FabSwingers.com forum: Your first club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m curious to hear people’s experiences on visiting a club for the first time.

Just watched the documentary on channel 4 and I’m absolutely fascinated by it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first experience was great, I was given a warm welcome and felt at ease. I made quite a few friends and then joined fab after

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We were bricking it! It was a surreal experience and we just played with each other in a room on our own. We love club nights now, the atmosphere, the fun, and we can go in a nightclub and not feel old.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/1008941

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

I went with Mrs M, both anxious nervous and did not know what to expect. However within 10 mins of being there and usual shown around the club we were greated by a lovely lady who obviously seen that we were newbies we must have stood ou and our nerves soon settled. We enjoy the night and the rest is history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was terrible! Lol a scabby place on an industrial estate in London about 11 years ago called the F Club. Then went to VA Bedford a few years ago and loved it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The old quest had a fantastic night

For a single guy was so looked after in more ways than one never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been yet but I am being tempted more and more !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m curious to hear people’s experiences on visiting a club for the first time.

Just watched the documentary on channel 4 and I’m absolutely fascinated by it now"

What where you watching?

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

We were pushed into it by a couple who wanted to visit one. Returned many times after

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m curious to hear people’s experiences on visiting a club for the first time.

Just watched the documentary on channel 4 and I’m absolutely fascinated by it now

What where you watching?"

It’s called “swingers” mainly about owning a swingers club and the people who visit them

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Our first visit put us off clubs for a long time. It was one that didn't limit single men, so everywhere we went, we were followed by a tribe of them.

Thankfully we eventually tried The Attic and haven't looked back since!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xtasia many moons ago, been soooooo long. We deffo need to get back there asap

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I first visited La Chambre in Sheffield with my husband many years ago.

It was friendly, welcoming and great fun. We even had our first swinging experience on our very first club visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rabbit in the headlights 1st club.

But 2nd club they were great friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were bricking it! It was a surreal experience and we just played with each other in a room on our own. We love club nights now, the atmosphere, the fun, and we can go in a nightclub and not feel old.

This was us last Saturday at our first ever club visit. Nervous as hell but within an hour totally relaxed, and an hour after that we were playing in a room. We can't wait to go back!

M&M

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

This was us last Saturday at our first ever club visit. Nervous as hell but within an hour totally relaxed, and an hour after that we were playing in a room. We can't wait to go back!

M&M "

Enjoy your journey

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry

Oh my word. Well we were shaking with nerves. We had to build up courage to go into the different rooms. We were like a couple of naughty kids, all giggles and excitement. It was really great. A kind of innocence.

Of course it's all different now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chameleons, been to others but we think it's the best by far. We were so nervous on the first visit, Mrs PD was having a panic attack in the taxi on the way there. We absolutely love it now. Everyone has always been so lovely. Staff are brilliant and the place is always clean.

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By *ellothere321Man
over a year ago

Lanlivery

My first experience was Swingers Quay in Torquay with a lady friend and we had a great first experience.

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN

Went as a single female at 18 and owned it...had a great night but mostly as I'm confident so not much fazes me...been going to clubs in uk and abroad regarly since...shame to see the ones that have gone but glad my favourite still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m curious to hear people’s experiences on visiting a club for the first time.

Just watched the documentary on channel 4 and I’m absolutely fascinated by it now

What where you watching?

It’s called “swingers” mainly about owning a swingers club and the people who visit them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very nearly bottled it and went home,so glad I didn't, people were so approachable and friendly,and even now I go in with the attitude of I'm having a good social evening,and expecting nothing.luckily that hasn't happened yet.

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

My first UK club experience was in Brighton a while ago. Actually the night in question was pretty dull and not worthy of much.

But my discovery of Chameleons later, about 3 months after it opened was a revelation! I found the ultimate club and wow did I over do it on the first visit. I've no idea how I drove home at 3am back to Brighton!

What an experience

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

We had our first club experience last night.

M was very nervous at first but we ended up meeting a lovely couple and having a brilliant evening

We cannot wait to go again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had our first club experience last night.

M was very nervous at first but we ended up meeting a lovely couple and having a brilliant evening

We cannot wait to go again. "
WOW lucky couple,M is an absolutely gorgeous beautiful lady.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I went to one, I won’t name it as it wasn’t their fault, but I didn’t enjoy it. I went with my friend/boss and made it clear what my limit was. It was a quiet night, I was the only female. It felt like the hounds were drawing in on me, my friend thankfully was in control. One guy kept pushing his luck. When we first got there and shown around, a couple had just finished in one of the rooms, it smelt so so so bad. I’ve not been back to one since, that was 2018

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By *areToShareCouple
over a year ago

Bingham

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Xtasia was our first club. We met a couple who we spoke on fab earlier. They showed us everything. No play was involved. We were club virgins at that time.

At that time there were not many people in the club. We went next to Chams. We liked it more because of two reasons - 1. It is a dress down club... And it is smaller so easier to meet people. This club was also our first where we moved from soft to full swap and we understand what is swinging about.

We still like Xtasia and probably we will visit it next month, however Chams is our first choice, mainly because of dress down. You see what you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eureka was my first visit about 7 years ago with a guy I'm actually meeting there again this week. I love going to them!

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By *ornysquirtingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

somerset

We went to Chameleons and were so scared. In the first 5 mins Mrs went to loo and I look in the cinema room and a couple who were fucking said, " hi do you want to come and join us"

. I was so scared I said," no thankyou" and ran out. Still nervous beforehand though but much more open to pleasure.

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

Secrets in Totnes, it was fantastic. Sadly closed now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we still haven't mustered up the courage to visit a club

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Le Glamour at Cap d'Agde. After watching all the sucking, fucking and wanking on the beach during the day we went to Le Glamour in the evening. I had wanted to have girl on girl fun for years and that evening it happened. Never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was great. We fucked within 15 minutes.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

one of first clubs we ever went to used to come on the dance floor and separate you if you got to frisky mid 90s

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By *lder funCouple
over a year ago

tottenham

Oasis club in North london,a real eye opener,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eurekas a few years ago. Loved it. A hottie from here invited me for my first escapade.

Ended with her squirting all over my cock and went home with a sore cock I done so much fucking with her. Only downside was she didn’t want me playing with anyone else which I respected but was secretly disappointed with.

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We were so nervous we nearly bailed. Glad we went though. Everyone was friendly enough and we just went with the view of playing by ourselves the first time.

Second time was much more fun

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Fantastic night, we arrange to meet another couple. Upon arrival shown around and told that it was ok to stay in the bar and not play.

Needless to say we ended up in a public room apparently putting on a show for the other patrons

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By *ownhamguyMan
over a year ago

Battle

Only been to one club Eurekas a few years ago. Went with a fwb who I was seeing at the time. She was a regular. It was a Saturday afternoon, not many people there. To be truthful felt a bit outside my comfort zone, although no problem being naked in front of others.

I did enjoy and have wanted to go again but not as a single guy. Would be more than willing to try a club again with a female who feels the same way

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

Been to two, with a woman from fab that I effectively was in a relationship with.

First one was the culmination of a dirty weekend away together at the VA - really good evening! Mostly enjoyed the hot tub and the atmosphere together.

Second trip was to another club with the same woman. Wasn’t a bad night but was let down by numerous single men that got in the way. Also played with a couple that weren’t really into it. She was only there to please him, and he was very controlling, even telling me what I could and couldn’t do…

I’m not with the woman anymore, and I don’t want to be one of those annoying single men, so not been to another one since

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By *leasureman123Man
over a year ago

Manchester

My first club was Xanadu's (closed now) in Manchester with a bi girl I was seeing, we went with her bifriend as well on a couples night.

It was pretty quiet in there not many couples, probably 4 or 5.

After some time in the sauna it got steamy and one thing led to another, so the three of us spent hours fucking in a private room together. a spectacular night was had by us all. It was my first MFF and what an introduction to swinging clubs!

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

First club for me, Just, was a Chic night at Liberty Elite with a lady who’s still on fab and an active forum member. Never looked back..

Becky’s first club she walked in to the old Ab Fab as a single girl, not knowing what to expect.

Love our clubs now and regulars at Hellfire.

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

first club atlantis stoke was very nervy so was hubby agreed to people watch only but by end of night was bent over with a nice guy doing me doggy it was fantastic

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Partners in Bury. It was liberating.

Very different to how I'd do things now, and I'm glad I went with a friend

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By *ormladMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

After 8 was my first club. Was very nervous, but a couple I had spoken to on fab showed me the ropes. Been a regular till I moved away to south west

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was about 10 years old and it was run in the church hall was good fun, 50p to go and you got a can of pop and a chocolate bar used to have a disco every few weeks and that guys is the very first club I went to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first club was partners and wow.

Mrs 3 months pregnant at time and made feel welcome and we discussed to play as couple only, but that plan last less than 10 mins

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Ours was Youtopia near Scarborough, New Years Eve.

Very Nervous but so pleased we took the plunge. Was a great night and the begining of a great adventure.

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By *hisismeXXXMan
over a year ago

Welsh Wales

With my ex wife in Xtasia.

We’d started playing and managed a few threesomes with another male but she wanted another female (and I wasn’t going to complain).

We were on a site called S D C which used to hold monthly Saturday night parties at Xtasia and we were regular in the chat room so decided to go to one of the parties , arranging to meet some of the ‘friends’ we’d made in chat.

Took their advice, booked a room in the Premier Inn, swapped numbers online with a few people and headed off to West Brom.

Checked in, got to our room, had a text ‘was that you checking in then? If so come and join us in the bar before you get ready for the club’.

Both a bit nervous but went downstairs and there were about 10/15 couples all chatting socially and we were able to break the ice.

Later (after we’d enjoyed a nice fuck back in our room turned on in anticipation) we met up with the crowd in the bar again, but by now there must have been 40 or more couples all ready for the club, it was a great atmosphere.

After an hour or so we all headed to Xtasia, as newbies one of the couples took the time to show us around and we had a lovely night, great fun with lots of nee friends in a relaxed environment. Mrs got her extra female, a lively girl from Belfast who we’d been chatting to in the old outside area (plus two or three more!), I wasn’t left out and we were hooked on the place, making the journey once a month for the SDC party.

Breakfast in the Premier Inn on Sunday mornings always used to be fun, catching up with everyone from the night before !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first and only club experience, I was invited to a party by the hosts on here. A guy I had met with a few times said he would come with me for his first time too. We were absolutely bricking it and I probably drank a bit more than I should but it was definitely an experience and I definitely want to try other clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xanadu in Manchester.

Too many years ago.

Had some great nights in there.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

No.3 in Chorley was my first club. I was nervous as Hell when I parked up outside, but counted to three then jumped out of my car and rang the doorbell before I could talk myself out of it. It was nice enough inside, had a friendly welcome, explanation of how things worked, then given a tour of the place. Settled in at the bar for a couple of drinks, and chatted to some people. It was a quiet night, not many in, and felt more like Sunday afternoon in a working men's club, than what I imagined a Friday night in a swingers' club would be. A bit of an anti-climax if I'm honest

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

After 8 in Edinburgh. Stayed overnight at the Hilton and visited the club with a female friend. I was so excited I nearly wet my knickers in the taxi going. Had a blast and felt so at home. Met some wonderful people and have never looked back.

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By *ipvanwinkieMan
over a year ago

out of town!

Partners with a f friend from here. It was on a Sunday leading into a bank holiday Monday and it was really busy! I remember being hugely excited and nervous at the same time, but once we got upstairs it was fine. We had a fantastic time for my first time! (She’d been before)

Went again a few weeks later and it was very quiet, I could hardly believe it was the same place

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

First ever club was Club F in Stanley.

I had the stereotypical thought that I would be walking around with an erection all night, but you soon stop noticing the nakedness and just engage with people.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

We went to Chams, nervous at first but to be honest it was good, the walking dead made an appearance but D is very good at the “fuck off” look.

In general it was great. Did have a moan that some people took food into the couples room and sounded like pigs in a trough which was off putting, but that’s just their ignorance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m curious to hear people’s experiences on visiting a club for the first time.

Just watched the documentary on channel 4 and I’m absolutely fascinated by it now"

1st Visit to a Club last week, Amigos in Leic.. Made to feel very welcome by the Staff and Others in there, felt extremely nervous but was helped to relax by some great banter and Hot-tub chinwags. Didn't play as such but managed to get in some Flogging Experience (Giving) and didn't get much criticism on it for a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first was Chams in the Midlands, we enjoyed ourselves but were like rabbits caught in headlights..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chameleons in Darlaston, very friendly and relaxed and I loved watching the guys take it in turns with my then Mrs. She was on her knees and they were lined up to fuck her, cock still throbs thinking of it now over 10 years later. I do love sharing.

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By *ussexualMan
over a year ago

Brighton

My first was in Sydney, I was bricking it, almost bottled, but ended up having a great time with some fantastic new friends

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By *lubcouple4135Couple
over a year ago

Selby

Our was VA on friday evening and saturday we just moved our caravan couple of miles and visited Jaydees-both great in our hamble opinion

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Our first was ok but second was amazing.

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

I’ve always been on the BDSM and fetish scene and have always found it welcoming in the UK and US, first club was the old Ceasers many years ago

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By *rmootMan
over a year ago

Horsforth

My first visit was cupids with my ex. We went and were really nervous. We went with an open mind to see what it was all about. 30 minutes after arriving she was on her back sucking me with a guy between her legs. We loved the experience and visited many more times.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

Our first club night was partners in Bury, probably about 22 years old .

We were both excited and nervous as it was also our first real experience of swinging.

We had no idea what to expect and ideas went from will everyone be really unattractive, will it be a grope fest, will we freak out and leave.

The walk in was no help at all as as is the case with most clubs it's not like walking into a bar as they tend to be hidden from sight and it was dark when we got there.

Once inside we were fairly happy that it was not too busy. We met a lovely couple who chatted to us in the pool table area. We also spent sometime in the wet area.

We did experience the chain of single guys not chatting but following us from room to room as we explored the venue. (they must have been very disappointed as we did not play as we were just getting acclimatised).

Later on we did go in an open room to play with each other but stopped after 5 minutes as the room filled with about 6-10 single guys which was just too intense for us on our first night.

We met up with the couple we chatted with early on and went to have some soft play fun together,which was great fun although we were constantly checking with each other that we were comfortable with.

So it was a real mixed bag which taught us the good and bad about swinging clubs.

Later on experienced some d*unken behaviour from a couple which was not a great sight to see, but it made us aware that some women are coerced and bullied into doing more than they want to.

We also heard some comments from 2 single guys that couples should not come if they only want to play on their own.

So again an eye opener,which made us stick to couples only nights for about the next 10 years.

But we were really thankful that that couple were there and could ease us in.

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