FabSwingers.com forum: let downs

By *onyjo OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

seems this site has more than enough time wasters, 3 no shows in one week, shame the site has no feedback that could show these members for who they really are

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

All of the time

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We've never experienced no shows. Maybe look at your 'vetting' process and how you select the people?

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I assume all meets are fake until I meet them ,I've been let down so many times

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

It’s right at the last minute when you asked them for their phone number and address and then get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get to know loads of local couples then word of mouth is a great way of figuering out who the messer's are you cant name n shame on here but what to tell others off the site is .... it works

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By *onyjo OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"We've never experienced no shows. Maybe look at your 'vetting' process and how you select the people?"

we are fairly new to this have you got any tips

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"seems this site has more than enough time wasters, 3 no shows in one week, shame the site has no feedback that could show these members for who they really are"

we have to cancel meets now and again due to both of us having health issues, but we always give as fair notice as possible.

I guess if there was no notice, then name and shame is valid in some circumstances... a difficult one to generalize I guess, but sharing names of fake profiles could be helpful???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up meeting on here a while back. I just meet at clubs, never let down then

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

It never ceases to befuddle me. I've had a look at your profile and I can only come to the conclusion that those people who've let you down just haven't got the balls to experience the reality of playing with a real live sexy woman such as your good self.

It's their loss. Keep looking because there certainly are guys like myself who will turn up and be more than glad to have the opportunity of spending time with you x

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"seems this site has more than enough time wasters, 3 no shows in one week, shame the site has no feedback that could show these members for who they really are"

The trouble with telling other members about who let you down, is that someone could take a dislike to you and you could find yourself blacklisted as they report that you didn't show up.

Best advise is to exchange photos, ask them to send you a photo of both of the couple doing something like a saucepan. That shows they are real and not just a single guy.

Have a look at their verifications and check out the people that sent them are real.

Maybe have a quick phone call to establish they are serious.

But nothing is guaranteed sadly. I had 2 no shows this week and I have met both of then before.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"I gave up meeting on here a while back. I just meet at clubs, never let down then

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It not how it works as a name and shame system would be open to abuse.

There is a common link in the three no shows this week and that is you. If you are getting conned so easily then suggest you look at your vetting process. We have been on here eight years and never had a no show. We might have been lucky but think it is all about luck.

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

"I gave up meeting on here a while back. I just meet at clubs, never let down then

Exactly this

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"seems this site has more than enough time wasters, 3 no shows in one week, shame the site has no feedback that could show these members for who they really are"
it was things like this that made me glad I'd stopped organising private meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its part of the game unfortunately.. always has been, probably always will.

And yes.. calling people out publicly can backfire if you happen upon a malicious individual who'll use it against you.

Just be more selective.. Good luck

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Unfortunately, it's not just around Peterborough - it's nationwide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was left waiting alone at 11 in the night by a couple. They didn't even bother to apologise the next day.

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I've had a couple of no shows and a few who have had an initial social then didn't hear from them again. Meeting in clubs for me stopped that. I'd meet people in clubs who then became good friends and some of them with benefits!

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"We've never experienced no shows. Maybe look at your 'vetting' process and how you select the people?"

Weve had our share but 99.9% of the time it's just no shows for social events.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

It happens unfortunately the more experience you get the more you will see the red flags good luck in the future!

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

"seems this site has more than enough time wasters, 3 no shows in one week, shame the site has no feedback that could show these members for who they really are

we have to cancel meets now and again due to both of us having health issues, but we always give as fair notice as possible.

I guess if there was no notice, then name and shame is valid in some circumstances... a difficult one to generalize I guess, but sharing names of fake profiles could be helpful???

This i respect if people at least send a message just saying they can't make it that's fine too many people just ghost when you could have organized another meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Too many times this week and last I've been ghosted.

The first she wanted a pic on snapchat, seemed interested and then out of no where- poof.. gone. Same as the last.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

No shows are part of internet app meets ? . Only thing to do is. Chat. Use common sense etc. Phone call or video call, Even after doing all possible. Can still be a no show. So block ? Go to next profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s right at the last minute when you asked them for their phone number and address and then get blocked "

Stalker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Too many times this week and last I've been ghosted.

The first she wanted a pic on snapchat, seemed interested and then out of no where- poof.. gone. Same as the last."

I certainly wouldn't ghost that dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Too many times this week and last I've been ghosted.

The first she wanted a pic on snapchat, seemed interested and then out of no where- poof.. gone. Same as the last.

I certainly wouldn't ghost that dick

Why do people do it??

Send face pics (brave for me) and then nothing back… can be worrying- or I’m just ugly lol

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

It's part of fab isn't it????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Too many times this week and last I've been ghosted.

The first she wanted a pic on snapchat, seemed interested and then out of no where- poof.. gone. Same as the last.

I certainly wouldn't ghost that dick

Why do people do it??

Send face pics (brave for me) and then nothing back… can be worrying- or I’m just ugly lol

Simply not replying after a face pic and ghosting are different. Think it's safe to assume if you dont get a reply from a face pic you're just not their type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Too many times this week and last I've been ghosted.

The first she wanted a pic on snapchat, seemed interested and then out of no where- poof.. gone. Same as the last.

I certainly wouldn't ghost that dick

Why do people do it??

Send face pics (brave for me) and then nothing back… can be worrying- or I’m just ugly lol

Simply not replying after a face pic and ghosting are different. Think it's safe to assume if you dont get a reply from a face pic you're just not their type

Completely understand that.. I should have been a bit clearer x

I have been ghosted myself x sat waiting patiently at a meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understand why people on here let others down with not showing etc. Too many time wasters and picture hunters on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't a face pic lol, was simply a cock pic.. it's just the fact that I sent a pic and they said they were interested in meeting and i said the same and i've heard back since

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

"No shows are part of internet app meets ? . Only thing to do is. Chat. Use common sense etc. Phone call or video call, Even after doing all possible. Can still be a no show. So block ? Go to next profile ? "

As I posted. All hook up sites the same. How to avoid ? Learn messages , profiles, veris etc. None are full prove. If good to be true , photo stunning , contact you . Be wary. Yes can still be caught out. ? . If which normally next contact ask for money. Block and report on here other sites.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Wasn't a face pic lol, was simply a cock pic.. it's just the fact that I sent a pic and they said they were interested in meeting and i said the same and i've heard back since "

I suspect the man thought "I would like to see the wife take that cock" and the wife said "I don't want my cervix shoved up into my throat!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wasn't a face pic lol, was simply a cock pic.. it's just the fact that I sent a pic and they said they were interested in meeting and i said the same and i've heard back since

I suspect the man thought "I would like to see the wife take that cock" and the wife said "I don't want my cervix shoved up into my throat!"

I do!! Hahahaha

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"get to know loads of local couples then word of mouth is a great way of figuering out who the messer's are you cant name n shame on here but what to tell others off the site is .... it works "

This is the worst side of swinging, we met a couple before and he was a total arse d*unk when we arrived, so we called it a day and went our separate ways. Next they embarked on a hate campaign against us. Unfortunately people listened, past tbe hate on but never bothered to find the truth of the story.

One thing we have learned over the years "time wasters" us included are often simply people who said no.

Background, behind back discussions on people are low under any circumstances.

Certainly if we don't get on with people it is between us and them only, no one else

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