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"Message me "Bless ya you nearly had them didn't ya hahaha | |||
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"We brought a tripod, with a Bluetooth clicker best thing I ever brought, just get it on click away then after spend the next hour going through and editing pics. The mr " Thanks for that. We've got one on order now. | |||
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"I suspect we’ll be doing the same …. " Our pics are taken with our phone, a tripod and voice activation, then edited. Have fun with your pics and see what you can come up with Xx | |||
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"Voice activation… how do you do that ? " Maybe just ask Siri to take a picture  | |||
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"Looking for a photographer who is willing and able to take erotic pictures of both of us, hoping someone knows someone who knows someone .. x" You're already doing pretty well with your own photos - far better than most of the self-proclaimed "professional" photographers on Fab. Just keep at it and take inspiration from photos you like - it's a lot of fun. | |||
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"Maybe make subtle enquiries with studios that offer boudoir photography. Some might offer more but not advertise it. I would be wary of using a random Fab member." This ^^^^^ trying to think of someone who is in your area. Book marked | |||
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"Voice activation… how do you do that ? " Depends on your phone…if you haven’t got it on your phone then download an app. It works the same as pressing the button. Any noise will take a pic… | |||
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"We've actually been speaking to a local couple who's Mr is photographer. Love the idea of a photo shoot. The professional Boudoir ones seem very expensive. " Anyone who offers boudoir photography service on a site like this would question it. Know many boudoir photographers and they certainly wouldn't advertise here. But it is an adult site and people make their choices and risks. Id certainly check their credentials, insurance, privacy, GDPR etc | |||
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Look on purple port for a photographer near you or as other have done with me use word of mouth for who can be trusted. | |||
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"We/I can do boudoir photography but don't offer it or advertise it on here as Fab are a cynical bunch
Look on purple port for a photographer near you or as other have done with me use word of mouth for who can be trusted." This but I'm too far | |||
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"Id ask anyone what a good lighting setup for the best results during, boudoir or nude photo shoot "Depends on if there's good natural light! But always have a gold flash umbrella and stand set up to keep the flesh tones and can also be angled to throw some shadows in the mix | |||
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"Id ask anyone what a good lighting setup for the best results during, boudoir or nude photo shoot
Depends on if there's good natural light! But always have a gold flash umbrella and stand set up to keep the flesh tones and can also be angled to throw some shadows in the mix "Just curious  | |||
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"We've posted the same but in fantasy group by mistake. We are looking for someone too but near Leicester or just outside " I know a really good guy from Loughborough if you are interested? | |||
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"Voice activation… how do you do that ? " Yes do tell please | |||
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"Voice activation… how do you do that ? Yes do tell please " Most phones can do it. Check in the camera settings, some work by saying a specific word, others just by any sound. | |||
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"Part time photographer from Burnley here. Normally do boudoir and nude but I have done a couple of erotic shoots for fab friends xx " Recommended | |||
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"Does the photographer get to join in the fun xx "Not if they're professional about it | |||
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"If you want to have some professional photos, pay a professional; if you choose to use someone who does it for a hobby (and there are some fantastic ones!) you can’t expect professional results! By this,I mean an agreed amount of edited/finished images in a certain timeframe; plus a written contract outlining who has what image usage rights; remember, by law the photographer owns the copyright to all images he has taken, unless you both agree that he sign over the copyright to you… Can be a bit of a headache "Can be an extreme headache but most of us have "model release forms" now and adhere to GDPR and copyright/publication/timeframe agreements .. (well, I know I do lol) and I am a Hobbyist Photographer but totally agree, You want Professional Quality, Pay a Professional | |||
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"Does the photographer get to join in the fun xx
Not if they're professional about it
"Umm... or if it's agreed upon as part of a Fantasy ! But as a Rule it's hands off | |||
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"Does the photographer get to join in the fun xx
Not if they're professional about it
Umm... or if it's agreed upon as part of a Fantasy ! But as a Rule it's hands off "Of course he can join as this will be his fee | |||
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" Of course he can join as this will be his fee " Wish I could get that fee! lol | |||
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" Of course he can join as this will be his fee Wish I could get that fee! lol" Unfortunately it doesn’t put food on the table, and I’m pretty sure HMRC still requires it’s cut in legal tender | |||
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"Unfortunately it doesn’t put food on the table, and I’m pretty sure HMRC still requires it’s cut in legal tender" Very true if you were doing it as a living or a commisioned shoot! | |||
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"Some good advice here, shame can't be on the FAB FAQs. Simple rule. First Red Flag. A Professional Photographer of any repute would be unlikely advertise the fact on site like this. Generally people claiming to be professional photographers are not. Further clarification Check their credentials as have been said, they should have details of their working practices, including GDPR. See if they hold any certifications, member of any Professional Organisations. If they are offering photo shoots, then need to know exactly what you're getting. Ultimately this is an adult site so decisions and risks are yours. Wish you well in your search - "Realistically a pro isn’t what you want, they won’t do this kind of thing, you need an amateur that’s skilled,,has the kit and can be trusted | |||
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"Some good advice here, shame can't be on the FAB FAQs. Simple rule. First Red Flag. A Professional Photographer of any repute would be unlikely advertise the fact on site like this. Generally people claiming to be professional photographers are not. Further clarification Check their credentials as have been said, they should have details of their working practices, including GDPR. See if they hold any certifications, member of any Professional Organisations. If they are offering photo shoots, then need to know exactly what you're getting. Ultimately this is an adult site so decisions and risks are yours. Wish you well in your search -
Realistically a pro isn’t what you want, they won’t do this kind of thing, you need an amateur that’s skilled,,has the kit and can be trusted "I know at least half a dozen professionals that would shoot this kind of work, and a quick google of ‘Intimate couples photography’ would probably bring up countless more. | |||
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"Unfortunately it doesn’t put food on the table, and I’m pretty sure HMRC still requires it’s cut in legal tender Very true if you were doing it as a living or a commisioned shoot! " Which, as photography isn’t a protected profession there is no legal requirement for professional qualifications to practice, the only people who are professional photographers are the ones that are getting paid commissions - this doesn’t always mean they are technically competent in taking photos, as… there is no legal need to be qualified. I’ve seen many a wedding ruined by an over-enthusiastic new DSLR owner offering to save the couple some money and take the photos, not a scenario you can realistically reshoot. A camera no more makes a good photographer than a cooker makes a Michelin chef Apologies OP for hijacking your thread | |||
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"A camera no more makes a good photographer than a cooker makes a Michelin chef Apologies OP for hijacking your thread" I agree completely which is why I always state I'm a Hobbyist! I let my Pics of others and their word talk for my experience (not of myself as I have used the Phone a couple of times lol) ... | |||
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"Does the photographer get to join in the fun xx
Not if they're professional about it
Umm... or if it's agreed upon as part of a Fantasy ! But as a Rule it's hands off
Of course he can join as this will be his fee "No pro photographer or even an amateur with a professional approach to what he/she does would ever expect to join in. I've only ever played on one shoot and that was only because she was coming round for fun and wanted some photos while she was here. I've heard stories of photographers on purpleport trying it on with models and on adult folio you can book models who do POV shoots that involve sex with the photographer. Those photographers give us all a bad name. Any decent photographer wouldn't even dream of it. | |||
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"No pro photographer or even an amateur with a professional approach to what he/she does would ever expect to join in. I've only ever played on one shoot and that was only because she was coming round for fun and wanted some photos while she was here. I've heard stories of photographers on purpleport trying it on with models and on adult folio you can book models who do POV shoots that involve sex with the photographer. Those photographers give us all a bad name. Any decent photographer wouldn't even dream of it. " My Playshoot was the Same, She wanted some pics done before she got her hair messed up.. Never tried it on wth a Model on PP.(and wouldn't) Certainly wouldn't expect to join in unless it was a PlayShoot and discussed beforehand. But if a Playshoot isn't what's happening, yep, through the Lens is all I see and hands off | |||
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"Unfortunately it doesn’t put food on the table, and I’m pretty sure HMRC still requires it’s cut in legal tender Very true if you were doing it as a living or a commisioned shoot! Which, as photography isn’t a protected profession there is no legal requirement for professional qualifications to practice, the only people who are professional photographers are the ones that are getting paid commissions - this doesn’t always mean they are technically competent in taking photos, as… there is no legal need to be qualified. I’ve seen many a wedding ruined by an over-enthusiastic new DSLR owner offering to save the couple some money and take the photos, not a scenario you can realistically reshoot. A camera no more makes a good photographer than a cooker makes a Michelin chef Apologies OP for hijacking your thread" Unfortunately not but if you look for accreditations, certifications or member of a professional body good starting point. In my local area pre covid there were 52 professional photographers, post covid now nearly 100 and increasing. Anyway i digress, you take any risk even if they are a genuine professional Photographer, doesnt mean they are any good. There are plenty of bad ones out there. There is a difference between taking pictures and being a photographer. Oh and there are fair few who do boudoir, erotic . But the DSLR and a few cheap lights off Amazon or Ebay doesn't make you any good. | |||
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"Let me know if you find anyone good! Been looking on and off for a couple of years. Insist they use your SD card too. " No half credible photographer would do that as there would be a cycle of post processing to do for any real quality photos. Definitely a red flag | |||
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"Let me know if you find anyone good! Been looking on and off for a couple of years. Insist they use your SD card too. No half credible photographer would do that as there would be a cycle of post processing to do for any real quality photos. Definitely a red flag " And most people wouldn’t have the software, or knowledge to process Raw files, or have a card reader capable of reading a CF or XD car. It would be the equivalent of having an videographer in the 80s give you a betmax tape so you could play it on your VHS machine | |||
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"Bear in mind that a genuine pro, or even amateur, photographer would not make public any substandard photograph, even on Fab. So if you see any poor photographs on a profile of someone claiming to be a "genuine professional photographer" there is a very high probability that they are not. " We’d certainly worked that one out .. first port of call .. photos | |||
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"Let me know if you find anyone good! Been looking on and off for a couple of years. Insist they use your SD card too. No half credible photographer would do that as there would be a cycle of post processing to do for any real quality photos. Definitely a red flag And most people wouldn’t have the software, or knowledge to process Raw files, or have a card reader capable of reading a CF or XD car. It would be the equivalent of having an videographer in the 80s give you a betmax tape so you could play it on your VHS machine "This is great, thanks for contributing to the thread, really appreciate your input. Just wish you were closer x | |||
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"Don’t apologise, your pictures are great, as is your valuable info, just wish you were closer x" I have literally just driven back from today from a weekend that started on Friday in Wirral including a visit to Townhouse on Saturday, the Sunday/today catching up with an old friend in Salford, me and the wife are planning a long weekend in Liverpool before Xmas, I can drop you message when I know the dates and maybe see if we can sort something out | |||
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"Let me know if you find anyone good! Been looking on and off for a couple of years. Insist they use your SD card too. No half credible photographer would do that as there would be a cycle of post processing to do for any real quality photos. Definitely a red flag " I think most cameras (mine does) let you shoot in raw and jpg at the same time so using a clients SD card in the camera is possible and you would be able to see the images through a computer, however, it is true there would be no opportunity for post processing (unless the client did it themselves). Most photographers will try and capture accurately through the lens, but some degree of post processing is always done. | |||
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"Does the photographer get to join in the fun xx
Not if they're professional about it
Umm... or if it's agreed upon as part of a Fantasy ! But as a Rule it's hands off
Of course he can join as this will be his fee
No pro photographer or even an amateur with a professional approach to what he/she does would ever expect to join in.
I've only ever played on one shoot and that was only because she was coming round for fun and wanted some photos while she was here.
I've heard stories of photographers on purpleport trying it on with models and on adult folio you can book models who do POV shoots that involve sex with the photographer. Those photographers give us all a bad name.
Any decent photographer wouldn't even dream of it.
"It's play or shoot, never both. When I'm shooting, I'm too focused on composition, lighting, negative space etc etc to think about anything else | |||
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"Does the photographer get to join in the fun xx
Not if they're professional about it
Umm... or if it's agreed upon as part of a Fantasy ! But as a Rule it's hands off
Of course he can join as this will be his fee
No pro photographer or even an amateur with a professional approach to what he/she does would ever expect to join in.
I've only ever played on one shoot and that was only because she was coming round for fun and wanted some photos while she was here.
I've heard stories of photographers on purpleport trying it on with models and on adult folio you can book models who do POV shoots that involve sex with the photographer. Those photographers give us all a bad name.
Any decent photographer wouldn't even dream of it.
It's play or shoot, never both. When I'm shooting, I'm too focused on composition, lighting, negative space etc etc to think about anything else "I’m the same (unless im specifically captures action for our couples profile) it infuriates my wife at times as she + plus her girlfriend cannot no matter what they try get me to lose focus, metaphorically and literally I retired professionally last year and she thought I would somehow beable to switch off 25 years of practice | |||
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"Some good advice here, shame can't be on the FAB FAQs. Simple rule. First Red Flag. A Professional Photographer of any repute would be unlikely advertise the fact on site like this. Generally people claiming to be professional photographers are not. Further clarification Check their credentials as have been said, they should have details of their working practices, including GDPR. See if they hold any certifications, member of any Professional Organisations. If they are offering photo shoots, then need to know exactly what you're getting. Ultimately this is an adult site so decisions and risks are yours. Wish you well in your search -
Realistically a pro isn’t what you want, they won’t do this kind of thing, you need an amateur that’s skilled,,has the kit and can be trusted
I know at least half a dozen professionals that would shoot this kind of work, and a quick google of ‘Intimate couples photography’ would probably bring up countless more. "I know a studio that does kink and more than half a dozen and none of them are interested in shooting ametuer porn for mates rates from people on a swinging site | |||
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"Let me know if you find anyone good! Been looking on and off for a couple of years. Insist they use your SD card too. No half credible photographer would do that as there would be a cycle of post processing to do for any real quality photos. Definitely a red flag " A red flag is letting a single male on here shoot your partner inaction and take the images away . Unless you want to see them appear on some random profile | |||
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"Some good advice here, shame can't be on the FAB FAQs. Simple rule. First Red Flag. A Professional Photographer of any repute would be unlikely advertise the fact on site like this. Generally people claiming to be professional photographers are not. Further clarification Check their credentials as have been said, they should have details of their working practices, including GDPR. See if they hold any certifications, member of any Professional Organisations. If they are offering photo shoots, then need to know exactly what you're getting. Ultimately this is an adult site so decisions and risks are yours. Wish you well in your search -
Realistically a pro isn’t what you want, they won’t do this kind of thing, you need an amateur that’s skilled,,has the kit and can be trusted
I know at least half a dozen professionals that would shoot this kind of work, and a quick google of ‘Intimate couples photography’ would probably bring up countless more.
I know a studio that does kink and more than half a dozen and none of them are interested in shooting ametuer porn for mates rates from people on a swinging site"Who mentioned mates rates or amateur porn? | |||
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"Let me know if you find anyone good! Been looking on and off for a couple of years. Insist they use your SD card too. No half credible photographer would do that as there would be a cycle of post processing to do for any real quality photos. Definitely a red flag A red flag is letting a single male on here shoot your partner inaction and take the images away . Unless you want to see them appear on some random profile " Thats why you need to go to someone credible rather than the plethora of FAB photographers, and the point. They should have all the necessary processes in place. A genuine professional Photographer would have more to loose by breaking their professional integrity. Where amateurs and FAB photographers have nothing to loose and everything to gain. Like selling pictures to porn sites etc Thats why no credible professional photographers would be offering their services on site like this. Simply not worth the risk to their business. Despite what people think glamour, boudoir, etc is only part of a professional photographers business. Can you image if some of their clients found tbem on site such FAB In the end id doesn't really matter, you make your choice and take the risk. If you are taken in buy the shams - hey ho All I have done is offer some real world experience and some home truths. Good look OP, i hope you find someone | |||
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"I've mostly done TFP or content share work, but as I have a fairly visible and reputable business, I'd never risk sharing images in a way that goes against whatever is agreed by the model. I think there's a lot of snobbery around photography, but a lot of us do it purely for the challenge and enjoyment of capturing and creating beautiful images. " This | |||
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