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By *erry2020888 OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

I met someone the other week who had lied about her age was 20 years old than she said. What would u do has anyone experienced similar

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By *eWillMakeYouSquirtCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Age is just a number we have had people younger and older and way older! If all party’s are happy bang on haha

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Same happened to me but what he didn't know is that I actually prefer older so he could have just been honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is something we find with older men alot they put pics up of 20 years ago when they were 50 put on there profile they are 50 and when they turn up nope they are deffo 70 and above there are loads and loads on here ....

i just send they on there way i cant be done with people who try and decive ...

theres one guy we know very well on fab who claims on his profile hes 53 we know for a fact hes 80 ish as he was talking to us at a club about how he fools people ..god know how he looks older than his real age ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can beat that ..... here is a funny but 100% true storey regarding age (some know this already)

A few years back I had been chatting to a really nice lady, cracking pictures etc and after about 4 weeks we decided to meet up near Hull , it was an Autumn evening and we agreed to meet up in a pub car park at first - she knew what car I had and its reg etc , so no surprise that she drove up to me straight away and parked up behind me , i watched her open her door and her sexy looking legs slide out of her car, she walked down the passenger side and slid into my car ........then when she looked at me is was confronted by a badly made up OLDER women at least 30 years older than her profile, who's first words where i kid you not "I'm here to help you redeem and become one of gods followers and repent your wicked sins" ....I genuinely started to laugh got out of my car and went around to open the door to help the old lady out and drove off

Beat that lol

J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can beat that ..... here is a funny but 100% true storey regarding age (some know this already)

A few years back I had been chatting to a really nice lady, cracking pictures etc and after about 4 weeks we decided to meet up near Hull , it was an Autumn evening and we agreed to meet up in a pub car park at first - she knew what car I had and its reg etc , so no surprise that she drove up to me straight away and parked up behind me , i watched her open her door and her sexy looking legs slide out of her car, she walked down the passenger side and slid into my car ........then when she looked at me is was confronted by a badly made up OLDER women at least 30 years older than her profile, who's first words where i kid you not "I'm here to help you redeem and become one of gods followers and repent your wicked sins" ....I genuinely started to laugh got out of my car and went around to open the door to help the old lady out and drove off

Beat that lol

J xx "

I went for a coffee at someone’s house. Her pictures were stunning, great body, gorgeous lips and smile etc. Got there to a badly lit red light house and was confronted by a woman who admitted to witchcraft - who didn’t have a tooth in her head. I wonder what happened to her lol. I drank the coffee and got out of there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to lie about age fifty six nice round number bit like me nice round lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got another one ABC........ which was not so funny ending.......

Cracking looking women, lovely "recent pics" who invited me to her house in Huddersfield - got there pulled up outsode a really horrid looking house, broken windows dirty curtains and this really dirty looking women stoot on the door step in a dressing gown - i stood at the end of her path, she confirmed i was at the right house, I just said "sorry but your not the same person I have been chatting with" she replied "yeah I am just tarted myself up for you after all its only sex" with that i turned and got back into my car with her ranting on at me....... she proceeded to stalk me on line on here

There are some funny folk around - I another far more serious event with MF couple off here where I had to involve the police lol

J x

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

If they make themselves younger it doesn't do them any favours because I'd look at their picture and think, they haven't aged well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get why so many people lie about age be who you are. I get so much of it it’s unbelievable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number we have had people younger and older and way older! If all party’s are happy bang on haha

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Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant see the point really ...

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

There was a guy on here a couple of years ago that had in his profile ‘if we meet up in a bar and you don’t look like your pics you are buying the drinks until you do’

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester


"There was a guy on here a couple of years ago that had in his profile ‘if we meet up in a bar and you don’t look like your pics you are buying the drinks until you do’ "

I've had that as my status before

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"There was a guy on here a couple of years ago that had in his profile ‘if we meet up in a bar and you don’t look like your pics you are buying the drinks until you do’

I've had that as my status before "

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand why some do it probably their own insecurities. All about confidence folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I got chatting to a 30yr old lady that's no longer on here.

Cutting a long story short we got on and arranged to meet.About a hour before the meet she messaged me telling me she still wanted to meet but had lied about her age as she was actually 46 but it was still her in her pictures but the pictures were from a few years ago.

I did feel deceived but told her we could still meet and if nothing happens then there's nothing lost.Anyway we met and she looked stunning and we got on really well.I just couldn't understand why she had a need to lie as she was gorgeous.I just don't understand some people's reasons for lieing as it will all come out if you do meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started chatting with a guy who pretended to be 44. Turned out he was 64. It really annoys me because I have age limits for a reason. I just blocked him

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I can perhaps understand , why some lie about age. Some think get more interest , meets ? I feel though it is a waste of time. You can found out blocked. My age is correct on profile. Yes could lower by years . Just not worth hassle.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I don’t lie about my age but put wrong date of birth down on profile to stop hackers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought everyone lies about their age on fab.

We don't.

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By *orny Couple100Couple
over a year ago

Purgatory

OMG, are we the only couple who put our age up so we look 'good for our age' didn't realise age was such an issue!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lie about my age... I am actually 35 but nobody would believe me, so...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never lied about my age on here but I genuinely get told I don't look my age on a regular basis.

It's actually a plus point for me so I'm not going to lie about it.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I've never lied about my age on here but I genuinely get told I don't look my age on a regular basis.

It's actually a plus point for me so I'm not going to lie about it. "

I'm the same.

I would much rather be a more youthful looking genuine 48, than pretend to be 38.

Much better for my ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a guy on here a couple of years ago that had in his profile ‘if we meet up in a bar and you don’t look like your pics you are buying the drinks until you do’

I've had that as my status before "

TBH if anyone uses dating apps that's the standard bio line on probably half the female profiles. I mean it's funny the first time you see it....

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

I (he) tells people "I'm 85 you know" just so they say "you don't look a day over 70!" (I had a big paper round as a lad)

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

Its not just age people lie about

On here

Too many lyin 2timin shits on here shaggin behind their own partners behind their back

, it worse when you even state on your profile that THE PARTNER DOESNT EVEN kNOW YOUR ON HER

Just shows alot of you have no respect to ur own partners

But its different if u go out n kop off

Too much desperation on here

You spoil it for all honedt single people

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

It's regular occurrence, people lying about age on here. Most recent- he told me he lied about his age when we met as otherwise "nobody would talk to him on Fab".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely some sort of video call would nip this issue in the bud?

Kik, Skype, Snapchat etc all offer the facility. I know loads on here think they're the devil for some reason but they're all free and they serve a purpose!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely some sort of video call would nip this issue in the bud?

Kik, Skype, Snapchat etc all offer the facility. I know loads on here think they're the devil for some reason but they're all free and they serve a purpose!!!

"

simple really we dont use any apps phones emails anything that others can minipulate or record from .... more to the point why not just stop lying ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand why some do it probably their own insecurities. All about confidence folks"

so because some one is insecure its ok ??

even thou people have an age range for a reason?

but no poor old mr who 70 is ok to lie so he can get a woman in her 50s ...no deffo not on .....and the other way round to not just men..

i do however understand those's that put a year or 2 on/off so the detectives of the site cant figuer out stuff thats totally fine but 5 ..10 ..20 ...even 30 is not funny be who you really are or dont nother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand why some do it probably their own insecurities. All about confidence folks"

Most on here do it to get round age filters

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I met someone the other week who had lied about her age was 20 years old than she said. What would u do has anyone experienced similar

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I've met two women who both purported to be 51, but turned out to be much older in real life. One was 65, and when she opened her front door to me, I first thought I had got the wrong address, then nearly asked if her daughter was in

In each case, I politely said they weren't for me. These days, when messaging through here, I make a point of stating my age is correct on my profile, which gives the person I'm chatting with the opportunity to 'come clean' if for some reason, her profile age may be incorrect........

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I understand why some do it probably their own insecurities. All about confidence folks

Most on here do it to get round age filters "

This is true; I know one guy who was 44 years old for about 6 years! He's 54 now, but still has 49 on his profile.....

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"When I first joined I got chatting to a 30yr old lady that's no longer on here.

Cutting a long story short we got on and arranged to meet.About a hour before the meet she messaged me telling me she still wanted to meet but had lied about her age as she was actually 46 but it was still her in her pictures but the pictures were from a few years ago.

I did feel deceived but told her we could still meet and if nothing happens then there's nothing lost.Anyway we met and she looked stunning and we got on really well.I just couldn't understand why she had a need to lie as she was gorgeous.I just don't understand some people's reasons for lying as it will all come out if you do meet."

Yep, the date on the bottom of profile pics is the date of the upload in here, and people do 'recycle' old pics. A simple "Are your profile pics recent?" is a good question

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The principal lesson to be gained from the above is that socials or clubs are the best way to meet like-minded singles and couples; everyone likes to present themselves in the most favourable light, but some take this to an extreme!

If profile photos were published with metadata attached, that is the date on which the pic was taken, this might provide an additional check.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Thought everyone lies about their age on fab.

We don't. "

I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get why so many people lie about age be who you are. I get so much of it it’s unbelievable "

So they can fit into age criteria of some cpls.

We met a cpl for social was 45 yr Fab age, turned out to be defo over 50. Still good looking .

After a year ,they closed their profile. Now back again after two years and still under 50 . Lol

We generally add 5 years to what's put on Fab .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely some sort of video call would nip this issue in the bud?

Kik, Skype, Snapchat etc all offer the facility. I know loads on here think they're the devil for some reason but they're all free and they serve a purpose!!!

simple really we dont use any apps phones emails anything that others can minipulate or record from .... more to the point why not just stop lying ???"

Erm because some people get some sort of sad pleasure from trolling and timewasting. In an ideal world it wouldn't happen but it does so you have to take precautions to ensure you're not the one getting catfished/duped/shafted etc. I think it's absolutely pathetic but it's way too idealistic to think people would just stop faking shit because the other party might feel aggrieved/hurt by it.

BTW who uses emails to converse these days apart from for business or buying stuff etc online?!

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By *isbehavingWoman
over a year ago

Huntly

I met a man in every day life, not on here. We fell in love, had two children together, then I discovered he had been lying about his age the whole time. He’d said he was 15 years older. Not a big deal, but in actual fact he was 25 years older. 4 years older than my dad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a man in every day life, not on here. We fell in love, had two children together, then I discovered he had been lying about his age the whole time. He’d said he was 15 years older. Not a big deal, but in actual fact he was 25 years older. 4 years older than my dad! "

How could you not tell with that much age knocked off?…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a man in every day life, not on here. We fell in love, had two children together, then I discovered he had been lying about his age the whole time. He’d said he was 15 years older. Not a big deal, but in actual fact he was 25 years older. 4 years older than my dad!

How could you not tell with that much age knocked off?… "

Not to mention his passport, driving licence etc! Surely there must have been a time when you needed to enter his age for something as verification?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont lie about age and if I got on with someone then there age wouldn't bother me....but hey im chatting with a 27yr old so hey ho lol x

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By *ripodius WillyusMan
over a year ago

Here and there

I fail to see point putting false age more about vanity of the person

More important things in life to worry if someone lies on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age doesn’t bother me too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely some sort of video call would nip this issue in the bud?

Kik, Skype, Snapchat etc all offer the facility. I know loads on here think they're the devil for some reason but they're all free and they serve a purpose!!!

simple really we dont use any apps phones emails anything that others can minipulate or record from .... more to the point why not just stop lying ???

Erm because some people get some sort of sad pleasure from trolling and timewasting. In an ideal world it wouldn't happen but it does so you have to take precautions to ensure you're not the one getting catfished/duped/shafted etc. I think it's absolutely pathetic but it's way too idealistic to think people would just stop faking shit because the other party might feel aggrieved/hurt by it.

BTW who uses emails to converse these days apart from for business or buying stuff etc online?! "

as said we will carry on with what works for us no phones no apps no emails just fab or what ever site we are on very rare we get let down been on the scene 28 years and fab since the beging less than 10 no shows in all that time and a really bad stalker incident and the odd few who have lied age/size n stuff ...

we see the ones that use the apps on here makes no difference as we still see them moaning about no shows and other ..

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I met someone the other week who had lied about her age was 20 years old than she said. What would u do has anyone experienced similar

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Your age preference is 18-99 so surely she fitted that ?

Appreciate she shouldn't have added 20 years but as she's still within your range what's the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to us. We met a couple, for a social, who had obviously shaved 10 years off!

But that's one of the reasons for having a social first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me when i was just new on here

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By *isbehavingWoman
over a year ago

Huntly


"I met a man in every day life, not on here. We fell in love, had two children together, then I discovered he had been lying about his age the whole time. He’d said he was 15 years older. Not a big deal, but in actual fact he was 25 years older. 4 years older than my dad!

How could you not tell with that much age knocked off?… "

I thought he looked his age, maybe a bit older. I never suspected he’d shaved 10 years off though.

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By *isbehavingWoman
over a year ago

Huntly


"I met a man in every day life, not on here. We fell in love, had two children together, then I discovered he had been lying about his age the whole time. He’d said he was 15 years older. Not a big deal, but in actual fact he was 25 years older. 4 years older than my dad!

How could you not tell with that much age knocked off?…

Not to mention his passport, driving licence etc! Surely there must have been a time when you needed to enter his age for something as verification? "

Never suspected a thing. When I registered my babies he lied, when we registered at the doctors he lied, he didn’t have a passport either. His workmates had a party for his 50th, and as far as I knew, it was his 40th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 41.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I met someone the other week who had lied about her age was 20 years old than she said. What would u do has anyone experienced similar

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I met a man who was clearly closer to 60 rather the 48yrs he had stated. He was also 5ft 8 and not 6ft 3. I said hello and goodbye in the same breath. I was annoyed that he had wasted my time but much more annoyed at the girl I knew who had verified him as genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age isn’t exact on here….it used to be, but now it’s out…by just a little….as people genuinely try to find me on social media…OFTEN and my age can be seen on there…and so because of this nothing is entirely accurate…not trying to fool anyone, merely keeping the stalkers at bay…and yes, there are plenty of them. Even my location is inaccurate….not miles away, but not Durham

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I can kinda get why you might say 39 instead of 40, the psychological effect, but pretending to be a vastly dofferent age just seems pointless. At the end of the day if I find someone attractive and we click, then that's more important than their age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met someone the other week who had lied about her age was 20 years old than she said. What would u do has anyone experienced similar

I met a man who was clearly closer to 60 rather the 48yrs he had stated. He was also 5ft 8 and not 6ft 3. I said hello and goodbye in the same breath. I was annoyed that he had wasted my time but much more annoyed at the girl I knew who had verified him as genuine."

Nothing worse than that x

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By *orthmanMan
over a year ago

Kendal

I wanted to enter 'Stone' for my Age but Fab doesn't allow that. And I used to live in the Neander Valley of Germany until I got kicked out by the Cro-Magnons.

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