FabSwingers.com forum: How did you get into swinging?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

First forum post but curious...

How did you get into swinging? Love to hear from you, especially couples! Who brought it up first - did the other half gel into the life easily?

I enjoyed threesomes in my younger days (yes, still young so you can figure I enjoyed my teen years!). Brought it up with my husband earlier in the year, a few months of dirty talking and telling him scenarios I'd like to be in and here we are. MMF enjoyed a few weeks ago and delving into the magical world of meeting couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decided that I wanted to explore sex more. I slept around in my teens but I met my husband when I was quite young. I wanted to try different things with different people in different places as well as explore bi, kink, and group fun.

So I joined Fab and tinder! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bedroom talk with the wife led us to a threesome or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hadnt thought about it but after marriage split i started looking on the net and then in 2011 found fab, mutually minded people and i was away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First forum post but curious...

How did you get into swinging? Love to hear from you, especially couples! Who brought it up first - did the other half gel into the life easily?

We had an easy start to swinging. We were both single and we met at a sex party in Corby in 2013. We have been together ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A long term relationship had finished and I wanted something more casual. Found a different site via an internet search, and someone I met on there recommended Fab. The rest is biology...

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Suggested it to the other half as I was her first and didn't want her to miss out on other experiences ended up being even closer because if it and now we love the lifestyle it's a great way of making friends too and led khaos to explore and accept her bisexuality without shame anymore we love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wanted to explore sexually & meet others into similar!

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By *uxuriantCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall

A girlfriend of mine (Mrs) came around to share a bottle of wine . We ended up sharing much more! She started (after way too much wine) to gently stroke my leg resulting in a passionate threesome when Mr Luxuriant walked into the room and witnessed us snogging and down to our bras and panties. We never looked back!

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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

For us it developed slowly over a long period of time, with lots of pillow talk. But looking back, one of the earliest signs was at an Xmas party when I (Mr Y) was grabbed by surprise by one of Mrs Y's friends for a snog. I expected to be ticked off, but to my surprise, Mrs Y had a big sexy smile on her face...

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By *hocopopsMan
over a year ago

redditch

Stumbled acrossIt

From online porn and erotica..

And started! The rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a fantasy I have had ever said me and the missus got together, I told her all about it and she liked the sound of it but wasn't sure, we just to text filth to each other about different scenarios, then finally took the plunge and she loved it so far had mmf and met a couple and save ti say we couldn't be happier the sex is amazing and definitely brought us closer together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a discussion about fantasys and the Mr being mff I think he was a little shocked I agreed that was also mine, I was very bicurious and wanted to explore my bi side, things went from there.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching porn for the first time got me interested.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Suggested to us as a place that I could explore my bi curiosity

Mrs Gs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A d*unken conversation with my friend led to her suggesting it to me. Now I'm looking for a long term swinging partner. Any offers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came out of a relationship in my early 20s, I’d always been interested in the kinky tv shows that showed this lifestyle but never knew how to “get in” … never thought to look it up, so just walked into my local club La Chambre and was introduced there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here before in a previous relationship, when we separated I assumed that was that, no more swinging, I didn't even bother looking to swing alone or even find a girlfriend.

A few years later, with a bang, Mrs A entered my life.

When we'd been seeing one another for around six months, we were discussing previous relationships, and other aspects of our lives.

When she told me a tale of a threesome some years before, then said she hopes I don't see her differently.

I took a true story from my previous swinging days, similar but a little more (my previous partner and I were joined by two guys) and finished with .... I hope you don't see me differently.

Her reply ...... Oh my gawd that sounds so hot.

That led onto discussions which led us here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a long time ago with my first wife - reading 'reader's stories' in mags, early Danish porn mags from Soho (lived in London then), meeting some people we fancied and discovered they felt the same, so off we went.

Lots of long pauses over time but been back the last four years; just can't the excitement and fun, and meeting people of like mind.

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By *icknmix500Man
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

Years ago My then wife and i got invited to our friends house for dinner ended up playing strip poker ! One hell of a night !

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By *ruetothisMan
over a year ago

An ex showed me this site.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Downham Market

Before Char and I got together, she had another life on Fet. That's not really my thing so I said that I was fine if she wanted to carry on with that. That led on to whether I'd ever want to be involved or watch. Which led on to whether I'd want to watch vanilla stuff, which led on to us starting here.

I also don't always perform that well, heart condition affects stamina and anxiety affects other things. I know that Char should never have to miss out due to my shortcomings, so this place and Fet let her get everything she wants so we're both happy.

(Bry)

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

started as fantasy talk in bed and we had a couple of threesomes couldnt find a third so went to swinging clubs

one thing i have found talking to other swingers is how many were in a relationship with someone with a very low sex drive and second time round were determind not to repeat the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs MP and I met on another site when we were single.

Once we were together we discussed the idea if 3somes (she new I was bi) and while she wasn't that confident to act on the idea nothing more was said.

Fast forward a while and she'd signed up to a site. Had a meet there then found fab where we found what we wanted and stuck to it. The rest is history.

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By *lwaysonmymind!Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I always thought that swingers where keys in bowl and planned group orgys. Almost right

Then I watched a program on tv and swingers and clubs. I got hard on instantly so I did a bit of googling and came across several sites. Fatter reading reviews and filtering out they fake ones, I found two sites that I wanted to try.

Obviously this being one of them and now I’m 90% on this site.

Also ventured to a club a few times s and loved it.

Now I know it’s not only about sex but it’s a community and the people are fantastic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I moved to where I live now and, to cut a long story short, ended up in a FWB's type relationship with my newly divorced neighbour right next door. As we both worked away a lot it suited us perfectly. One night we were chatting about fantasies and she revealed she'd always thought about being with 2 men at the same time. But we never acted on it or took it any further. I'll be honest at the time I was 27 and such things as MMF's weren't really on my radar to be honest.

Anyway, one night we'd been over to the pub across the road and the weather turned atrocious with a biblical like deluge hammering down. We'd got chatting to a guy we both - sort of - knew by sight who ran a local gym. He faced a longer walk back home, so with it bucketing it down, we invited him back to hers. Well... after a few more drinks I'm sure you can guess what happened next...

It was our first threesome for all 3 of us. But it changed both mine and my neighbour's outlooks, especially about over our sex lives, and we both decided we'd like to explore more so, via some other now long-gone adult contacts sites, we eventually ended up on Fab with a couple's profile.

She lives in Texas now but we're still in touch and I've had a single profile ever since.

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By *omnvixCouple
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester

Tom had a fairly wild life when younger as he played in a band who toured the world. So was far from innocent!

Sweet and virginal me (cough) wasn't quite as experienced but I loved him telling me his stories and I wanted to try some of these things for myself.

So we joined Fab.

And have never looked back!

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

"First forum post but curious...

How did you get into swinging? Love to hear from you, especially couples! Who brought it up first - did the other half gel into the life easily?

I googled it and *BAM* there/here I was.

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

I went to a colleague's house party when I was working overseas.

Apparently, I had a bit of a reputation as having a series of short relationships at the time.

Came out of the kitchen and discovered it was a swing party in the lounge! When in Rome I said, and wow was it a fun experience.

Never looked back and found the scene quite easily back in the UK.

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By *offee27Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

An ex girlfriend had a few 3sums before we met with a MF couple and asked if I'd be interested in trying group play. Thought I'd be jealous seeing him fuck her but I was super turned on and couldn't wait to get stuck in once he finished

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Technically it all started 25 years ago with my now wife telling me she was curious about other women and had fantasys of a ffm 3sum....on our 3rd or 4 th date.

Being young and naive at the time I thought nothing of it.

About a year later, she starts telling me shes having fantasys about me being with another woman then coming home and telling her about it whilst we have sex. Again, being young and naive, I think nothing of it. I actually thought I was being tested somehow. It crops up a few times and she keeps saying shes being serious but I wasnt the most confident young guy at the time.

So I jokingly tell her to make it happen then.

She did. Sent me off to see her freind a short while later and the rest is history. Been enjoying it all for 23 years now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my ex took me to a car park one night when I was very naive. She started to suck my cock when I noticed someone watching I quickly pushed her away, but she pulled me back saying that’s what they are here for. She later on explained things to me and said she loves to explore. She talked me into watching her with a guy….never looked back x

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Bed waiting

Bored of relationship drama, realized I don't need to be in one can meet like minded ladies who just want a little fun and go back to their place afterwards and I can go back to mine and club visits are a lot cheaper then going on over expensive dates with some neurotic women who brings her bad relationship issues to the table and punishes me for her choice in neanderthal half brain twats ex's just because he makes her wet between the legs and she wants arm candy to make her feel valued.

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