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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who likes them and who doesn’t?

I personally don’t mind them, sometimes I like to send them if the persons bio says the get bombarded by messages plus I never like to be a pester.

What are your thoughts?

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Who likes them and who doesn’t?

I personally don’t mind them, sometimes I like to send them if the persons bio says the get bombarded by messages plus I never like to be a pester.

What are your thoughts? "

Can't stand them.

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By *orkswatcherMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Love a wink, some say it's lazy but to me it shows an interest and I'll wink or message back

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By *evonmail41Man
over a year ago

Yeovil

Love a wink but only get them from men ??

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By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I love a cheeky wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, a wink can seem a little lazy.

But there’s also something very flirtatious about a wink that we can’t quite resist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are always a good icebreaker. And a follow up message never goes amiss

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By *harlotteBigBoobsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I like a wink. Lets people you know your interested rather then writing a message out for them not to be interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a wink. Lets people you know your interested rather then writing a message out for them not to be interested "

Yes! This is exactly what I was thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always ignore them I prefer a polite message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them and if I send one and they wink back then I know to message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time they are from people with nothing on their profile.

Don't mind winks from people with something to look at and read but delete button usually gets a hammering

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most of the time they are from people with nothing on their profile.

Don't mind winks from people with something to look at and read but delete button usually gets a hammering

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Absolutely agree with you on this, what’s the point of having a blank account in general!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind them! Shows interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best meets we've had (over the years and profiles) have began with a wink.

Used correctly, they're very useful.

Profile one winks

Profile two winks back

Profile one then sees that as an invite to message and does so

Saves all those pointless messages from those that haven't read a profile, clearly don't match criteria or have no profile content.

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By *bsolutley FabMan
over a year ago

Fareham

Prefer a WANK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love them, just a lovely simple way of showing your interest, I will always respond to a wink with a wink or message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a wink. Lets people you know your interested rather then writing a message out for them not to be interested "

Very true, chaps are expected to write war n peace , then just for it to be ignored. Winks opens up a offer of interest. People who dont like them need to open up a male account and see how they get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often send them I get some in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the best meets we've had (over the years and profiles) have began with a wink.

Used correctly, they're very useful.

Profile one winks

Profile two winks back

Profile one then sees that as an invite to message and does so

Saves all those pointless messages from those that haven't read a profile, clearly don't match criteria or have no profile content."

Very true, wish more would adopt this system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they are the best way to be honest, there’s nothing worse than composing a message for someone to delete it, a wink is perfect to say I’m interested are you?

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By *rafficvanMan
over a year ago

Middletown

Never had a wink

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I don't mind getting them, just never sure how to respond lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind getting them, just never sure how to respond lol"

With a wink, and then you've shown your interest.

Then it's up to the original winker to message haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are hit and miss but still a good way to see if the attraction is mutual before sending a message.

People who don't check them could be missing out, I always message if I wink them and get one back.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Who likes them and who doesn’t?

I personally don’t mind them, sometimes I like to send them if the persons bio says the get bombarded by messages plus I never like to be a pester.

What are your thoughts? "

Winks are, in our opinion, pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they are the best way to be honest, there’s nothing worse than composing a message for someone to delete it, a wink is perfect to say I’m interested are you? "

Very true!

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By *irty scubyMan
over a year ago

strokestown

Think they are a great way to know you like someone without being annoying

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I do.

They make my day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they are the best way to be honest, there’s nothing worse than composing a message for someone to delete it, a wink is perfect to say I’m interested are you?

Very true! "

Your tits deserve a wink but I’m a single man so I’m not allowed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fab world I think a lot of couples and single females see winks as a lazy way of contacting, plus they receive so many every day it becomes easier just to ignore them.

But guys are more inclined to like winks as we generally aren't getting hit with a shit load of them every day and we maybe also see winks as a friendly non pushy way to show interest.

Personally I don't send them very often and prefer to message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind handing out a wink or two , notes a bit of intrest even if 99% are ignored and the other 1% block you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use the winks to show we have looked and have an interest in chatting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a cheeky wink "

Thought id send you a cheeky wink but shes blocked men from messaging her ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks and messages, dont exactlt get a lot so always welcomed!

Problem is its usually guys who wink or message me lol

Yes im straight so appreciate my pain when i open the notification??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re great for showing an interest without having to waste time writing a message or wasting their time reading it.

Some guys on here literally send hundreds of messages daily on here with not many replying so for them surely the wink is a quick and easy way of saying hello.

Luckily I receive a ridiculous amount of messages and winks each decade ha.

Have fun people

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Being honest, when our filters are off we don't look at winks from single guys. A decent message from a decent profile are the ones we consider replying too (2 out of over 100).

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't mind them, if the person matches what I'm looking for, but when they're from someone miles away, who's not what I'm after I just delete.

I do prefer them to a crap message tbh though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than happy with a wink. It’s a good initial ice breaker.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I never send them & very rarely check those that I have received.

If I am interested in a profile I will send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bulk delete them every few days

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By *oublesixesMan
over a year ago

Brigg

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By *ilvermaleMan
over a year ago

Derry

I love then but never get any off ladies

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By *oublesixesMan
over a year ago

Brigg

I'm a winker,

I'm a winker,

What's the rest of the song?

I don't mind a wink and if I'm interested I'll make contact.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We don't mind a wink.We either ignore them or wink back. We've met and played with people as a result of a wink!

M and M

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I like to wink to show my interest. If I get a wink back then I will take it as sign of mutual interest and follow it up with a message,

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a wink especially of a sexy lady or hot couple

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I enjoy winks. I think they're a useful and low-intensity way to signal interest... but then that's because I'm lucky if I get a couple of them a year.

If you're getting thousands every day, I can see why you'd find them less useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good way to show interest

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I declare a national holiday if I get one from a woman or a couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good way to show interest "

that’s my thoughts too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take no notice of them tbh. When I'm looking to meet - I prefer a message instead of a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone ‘offended’ by a wink needs to have a word with themselves.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

As I always answer to this question; in general men send and like them, whilst women don’t send or like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send them,as I realise lady's and couples get inundated with mail,so rather than send a message which potentially won't be read,I wink,that way they know I like them and then they have a choice of ignoring or either winking back ,to which I would then send a message,or messaging me

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By *winfrozrMan
over a year ago

Carnoustie

I’ll always respond to a wink

I send a few too, but more likely to respond to a wink to say thanks for noticing me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you lot stop winking about

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

colchester

I like the odd wink

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