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By *ose and her beast OP   Couple
over a year ago

Watford

People really need to stop expecting people to meet at the drop of a hat most of us have lives and work and have to schedule meets around certain times remember good things come to those who wait x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree. I get messages throughout the night asking to meet immediately. Sorry but some of us need sleep lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are alot who do meet at the drop of the hat on here too

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

It’s ok if you get a meet

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By *ose and her beast OP   Couple
over a year ago

Watford


"there are alot who do meet at the drop of the hat on here too"

I get that but people need to stop getting offended when we tell them we could but would have to organize it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are alot who do meet at the drop of the hat on here too

I get that but people need to stop getting offended when we tell them we could but would have to organize it "

See it as a positive. Why would you want to waste time meeting someone so disrespectful of your wishes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly.

And also can I come for kisses and cuddles.

Noooooo. We've never met. If that's the expectation before meeting, what is the actual gonna be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s each to their own to be honest.

Everyone has different tastes.

I love the excitement of random spontaneous meets, fucking, kisssing whatever with someone that was a total stranger I may have only messaged 30 mins before!! But I know for others that’s the opposite of what turns them on.

For me planned meets and endless messages becomes more relationship style and I lose interest.

But like I said one sizes rarely fits all!!

X

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Would actually help if people bothered reading profiles. Chances are if you have kids at home, the likelihood of being free and able to meet with zero planning is roughly, well zero! We ignore everyone who asks. If they can’t be bothered to read our profile (takes approx 3 mins and doesn’t seem like much effort to get into someone’s knickers) then we can’t be bothered to reply. Simple!

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I never meet fast or same day and have it on my profile, it doesn't stop the u free now or I'm in your town in an hour messages.

I just delete and write a private note on their profile now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are alot who do meet at the drop of the hat on here too

I get that but people need to stop getting offended when we tell them we could but would have to organize it "

i totally agree just pointing out the otherside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm on here I'm usually doing nothing and have spare time.

So if I get a message asking if I can meet its usually a yes if I like them

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't get many messages like that but did have 2 on the same day last year both from well verified couples.

The first contained 4 words, Facepic and phone number.

The second asked to meet the next day and also for a phone number.

Both told me it was my loss when I refused and one was kind enough to remind me that I'm a man on Fab and therefore don't have options.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It's the one who ask to meet with their first message that we don't understand. We have no public face pics so how would they know if they'd find us attractive or not?

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I don't get many messages like that but did have 2 on the same day last year both from well verified couples.

The first contained 4 words, Facepic and phone number.

The second asked to meet the next day and also for a phone number.

Both told me it was my loss when I refused and one was kind enough to remind me that I'm a man on Fab and therefore don't have options. "

The 'it's your loss' is a common reply when I say no to people.

If I have made the decision to say no it's for a good reason I don't see it as a loss at all.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I don't get many messages like that but did have 2 on the same day last year both from well verified couples.

The first contained 4 words, Facepic and phone number.

The second asked to meet the next day and also for a phone number.

Both told me it was my loss when I refused and one was kind enough to remind me that I'm a man on Fab and therefore don't have options.

The 'it's your loss' is a common reply when I say no to people.

If I have made the decision to say no it's for a good reason I don't see it as a loss at all. "

The sense of entitlement from anyone making a demand when they are the ones initiating contact is ridiculous and to then say it's my loss when I don't jump as expected just reinforces my decision.

The only other times I've had this said to me were when I was told by complete strangers in their opening message to shave my beard off or I wouldn't be meeting them and then by others who decided that being straight was ruining any chance I had of a meet and I needed to either be bi or bring a sexy lady with me if I wanted to meet them.

How it could be my loss when I had never spoken to them beforehand is a mystery.

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