FabSwingers.com forum: Dress to please herself or him

By *uy4swinging OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Ok here is a question I love to hear the answer too when a woman is going out to swing. Does a woman dress to please her man/men or herself? Does she dress to turn him on or herself? Or both? Does she like dressing up at all. Does dressing up matter at all when going out to swing. Thoughts?

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

Definitely both...turns him on and makes me feel sexier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, I do dress up in a way I like, enjoy and feel attractive in. But it's also to hopefully get the attention and attraction to bed other people xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I will often dress in a way that my partner likes. He will do the same for me. Why wouldn't you?

Casual partners are different. If I know we're going to meet someone in a sexual situation I'll dress to please myself and them

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

I used to dress for others when going to clubs or meets, but only dress for myself now! I think that change in attitude has come from a very long time of making effort and not getting any comment, just a simple you look nice would be enough haha! Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, dressing up makes me feel sexy and turns on the Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like dressing up. Makes me feel sexier, more confident, more daring, more adventurous. It's almost like it releases a different person within me. When the man is turned on by it too - it really adds to everything. If he's not - well, it's a bit of disappointment there for me and the excitement goes down like deflating balloon.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Ok here is a question I love to hear the answer too when a woman is going out to swing. Does a woman dress to please her man/men or herself? Does she dress to turn him on or herself? Or both? Does she like dressing up at all. Does dressing up matter at all when going out to swing. Thoughts? "

Definetly dress to please all parties, especially if our visitor asks for something in particular.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

My husband likes me best naked,but I adore underwear, so I definitely dress up for me..I love the way it makes me feel.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I only ever dress for me in all situations. When swinging we go to the club and then I just get naked. Flik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a special pair of silky pants....does that countv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like dressing up. Makes me feel sexier, more confident, more daring, more adventurous. It's almost like it releases a different person within me. When the man is turned on by it too - it really adds to everything. If he's not - well, it's a bit of disappointment there for me and the excitement goes down like deflating balloon."

Anyone who doesn't recognise the effort is a fool

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Me and my wife have an agreement whereby I pick her outfits for meets. It turns me on knowing I make her look slutty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who doesn't recognise the effort is a fool

There's recognising the effort and there's whether it does anything for them.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I haven’t got a “him” but in any case I dress to please myself , other people’s opinion have no bearing on my choices as I don’t trust a word of it, especially compliments .

So I dress to make myself feel sexy, if it happens to please others too than it’s a bonus

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I dress to please myself and no man has ever complained.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who doesn't recognise the effort is a fool

There's recognising the effort and there's whether it does anything for them."

Both in my case most of the time

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"when a woman is going out to swing. Does a woman dress to please her man/men or herself?"

I like to make an effort to be clean and tidy

and love to wear sexy underwear whenever possible

nice for me, nice for whoever we are meeting too

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By *erry2017ukMan
over a year ago

Mazarron Spain

Funnily enough I used to meet a really sexy couple who asked me to cross dress like a slut felt strange at first but wow did it work for us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dressing up is so important...I Luuuuuvve my sexy lingerie & whether going out or staying in I always `dress up` at the wkends or should I say `dress down`

The other half has extremely slutty taste in sex gear where as I prefer the classics...

Buuuttttttt I do obvs grant him his wishes whilst also wearing the lingerie I like to too...Soooooooooo Saturday nights at ours can be a bit like a fashion show accomodating both our tastes...But it's lottsa fun... especially when a few Cock-Tails are involved

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