FabSwingers.com forum: What Makes A Slut?

By *bsolutley Fab OP Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Is a slut anything to do with being brought up on poverty? Or are Sluts Classless….?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met plenty of classy sluts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see no reason for any correlation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a slut anything to do with being brought up on poverty? Or are Sluts Classless….?"

What do you think?

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By *heshire DilfMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Liking sex has nothing to do with class.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a slut anything to do with being brought up on poverty? Or are Sluts Classless….?"

Lool that's a very odd correlation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to know why women are sluts coz they enjoy sex? And what men think women's pussy go lose when they fuck 30 men but 30 times with a partner is different

BTW cant stand word slut

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By *asteherCouple
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

Something about the word just works for me

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By *bsolutley Fab OP Man
over a year ago

Fareham

"Something about the word just works for me

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works for some not others….strange lol

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Liking sex has nothing to do with class. "

This

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I want to know why women are sluts coz they enjoy sex? And what men think women's pussy go lose when they fuck 30 men but 30 times with a partner is different

BTW cant stand word slut

I can't agree with you enough!

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By *rafficvanMan
over a year ago

Middletown

"Have met plenty of classy sluts

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these are the best types

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work for me while playing nothing better than being called a slut but I suppose to be called it in a normal situation then no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've also met a lot of really nice sluts x always show them respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a slut anything to do with being brought up on poverty? Or are Sluts Classless….?"

WTF kind of comment is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the answer a woman who's fucking other people except you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a slut anything to do with being brought up on poverty? Or are Sluts Classless….?"

Very odd question

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Bit of a loaded question for a Friday morning.

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By *atentHeelsCouple
over a year ago

Salford

A slut is nothing to do with social background

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you define a slut for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sexually promiscuous person I suppose xx

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

SLUT - funny old word!

Call someone a slut in the vanilla world (the street, at work etc) and it is a horrible insult.

Call someone a slut in the swinging world as part of a “normal” conversation and a lot will still be offended.

Call someone a slut while she is in the middle of taking a hard fucking from multiple cocks and it is a naughty compliment!

But I think the OP is hinting at sluts being created by economic situations. Hmmm nope don’t think so. They just enjoy sex and more than one monogamous partner. If they were a man we’d call them a stud or a player!

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By *ornwallkink2017Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall

"SLUT - funny old word!

Call someone a slut in the vanilla world (the street, at work etc) and it is a horrible insult.

Call someone a slut in the swinging world as part of a “normal” conversation and a lot will still be offended.

Call someone a slut while she is in the middle of taking a hard fucking from multiple cocks and it is a naughty compliment!

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Men do lol

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"SLUT - funny old word!

Call someone a slut in the vanilla world (the street, at work etc) and it is a horrible insult.

Call someone a slut in the swinging world as part of a “normal” conversation and a lot will still be offended.

Call someone a slut while she is in the middle of taking a hard fucking from multiple cocks and it is a naughty compliment!

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You know I think women need to call men sluts more often during sex.

I'd find that incredibly hot, but maybe I'm just weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such as a slut . Its just jealous people being horrible to those that love and enjoy sex because they aren't as free or confident in themselves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a word I don't like at all, far too derogatory and more often than not used by guys who have been turned down by a woman!

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Never really liked the word tbh

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

The English language is nuanced and one word can have multiple meanings depending on context.

Think of the word “shit” (not sure if that is allowed in forum so sorry in advance mods and please delete this post.

If you add a qualifying word to “shit” we get...

Bullshit = lies

Dogshit = poor quality

Batshit = illogical

Apeshit = frighteningly aggressive

Horseshit = unfair

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By *atentHeelsCouple
over a year ago

Salford

"The English language is nuanced and one word can have multiple meanings depending on context.

Think of the word “shit” (not sure if that is allowed in forum so sorry in advance mods and please delete this post.

If you add a qualifying word to “shit” we get...

Bullshit = lies

Dogshit = poor quality

Batshit = illogical

Apeshit = frighteningly aggressive

Horseshit = unfair

Love this

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I’d never dream of using the word with someone I didn’t/hardly know or even someone other than C.

In the right moment we both find it a complete turn on.

But it’s nothing to be with up-bringing or what class you are in.

C epitomes class and sophistication but she definately has her slutty moments, which I’m happy to witness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are many who wear the name “ slut” as a badge of honour and it has nothing to do with background

I think of it as those who like to be “ free and easy “ and “ ready to fuck” without any complications and like almost to be used

Maybe I am wrong?

I love a nice “slut”

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

My wife likes being called a slut during sex and reminded of the things she has done

But she doesn’t like being called a slag

So is slut more acceptable do we think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The English language is nuanced and one word can have multiple meanings depending on context.

Think of the word “shit” (not sure if that is allowed in forum so sorry in advance mods and please delete this post.

If you add a qualifying word to “shit” we get...

Bullshit = lies

Dogshit = poor quality

Batshit = illogical

Apeshit = frighteningly aggressive

Horseshit = unfair

Mishit = missed

Dipshit = person that missed

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By *appypaul69Man
over a year ago

vale

Slut is offensive in the wrong situation.

However, in the right situation it's a compliment. I have often used it as follows;-

"oh you slut I bloody love you"

It's how you use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to know why women are sluts coz they enjoy sex? And what men think women's pussy go lose when they fuck 30 men but 30 times with a partner is different

BTW cant stand word slut

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"My wife likes being called a slut during sex and reminded of the things she has done

But she doesn’t like being called a slag

So is slut more acceptable do we think?"

I think slag is on a whole other level of awfulness! Slut (as being discussed here) can be used in a “positive” way but slag! No it’s a horrible word.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Back on the “does economic background determine being a slut” point...

I (Mr) soon found when I was in late teens/early 20s that the most promiscuous girls were actually those who went to all girl private schools. So generally speaking rich and posh!

Never ever called any of them a slut though. Was just happy to be getting a leg over

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By *obshortMan
over a year ago

Cork

Slut can imply so many different things to so many different people. A slut in the bedroom and a Saint in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the term slut horrible tbh and would never call a woman a slut

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I want to know why women are sluts coz they enjoy sex? And what men think women's pussy go lose when they fuck 30 men but 30 times with a partner is different

BTW cant stand word slut

Just means they know fuck all about women. Makes a good filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is the answer a woman who's fucking other people except you?"

Haha, we’ll and truly burned OP

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

I suspect that most women, deep down, know they have a slutty side.

They're taught to deny it...but it's there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don’t like the word in any context and would be offended if I was ever called it. BUT ….. I’d rather be a slut than a slag

that sounds so much worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect that most women, deep down, know they have a slutty side.

They're taught to deny it...but it's there"

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a slut anything to do with being brought up on poverty? Or are Sluts Classless….?"

What a weird thing to try to correlate. I would theorize that the reasons and efficacy are different. A wealthy person has better access to health care and protection than a poor person and as wealthy communities are more tightly knit, less dangerous. But our sexual desires are not much to do with class.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect that most women, deep down, know they have a slutty side.

They're taught to deny it...but it's there"

And I suspect that you are a misogynistic tosser who assumes women are sluts so you can justify treating them like consumable meat that you can discard when you are finished with.

Then again, I don't know you so that may be a harsh judgement.

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

"I suspect that most women, deep down, know they have a slutty side.

They're taught to deny it...but it's there

And I suspect that you are a misogynistic tosser who assumes women are sluts so you can justify treating them like consumable meat that you can discard when you are finished with.

Then again, I don't know you so that may be a harsh judgement. "

Of course, you don't know me and have already accepted you may be wrong. Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a slut anything to do with being brought up on poverty?“

Seriously???? My family were brought up in poverty in a very loving council house alongside many others in the same boat and if I heard anyone call my sisters sluts I’d go to jail for it!

Give your head a wobble OP

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I personally don’t like the word in any context and would be offended if I was ever called it. BUT ….. I’d rather be a slut than a slag

that sounds so much worse

Same for me, not a fan.

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By *bsolutley Fab OP Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Thanks for all your comments, what a great reaction to this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is the correlation to the word slovenly when using the word slut which can also denote someone who has little to no regard for the condition of their home or lifespans so I guess in a way, one could make a link thru social standing.

That said, no such link in the swinging world, it's all about the level of promiscuity and the desire and comfort to do as the lady wishes

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

"I want to know why women are sluts coz they enjoy sex? And what men think women's pussy go lose when they fuck 30 men but 30 times with a partner is different

BTW cant stand word slut

Totally agree. Can’t stand the word “slut”. If a man has sex with 20 women he is a stud, but if a woman does the same she is a slur.

Maybe if the makes here showed a little more respect to females they would get a few more meets.

By the way Mr Brum posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure it's been said but slut means "a gal not sleeping with other people, but not me".

(When used by a guy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

S- south

L- London

U- unattractive

T- tart

S-south

L-London

A-attractive

G-girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What? Strange question.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I think the only thing classless is the use of the word. Distasteful and degrading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the only thing classless is the use of the word. Distasteful and degrading "

Pretty much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two separate things dependant on perspective ..........

1) a bad attitude, I would say a Man's bad attitude, but Women can be as guilty with name calling.

2) an open minded, taboo breaking attitude, I'll use a male partner as an example ......

A guy who's partner is in the swinging lifestyle and enjoys owning the term.

Sometimes Mrs A likes the term 'slut' to be used when she's feeling/behaving extra naughty.

It's a middle finger to the judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the word, even when used as an insult as it doesn't insult me at all.

I'm a self proclaimed slut, a very sexual woman enjoying her sexual freedom with whoever the fuck I like really.

Never a bad word

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

I wonder why when a lady likes a lot of sex she's call a slut, but if a male does then he's stud.

I don't know about you but I'm here to enjoy myself. Not to judge, or name calling.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

The meaning is different among certain group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm neither !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder why when a lady likes a lot of sex she's call a slut, but if a male does then he's stud.

I don't know about you but I'm here to enjoy myself. Not to judge, or name calling."
exactly I personally love being a slut lol

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By *teph BitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Be obedient and always do what is expected of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love being a slut I'm neither classless or was brought up in poverty pretty rude and ignorant question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dont like sluts then ? Your post has really angered me ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a slut anything to do with being brought up on poverty? Or are Sluts Classless….?"

What you mean in the way poverty can be a factor in addiction, criminal behaviour, poor physical and mental health... I think not. The only classless thing here seems to be you and your "question"

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Historically it was a woman who had an unkempt house. Fur coat, no knickers and lived on jam butties. And didnt bleach her nets every week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has to be a wind up post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to know why women are sluts coz they enjoy sex? And what men think women's pussy go lose when they fuck 30 men but 30 times with a partner is different

BTW cant stand word slut

I can't agree with you enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have met plenty of classy sluts

One right here...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a slut anything to do with being brought up on poverty? Or are Sluts Classless….?"

Christ, you read some absolute bollocks on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what context the word slut is used in.

I hate the word “C*nt”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get called a slut all the time, mainly by men and I think it’s because they can tell I crave cock so much and love to suck and be fucked. Conversations here tend to go along the lines of ‘I want you to suck my dick and then I’m going to fuck you hard’...’Thank you, I’d love to suck your dick, I want it down my throat and feel it deep in my ass’....’You dirty sissy slut, are you on WhatsApp’.....end of conversation because I don’t give out my phone number haha.

I actually don’t mind being called a slut because it means that person knows s/he can do anything to me and I’ll do anything for them like a good slut, but I understand why others wouldn’t like it.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Is a slut anything to do with being brought up on poverty? Or are Sluts Classless….?"

Do twats always wear suits and boots, or do they sometimes have class?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I used to have a bike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily enough, the only time I’m called a slut is when I say no. The egos on here can’t accept a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funnily enough, the only time I’m called a slut is when I say no. The egos on here can’t accept a no. "

That’s a great point well

Made!

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By *ungnorthernMan
over a year ago

manchester

"Is a slut anything to do with being brought up on poverty? Or are Sluts Classless….?"

Its a term used by men to demean women, its a weird question because its not a real thing just a label. Its distasteful unless you have consent to use it. Anyone can be a slut I encourage, but on their own terms.

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By *ungnorthernMan
over a year ago

manchester

"Funnily enough, the only time I’m called a slut is when I say no. The egos on here can’t accept a no. "

Literally backs my point ha.

Sorry this happens to you, its gross.

The need a therapist not a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funnily enough, the only time I’m called a slut is when I say no. The egos on here can’t accept a no.

Literally backs my point ha.

Sorry this happens to you, its gross.

The need a therapist not a fuck."

It’s gross when used as an insult. I quite like the word such as when it’s used as a term of elevated regard for how much one may like sex. I’m a bit of a slut

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By *cottyl1983Man
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

"Is the answer a woman who's fucking other people except you?"
haha good answer that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must take bareback cock in all holes... Thats my definition of a true slut.

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By * and P southeastCouple
over a year ago

essex

I love people thinking I am and being called that really turns me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slut is both a horrible word but also a great one ....

call me a slut in a none sexual enviroment ill tell you to fu*k off

the only guys that get to call me a slut are the few who get me into a sexual frenzy zone where they can call me what ever they like as long as they carry on....

ive had guys ruin a meet with the word slut ...so if you going to call me one you better be very very good in bed or i may just kick you where it hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to know why women are sluts coz they enjoy sex? And what men think women's pussy go lose when they fuck 30 men but 30 times with a partner is different

BTW cant stand word slut

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Growing up the poorer areas had more sluts so you might have a point

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

i think it is a disgusting term to call any lady just because she likes to have fun the same as a guy,, a guy does not get branded with a nasty label,,, no wonder some guys never get to have fun if they dont have any respect...

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"slut is both a horrible word but also a great one ....

call me a slut in a none sexual enviroment ill tell you to fu*k off

the only guys that get to call me a slut are the few who get me into a sexual frenzy zone where they can call me what ever they like as long as they carry on....

ive had guys ruin a meet with the word slut ...so if you going to call me one you better be very very good in bed or i may just kick you where it hurts "

Can you explain why someone's sexual performance dictates why they can call you a slut or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"slut is both a horrible word but also a great one ....

call me a slut in a none sexual enviroment ill tell you to fu*k off

the only guys that get to call me a slut are the few who get me into a sexual frenzy zone where they can call me what ever they like as long as they carry on....

ive had guys ruin a meet with the word slut ...so if you going to call me one you better be very very good in bed or i may just kick you where it hurts

Can you explain why someone's sexual performance dictates why they can call you a slut or not

Is it not obvious? It’s not they’re “allowed”, more so they’re that good it’s ignored

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

For me "Slut" is only a play name. If a woman likes multiple sexual partners it is her choice. On occasion a lady, in the throws of sexual pleasure, has said "Call me a slut" but otherwise I don't agree with it as a description.

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