FabSwingers.com forum: How long did it take?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How long did it take to get your first meet after joining Fabswingers?

Mine was around 11 months.

The reason for mentioning it as I've read so many disgruntled comments and posts from profiles that are merely days old.

It takes time people

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Three days, can't really complain, think the couple took a shine to my dress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started chatting to someone on my first day and met him about a week later. I didn't fancy him though so kept it to a social. But about another fortnight or so after that I had my first sexual meet.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

2weeks but he stood me up. Three days later I met up with someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week, though we have had seperate profiles before and those where the same.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Nearly a year

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

A few days, I got lucky with a couple of nubies that joined around the same time as me.. both of us not sure what to expect and no expectations.. it all worked and meet a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an 11 year celibate spell and when I decided to "get back in the game" I joined a dating site that apparently has loads of fish. Within 2 hours I met my partner or 3 years. When I was single again and not wanting anything serious I joined here. Nothing could prepare me for the amount of bullshit and timewasting. I think the assumption was that this site would be stress free and easy. You do have to work at it to make it work for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 2 months. Depends what people are looking for, if they are looking for a quick fuck it's easily found in a few days. Good quality people take a bit longer to find and connect with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a brag at all but for me it was within a matter of days. Let’s just say the kid in a candy shop phenomenon kicked in and I wasn’t as selective as I should of been. Pretty disappointing really but it taught me to be a bit more careful in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember exactly as it was a few years ago. I think it was a couple of months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over a year maybe two!! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said OP!

Probably about a year.... Thanks covid haha

It's worth the effort and the wait for quality meets

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few days but I wasn't really looking to get to know anyone too much back then.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

About eighteen hours. Today one of my best friends.

I got lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few days but I wasn't really looking to get to know anyone too much back then. "

It's a lot easier for women on here. A guy is lucky to get one reply back out of 50 messages maybe safe to say! I did chat a lot and had offers, but found there are a lot of time wasters on here too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About eighteen hours. Today one of my best friends.

I got lucky."

Nice one fair play, hope you enjoyed yourself and your friend also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 months xx

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

I did it the wrong way around.

I have a couple who are friends of mine, with benefits.

After one such meet for fun they told me about Fab.

Even guided me through the joining process.

Then gave me my first verification.

Still meet them.

Even though they aren't on here any more

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've met people in person and them added them on here.

I've never had a meet with someone I met through the site.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

About a month because we were cautious and as ever there was the problem of finding a suitable date when everybody was free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week I think, but I guess it’s easier as a couple… - Griz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember but think it was about 3 months after chatting to them a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roughly 3-4 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me about a year to find a compatible couple, and we are still meeting after three years, so the wait was worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We joined and went to a club within the first 3 weeks and played that night in the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks I think. Should not have rushed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 weeks I think. Should not have rushed it. "

What took you so long lol x

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By *atentHeelsCouple
over a year ago

Salford

Couple of days

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only

Same day to be fair on my original profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my old account? Years. On this account? Hasn't happened yet.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

About a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same day to be fair on my original profile "

Good honest answer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t had my first meet/social but it’s not a problem. I think guys forget the ratio of women to men and become disgruntled. Bit of patience is needed.

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