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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. " It’s a fair argument. I found it horny though and I’m sure I’m not alone. Goes both ways too but yea you’re defo right to an extent. And she wasn’t silly, she just backed up. No hands and on a packed tube so it happens I guess! | |||
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"It can be very uncomfortable to have a guy with an uninvited erection pressed against you, as many of us have. I'd encourage any man to turn away or get off, if such an event happens. I've enjoyed it at concerts, bars and on the tube but it's better for guys to be aware and cautious and certainly not to touch any further, unless consent is given. I freely admit that some of the guys who have had their cocks pressed against me are guys I would and have let fuck me or have just enjoyed the experience and let them know that I have. Some of them have just felt threatening though. " That’s the thing isn’t it, it’s a very fine line. I found it hot. Stranger, naughty, unexpected all that kinda thing but the next man may not have. I’m happy being on the receiving end of the ass and not going around stabbing my cock into the back of women | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. " That | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. " This. It’s not acceptable. Her nudging back may have been her losing her balance/footing and not necessarily her responding. | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. This. It’s not acceptable. Her nudging back may have been her losing her balance/footing and not necessarily her responding. " Responding to what? I moved back and continued to move back. Not sure what she was meant to be responding to. | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. It’s a fair argument. I found it horny though and I’m sure I’m not alone. Goes both ways too but yea you’re defo right to an extent. And she wasn’t silly, she just backed up. No hands and on a packed tube so it happens I guess! " Hmm. It's not something I'm at all comfortable with but I know many people think it's ok for a woman to touch a man without consent. | |||
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"Situation this morning on the London Underground. I had shorts on (suns out )tube was packed and before I knew it a lady in classic office attire had backed into me with her bum pressing on my cock. Despite being a freak & up for most things, I actually felt a bit embarrassed that maybe she didn’t realise so I tried to pull back but I was against the glass window partition. She nudged back too. I obviously got hard and within 2-3 stops off she pops. Now the problem is, despite it being quite horny if I had acted on it with maybe a sly touch where no one could see my luck was I’d get a ‘what the fuck are you doing’ and get nicked I enjoyed the slice of voyeurism she offered me but kind of thought afterwards that I wanted a bit more?! Any thoughts or similar experiences? " Goto the underground station that the lady got off at. Roughly at the same time as today. You never know, it maybe her daily 'commute' or her routine for her going to work. A 'sliding doors' moment? lol. | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. This. It’s not acceptable. Her nudging back may have been her losing her balance/footing and not necessarily her responding. " lol she had his erection pressed into her body I think she knew exactly what she was doing | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. This. It’s not acceptable. Her nudging back may have been her losing her balance/footing and not necessarily her responding. lol she had his erection pressed into her body I think she knew exactly what she was doing" 100% | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. This. It’s not acceptable. Her nudging back may have been her losing her balance/footing and not necessarily her responding. lol she had his erection pressed into her body I think she knew exactly what she was doing" You think, but you don’t know. I’m sure it’s far more attractive and exciting to think that the woman pressed back and felt the erection and was turned on by it rather than the more likely reality she was too busy thinking about her day at work to notice and her “push back” wasn’t intentional. | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. This. It’s not acceptable. Her nudging back may have been her losing her balance/footing and not necessarily her responding. Responding to what? I moved back and continued to move back. Not sure what she was meant to be responding to. " Your post reads as if her nudging back onto you was a form of response. | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. " Yep it's not a matter of if it was a welcome advance or not. It's a matter the women didn't know it was welcome and there wasn't any clear consent given. You just can't assume someone wants to be touched. There is a toxic misconception with many that men are up for it, always and thus fair game. And this may indeed be the case for many more men than it is women. But everyone is an individual have a right not to be touched up without consent. | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. This. It’s not acceptable. Her nudging back may have been her losing her balance/footing and not necessarily her responding. Responding to what? I moved back and she continued to move back. Not sure what she was meant to be responding to. Your post reads as if her nudging back onto you was a form of response. " To me moving back? Maybe it was on her part yea. | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. Yep it's not a matter of if it was a welcome advance or not. It's a matter the women didn't know it was welcome and there wasn't any clear consent given. You just can't assume someone wants to be touched. There is a toxic misconception with many that men are up for it, always and thus fair game. And this may indeed be the case for many more men than it is women. But everyone is an individual have a right not to be touched up without consent." Totally agree. Personally, if the female was very attractive and done the same thing I’d be up for it and would find it exciting. If the woman was unattractive to me then I wouldn’t and would be out of there in a shot. Does that make me right or wrong? Who knows eh. Each to their own. | |||
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"To be honest this just sounds creepy all round." Would have been if she was ugly but she wasn’t so wasn’t for me but yea could have been I guess | |||
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"Sounds a bit like when you were at school many years ago….trying to get a “boob rub” as in your arm might touch a girl down a busy corridor!!! Well that’s what my friends told me they did!!!" Unfortunately I went to an all boys school haha | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. This. It’s not acceptable. Her nudging back may have been her losing her balance/footing and not necessarily her responding. lol she had his erection pressed into her body I think she knew exactly what she was doing You think, but you don’t know. I’m sure it’s far more attractive and exciting to think that the woman pressed back and felt the erection and was turned on by it rather than the more likely reality she was too busy thinking about her day at work to notice and her “push back” wasn’t intentional. " Obviously we only have OPs interpretation of events that it was most likely intentional. Its a fair statement to say he may have misinterpreted and he may not have likewise. That's something we will never no for sure. Although it's always wise to keep an open mind OP is the only account we have. So to some extent we should probably go with that as he seems pretty sure it was deliberate and isn't part of the problem we have people not being taken seriously when they say they've been deliberately touched on public transport? | |||
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"To be honest this just sounds creepy all round. Would have been if she was ugly but she wasn’t so wasn’t for me but yea could have been I guess " What I meant was that if she was indeed rubbing herself proactively against you, that's a little creepy. If on the other hand she was just rammed against you because that's how it is on the tube and you've taken that as a come on, that's a little creepy. That you've then asked the question as to whether or not she'd have reacted badly if you'd touched her up is a little creepier still. | |||
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"To be honest this just sounds creepy all round. Would have been if she was ugly but she wasn’t so wasn’t for me but yea could have been I guess What I meant was that if she was indeed rubbing herself proactively against you, that's a little creepy. If on the other hand she was just rammed against you because that's how it is on the tube and you've taken that as a come on, that's a little creepy. That you've then asked the question as to whether or not she'd have reacted badly if you'd touched her up is a little creepier still. " It was a question but I can see where you’re going and that’s fine. You do you. I’m not daft. I judge things quite well IMO hence never ever had an issue in my life and have used the tube a million times in similar surroundings. | |||
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"It would of made me feel very uncomfortable OP. I have not given consent for this to happen and she is invading my personal space that is reserved for the ones I choose to let invade " I agree with that hence why I moved back. It was only when I saw her face and thought shit she’s a sort it changed my perception. Honest opinion. | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. This. It’s not acceptable. Her nudging back may have been her losing her balance/footing and not necessarily her responding. lol she had his erection pressed into her body I think she knew exactly what she was doing You think, but you don’t know. I’m sure it’s far more attractive and exciting to think that the woman pressed back and felt the erection and was turned on by it rather than the more likely reality she was too busy thinking about her day at work to notice and her “push back” wasn’t intentional. Obviously we only have OPs interpretation of events that it was most likely intentional. Its a fair statement to say he may have misinterpreted and he may not have likewise. That's something we will never no for sure. Although it's always wise to keep an open mind OP is the only account we have. So to some extent we should probably go with that as he seems pretty sure it was deliberate and isn't part of the problem we have people not being taken seriously when they say they've been deliberately touched on public transport?" It’s not about him being taken seriously and more about him possibly innocently misinterpreting what happened based on his own feelings towards it. He seems to be okay with what happened so it’s a bit different to someone not being okay with the situation. If it were someone not okay with the situation I’d ask the same question, are you sure it wasn’t intentional and are you sure said person wasn’t trying to get their balance back etc. Nobody can be sure if it was intentional or not since the woman got off and that was that. | |||
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"OP How short were your shorts ?" Hot pants Haha na they were what I’d call regular Under Armour gym shorts | |||
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"tony knowles once knocked my leg when i met him a lot of years ago under the table. Should i have acted on it??" Snooker player. | |||
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"A woman touching a man inappropriately is as bad as the reverse situation. She shouldn't have done it. This. It’s not acceptable. Her nudging back may have been her losing her balance/footing and not necessarily her responding. lol she had his erection pressed into her body I think she knew exactly what she was doing You think, but you don’t know. I’m sure it’s far more attractive and exciting to think that the woman pressed back and felt the erection and was turned on by it rather than the more likely reality she was too busy thinking about her day at work to notice and her “push back” wasn’t intentional. Obviously we only have OPs interpretation of events that it was most likely intentional. Its a fair statement to say he may have misinterpreted and he may not have likewise. That's something we will never no for sure. Although it's always wise to keep an open mind OP is the only account we have. So to some extent we should probably go with that as he seems pretty sure it was deliberate and isn't part of the problem we have people not being taken seriously when they say they've been deliberately touched on public transport? It’s not about him being taken seriously and more about him possibly innocently misinterpreting what happened based on his own feelings towards it. He seems to be okay with what happened so it’s a bit different to someone not being okay with the situation. If it were someone not okay with the situation I’d ask the same question, are you sure it wasn’t intentional and are you sure said person wasn’t trying to get their balance back etc. Nobody can be sure if it was intentional or not since the woman got off and that was that. " I agree, I didn't think I disagreed with the possibility of it all being a misunderstanding. Just saying chances are with what we have is it was intentional. Because as well as the physical act OP also was there to pick up the vibe, body language etc. Of course again it's possible he could have misread that, maybe a case of wistful thinking. However people generally can pick up on a vibe and know when someone is doing something deliberately. | |||
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"Situation this morning on the London Underground. I had shorts on (suns out )tube was packed and before I knew it a lady in classic office attire had backed into me with her bum pressing on my cock. Despite being a freak & up for most things, I actually felt a bit embarrassed that maybe she didn’t realise so I tried to pull back but I was against the glass window partition. She nudged back too. I obviously got hard and within 2-3 stops off she pops. Now the problem is, despite it being quite horny if I had acted on it with maybe a sly touch where no one could see my luck was I’d get a ‘what the fuck are you doing’ and get nicked I enjoyed the slice of voyeurism she offered me but kind of thought afterwards that I wanted a bit more?! Any thoughts or similar experiences? " If this was deliberate on her part and not an accident then it is sexual assault - it was not consensual. If there is a chance that it was in fact an accident then you did the right thing by moving back and by not putting your hands on her person. I am very alert and absolutely terrified of someone doing anything like this to me and I don't give a damn how they look. There were a few times when I was not quite sure like recently when a guy started fiddling with his belt and he was standing right next to me. The thought that this might be him trying to rub himself in some way was so petrifying, intimidating and disgusting that I became very alarmed. Depending on where I am standing and when unsure I can sometimes hoist my handbag (most of the time it is a large tote) unto my shoulder and move about to create a barrier so this one of the things I do to prevent access to my person when I don't know if someone is accidentally bumping into me. | |||
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"there were a few times when I was not quite sure like recently when a guy started fiddling with his belt and he was standing right next to me. The thought that this might be him trying to rub himself in some way was so petrifying, intimidating and disgusting that I became very alarmed" Yea that’s super creepy and weird. Thankfully nothing like that and sorry you had to experience that. Horrible. | |||
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"I can't help but feel this is really just a humble brag " Not at all. With all due respect I’ve been around the block and back since I was 17/18 and had some crazy / wild / unbelievable experiences so this is probably 0000.1 on scale of experiences for me if I’m honest. | |||
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"If she was me I'd of just given you a glance when I got off to let you know just in case on same tube tomorrow " | |||
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"tony knowles once knocked my leg when i met him a lot of years ago under the table. Should i have acted on it?? Snooker player. " I was thinking the same, anyway it was defo an accident as he's not straight! | |||
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"See if she’s there each day and keep it going see how it goes " Nice tits | |||
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