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Scared of first time anal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive wanted to try taking anal sex but just scared of it hurting or damaging me had one guy try but he was big and just managed to get maybe a inch in but then it was a burning stinging feeling so i asked him to stop anyone else felt this how can i move forward as really want to experience losing my cherry. help advise please

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

First thing, ye can't just shove it in and expect it to work, that'll cause damage to the muscles.

I would start small, using fingers or a small toy then work up from that. It isn't an overnight thing. Make sure to use plenty of lube as well.

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

Lube, lube, lube and more lube. Tease with fingers and small toys. Try and relax into it, communicate with each other and have fun x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

As above, lube, fingers, toys.

Work your way up to taking bigger.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"First thing, ye can't just shove it in and expect it to work, that'll cause damage to the muscles.

I would start small, using fingers or a small toy then work up from that. It isn't an overnight thing. Make sure to use plenty of lube as well. "

Sage advice. Don't use numbing cream or relaxants either.

Warm up the sphincters and ease into it slowly.

You can't quicklystretch out your flesh or skin.

The stinging sensation goes after a while, if he's girthy.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Lube, relax and try different positions.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

A smaller winkle? Lol Lube as abobe and try toys to break yourself in maybe a little.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A smaller winkle? Lol Lube as abobe and try toys to break yourself in maybe a little. "
thank you all for advise i will take all you have all comented on thank you so much

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"A smaller winkle? Lol Lube as abobe and try toys to break yourself in maybe a little. thank you all for advise i will take all you have all comented on thank you so much "
No problem Sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo lots of lube…. And maybe a butt plug first xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you think you've used enough lube, add more!

I love anal but I cant go straight into it! I have to warm up! Invest in a nice anal training set, use them alone each day and build up, and before you have anal sex, warm up by going up the sizes before doing the act itself!! It feels absolutely amazing when done right!!

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Hubby enjoyed his first time on his back. He doesn't do doggystyle anal x

Mrs N

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By *irmingham_Sissy_MaidTV/TS
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

Lube up as much as you can until you think you’ve done too much and then add some more. Also start wearing butt plugs, increasing in size until you’re used to having something in your butt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been lubing myself and slipping all sorts in my hole getting ready for my first time, if only I could find someone

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Dont do it

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

As others have do things slowly with a trusted partner.

When I first started sleeping with men I was a bit like a boy in a sweetie shop letting anyone fuck me, but now I only do anal with guys I've taken the time to know and won't hurt me.

I also make sure I've worn my butt plug in the hours before a new encounter!

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"As others have do things slowly with a trusted partner.

When I first started sleeping with men I was a bit like a boy in a sweetie shop letting anyone fuck me, but now I only do anal with guys I've taken the time to know and won't hurt me.

I also make sure I've worn my butt plug in the hours before a new encounter!"

Ps..enjoy it OP, it's one of the most fantastic sexual experiences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you think you've used enough lube, add more!

I love anal but I cant go straight into it! I have to warm up! Invest in a nice anal training set, use them alone each day and build up, and before you have anal sex, warm up by going up the sizes before doing the act itself!! It feels absolutely amazing when done right!! "
mmm anal set souns great would j get one from sex shop and thank thou for advise and also to everyones advises many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you think you've used enough lube, add more!

I love anal but I cant go straight into it! I have to warm up! Invest in a nice anal training set, use them alone each day and build up, and before you have anal sex, warm up by going up the sizes before doing the act itself!! It feels absolutely amazing when done right!! mmm anal set souns great would j get one from sex shop and thank thou for advise and also to everyones advises many thanks"

Sex toy shop or I bought mine online. I got one set from ann summers and one from bondara. Love honey is a great online shop too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found my first experiences awful

But when I tried lying on my back it was heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes time …. Relaxation is key for me

My gay mate who I reg with… I’m that relaxed with him now, we don’t need lube (a little spit) but he slides right in as relaxed and trust

It’s worth all the work - such an amazing feeling

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