FabSwingers.com forum: Symbol wearing in public

By *OTWIFE34gg OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

Hi all, always been very curious about this one. Do any of you lovely people actually wear a sly symbol when in public, to show/advertise your open to swinging or hotwife play ??? If so what symbols do you show/wear and do they actually work or get you attention

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By *leasure zoneCouple (MM)
over a year ago

oxford

Was told an ankle bracelet and toe ring was the sign for a hot wife

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Pampus grass in the front garden I heard was s sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was told an ankle bracelet and toe ring was the sign for a hot wife "

years ago i mean 30/40 years ago may be but not in last 15 20 years it is just fashion

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By *OTWIFE34gg OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

Just looking to explore this and try a few things out, see what affect they have x

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By *udge.rulesCouple
over a year ago

Lichfield

I heard pineapples are a sign? but who knows these days.

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By *inabushCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We read about the pineapples too x we have a few things with pineapples on now !! X

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By *OTWIFE34gg OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

"We read about the pineapples too x we have a few things with pineapples on now !! X "

Yeah I read pineapple are a sign for swingers, but surly many don’t know this. Anything for a hotwife?

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

It’s the 34gg tits for me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear a skull ring when I'm in the mood...

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Just looking to explore this and try a few things out, see what affect they have x"

Well it appears you already have the hotwife anklet sorted.

I think with these symbols you have to be pretty clear for them to have any effect.

So an anklet is just jewellery, a hotwife anklet will be clearer, but actually anklets are so discrete that they don't get noticed and very few men are looking at ankles on a night out.

My wife has a bi sexual necklace, but again few people are aware of the colour scheme and in a pub the light is not amazing so purple pink and blue do not stand out that well.

In the end it's a nice thought but not sure they have ever worked that well for anyone.

Probably because in the end even if you notice a symbol you still have to have to gumption to go and talk to that person and even when in a swingers club we find that most people want to be approached and not to be the person approaching.

I think fear of rejection rules over attraction.

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By *ewcambsguyplusMan
over a year ago

Near Huntingdon

There is Mum at Football with an anklet!

If she was, yes I’d 100% fuck her! X

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

"Was told an ankle bracelet and toe ring was the sign for a hot wife "

Ha I've got both. I always wear my anklet.

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By *OTWIFE34gg OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

"It’s the 34gg tits for me!!!"

Ha ha yeah they’d work

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Proudly displayed???

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By *OTWIFE34gg OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

"Was told an ankle bracelet and toe ring was the sign for a hot wife

Ha I've got both. I always wear my anklet."

I think my anklet would be a dead give away as it has hotwife written in it although I wear another one all of the time

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By *OTWIFE34gg OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

"Proudly displayed???"

Always

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Glad to hear it x

Shame to hide those beauties away....

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

There's a few pics in our profile of Char wearing her "HotWife" necklace. She's taken to wearing it almost every time we go anywhere.

Only been spotted and commented on the once, though

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Hi all, always been very curious about this one. Do any of you lovely people actually wear a sly symbol when in public, to show/advertise your open to swinging or hotwife play ??? If so what symbols do you show/wear and do they actually work or get you attention

There are a lot of myths flying around, as others have already mentioned. However, if these so called secret symbols are so well known it stands to reason that they are not secret after all.

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By *OTWIFE34gg OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

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By *OTWIFE34gg OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

So very true xxx

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

must admit, since reading about anklets, we do keep an eye out for them as think it would be so kinky. Think the idea of a little giveaway is super hot.

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

We also go to a lot of music festivals and dance music events. Would be super hot to see someone with an anklet or necklace at one of those as for us, the thought of dancing and flirting unplanned is such a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is more than just anklets. Necklaces, clothing and temporary tatoos to name a few.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

"Pampus grass in the front garden I heard was s sign"

Have to keep a close watch on the local vicarage as they have 3 bunches in the garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tattoos are something to look out for, but its down to people recognising symbols in the right circumstances and context, as well as the people knowing the meanings by certain tattoo designs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tattoos are something to look out for, but its down to people recognising symbols in the right circumstances and context, as well as the people knowing the meanings by certain tattoo designs."

Doesn't have to be a design. I have been out with the word Slut on my ankle as an example

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Tattoos are something to look out for, but its down to people recognising symbols in the right circumstances and context, as well as the people knowing the meanings by certain tattoo designs.

Doesn't have to be a design. I have been out with the word Slut on my ankle as an example"

Its a pretty clear indication, did anyone act on noticing it?

(consensually of course, no uninvited ass grabbing etc)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We read about the pineapples too x we have a few things with pineapples on now !! X "

What like pineapple on pizza?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tattoos are something to look out for, but its down to people recognising symbols in the right circumstances and context, as well as the people knowing the meanings by certain tattoo designs.

Doesn't have to be a design. I have been out with the word Slut on my ankle as an example

Its a pretty clear indication, did anyone act on noticing it?

(consensually of course, no uninvited ass grabbing etc) "

Not that one but I have been approached over an anklet once and a queen of spades tattoo another time.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

Andover

Lots of great ideas here, but nothing that might just be worn or displayed 'anyway' by non-swingers. I liked the idea of a discreet chameleon sticker in a car, although that wouldn't work if generally 'out and about'. Perhaps we just need someone to develop a location specific app that allows willing participants to know when similar people are in the same area ...?

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"Was told an ankle bracelet and toe ring was the sign for a hot wife "

Most people wouldn’t think it was and therefore a lot of regular girls wear them. Strike that one off the list. We are fully sure it’s basically a myth. Unless you have Hotwife written on it, it’s a standard bit of jewellery that a ton of people wear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An upside down whole pineapple (not on a pizza! Lol) is meant to depict a swinger. We have one on the back of our camper but not as yet been mentioned by anyone.

As a tongue-in-cheek gesture we also have a vase of pampas grass in an upstairs window in the house facing the road but again no recognition from the neighbours!

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By *eedAbuse4HubbyCouple
over a year ago

North West

I wear the key to his chastity cage on my necklace daily, sometimes on an anklet if I wanted to be real extra with it.

Brilliant when we’re out with friends, I’ll just fiddle with it and put it in my mouth and watch him squirm

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

problem is as soon as someone starts a new symbol the secrewts out last year was fab lolly wrappers in your windscreen then it was in the papers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fab ice lolly key ring hanging from my rear view mirror

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We always wear black wedding rings on our right hands and often wear Fab lolly badges when out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a vixen ankle bracelet, I wear it all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wear the key to his chastity cage on my necklace daily, sometimes on an anklet if I wanted to be real extra with it.

Brilliant when we’re out with friends, I’ll just fiddle with it and put it in my mouth and watch him squirm

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now that's hot/sexy

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I wear a HW anklet and it’s only been noticed a few times

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

"There is more than just anklets. Necklaces, clothing and temporary tatoos to name a few."

What kind of clothing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is more than just anklets. Necklaces, clothing and temporary tatoos to name a few.

What kind of clothing?"

Leather assless chaps

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

"There is more than just anklets. Necklaces, clothing and temporary tatoos to name a few.

What kind of clothing?

Leather assless chaps

Im in,do they sell them in Primark?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is more than just anklets. Necklaces, clothing and temporary tatoos to name a few.

What kind of clothing?

Leather assless chaps

Im in,do they sell them in Primark? "

Start a trend by ordering Primarny to stock them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have matching upside pineapple stickers on our cars to try and attract Mrs x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd not bother, as I like discretion and just to flirt with anyone who's appropriate and I encounter anywhere

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

"There is more than just anklets. Necklaces, clothing and temporary tatoos to name a few.

What kind of clothing?

Leather assless chaps

Im in,do they sell them in Primark?

Start a trend by ordering Primarny to stock them."

I'll have a look in the charity shops first,you never know!

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By *ndecidedjMan
over a year ago

barton le clay/Harrow

"We read about the pineapples too x we have a few things with pineapples on now !! X "

Not pizza I hope.

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By *ain99Woman
over a year ago

Falkirk

We need a masonic style ring ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We need a masonic style ring ??"

A 'Square and Cum-pass' ??

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By *rthur WrightusMan
over a year ago

Round the Bend

"Lots of great ideas here, but nothing that might just be worn or displayed 'anyway' by non-swingers. I liked the idea of a discreet chameleon sticker in a car, although that wouldn't work if generally 'out and about'. Perhaps we just need someone to develop a location specific app that allows willing participants to know when similar people are in the same area ...?"

Apparently the 'What 3 words' app is catching on to arrange discreet meets

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Becky’s been out a few times during the summer wearing a ‘Fab’ lolly t shirt..

No funny looks or advances yet..

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

A teapot left on the roof of a narrow boat is supposed to depict swingers reside within.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wear an ancle bracelet with HW on (as seen in our picture), but only been approaced once. That was fun though

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By *ustcyberMan
over a year ago

North Herts

"I wear the key to his chastity cage on my necklace daily, sometimes on an anklet if I wanted to be real extra with it.

Brilliant when we’re out with friends, I’ll just fiddle with it and put it in my mouth and watch him squirm

I dream of being on the receiving end of this situation. She holds all the cards. Amazingly powerful symbol.

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By *iny tits and himCouple
over a year ago

mids

I have wore an anklet for years not had anyone ever comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We need a masonic style ring ??"

Yesssss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We need a masonic style ring ??"

Two V shaped legs laying across each other like a square & compass?

One female, one male, or same sex to define which persuation a person takes.

There is a symbol that some swingers use, it is in a design of a swing, but to me looks like a superhero logo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time I go down the pub I’ll take the Sky Remote with me…

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Maybe an electronic tag that bleeps when your horny might be a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you get approached?

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Or leaving fab location app on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in the forces (17)

A older guy was showing me around the camp as I was fresh out of training and into the battalion in Germany… he told me watch out for a washing machine detergent box in the windows of the houses the married people where in as this meant that the wife’s where up for mmf lol

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Yes I have a white t-shirt with fuck me please on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ankle chains were always a bit of a maybe but as previously said more of a fashion accessory nowadays.

However I always look and if there is a saucy charm or 2 on it I ask lol

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By *weettonguedMan
over a year ago

Bideford

"When I was in the forces (17)

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

i wear my anklet but no one seems to know what it means

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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"When I was in the forces (17)

Yes I also remember the packet of OMO scenario very well. From memory, the OMO box was displayed in the kitchen window, the kicthen light was also left on?

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By *OTWIFE34gg OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

Wow some of these replies are amazing, so really some symbols are out there, although it looks like the more easy to understand words are shown to , hotwife, slut, whore. I have a hotwife anklet that may be on the next time we are out. I will see

Love this thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buying a fab from the ice cream man and walking around with it in public still count? Lmao.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Has anyone thought of wearing an anklet with ‘I AM ON FABSWINGERS!’ on it? That could work.

Although it might be better on a t-shirt.

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land

White baggy T Shirt with large black print on the front saying 'Frankie says Hotwife'

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Wear a t shirt that says Zildjian , they. make cymbals……,

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By *nsatiableWoman
over a year ago

Newmarket

Have been asked about a black band I wear on my right hand before.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

had a unicorn hanging on my keyring for a while, but it went awol

need to find a new one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this work the other way round? Like if I was married and got to play but my wife didn't??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a camelean sticker in the window of our camper van.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Have been asked about a black band I wear on my right hand before. "

What did you reply?

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

"Was told an ankle bracelet and toe ring was the sign for a hot wife

Ha I've got both. I always wear my anklet.

I think my anklet would be a dead give away as it has hotwife written in it although I wear another one all of the time "

Mine has hot wife on it too

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By *iceandnautiCouple
over a year ago

York

When we’re out Nauti often wears an anklet with slut on it, a bracelet with the letters SUB on it and / or one of her collars but so far no one has approached us.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Becky permanently wears a subtle day collar.

We change it to a more prominent one when we’re going out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to see a girl wearing a collar x that's the best symbol for me

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By *orthmanMan
over a year ago

Kendal

I wore a cymbal to a vanilla nightclub to see if it would work. The result? one man banned.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"I wore a cymbal to a vanilla nightclub to see if it would work. The result? one man banned."

Bu-bum…. Ah no it was a cymbal. Tishhhh

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land

'fancy a fuck' t shirt.....

I'm still a Virgin

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

A Hotwife anklet. I have one with a longer chain that can be worn over boots that gets noticed a lot. There is a pic of it on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i see an ankle bracelet it makes me wonder thats for sure . A woman i have met and meeting again soon wears one that says “hot wife” on it … drives me crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the spades tattoo or anklet is really sexy , but unfortunately means they are mostly into BBC . Still find it hot though

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Wish I’d have known the pineapple thing before I went out in a dress with them on last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been something I've been wondering as well, hopefully it can become a thing as it's been difficult finding a hotwife/gf

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I wear my HW anklet when I go shopping. Now he is wearing his cage again I also have his keys hung on there. They do tend to rattle lol.

But tbh it does not seem to get noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you..hehehe....always look out for women wearing anklets with keys or acronyms...especially on nights out. Now Autumn is here not as visible. But they do turn me on. Would always approach and say hi if they had on.

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

The bent over in aisle 3 of tesco pretending to look at cucumbers is usually a sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly wear anklets but more as a fashion item than anything else. Never been approached specifically for that reason though.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

My wife wears anklet most of the time, they are normally simple chains with, maybe, a small charm of no significance, however if she’s feeling mischievous she well one her (many) anklets that have “slut” lettering as a prominent design feature

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By *aughty Nas xxxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"An upside down whole pineapple (not on a pizza! Lol) is meant to depict a swinger. We have one on the back of our camper but not as yet been mentioned by anyone.

As a tongue-in-cheek gesture we also have a vase of pampas grass in an upstairs window in the house facing the road but again no recognition from the neighbours! "

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

Mrs P always has lots of cleavage on show when we go out for a drink, it always attracts lots of attention! We find it hard to see which guys are fab guys when out though, perhaps we could have a dress code for fab guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skirt pulled right up and flaps wide open works for me

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"The bent over in aisle 3 of tesco pretending to look at cucumbers is usually a sign

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especially if the cucumbers are in aisle four

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I thought wearing a black ring was a symbol

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By *r.MorningstarMan
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray

Pineapples are a sign but they need to be upside down, next time your in a supermarket and you see an upside down pineapple in a trolly, your in with shot!

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

"I regularly wear anklets but more as a fashion item than anything else. Never been approached specifically for that reason though."

The anklet idea is such a turn on for us. The risk is that it may just be someone wearing it for fashion and then it would be a bit awkward. Like the charms ideas though as makes it a little clearer

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"I regularly wear anklets but more as a fashion item than anything else. Never been approached specifically for that reason though.

The anklet idea is such a turn on for us. The risk is that it may just be someone wearing it for fashion and then it would be a bit awkward. Like the charms ideas though as makes it a little clearer "

I think even with charms there is always going to be a conversation.

Even those wearing slut or whore may have a preference for who they are slutty or whory (is that a word?) with.

I'm sure a question related to the jewellery would make everything clearer.

I like your pineapple anklet

Does the anklet mean you are just a slut for hubby or open to offers?

The cheeky grin is mandatory.

I'm sure if they were not interested in you they would have a comeback ready.

I'm a slut for any hot guys, so I'm afraid that's you out. (ouch - burned)

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

"I regularly wear anklets but more as a fashion item than anything else. Never been approached specifically for that reason though.

The anklet idea is such a turn on for us. The risk is that it may just be someone wearing it for fashion and then it would be a bit awkward. Like the charms ideas though as makes it a little clearer

I think even with charms there is always going to be a conversation.

Even those wearing slut or whore may have a preference for who they are slutty or whory (is that a word?) with.

I'm sure a question related to the jewellery would make everything clearer.

I like your pineapple anklet

Does the anklet mean you are just a slut for hubby or open to offers?

The cheeky grin is mandatory.

I'm sure if they were not interested in you they would have a comeback ready.

I'm a slut for any hot guys, so I'm afraid that's you out. (ouch - burned)

Great points. Guess we will look and then initiate a chat and see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We read about the pineapples too x we have a few things with pineapples on now !! X

Yeah I read pineapple are a sign for swingers, but surly many don’t know this. Anything for a hotwife? "

Pineapples upside down are splashed all over tik tok so I'm sure it's common knowledge

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Of course, any symbol would be easy for papers and others to find out about. And if it were knowledge for the ordinary swinger, it would soon be known by others and then the kids. No more wondering why you wear that Chameleon pin. Or why you constantly wear that pineapple broach upside down. Why would you risk that?

One thing we did hear of was asking a question of those who look or act like swingers (However that is noted!) The question was "Are you friends with Ellis" Ellis = LS = Life Style. But for anything to work it has to be common knowledge and that is the last thing we need!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Of course, any symbol would be easy for papers and others to find out about. And if it were knowledge for the ordinary swinger, it would soon be known by others and then the kids. No more wondering why you wear that Chameleon pin. Or why you constantly wear that pineapple broach upside down. Why would you risk that?

That is a new one on me.

I'm not sure how you look or act like a swinger?

I doubt anyone suspects us we are very covert.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

A black ring on the right ring finger is known to many.

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By *ndysmithMan
over a year ago

north cyprus

I would love there to be something that informed people knew and then to get my wife to wear it would be v cool. I agree that many years ago ankle braclets were they thing, but too common now. Knowing that people in the know would know that there was a chance to enjoy her would be v erotic.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"A black ring on the right ring finger is known to many."

Char and I got married on Friday. We have black wedding bands....one reason was that we could swap them to our right hands if we wanted to hint at anyone....

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

"I would love there to be something that informed people knew and then to get my wife to wear it would be v cool. I agree that many years ago ankle braclets were they thing, but too common now. Knowing that people in the know would know that there was a chance to enjoy her would be v erotic.

But you’ve just described a system that is already in use - if you know…you know. As soon as you make it so that ‘everyone’ knows the ‘secret’ it’s no longer a secret

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By *andboyMan
over a year ago

Calne

A modified version of the NHS app with a swinger check box and a custom message would work. Nothing on show and you know they are close

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over a year ago

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