FabSwingers.com forum: Softer meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Curious to see if anyone enjoys softer meets, meets for fun but without going all the way?

Excuse the openness but sometimes I get the urge to just finger someone until they orgasm and that’s it, or eat them out. Make it all about them for a bit and that’s the meet. Maybe even softer, just some kissing and touching.

Everyone seems to be here for full blown meets which I understand is the norm but seeing who’s about that likes to take things slower, or just have a softer play initially

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We're soft swing only.

Quite a few couples are, not so sure about singles

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

"We're soft swing only.

Quite a few couples are, not so sure about singles "

I'm single and am happy with soft swinging. There's more to sex than cumming and more to swinging than sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to see if anyone enjoys softer meets, meets for fun but without going all the way?

Everyone seems to be here for full blown meets which I understand is the norm but seeing who’s about that likes to take things slower, or just have a softer play initially "

I totally agree. Love the exploration.

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By *esmdMan
over a year ago

Woodhall Spa

I Like to soft swing prefer it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer it

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

We are soft swing only combined with erotic photography. It is not very popular on here because as pointed out, most people want full sex. We have been doing it for about 20 years now and have done literally hundreds of sessions - mostly with men.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

That would suit me fine, a nice gentle introduction with no pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We soft swing prefer to be together and be watched

If comfortable would invite for more

Becus we are so in love it’s hard to get the right people or person to do this with

But also we like the horny ness of others watching us

And want to give others pleasure too

Xxxxx

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I don't think full sex is necessary in all play meets but find too many just want to jump straight into in I like the build up of chatting and a social before things go further

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By *boro_cpleCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Our first meets were all like this some of the best meets we had!

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By *boro_cpleCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I don't think full sex is necessary in all play meets but find too many just want to jump straight into in I like the build up of chatting and a social before things go further"

Agree with this the preface of expectation can sometimes be a turn off... Build up is definitely a bonus!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We soft swing prefer to be together and be watched

If comfortable would invite for more

Becus we are so in love it’s hard to get the right people or person to do this with

But also we like the horny ness of others watching us

And want to give others pleasure too

Xxxxx"

That’s something I would love to try! Being newer to meets as we’re now moving out of covid, I want to know where my boundaries and comfort levels are so would love to watch and then join if comfortable etc.

Everyone seems too experienced and know what they want!

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

We have met some really interesting people too and done all sorts of photo sessions which included motorbikes, boats, planes - yes planes and the usual snooker table of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think full sex is necessary in all play meets but find too many just want to jump straight into in I like the build up of chatting and a social before things go further

Agree with this the preface of expectation can sometimes be a turn off... Build up is definitely a bonus!"

Build up and connection seem to make it seem much better!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We soft swing prefer to be together and be watched

If comfortable would invite for more

Becus we are so in love it’s hard to get the right people or person to do this with

But also we like the horny ness of others watching us

And want to give others pleasure too

Xxxxx

Everyone seems too experienced and know what they want! "

Shame you so far away from us ha

Xxxxx

Try start going the clubs then and just watch there’s loads of couples who love just being watched in there xxxx

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

"I don't think full sex is necessary in all play meets but find too many just want to jump straight into in I like the build up of chatting and a social before things go further

Agree with this the preface of expectation can sometimes be a turn off... Build up is definitely a bonus!"

Totally I like to get to know people and know that I feel comfortable with them,I think that the social side can be just as enjoyable and the build to a first kiss, I don't like the pressure of a "wham bam thank you mam" type meet I find things much more fun when you're relaxed rather than the pressure of having to perform

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We met a couple for soft swing a few years ago and it was very enjoyable.We would definitely do it again with the right couple.

M and M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to see if anyone enjoys softer meets, meets for fun but without going all the way?

Everyone seems to be here for full blown meets which I understand is the norm but seeing who’s about that likes to take things slower, or just have a softer play initially "

Yep. That would be fine with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We met a couple for soft swing a few years ago and it was very enjoyable.We would definitely do it again with the right couple.

M and M "

What did it entail? I’m curious how softer meets play out

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"We met a couple for soft swing a few years ago and it was very enjoyable.We would definitely do it again with the right couple.

M and M

What did it entail? I’m curious how softer meets play out "

Pretty much everything except penetration.

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

Soft swing can also be much softer than that. My wife snogs with the right men and wanks them off. It very often doesn't go further than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I always want full sex, even on first meets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had my best Fab meet doing just that. All the fun without the full sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are sometimes occaions where it is right for a Softer first meet and nothing wrong in a bit of tactile connection , kissing/gentle grope etc - in its way that leads to you both/all deciding if you want more

The flip side is that if you have engaged in a mutual chat about prospects of meeting up for sex and done of your normal checking other out so to speak, then getting naked and have sex would feel right

Just an opinion

J xx

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By *eachboy123Man
over a year ago

Warrington

Soft swing can be just as fulfilling as full sex

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By *leanandkeenMan
over a year ago

jarrow

Soft swing can be very erotic especially if you are both comfortable with no further action. I’d imagine if the lady wants a soft swing and the guys pushing for more it would kill the mood

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Soft swing can be very erotic especially if you are both comfortable with no further action. I’d imagine if the lady wants a soft swing and the guys pushing for more it would kill the mood"

Like with anything, there will always be the select few that completely ruin it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re only soft swing, each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We’re only soft swing, each to their own

What do your meets entail?

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

I quite like a cheeky soft meet, a little bit of fingering and some oral it’s naughty but nice

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Soft swing, better than no swing st all right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a couple who were in their own catagory. They played as a couple but only the female did full penetrative sex. The male half of the couple did all but penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a great way to start. Meets can sometimes be daunting with a lack of chemistry. If you make your first meet with the person in question a soft swing scenario and see where it leads, I can promise you the next meet will feel 100 times better.

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By *hisismeXXXMan
over a year ago

Welsh Wales

I don’t like to pre-empt anything in meets and just go with the flow.

There have been occasions I’ve happily enjoyed a meet without full sex on my behalf, focussing on others.

Particularly bi MMF, there can be so much going on. I used to meet a bi couple close to me regularly and it wasn’t unusual for me to not have penetrative sex but we always enjoyed.

Quite happy sharing him and having him cum over the two of us then, after we’ve cleaned up it’s my turn to to be treated by the two of them. Or I’d just lend a helping hand to them while they fucked.

On other occasions I’d be at it like a rabbit.

All depends on the mood.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Only soft play and oral for us. No ones filled out a complaint form yet

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Certainly don't go all the way with all my meets! Never on a first meeting, It's good to know someone and a spark helps if you meet regular. But also each to their own!

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

We like and only seek soft play...

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

I’ve had a few soft meets actually quite enjoyed them too.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We are a full swap couple but actually I quite like the idea of sometimes just doing soft swap. Would be nice to have social and play with no rush to get to sex. It’s all about different experiences and it would soon get boring for us if every meet went the same way.

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By *goodlengthMan
over a year ago

near Trowbridge

I believe that the mind is the biggest sex organ and whilst it gets exercised during full sex meets, it’s the softer side that are often the more fulfilling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are soft at the moment

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By *attingtonWoman
over a year ago

Knottingley

I prefer soft meets- less pressure and more mentally exciting

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

We are soft only as the wife says we need to keep something back for each other.

And soft meets can be just as good as full swap.

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We are a soft swap couple. Happy to do most things but not full sex. Made some great friends over the years and had loads of fun.

Harder to find couples or single ladies who enjoy the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy watching and being watched.

Very erotic.

Full on fucking is not essential to achieve a good orgasm. Tease the mind aswell

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By *stonMTMan
over a year ago

cleveland

Can be intense playing and teasing and very erotica too love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few guys now where all that's happened is I've given them a blow job and made them cum. However I do like to go all the way most of the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a soft meet too…. Little flirting and cheek and sometimes just watching and playing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds perfect to me but from what I've seen on here most ladies seem to be in a rush to get fucked

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

"Sounds perfect to me but from what I've seen on here most ladies seem to be in a rush to get fucked "

In my experience it's the opposite few men will do a social without expecting it to go further there and then, I've been accused of being a time waster for wanting a no promise of play social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds perfect to me but from what I've seen on here most ladies seem to be in a rush to get fucked

In my experience it's the opposite few men will do a social without expecting it to go further there and then, I've been accused of being a time waster for wanting a no promise of play social"

Hmm see I would like to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My most exciting meet yet was my first, a fingering in the woods, I came sooo hard I was quite overwhelmed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft meets are good with us, they can actually be more fun and leave you with a little more anticipation for later when things might go further

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Sounds like a fun meet. Everyone should have their boundaries respected!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swing takes the pressure off,i have met some couples who enjoy it better if they know they are not going to be pushed into anything they are not happy with .Anyway it can be so much more erotic with teasing and touching .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’re only soft swing, each to their own

What do your meets entail?"

Everything but sex basically that’s purely with our own partners but I think everyone has their own version of soft swop.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s my preference for a first meet, but most of my messages come from guys who are going to ‘fuck my brains out’

I do enjoy some anal play, but that can come from fingers or tongue, as the only guys sticking anything else up there needs to have my trust and be experienced.

So soft play in which both of us are satisfied afterwards can lead on to more later.

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By *areToShareCouple
over a year ago

Bingham

Soft swing ..that's like being given a trifle and then told you can only eat the jelly.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Happy to play soft amazing what you can do with just your tongue alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soft swing ..that's like being given a trifle and then told you can only eat the jelly.

Hey what's wrong with jelly?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Soft swing ..that's like being given a trifle and then told you can only eat the jelly.

Hey what's wrong with jelly?"

I love jelly and blancmange (yes I know blancmange is very divisive).

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