FabSwingers.com forum: Why would a couple go bareback with a single male?:S

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive just got back from a meet, we aranged to meet at the local pub from there head back to there place, once we got there it got abit sexual ( as expected ) Once I got a condom out, the female said no we dont need that, I said why :S she said im clean, all though I wanted to have sex I couldnt as my health is more important to me!?

What does everyone think of this?

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"Ive just got back from a meet, we aranged to meet at the local pub from there head back to there place, once we got there it got abit sexual ( as expected ) Once I got a condom out, the female said no we dont need that, I said why :S she said im clean, all though I wanted to have sex I couldnt as my health is more important to me!?

What does everyone think of this? "

It's a personal choice thing really.

Did they basically say 'no bareback, no sex' then. If they did then they should have told you that before meeting as a lot of people won't do bareback for health reasons like you. It's a shame for you, but it all comes down to communication....

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I couldn't risk it personally. No glove, no love!

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"I couldn't risk it personally. No glove, no love!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly cannot understand someone wanting unprotected sex with a stranger that could lead them to a possible death sentance.

I know condoms do not make it 100% before some start stating the obvious but its a hell of a lot safer using them.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Why do we have sex with strangers?

It's all about choice: I don't question what others do, I can only worry about and try and protect me.

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By *reenonionsMan
over a year ago

Nr Exeter

As above, you can't and shouldn't endorse or condone either way.

No one has a right to judge - unless you're a judge and then that gets complicated!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cuz they are morons

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

What does everyone think of this? "

She seriously said you couldn't have sex with her if you wore a condom? Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does everyone think of this?

She seriously said you couldn't have sex with her if you wore a condom? Really?"

Stupid woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cue the holier than thou brigade and all barebackers are idiots bandwagon. Its each to there own. If what they wanted wasn't for you then pass them by. They should have made you fully aware of what was expected of you. It really is beyond me as swingers, generally being castigated as mortally wrong are so quick to round on each other for not conforming to the masses. We see many things we don't like on here, we get losses about off timewasters. We see things that are really not our thing but we don't judge and bitch about them. We just move out the way and look for the things we like.

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

Awwww but i like the judgemental crowd on here, can't beat a good argument and slagging off in a forum, makes for a much more interesting read than some of the silly threads on here.

Can't beat a good wind up IMO.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awwww but i like the judgemental crowd on here, can't beat a good argument and slagging off in a forum, makes for a much more interesting read than some of the silly threads on here.

Can't beat a good wind up IMO.

Steve"

There is a wind up. Then there is casting judgement and being cynical over someones preferences....huge difference to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must admit as a tv I like skin on skin with both sexes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happend to me a few times, there are a lot of people on here who tick the safe sex box but when it comes down to it they prefer bareback.

It's personal joice but honesty is the key to a good start.

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By *outhlondondudeMan
over a year ago

london

"Cue the holier than thou brigade and all barebackers are idiots bandwagon. Its each to there own. If what they wanted wasn't for you then pass them by. They should have made you fully aware of what was expected of you. It really is beyond me as swingers, generally being castigated as mortally wrong are so quick to round on each other for not conforming to the masses. We see many things we don't like on here, we get losses about off timewasters. We see things that are really not our thing but we don't judge and bitch about them. We just move out the way and look for the things we like. "

Perfect-simply put and perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post like this make me smile ... Kissing And oral sex you can get just as much from.... SEX with people you don't know is High Risk and for some thats what thay get off on....... like it or not a condoms will only go so far to keep you safe .Only way to be 100% is no sex.

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