filters for her requirements too. "

The last time she was on she got some messages that put her off, toe sucking was a common one, some asked about stuff with excrement, violence was fairly common as a ask. So I am hoping to open her eyes without putting her off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you want to know what single men might expect/ask of her if they met one on one?

Surely that would in part be based on what she enjoys doing and what her limits are?"

The last time she was on she had some messages from people that are only interested in what they enjoy and what their limits are, and as much as I have tried to reassure her that not everyone is like that she is struggling to see that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is she hoping for?

most guyss want a fuck and will say anyrhing to get a good, hard fuck. So, other than that what does she want from them, ideally.

We found out that every stranger we met, when they were alone with my wife everyone would say very sexy things about her how my wife was the most good lucking lady they mey and so on - all of them were married or had OH.

Sadly, many when alone with my wife tried to ask her out behind my back. We never met anyone more than twice

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't think it's a question of what she'll be asked, more a question of what she'll enjoy.

I suggest she rejoins and sees what messages she receives on the understanding that just because someone asks doesn't mean she has to do it. I also suggest she sets her filters for her requirements too.

The last time she was on she got some messages that put her off, toe sucking was a common one, some asked about stuff with excrement, violence was fairly common as a ask. So I am hoping to open her eyes without putting her off."

At least one of those things is against the rules.

The thing is it doesn't matter what we say the messages aren't going to change are they.

The alternative is that she sets up a profile, sets filters so she can't receive mail and contacts single men herself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what is she hoping for?

most guyss want a fuck and will say anyrhing to get a good, hard fuck. So, other than that what does she want from them, ideally.

We found out that every stranger we met, when they were alone with my wife everyone would say very sexy things about her how my wife was the most good lucking lady they mey and so on - all of them were married or had OH.

Sadly, many when alone with my wife tried to ask her out behind my back. We never met anyone more than twice"

The last time my wife was on she saw similar when she got messages asking/telling her to forget about me and spend a weekend or more away with a guy or visit him at his penthouse (a lot of guys on here have a penthouse).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never ceases to amaze me the amount of fab wives that are represented by their husbands alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It never ceases to amaze me the amount of fab wives that are represented by their husbands alone "

A great quote by Carl Sagan springs to mind.

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