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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Neither "

Just leave them be so to speak?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Subscribe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither

Just leave them be so to speak?"

Of course. You’ll either be stirring shit for her or being a perv to a friends daughter. Neither are good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is old enough to do what she wants and it’s none of my business to interfere. And no I wouldn’t be subscribing to anyone’s

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ask yourself if your mate found your daughter on OF and subscribed. Would you be happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wont tell my mate shes old enough to do what she wants, but curiousity got the better of me and subscribed anon, so she has no clue its me.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I wont tell my mate shes old enough to do what she wants, but curiousity got the better of me and subscribed anon, so she has no clue its me."

I would hate to have a friend like you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

And still men think adult women's male relatives need to know what they're doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is 19 and an ADULT!! Can’t even believe your thinking of fibbing her in

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

This feels wrong on so many levels.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She is 19 and an ADULT!! Can’t even believe your thinking of fibbing her in"

To be fair i wouldnt, it was more if i subscribed or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wont tell my mate shes old enough to do what she wants, but curiousity got the better of me and subscribed anon, so she has no clue its me."

How far will the ‘curiosity’ take you? Spending time at his house hoping to catch a glimpse of her? Checking out her underwear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never be on that site in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cue, all the pompous kill joys.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"She is 19 and an ADULT!! Can’t even believe your thinking of fibbing her in

To be fair i wouldnt, it was more if i subscribed or not"

Why on earth would you subscribe.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

Can I ask what is OF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is OF anyway??

Or am I being a numpty not knowing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She is 19 and an ADULT!! Can’t even believe your thinking of fibbing her in

To be fair i wouldnt, it was more if i subscribed or not

Why on earth would you subscribe. "

To have a nosey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I ask what is OF"

Onlyfans

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"I wont tell my mate shes old enough to do what she wants, but curiousity got the better of me and subscribed anon, so she has no clue its me."
that’s very creepy behaviour and not what I’d expect a mate to behave in regards my daughter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wont tell my mate shes old enough to do what she wants, but curiousity got the better of me and subscribed anon, so she has no clue its me.

How far will the ‘curiosity’ take you? Spending time at his house hoping to catch a glimpse of her? Checking out her underwear? "

She doesnt live with him, they dont see each other for ages.

Also im in different part of the country

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I wont tell my mate shes old enough to do what she wants, but curiousity got the better of me and subscribed anon, so she has no clue its me.

How far will the ‘curiosity’ take you? Spending time at his house hoping to catch a glimpse of her? Checking out her underwear?

She doesnt live with him, they dont see each other for ages.

Also im in different part of the country"

Ah so that’s ok then. It’s very creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She is 19 and an ADULT!! Can’t even believe your thinking of fibbing her in

To be fair i wouldnt, it was more if i subscribed or not

Why on earth would you subscribe.

To have a nosey"

Bit sick really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wont tell my mate shes old enough to do what she wants, but curiousity got the better of me and subscribed anon, so she has no clue its me.

How far will the ‘curiosity’ take you? Spending time at his house hoping to catch a glimpse of her? Checking out her underwear?

She doesnt live with him, they dont see each other for ages.

Also im in different part of the country

Ah so that’s ok then. It’s very creepy "

Can you not see what I am getting at OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wont tell my mate shes old enough to do what she wants, but curiousity got the better of me and subscribed anon, so she has no clue its me."

That is creepy as fuck and if it was my daughter and a “friend” did this I’d knock their fucking head off

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

If I had a 45 Yr old, "friend" who was messaging my 19 Yr old daughter. He would be dining out for 3 months on the NHS. However I hasten to add I haven't any such slimeball types in my circle of friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I had a 45 Yr old, "friend" who was messaging my 19 Yr old daughter. He would be dining out for 3 months on the NHS. However I hasten to add I haven't any such slimeball types in my circle of friends"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds like i made a mistake

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I wont tell my mate shes old enough to do what she wants, but curiousity got the better of me and subscribed anon, so she has no clue its me."

Creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some friend you are, not just a tad creepy but very creepy. Disgusted at the attitude of you OP

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What is OF anyway??

Or am I being a numpty not knowing "

It's a site where people upload content of any sort but it's mainly adult content. People can subscribe which is how the content creators make money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like i made a mistake "

No shit Sherlock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah creepy as like others have said. Leave her be like if you find people you know on here, leave them to it.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Cue, all the pompous kill joys."

Or those who think with their big head more often

Some things in life are more important than a cheap thrill and a wank.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Sounds very creepy to us, bet you can't wait to see her in person again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wont tell my mate shes old enough to do what she wants, but curiousity got the better of me and subscribed anon, so she has no clue its me."

This is crossing the line for me ...

But heyho what do I know

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Cue, all the pompous kill joys."

What's pompous about being protective towards a sibling regardless of age? The OP asked how others would act in the same scenario. The majority of responses are more to do with protection rather than pomp

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Reading responses confirms what i neex to do, sorry all

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Ask for 30% of her profits to remain quiet LOL!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Surely the sensible thing to do, would be to block them

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Ask for 30% of her profits to remain quiet LOL!"

Yeah then she can get him arrested for trying to bla*kmail her and maybe stalking and harassment.

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I wont tell my mate shes old enough to do what she wants, but curiousity got the better of me and subscribed anon, so she has no clue its me."

This is creepy and could end badly for you..

Who needs enemies when they have you as a friend

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By *teManc1Man
over a year ago

manchester

Snitches get stitches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And still men think adult women's male relatives need to know what they're doing"

We’ll be covering every inch of ourselves and being chaperoned soon.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"And still men think adult women's male relatives need to know what they're doing

We’ll be covering every inch of ourselves and being chaperoned soon. "

Only if our fathers and brothers say we can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And still men think adult women's male relatives need to know what they're doing

We’ll be covering every inch of ourselves and being chaperoned soon.

Only if our fathers and brothers say we can "

Yep….. I think we’re on thin ice here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all somebody son or daughter.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

19? It’s none of your mate’s business what his 19 year old adult daughter does. So no, you move along and forget about it. It would be utterly ridiculous to tell him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She is 19 and an ADULT!! Can’t even believe your thinking of fibbing her in

To be fair i wouldnt, it was more if i subscribed or not

Why on earth would you subscribe. "

Check out her profile

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I wont tell my mate shes old enough to do what she wants, but curiousity got the better of me and subscribed anon, so she has no clue its me.

Creepy "

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By *j321Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

She old enough to do as she likes but I wouldn't be subscribing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block, avoid.

I have morals

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?"

Good for her...

none of my business...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you are also making the assumption that your "friend" is unaware how his daughter is making money.

I hope you have cancelled your ill thought out subscription already!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's up to her. I wouldn't say anything. It's up to you if you want to subscribe I guess. Is it solo content? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's up to her. I wouldn't say anything. It's up to you if you want to subscribe I guess. Is it solo content? Xx"

I agree. If she's old enough to do what she wants in this respect then he's entitled to subscribe.

I think people find it uncomfortable because he's older and knows her father. Although they must realise that older men subscribe to OF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's up to her. I wouldn't say anything. It's up to you if you want to subscribe I guess. Is it solo content? Xx

I agree. If she's old enough to do what she wants in this respect then he's entitled to subscribe.

I think people find it uncomfortable because he's older and knows her father. Although they must realise that older men subscribe to OF."

I've dabbled in some porn in the past. I know for a fact many men double or triple my age enjoyed it. Its fine, I don't think there is anything wrong with that xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's up to her. I wouldn't say anything. It's up to you if you want to subscribe I guess. Is it solo content? Xx

I agree. If she's old enough to do what she wants in this respect then he's entitled to subscribe.

I think people find it uncomfortable because he's older and knows her father. Although they must realise that older men subscribe to OF.

I've dabbled in some porn in the past. I know for a fact many men double or triple my age enjoyed it. Its fine, I don't think there is anything wrong with that xx"

I think anyone would be naïve to imagine that only people within your own age group who didn't know any of your male relatives would watch

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By *oBeRodeMan
over a year ago

clifton ish

No it’s not right if she tells anyone you are on there she’s 19 if it was my daughter even if you had sex with her it would be none of my business

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By *oBeRodeMan
over a year ago

clifton ish

No it’s not right if she tells anyone you are on there she’s 19 if it was my daughter even if you had sex with her it would be none of my business

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Now you've subscribed i think you should definitely tell him...in person...maybe do a tribute pic of you wanking over one of her pics to start off the conversation "ere mate look at this hot little slut i found on OF, she'd proper get it"

Then when you wake up from the coma see if you can wiggle your toes

Hope that helps

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If it were me (as a straight woman) and I saw a friend's legal aged son on a site like that I wouldn't subscribe. It would be too close to home for me.

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

what if they had a profile and photos on fab

would you view ????

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"It's up to her. I wouldn't say anything. It's up to you if you want to subscribe I guess. Is it solo content? Xx

I agree. If she's old enough to do what she wants in this respect then he's entitled to subscribe.

I think people find it uncomfortable because he's older and knows her father. Although they must realise that older men subscribe to OF.

I've dabbled in some porn in the past. I know for a fact many men double or triple my age enjoyed it. Its fine, I don't think there is anything wrong with that xx

I think anyone would be naïve to imagine that only people within your own age group who didn't know any of your male relatives would watch "

Whatever about them being naive about the ages the relatives ye I would actually find relatives actively seeking out other relatives creepy .

Maybe that's just me .

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth


"And still men think adult women's male relatives need to know what they're doing

We’ll be covering every inch of ourselves and being chaperoned soon.

Only if our fathers and brothers say we can "

Welcome to Gilead.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?"

You are 46 years old why you are on the OF that's what you should be asking yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's up to her. I wouldn't say anything. It's up to you if you want to subscribe I guess. Is it solo content? Xx

I agree. If she's old enough to do what she wants in this respect then he's entitled to subscribe.

I think people find it uncomfortable because he's older and knows her father. Although they must realise that older men subscribe to OF.

I've dabbled in some porn in the past. I know for a fact many men double or triple my age enjoyed it. Its fine, I don't think there is anything wrong with that xx

I think anyone would be naïve to imagine that only people within your own age group who didn't know any of your male relatives would watch

Whatever about them being naive about the ages the relatives ye I would actually find relatives actively seeking out other relatives creepy .

Maybe that's just me ."

I've had a small number of relatives check out my profiles out of curiosity. But that's it, idle curiosity only xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's up to her. I wouldn't say anything. It's up to you if you want to subscribe I guess. Is it solo content? Xx

I agree. If she's old enough to do what she wants in this respect then he's entitled to subscribe.

I think people find it uncomfortable because he's older and knows her father. Although they must realise that older men subscribe to OF.

I've dabbled in some porn in the past. I know for a fact many men double or triple my age enjoyed it. Its fine, I don't think there is anything wrong with that xx

I think anyone would be naïve to imagine that only people within your own age group who didn't know any of your male relatives would watch

Whatever about them being naive about the ages the relatives ye I would actually find relatives actively seeking out other relatives creepy .

Maybe that's just me ."

Nobody has sought out relatives though . They just saw a man's daughter on OF

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"And still men think adult women's male relatives need to know what they're doing

We’ll be covering every inch of ourselves and being chaperoned soon.

Only if our fathers and brothers say we can

Welcome to Gilead. "

We never left, it's just that we live on the outskirts

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"It's up to her. I wouldn't say anything. It's up to you if you want to subscribe I guess. Is it solo content? Xx

I agree. If she's old enough to do what she wants in this respect then he's entitled to subscribe.

I think people find it uncomfortable because he's older and knows her father. Although they must realise that older men subscribe to OF.

I've dabbled in some porn in the past. I know for a fact many men double or triple my age enjoyed it. Its fine, I don't think there is anything wrong with that xx

I think anyone would be naïve to imagine that only people within your own age group who didn't know any of your male relatives would watch

Whatever about them being naive about the ages the relatives ye I would actually find relatives actively seeking out other relatives creepy .

Maybe that's just me .

Nobody has sought out relatives though . They just saw a man's daughter on OF"

True sorry I read your comment above wrong .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like it's less to do with OP's relation to the woman in question and more the fact that being a friend of her father's it's very likely that he, as an adult, knew her when she was a minor. Even 10 years ago she would have been 9 to his 36. So although she is of legal consenting age, it just feels a bit... "icky".

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's up to her. I wouldn't say anything. It's up to you if you want to subscribe I guess. Is it solo content? Xx

I agree. If she's old enough to do what she wants in this respect then he's entitled to subscribe.

I think people find it uncomfortable because he's older and knows her father. Although they must realise that older men subscribe to OF.

I've dabbled in some porn in the past. I know for a fact many men double or triple my age enjoyed it. Its fine, I don't think there is anything wrong with that xx

I think anyone would be naïve to imagine that only people within your own age group who didn't know any of your male relatives would watch

Whatever about them being naive about the ages the relatives ye I would actually find relatives actively seeking out other relatives creepy .

Maybe that's just me .

Nobody has sought out relatives though . They just saw a man's daughter on OF

True sorry I read your comment above wrong . "

Lol, no need to apologise

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth


"And still men think adult women's male relatives need to know what they're doing

We’ll be covering every inch of ourselves and being chaperoned soon.

Only if our fathers and brothers say we can

Welcome to Gilead.

We never left, it's just that we live on the outskirts "

Sadly true.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?"

I think the general tone of the majority of replies tells you all you need to know. But let’s look at this another way...

1) Imagine if OF didn’t exist.

2) Instead she working as a lapdancer.

3) Would you visit the club and watch her?

For me the age thing is immaterial. She’s an adult and you are older, so what!

For me it is the fact you know her in normal life. Have you have known her since she was a child? Watched her grow up and mature from kid to adult? Hmmmmm! Starting to feel very dodgy!

Plenty of girls to ogle on internet. You don’t have to do that with daughter of a friend.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Would the reaction be the same if it was a woman's 45 year old friend ogling her 19 year old son?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would the reaction be the same if it was a woman's 45 year old friend ogling her 19 year old son?"

Yes.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Or a mans 45 year old female friend ogling his 19 year old son?

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

You know what I'd do?

I'd mind my own business

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By *nsatiableWoman
over a year ago

Newmarket

Op spin this around. What if it was your 19 year old daughter that your mind was subscribed to...

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why would i be on only fans?

If someone happened to show me a mates daughter on OF i would keep my mouth shut and wish her well.

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?"

A friend of mine has her daughter on there who is 21, and id never look at her in a sexual way, as i just see her as my friends daughter, nothing more

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"Would the reaction be the same if it was a woman's 45 year old friend ogling her 19 year old son?"

I saw my friends 19 year old son on here...his face was on his profile pic, he had winked me, i didnt look at his profile and I blocked him. Absolutely no desire to oggle someone ive known from being 6 years old.

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By *harlotteBigBoobsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Neither

Imagine it been other way around ?

Would you like your friend perving on your daughter ?

Leave well alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for your feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wont tell my mate shes old enough to do what she wants, but curiousity got the better of me and subscribed anon, so she has no clue its me."

Mate that's so wrong imo.

I feel for your mate to have a friend like you.

It he found out what you did honestly what would his reaction be?

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all for your feedback "

Hopefully you have learned from this, do the right thing i.e cancel the subscription and leave well alone.

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you are also making the assumption that your "friend" is unaware how his daughter is making money.

I hope you have cancelled your ill thought out subscription already!"

The 'Im a friend of her father' is quite creepy. If he wasn't, then it's a different story.....

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By *onkykongMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"If I had a 45 Yr old, "friend" who was messaging my 19 Yr old daughter. He would be dining out for 3 months on the NHS. However I hasten to add I haven't any such slimeball types in my circle of friends"

Fucking 100%

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I had a 45 Yr old, "friend" who was messaging my 19 Yr old daughter. He would be dining out for 3 months on the NHS. However I hasten to add I haven't any such slimeball types in my circle of friends

Fucking 100%"

I appreciate your feedback.

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By *ixenwhispererMan
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Let her use her beauty and sexuality for money without fear of judgement or being outed.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Can I ask if the OP pays a subscription to only fans and he checks out his mates daughter will the mates daughter know that he is viewing her videos as well.

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By *inytitsbigcockCouple
over a year ago

glos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I ask if the OP pays a subscription to only fans and he checks out his mates daughter will the mates daughter know that he is viewing her videos as well."

No as its anon account.

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Exactly. I like your morals ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?"

Pervert Alert !

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Would the reaction be the same if it was a woman's 45 year old friend ogling her 19 year old son?"

It would for me, that makes my skin crawl, why would the reaction be any different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Only fans isnt just porn content, there may be alot of it on there but not all of it is.

2. Everyone is someones son/daughter so if you have ever looked at or had sex with someone you've been with someones son/daughter, especially if there is a age gap. If your 60 and they were 40 they were only 10 when you were 30 omg shock!

3. By subscribing hes supporting her in her career chioce. Putting money into her pocket and if she is putting porn on there it was her choice knowing that people are probably going to be getting off to it.

It all becomes wrong if he communicates what he's seen with father or daughter.

If anything he's being taking advantage off as there's no need to pay for porn these days if you want to get off.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"If I had a 45 Yr old, "friend" who was messaging my 19 Yr old daughter. He would be dining out for 3 months on the NHS. However I hasten to add I haven't any such slimeball types in my circle of friends

Fucking 100%

I appreciate your feedback."

You are more than welcome

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By *hestyDrawWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Subscribe

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Totally depends if I fancied her or not!

Lot of self righteous people on this sex site isn’t there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally depends if I fancied her or not!

Lot of self righteous people on this sex site isn’t there?"

I’d try and fuck her

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Totally depends if I fancied her or not!

Lot of self righteous people on this sex site isn’t there?"

So it's only creepy if you don't fancy her?

Is it self righteous that I have daughters in their 20's and as such will never chat to or meet anyone within 10 years of their ages?

Is it self righteous that the issue here isn't just age related because she is after all an adult and free to to as she wishes but is more to do with an abuse of friendship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For such a seemingly sexually liberated website, this place sure has a lot of bullshitical hypocrital people on it. The guys' a scumbag for perving over an adult? Get a grip.

Would you be calling the 19 year old girl a scumbag whore if she was on this site and was asking if it's ok to perv over her dad's mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither

Imagine it been other way around ?

Would you like your friend perving on your daughter ?

Leave well alone"

This. He never did answer this likely because he’d find it sickening.

It’s not so much to do with his age but more to do with the fact he is seeking out a friends daughter and subscribing to see her revealing photos. It’s creepy and not at all something a genuine friend should or would do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For such a seemingly sexually liberated website, this place sure has a lot of bullshitical hypocrital people on it. The guys' a scumbag for perving over an adult? Get a grip.

Would you be calling the 19 year old girl a scumbag whore if she was on this site and was asking if it's ok to perv over her dad's mate? "

I’d be calling her equally as creepy if she was trying to perve on her dad’s mate yes. This has nothing to do with gender like some of you want it to be.

As most have said it’s not about her being an adult, it’s about her being his friends offspring.

I don’t see why this being a sexually liberated site has anything to do with people having a difference of opinion. Some of us don’t have loose morals when it comes to friendship…

There’s nothing wrong with a 19 year old woman being on OnlyFans, to me there’s everything wrong with the woman’s fathers friend seeking her out.

Would you be okay with your friends doing that with your daughter?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I don’t see any need for a fuss? It happens. She's is doing her thing like many others and us on here. Its her private business, its not what many people want to be open about outside. It's generally understood that it's not nice to identify people to outside world from this sort of world. So simply say nothing (it's her business, not her parents), block if you can on that site (so you don't come across the account again) and forget about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

2. Everyone is someones son/daughter so if you have ever looked at or had sex with someone you've been with someones son/daughter, especially if there is a age gap. If your 60 and they were 40 they were only 10 when you were 30 omg shock!

"

This isn’t comparable since we are not all friends with someone’s mother or father…

It’s the fact that his friends with her father not that she’s just “someone’s daughter” that would be a bit silly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For all the posts in here dead against it im getting loads more who would subscribe in my mailbox.

Well shes told me shes enjoying OF life and making some good money from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For all the posts in here dead against it im getting loads more who would subscribe in my mailbox.

Well shes told me shes enjoying OF life and making some good money from it."

Something tells me this is all simply a fantasy that you’ve made up in your head including the apparent messages in your mailbox who would subscribe…

I’m sure I got the attention you wanted though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It really isnt, i did subscrbe as anon, so no idea its me, so weve chatted through the app, she even asked for a dick pic.

So ill just let the months sub end then canx with no one hurt and move on.

Shes enjoying the easy money and with not having to meet anyone in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet you said this a few posts up…
"Reading responses confirms what i neex to do, sorry all"

So you didn’t actually mean it.

Pigs are flying right now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?"

Hi, What you're saying is kinda contradictory...You're asking should you tell her parents or subscribe... Subscribe so you can perv her is it? My advice... do neither...turn a blind eye...the girl is of legal age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And yet you said this a few posts up… Reading responses confirms what i neex to do, sorry all

So you didn’t actually mean it.

Pigs are flying right now.. "

At that point with all the flack i was going to canx, then decided not to, thats all.

Whether you choose to believe is up to you.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"For all the posts in here dead against it im getting loads more who would subscribe in my mailbox.

Well shes told me shes enjoying OF life and making some good money from it.

Something tells me this is all simply a fantasy that you’ve made up in your head including the apparent messages in your mailbox who would subscribe…

I’m sure I got the attention you wanted though. "

To be fair I can understand why people would support the OP by pm rather than run the risk of being turned on by the 'disgusted of Tunbridge Wells' brigade.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?

Hi, What you're saying is kinda contradictory...You're asking should you tell her parents or subscribe... Subscribe so you can perv her is it? My advice... do neither...turn a blind eye...the girl is of legal age."

To be fair i worded it badly as i would never tell him. It really was a would you subscribe or not topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really isnt, i did subscrbe as anon, so no idea its me, so weve chatted through the app, she even asked for a dick pic.

So ill just let the months sub end then canx with no one hurt and move on.

Shes enjoying the easy money and with not having to meet anyone in person."

This is still creepy as hell. If you were my friend and it was my daughter, you’d be picking your teeth up off the floor I’m afraid. Gross.

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Totally depends if I fancied her or not!

Lot of self righteous people on this sex site isn’t there?

So it's only creepy if you don't fancy her?

Is it self righteous that I have daughters in their 20's and as such will never chat to or meet anyone within 10 years of their ages?

Is it self righteous that the issue here isn't just age related because she is after all an adult and free to to as she wishes but is more to do with an abuse of friendship? "

As an adult the daughter chose to put herself on OF. The OP subscribes, the daughter benefits. She obviously doesn’t have an issue showing off her body or she wouldn’t be on there. He has not done anything illegal. Everyone was above the age of consent. If you find it creepy then act differently but don’t judge others. That is self righteous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally depends if I fancied her or not!

Lot of self righteous people on this sex site isn’t there?

So it's only creepy if you don't fancy her?

Is it self righteous that I have daughters in their 20's and as such will never chat to or meet anyone within 10 years of their ages?

Is it self righteous that the issue here isn't just age related because she is after all an adult and free to to as she wishes but is more to do with an abuse of friendship?

As an adult the daughter chose to put herself on OF. The OP subscribes, the daughter benefits. She obviously doesn’t have an issue showing off her body or she wouldn’t be on there. He has not done anything illegal. Everyone was above the age of consent. If you find it creepy then act differently but don’t judge others. That is self righteous."

If it was your 19 year old daughter and your male friend?

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole


"It really isnt, i did subscrbe as anon, so no idea its me, so weve chatted through the app, she even asked for a dick pic.

So ill just let the months sub end then canx with no one hurt and move on.

Shes enjoying the easy money and with not having to meet anyone in person."

As the mother of two adult daughters I am so glad I don’t have ‘friends’ like you.

As someone said before - reverse this - how would you feel if your ‘friend’ was not only ogling your daughter but had actually paid for the privilege of doing so and had interacted with her without her knowing who they were.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It really isnt, i did subscrbe as anon, so no idea its me, so weve chatted through the app, she even asked for a dick pic.

So ill just let the months sub end then canx with no one hurt and move on.

Shes enjoying the easy money and with not having to meet anyone in person.

As the mother of two adult daughters I am so glad I don’t have ‘friends’ like you.

As someone said before - reverse this - how would you feel if your ‘friend’ was not only ogling your daughter but had actually paid for the privilege of doing so and had interacted with her without her knowing who they were. "

I get what people are saying but shes as an adult has put herself on OF showing everything off and getting paid for it, so the chances are someone she knows for normal life would find her at some point, ok im guilty of having a look, but i see an adult womans body not a friends daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it a little disturbing in all honesty, your mates daughter that you’ve probably known since she was little she would be like family. Fab never fails to shock me by reading something I find messed up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really isnt, i did subscrbe as anon, so no idea its me, so weve chatted through the app, she even asked for a dick pic.

So ill just let the months sub end then canx with no one hurt and move on.

Shes enjoying the easy money and with not having to meet anyone in person.

As the mother of two adult daughters I am so glad I don’t have ‘friends’ like you.

As someone said before - reverse this - how would you feel if your ‘friend’ was not only ogling your daughter but had actually paid for the privilege of doing so and had interacted with her without her knowing who they were.

I get what people are saying but shes as an adult has put herself on OF showing everything off and getting paid for it, so the chances are someone she knows for normal life would find her at some point, ok im guilty of having a look, but i see an adult womans body not a friends daughter."

You still haven’t answered what several people have asked you.

How would you feel if this was your daughter and your friend doing what you are doing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It really isnt, i did subscrbe as anon, so no idea its me, so weve chatted through the app, she even asked for a dick pic.

So ill just let the months sub end then canx with no one hurt and move on.

Shes enjoying the easy money and with not having to meet anyone in person.

As the mother of two adult daughters I am so glad I don’t have ‘friends’ like you.

As someone said before - reverse this - how would you feel if your ‘friend’ was not only ogling your daughter but had actually paid for the privilege of doing so and had interacted with her without her knowing who they were.

I get what people are saying but shes as an adult has put herself on OF showing everything off and getting paid for it, so the chances are someone she knows for normal life would find her at some point, ok im guilty of having a look, but i see an adult womans body not a friends daughter.

You still haven’t answered what several people have asked you.

How would you feel if this was your daughter and your friend doing what you are doing? "

Well firstly if they opened an OF account then they have put themsleves out there to be seen by the whole world, but as an adult their choice.

If a friend saw it and subscribed id be pissed, but could hardly blame them as its what ive done, but again if like me they never told either him or the daughter who it was, then id never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So with you “ only seeing a women’s body “ would you subscribe to your own daughter’s but just not tell yourself !

It’s messed up your suppose to be his mate it’s not what mates do. Yes it’s difficult if you have seen her on some platform but to subscribe is morally wrong and weird in my opinion. If I stumbled across a friends daughter on something like that I honestly don’t know if I would say anything to either of them but I do know I’d 100% not subscribe or get any sexual enjoyment from it, that’s just my personal take on it and my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So with you “ only seeing a women’s body “ would you subscribe to your own daughter’s but just not tell yourself !

It’s messed up your suppose to be his mate it’s not what mates do. Yes it’s difficult if you have seen her on some platform but to subscribe is morally wrong and weird in my opinion. If I stumbled across a friends daughter on something like that I honestly don’t know if I would say anything to either of them but I do know I’d 100% not subscribe or get any sexual enjoyment from it, that’s just my personal take on it and my opinion. "

I wouldnt compare seeing your own daughter with seeing a friends daughter who ive baring seen much of in the last 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If a friend saw it and subscribed id be pissed,."

Yet here you are apparently doing so to a “friend”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So with you “ only seeing a women’s body “ would you subscribe to your own daughter’s but just not tell yourself !

It’s messed up your suppose to be his mate it’s not what mates do. Yes it’s difficult if you have seen her on some platform but to subscribe is morally wrong and weird in my opinion. If I stumbled across a friends daughter on something like that I honestly don’t know if I would say anything to either of them but I do know I’d 100% not subscribe or get any sexual enjoyment from it, that’s just my personal take on it and my opinion.

I wouldnt compare seeing your own daughter with seeing a friends daughter who ive baring seen much of in the last 10 years"

I think it’s the fact you said “I see an adult woman’s body not a friends daughter”

If that’s the case do you see an adult woman’s body if it’s your own daughter? That’s his point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you pick and choose when it’s not about the women’s body and it’s about the person ?

I honestly think it’s just plain weird, perverted !!

It’s actually disturbing and making me angry so I’m out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So with you “ only seeing a women’s body “ would you subscribe to your own daughter’s but just not tell yourself !

It’s messed up your suppose to be his mate it’s not what mates do. Yes it’s difficult if you have seen her on some platform but to subscribe is morally wrong and weird in my opinion. If I stumbled across a friends daughter on something like that I honestly don’t know if I would say anything to either of them but I do know I’d 100% not subscribe or get any sexual enjoyment from it, that’s just my personal take on it and my opinion.

I wouldnt compare seeing your own daughter with seeing a friends daughter who ive baring seen much of in the last 10 years

I think it’s the fact you said “I see an adult woman’s body not a friends daughter”

If that’s the case do you see an adult woman’s body if it’s your own daughter? That’s his point. "

My point is around emotional attachment, in that i dont have with her, but relatives or people im close too etc i do so of course are off limits.

Shes 19, on OF, ive barely seen her in the last 10 years, she doesnt have anything to do with her dad the past couple years and when i have seen her on the odd occasion been a right b1tch to him.

I am guilty of curiosity getting the better of me and being a bad friend in this instance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So not only are you seeing her content, you're also now actually interacting with her without telling her who you are? That is incredibly disturbing.

Your initial OP was about whether you should subscribe or not. Somehow that's escalated to ogling her "adult woman body" and catfishing her? Nah, this is just plain creepy. The fact you can't see that is concerning tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So not only are you seeing her content, you're also now actually interacting with her without telling her who you are? That is incredibly disturbing.

Your initial OP was about whether you should subscribe or not. Somehow that's escalated to ogling her "adult woman body" and catfishing her? Nah, this is just plain creepy. The fact you can't see that is concerning tbh. "

19yo womans body, that im not related to and no emotional attachment to, she has willingly put out there to make money from showing it off. and like on fab as with OF who actually gives out their real details to the people theyve subscribed too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So not only are you seeing her content, you're also now actually interacting with her without telling her who you are? That is incredibly disturbing.

Your initial OP was about whether you should subscribe or not. Somehow that's escalated to ogling her "adult woman body" and catfishing her? Nah, this is just plain creepy. The fact you can't see that is concerning tbh.

19yo womans body, that im not related to and no emotional attachment to, she has willingly put out there to make money from showing it off. and like on fab as with OF who actually gives out their real details to the people theyve subscribed too.

"

But it’s your friends daughter. With friends like you, who needs enemies

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Nothing to do with you op, if that’s how she wants to earn some extra money then good on her .. better that sitting on her arse taking benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you subscribe then your creepy as fuck and a total wanker of a mate to your pal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you subscribe then your creepy as fuck and a total wanker of a mate to your pal"

thanks for your feedback, i think youre great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a bit creepy to be honest. If I was in your position and found out you subscribed I'd definitely be pissed off. And the fact you're sending her dick pics and interacting with her knowing who she is.

Yes, she's an adult and nothing about this is legally wrong. But there are thousands of women online and you pick her. I'd stay well away from you in real life. It's a bit disturbing and I think it says a lot about you.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?"

Haven't read through all the answers but why would you tell a "friend" what his adult daughter is doing? Plus, why would you want to see a friend's "child" in a state of undress?!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?

Haven't read through all the answers but why would you tell a "friend" what his adult daughter is doing? Plus, why would you want to see a friend's "child" in a state of undress?!!

"

So many dilemmas are easily solved by taking no action whatsoever

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?"

Does all your family & friends know that your on here, if so I hope they read this thread

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Don't really see what the big deal is. If I saw someone I knew on OF I'd probably be a bit curious about thier content too.

They're not related and she's an adult. She's putting herself out there and that's the risk you run when you do that job.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Don't really see what the big deal is. If I saw someone I knew on OF I'd probably be a bit curious about thier content too.

They're not related and she's an adult. She's putting herself out there and that's the risk you run when you do that job. "

I think it's because it's getting into the murky cultural water of men being uncomfortable/slightly titillated by seeing other men's female relatives in a sexual context. A bit like asking your friend permission to date his sister.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?

Does all your family & friends know that your on here, if so I hope they read this thread "

Yes all of them, all have fab profiles too, i hope my grandma doesnt read this thread

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?

Does all your family & friends know that your on here, if so I hope they read this thread

Yes all of them, all have fab profiles too, i hope my grandma doesnt read this thread "

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?

Does all your family & friends know that your on here, if so I hope they read this thread

Yes all of them, all have fab profiles too, i hope my grandma doesnt read this thread "

Just fabbed a couple of your grand pics ..

Hopefully meeting her next week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't really see what the big deal is. If I saw someone I knew on OF I'd probably be a bit curious about thier content too.

They're not related and she's an adult. She's putting herself out there and that's the risk you run when you do that job. "

Thank you, a bit more of a reasoned opinion that im not a sexual monster that needs burning at a stake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?

Does all your family & friends know that your on here, if so I hope they read this thread

Yes all of them, all have fab profiles too, i hope my grandma doesnt read this thread

Just fabbed a couple of your grand pics ..

Hopefully meeting her next week "

Yeah she just rang and said the care home are letting her out for a meet, bless her

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?

Does all your family & friends know that your on here, if so I hope they read this thread

Yes all of them, all have fab profiles too, i hope my grandma doesnt read this thread

Just fabbed a couple of your grand pics ..

Hopefully meeting her next week

Yeah she just rang and said the care home are letting her out for a meet, bless her "

Has she asked her dad?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you found a mates 19yo daughter is on OF would you tell them, or subscribe?

Does all your family & friends know that your on here, if so I hope they read this thread

Yes all of them, all have fab profiles too, i hope my grandma doesnt read this thread

Just fabbed a couple of your grand pics ..

Hopefully meeting her next week

Yeah she just rang and said the care home are letting her out for a meet, bless her

Has she asked her dad?"

Yes we had seance and he said enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't really see what the big deal is. If I saw someone I knew on OF I'd probably be a bit curious about thier content too.

They're not related and she's an adult. She's putting herself out there and that's the risk you run when you do that job.

Thank you, a bit more of a reasoned opinion that im not a sexual monster that needs burning at a stake."

But then why did you ask for people's thoughts on the subject if you don't want to hear their opinions? Or did you think most people here would egg you on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't really see what the big deal is. If I saw someone I knew on OF I'd probably be a bit curious about thier content too.

They're not related and she's an adult. She's putting herself out there and that's the risk you run when you do that job.

Thank you, a bit more of a reasoned opinion that im not a sexual monster that needs burning at a stake.

But then why did you ask for people's thoughts on the subject if you don't want to hear their opinions? Or did you think most people here would egg you on? "

Not at all, interesting to read all opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't really see what the big deal is. If I saw someone I knew on OF I'd probably be a bit curious about thier content too.

They're not related and she's an adult. She's putting herself out there and that's the risk you run when you do that job. "

It’s the fact that it’s his friends daughter. Has nothing to do with her job, I don’t understand how people are getting confused by this.

Yes you put yourself out there when doing that job, however you’d hope that those who know you can be discreet, leave you to it and move on. Not start sending dick pics and dirty messages whilst not telling you who they are. That’s sinister.

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Deffo suscribe but i m a perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't really see what the big deal is. If I saw someone I knew on OF I'd probably be a bit curious about thier content too.

They're not related and she's an adult. She's putting herself out there and that's the risk you run when you do that job.

Thank you, a bit more of a reasoned opinion that im not a sexual monster that needs burning at a stake.

But then why did you ask for people's thoughts on the subject if you don't want to hear their opinions? Or did you think most people here would egg you on? "

This. People seem to have this misconception that if you’re on a swinger site you automatically have loose morals and shouldn’t be able to have an opinion on certain things when it comes to sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question is how would you feel if your either your friend or his daughter find out what you've done?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The question is how would you feel if your either your friend or his daughter find out what you've done? "

Not great to be honest, but thats hyperthetical as im not telling either of them, or know anyone i know outside fab either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question is how would you feel if your either your friend or his daughter find out what you've done?

Not great to be honest, but thats hyperthetical as im not telling either of them, or know anyone i know outside fab either.

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And this didn't affect your decision in the slightest?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The question is how would you feel if your either your friend or his daughter find out what you've done?

Not great to be honest, but thats hyperthetical as im not telling either of them, or know anyone i know outside fab either.

And this didn't affect your decision in the slightest? "

No as they wont be finding out, so again a hyperthetical scenario that wont be happening, so didnt consider it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another hypothetical question,

If you saw her on Adult Work would you go see her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not heard of adult work, but to be honest after this month sub ends on OF ill not be bothered seeing her on there either

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Wow some of the justifications are just, wow!

1. Yes she is an adult and has decided to use her body/sexuality to earn some income. Her choice, her freewill. So far so good.

2. She is 19. No problem there. She’s an adult so see point 1.

3. The OP is a much older male. Again no problem. She is on a public platform that accepts subscription from anyone.

4. The OP knows it is the daughter of a friend of his. Hmmm that’s a bit weird. How long has he known this girl? Has he known her since she was a little girl? Watched her grow up. That feels wrong now. I wonder how his friend would feel knowing he is oggling her? Interacting with het anonymously? Wanking over her?

There are no issues or “disgusted of Tunbridge Wells” complaints with points 1-3 but it is point 4 that creates the problem.

It isn’t moral outrage or double standards about sex working/modelling etc. It is being morally contemptuous of someone being deceitful with someone they have probably known as a child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question is how would you feel if your either your friend or his daughter find out what you've done?

Not great to be honest, but thats hyperthetical as im not telling either of them, or know anyone i know outside fab either.

And this didn't affect your decision in the slightest?

No as they wont be finding out, so again a hyperthetical scenario that wont be happening, so didnt consider it."

So it's only an acceptable thing to do because you're getting away with it. But does that mean that if you haven't gotten away with it, it then becomes morally wrong? Hypothetically.

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By *ld GreyMan
over a year ago

Aintree / blackpool

I have just found a friend of the family on here I heared they would be red faced next time they see me .Non my business we all on here for same reason

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Wow some of the justifications are just, wow!

1. Yes she is an adult and has decided to use her body/sexuality to earn some income. Her choice, her freewill. So far so good.

2. She is 19. No problem there. She’s an adult so see point 1.

3. The OP is a much older male. Again no problem. She is on a public platform that accepts subscription from anyone.

4. The OP knows it is the daughter of a friend of his. Hmmm that’s a bit weird. How long has he known this girl? Has he known her since she was a little girl? Watched her grow up. That feels wrong now. I wonder how his friend would feel knowing he is oggling her? Interacting with het anonymously? Wanking over her?

There are no issues or “disgusted of Tunbridge Wells” complaints with points 1-3 but it is point 4 that creates the problem.

It isn’t moral outrage or double standards about sex working/modelling etc. It is being morally contemptuous of someone being deceitful with someone they have probably known as a child. "

That's fair. But we don't know the full back story. Just what the op has said.

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

I don’t really see that the age thing is a problem, or specifically the existing “relationship”.

But I do agree that there’s something a bit creepy about finding someone you know on an adult site, and perving over them without their knowledge. Not morally really different to a stranger, legally the same… just a little bit odd.

I can’t say I wouldn’t be curious for a little peek, but I’d imagine that actually subscribing to someone is a little more involved than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that a fantasy of yours?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just found a friend of the family on here I heared they would be red faced next time they see me .Non my business we all on here for same reason "

Bullshit

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By *ick270Man
over a year ago

Here

What is "OF"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The question is how would you feel if your either your friend or his daughter find out what you've done?

Not great to be honest, but thats hyperthetical as im not telling either of them, or know anyone i know outside fab either.

And this didn't affect your decision in the slightest?

No as they wont be finding out, so again a hyperthetical scenario that wont be happening, so didnt consider it.

So it's only an acceptable thing to do because you're getting away with it. But does that mean that if you haven't gotten away with it, it then becomes morally wrong? Hypothetically.

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Did i say its an acceptable thing to do? Like my family and friends wouldnt be over the moon about me being on fab so i dont say anything to them about it as they would consider fab morally wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question is how would you feel if your either your friend or his daughter find out what you've done?

Not great to be honest, but thats hyperthetical as im not telling either of them, or know anyone i know outside fab either.

And this didn't affect your decision in the slightest?

No as they wont be finding out, so again a hyperthetical scenario that wont be happening, so didnt consider it.

So it's only an acceptable thing to do because you're getting away with it. But does that mean that if you haven't gotten away with it, it then becomes morally wrong? Hypothetically.

Did i say its an acceptable thing to do? Like my family and friends wouldnt be over the moon about me being on fab so i dont say anything to them about it as they would consider fab morally wrong."

Is it not an acceptable thing to do then?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

If she’s an adult on a public platform, then so be it. No one else’s business. All those quoting some kind of moral dilemma are obviously more concerned about the father not approving of his daughters career choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The question is how would you feel if your either your friend or his daughter find out what you've done?

Not great to be honest, but thats hyperthetical as im not telling either of them, or know anyone i know outside fab either.

And this didn't affect your decision in the slightest?

No as they wont be finding out, so again a hyperthetical scenario that wont be happening, so didnt consider it.

So it's only an acceptable thing to do because you're getting away with it. But does that mean that if you haven't gotten away with it, it then becomes morally wrong? Hypothetically.

Did i say its an acceptable thing to do? Like my family and friends wouldnt be over the moon about me being on fab so i dont say anything to them about it as they would consider fab morally wrong.

Is it not an acceptable thing to do then? "

Whats acceptable is variant to each persons own opinion. As i know that neither party will find out then i weighed it up and considered it acceptable.

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