FabSwingers.com forum: Best and Worst of Swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We think the delicious non-judgemental lovlies we meet whilst pursuing or hobby is the very best thing about swinging.

The worst, well we think that would be pretenders/fakes. -You know, those pretending to be part of our community, but are really just chancing their arms at getting laid.

Thoughts please,

Much love PDx

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

"We think the delicious non-judgemental lovlies we meet whilst pursuing or hobby is the very best thing about swinging.

The worst, well we think that would be pretenders/fakes. -You know, those pretending to be part of our community, but are really just chancing their arms at getting laid.

Thoughts please,

Much love PDx"

Have to agree with you here! Being able to talk about it all and not be judged and totally agree on the worst part too! Another worst part for us is men thibking just because we swing it means we will sleep with anything that walks ....

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

The worst about swinging.

The sheer amount of rude, entitled, arrogant single men on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We've had some great meets with single guys (as our pics testify), so this is not really a single guy bashing thread, of course some can be total a-holes and

we're sure there are plenty of female fakes and wannabes our there too.

So more positive please.

PDx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've had some great meets with single guys (as our pics testify), so this is not really a single guy bashing thread, of course some can be total a-holes and

we're sure there are plenty of female fakes and wannabes our there too.

So more positive please.

I’m extremely respectful to everyone, maybe too respectful as a swinger friend said “You’re too nice to be a swinger” is that good or bad xx

PDx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've had some great meets with single guys (as our pics testify), so this is not really a single guy bashing thread, of course some can be total a-holes and

we're sure there are plenty of female fakes and wannabes our there too.

So more positive please.

I’m extremely respectful to everyone, maybe too respectful as a swinger friend said “You’re too nice to be a swinger” is that good or bad xx

PDx"

I’m extremely respectful, maybe too respectful if that’s possible. A fellow swinger said “you’re simply too nice to be a swinger” if that’s possible xx

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By *ickyquimCouple
over a year ago

north west

"We think the delicious non-judgemental lovlies we meet whilst pursuing or hobby is the very best thing about swinging.

The worst, well we think that would be pretenders/fakes. -You know, those pretending to be part of our community, but are really just chancing their arms at getting laid.

Thoughts please,

Much love PDx

Notice how when men mention to a peers they swing they get a pat on the back and a rousing. We’ll done mate!

Women are judged for being easy if they mention swinging and then the men’s peers letch at you and they all think you’re a slapper.

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury

Best is mixing with like minded people and holding a adult conversation about swinging without the nudge nudge wink wink brigade, worst is being a single guy most will hardly give you the time of day, minority ruining it for the majority, we’re not all morons. Jim

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By *alsaGuy77Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Best is the relaxed attitude, especially in clubs, to sex - it is just some fun that we all like and doesn't mean truly madly deeply.

The bad for me is that so many single blokes ruin it for the rest of us that we all get tarred with the same brush and it makes it hard to get taken seriously on here in particular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst about swinging.

The sheer amount of rude, entitled, arrogant single men on here"

And the sheer amount of entitled, arrogant and very rude couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree with you both the genuine guys get the wrap for it. hate fakers and there are more then just single guys trust me. I get my fare share of couples. the thing that annoys me is when you try to put a nice message togheter and you polite ,after I read there profile I always do to avoid wasting mine and there time , I simply get ignored . all it takes I a polite no. I know girls and couples get loads of messages but come on .... Happy fabbing everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best so far has been chatting to and meeting some wonderful people. We've already made some good friends.

Worst has has to be the couples that are just all about a f*ck and constantly talk about it even after we try to hold a conversation with them.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Best of swinging , when you go on Holiday you have plenty of Holiday friends , at home you can go to plenty of social events , you get to have sex with lots of swingers with different combinations like MMMFF which is great ,it’s a great lifestyle we love it

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"The worst about swinging.

The sheer amount of rude, entitled, arrogant single men on here"

I agree but instead of single guys I’d simple say people. Couples and single fems are just as entitled and arrogant in the same quantities

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I love the mad hedonism of a good night in a club, and being able to talk to a lady or a couple, have a laugh and flirt, and have the opportunity to take it further.

As a polite guy do struggle with the very occasional randomly rude couple in a club. I also hate being treated as a cock on legs, I like to chat with people, and have a genuine laugh.

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

The best is becoming friends with people who also love sex without all the moral constrictions of the conventional social construct.

The worst is being pre-judged as being somehow dodgy because I'm a single guy in a situation where I cannot accommodate at present.

Sometimes life's experiences leave you in a situation not conducive to being able to play at home and it's unfair to judge guys without full knowledge of all the facts of their circumstances.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"The best is becoming friends with people who also love sex without all the moral constrictions of the conventional social construct.

The worst is being pre-judged as being somehow dodgy because I'm a single guy in a situation where I cannot accommodate at present.

Sometimes life's experiences leave you in a situation not conducive to being able to play at home and it's unfair to judge guys without full knowledge of all the facts of their circumstances."

Agree , there are an enormous number of single ladies that can't accommodate due to families etc and it's never an issue ..

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

The social aspect of meeting new friends,being yourself instead of hiding away and having a bit of craic with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best, is the freedom to wear underwear in a club and have naughty open conversation.

Worst

Men thinking you will Shag anyone as your on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best is mixing with like minded people and holding a adult conversation about swinging without the nudge nudge wink wink brigade, worst is being a single guy most will hardly give you the time of day, minority ruining it for the majority, we’re not all morons. Jim"

Well said Jim

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By *igh PinkCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

The best is for us going to clubs and parties and meeting people with the same views chatting about all the different aspects of swinging and how it works for everyone, we have met couples and singles who have now become friends being able to buy and dress in sexual attire along with the rumoured aids and everyone is as one the worst was in the early days of people not turning up hence we use clubs and parties mostley.

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By *reasyMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Personally I think swinging fun brings out the very best in some people (couples or singles) and the very worst in others.

That’s leaving to the side the fakes and the “let’s tease for fun” ones

The time consuming part is finding the great ones

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"We've had some great meets with single guys (as our pics testify), so this is not really a single guy bashing thread, of course some can be total a-holes and

we're sure there are plenty of female fakes and wannabes our there too.

So more positive please.

PDx"

We need to just check.

If we were to speak about the worst things on Fab, we need to say it in a positive way?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

The best form the swinging it keeps our sex life super change not usual here but we have sex 3/4 a week and also has enabled us to talk about sex good and bad.

Bad some people are very entitled creeps flowing women around clubs disgusting messages and people not understand or respecting boundaries.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I find some couples on her really rude and arrogant.They get in touch with you say that they are really interested then block you.

How rude is that!

If they have changed their mind they should tell you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've had some great meets with single guys (as our pics testify), so this is not really a single guy bashing thread, of course some can be total a-holes and

we're sure there are plenty of female fakes and wannabes our there too.

So more positive please.

PDx

We need to just check.

If we were to speak about the worst things on Fab, we need to say it in a positive way?"

Fair point!

Suppose we just didn't want it to become a single person bashing thread.

Of course, if we're asking for 'the worst' then there will no doubt be some negative chat...

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

The best thing…. Interacting with open minded sensual people of a similar mindset

The worst thing… The sheer amount of illiterate/entitled or plain idiot single guys (or married guys lying) that hound women and couples constantly and end up driving them to avoid all single men

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"The worst about swinging.

The sheer amount of rude, entitled, arrogant single men on here"

To be fair, we have only met well mannered, polite, decent guys at parties, gang bangs, clubs and holidays.

Only ever encountered problems at parties and clubs with couples, generally as a result of too much booze, generally the woman.

Coincidentally, that's our pet hate...pissed up people.

We have been lucky to have met so many brilliant people.

Just love the excitement and apprehension before meets...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The social side.

The morons

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Best; the freedom and feeling of liberation and the people who come with that.

Worst; The cock wobbles (zombies) who wander around in the clubs.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"The worst about swinging.

The sheer amount of rude, entitled, arrogant single men on here

To be fair, we have only met well mannered, polite, decent guys at parties, gang bangs, clubs and holidays.

Only ever encountered problems at parties and clubs with couples, generally as a result of too much booze, generally the woman.

Coincidentally, that's our pet hate...pissed up people.

We have been lucky to have met so many brilliant people.

Just love the excitement and apprehension before meets...

I think that's the difference...on here it's just keyboard nutters (and i think for some creating profiles and being rude is a hobby) , my experience in real life , clubs socials , holidays etc it's the complete opposite of the perception of some on here as regards the overwhelming majority of real life single gents...not the cyber variety.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

Best - meeting like-minded people, the social aspects and feeling of liberation

Worst - the amount of time that's spent on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst has to be the amount of competition by masses of other single males.

The best for me is the couples I've met that genuinely are happy to have and share amazing experiences with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best; the freedom and feeling of liberation and the people who come with that.

Worst; The cock wobbles (zombies) who wander around in the clubs."

Erm, excuse me, but my cock has never wobbled

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Best; the freedom and feeling of liberation and the people who come with that.

Worst; The cock wobbles (zombies) who wander around in the clubs.

Erm, excuse me, but my cock has never wobbled

Bloody auto-correct, cock wombles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best bit is meeting cool people you immediately get along with, all my meets have been nothing other than a blast. Immediate vibe and then … you know the rest

The worst bit is fake profiles. Either wasting time chatting or even guys pretending to be girls etc. Pointless for everyone

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