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"I would love to see you out nothing like a bit of public humiliation" Me too…. Nothing better than being seen or recognised as cuck | |||
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"I must admit that when I’m in chastity I tend to go to the cubicle unless I’m specifically told to use the urinal. I love being humiliated in public but not in a way that could offend or really shock vanilla people and I think a lot of men would be shocked to see a man in a cage. I appreciate that I’m not actually doing anything wrong as I’m free to wear a cage when instructed to and that’s why I use the urinal when I’m told to but I try to consider other people as much as possible. I always imagine how my dad would feel if he noticed someone at the urinal next to him wearing one, it would wreck his head. To be honest, it’s more humiliating for me to piss at a urinal without a cage on as it fully exposes how tiny my cock is. A Dom I used to serve told me I always had to rotate my body slightly towards anyone stood next to me at the urinal so that they could see how tiny my dick is if they were to look. He also used to like walking up next to me at the urinal pretending he didn’t know me and start making comments about my tiny dick, he often had the other men in there laughing as he had a very sharp wit. " Yes I get you when you say some of that… I love public humiliation… but I wouldn’t be flashing to vanilla people or try to cause offence. | |||
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"I must admit that when I’m in chastity I tend to go to the cubicle unless I’m specifically told to use the urinal. I love being humiliated in public but not in a way that could offend or really shock vanilla people and I think a lot of men would be shocked to see a man in a cage. I appreciate that I’m not actually doing anything wrong as I’m free to wear a cage when instructed to and that’s why I use the urinal when I’m told to but I try to consider other people as much as possible. I always imagine how my dad would feel if he noticed someone at the urinal next to him wearing one, it would wreck his head. To be honest, it’s more humiliating for me to piss at a urinal without a cage on as it fully exposes how tiny my cock is. A Dom I used to serve told me I always had to rotate my body slightly towards anyone stood next to me at the urinal so that they could see how tiny my dick is if they were to look. He also used to like walking up next to me at the urinal pretending he didn’t know me and start making comments about my tiny dick, he often had the other men in there laughing as he had a very sharp wit. Yes I get you when you say some of that… I love public humiliation… but I wouldn’t be flashing to vanilla people or try to cause offence. " Most vanilla people would be mortified and never understand the idea of public humiliation let alone wearing a cock cage… so your right there as well. | |||
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" Most vanilla people would be mortified and never understand the idea of public humiliation let alone wearing a cock cage… so your right there as well. " I think pubic humiliation in front of vanilla people can be ok as long as there isn’t a sexual element to it. That Dom I mentioned before wouldn’t let me sit down in public so I’d have to stand next to him while he ate (I wasn’t allowed to eat in public either), stand up for the duration of long train journeys, I wasn’t allowed to travel in a car because I’d have to sit down if I did, he even used to take me to the cinema and we’d go to the back row so I could stay standing during the film. I used to get some weird looks and could see people talking about me but I think they just thought I was either a bit weird or had some kind of back injury and I don’t think I shocked or offended anyone | |||
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"it would be impossible to piss at the urinals with a cage .... anyone who wears a cage would know this as you would make a compleate mess your trousers would be covered in pee hence guys who wear a cage / chasity alway sit to pee or ask too take the cage off.... even if you sit to pee youll need plenty off loo roll to dry up down there after so its always sit down anyway the saying in the cuck world is only men stand to pee cucks sit "That’s wasn’t the case for me at all. I had a plastic one that had quite a large opening at the end to piss through. | |||
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"ok if you say so ......" I also was able to piss at urinal…. I never fully fill cage so it would trickle out nicely !! | |||
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"well i know its a massive talk about thing on all the chasity and cuckold forums and never seen one post yet of guys not having problem + also my hubs my cuck but if you both say you can then who am i to say ??" I’m sure everyone’s different and of course down to cock size within the actual cage. | |||
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"well i know its a massive talk about thing on all the chasity and cuckold forums and never seen one post yet of guys not having problem + also my hubs my cuck but if you both say you can then who am i to say ??" I’ve just googled it and the first forum I went to they were talking about being able to piss at the urinal with certain cages on. Depends how close a fit the cage is I guess and how big the opening is. Maybe being circumcised helps as well. | |||
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"Lol you deserve to piss all over yourselves it adds to the humiliation " Haha, if I was told to piss all over myself I would Sir and I’d deserve the humiliation. I have a private picture on here of me wearing a pair of wet panties that I’ve pissed in, would you like me to add it to my public pictures for you and everyone else to see Sir? | |||
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"it would be impossible to piss at the urinals with a cage .... anyone who wears a cage would know this as you would make a compleate mess your trousers would be covered in pee hence guys who wear a cage / chasity alway sit to pee or ask too take the cage off.... even if you sit to pee youll need plenty off loo roll to dry up down there after so its always sit down anyway the saying in the cuck world is only men stand to pee cucks sit "Exactly this. | |||
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"it would be impossible to piss at the urinals with a cage .... anyone who wears a cage would know this as you would make a compleate mess your trousers would be covered in pee hence guys who wear a cage / chasity alway sit to pee or ask too take the cage off.... even if you sit to pee youll need plenty off loo roll to dry up down there after so its always sit down anyway the saying in the cuck world is only men stand to pee cucks sit
Exactly this. "As a cuck I have been made to sit while peeing for years now - no longer even think about using a urinal. If I’m caged I bring wet paper towels and wipe myself clean after - it can get wet as I don’t reach the end of cage for the hole to line up. | |||
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"Although i have had one cage i could pee in standing up if everything was aligned right in the cage, it is way safer to sit and pee. These days however, the very small cage i wear makes even siting a little tricky and i have to make sure i aim downwards with toilet paper in hand ready to pat things dry after. I support no shock suprises for public, but one little thing i used to have to watch when i had an external lock on the cage was it giving a little tap or two on the cage itself as you sit down." The clink of the lock on a steel cage as you walk is always a give away when wearing loose clothing - so I hear  | |||
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"it would be impossible to piss at the urinals with a cage .... anyone who wears a cage would know this as you would make a compleate mess your trousers would be covered in pee hence guys who wear a cage / chasity alway sit to pee or ask too take the cage off.... even if you sit to pee youll need plenty off loo roll to dry up down there after so its always sit down anyway the saying in the cuck world is only men stand to pee cucks sit "Not a cuck but sit anyway and some religens sit to per. | |||
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"Sorry to ask, but is anyone able to explain the whole caged cuck thing? I get why someone would like controlling in this way, but what benefit is derived by the wearer? Apologies, I'm sure you either get it or don't but I'd be grateful if someone explained the dynamic. Many thanks. " Not really a cuck but the benefits for have been. 1. IT removes any focus I might have on myself and my own pleasure and places it squarely on my partners pleasure. I can be a far more attentive person this way and love the submissive feelings. 2. The almost constant state arrousal is good. I have loads more energy and when I do cum after a long period of denial it is always very intense. I find I will be able to cum a fairly large load 2 - 3 times very closely together. 3. Mental orgasms. Wouldn't believe it myself had I not experienced it but has a partner ever said that although they maybe never physically came themselves they still really enjoyed the experience and were very satisfied at giving you a good time? I can experience what I can only describe as a mental orgasm knowing my partner is having one and be very satisfied with that outcome. There are a few examples for you and although it seems horrendous to be denied after a week or 2 your hormones settle down and level off so whilst you do feel ready to go at a moment's notice your not desperately humping everything in sight either. | |||
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"Sorry to ask, but is anyone able to explain the whole caged cuck thing? I get why someone would like controlling in this way, but what benefit is derived by the wearer? Apologies, I'm sure you either get it or don't but I'd be grateful if someone explained the dynamic. Many thanks. Not really a cuck but the benefits for have been. 1. IT removes any focus I might have on myself and my own pleasure and places it squarely on my partners pleasure. I can be a far more attentive person this way and love the submissive feelings. 2. The almost constant state arrousal is good. I have loads more energy and when I do cum after a long period of denial it is always very intense. I find I will be able to cum a fairly large load 2 - 3 times very closely together. 3. Mental orgasms. Wouldn't believe it myself had I not experienced it but has a partner ever said that although they maybe never physically came themselves they still really enjoyed the experience and were very satisfied at giving you a good time? I can experience what I can only describe as a mental orgasm knowing my partner is having one and be very satisfied with that outcome. There are a few examples for you and although it seems horrendous to be denied after a week or 2 your hormones settle down and level off so whilst you do feel ready to go at a moment's notice your not desperately humping everything in sight either. " thanks for explaining  | |||
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" 1. IT removes any focus I might have on myself and my own pleasure and places it squarely on my partners pleasure. I can be a far more attentive person this way and love the submissive feelings. 2. The almost constant state arrousal is good. I have loads more energy and when I do cum after a long period of denial it is always very intense. I find I will be able to cum a fairly large load 2 - 3 times very closely together. 3. Mental orgasms. Wouldn't believe it myself had I not experienced it but has a partner ever said that although they maybe never physically came themselves they still really enjoyed the experience and were very satisfied at giving you a good time? I can experience what I can only describe as a mental orgasm knowing my partner is having one and be very satisfied with that outcome. There are a few examples for you and although it seems horrendous to be denied after a week or 2 your hormones settle down and level off so whilst you do feel ready to go at a moment's notice your not desperately humping everything in sight either. " Completely agree with these and a couple of points i'd add. When you are playing with your partner, if you are locked and they are controlling the key, you will not only focus on them more, when they tease or play with you i found you really focus in on those activities much more, they become way more intense as you don't know if that is all you are going to get stimulus wise. The second, is it really can help the partner enjoy their sexual pleasure with you as they don't need to worry about that moment when the tables turn and the male starts to look for penetrative sex as their libido has hit that point. The lady can tease and enjoy the foreplay with no pressure of that occuring whilst she holds the key. | |||
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"So recently been in chastity for prolonged period… using loo at home never a problem…. In public a diff story….. sometimes get stares and often find myself rushing for cubicle….. any other cuck or sub guys in chastity with stories or info on same subject…. " If I was standing next to you at the urinal I'd smile & touch your cage | |||
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"So recently been in chastity for prolonged period… using loo at home never a problem…. In public a diff story….. sometimes get stares and often find myself rushing for cubicle….. any other cuck or sub guys in chastity with stories or info on same subject…. " I’m quite easy going with people knowing I’m a cuck and although I’ve never deliberately shown my cage off while having a pee, guys have looked over and commented on it it the odd time, asking if I’m a cuck and saying things like ‘good on you’ or ‘well done’. I think the world is far more open to the idea of cucks and hotwives these days. | |||
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"Ohhhh I so want a little sub cuck "You sound like the perfect partner xx | |||
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"I might sound stupid here but if you are wearing a cage what happens if you get an erection" It's a sensible question. So, it depends on the cage and the strength of the erection. Most cages you see are ball trap devices with a base ring and cage that holds the cock in a tube or tube like end. There are also belts with cup type arrangements but i'll cover ball trap devices here. When the penis gets erect, it will push against the tube it is in, pushing it away from the body, the base ring is held back by the balls. So depending on how things go, either the erection is contained inside the body or the cage is pushed out before it is caught by the balls. The latter can get a little uncomfortable but the body naturally regulates itself and soon softens and draws the erection back in before softening completely. Smaller cages make it more likely the pushing out won't occur. Hope that helps. | |||
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"I might sound stupid here but if you are wearing a cage what happens if you get an erection It's a sensible question. So, it depends on the cage and the strength of the erection. Most cages you see are ball trap devices with a base ring and cage that holds the cock in a tube or tube like end. There are also belts with cup type arrangements but i'll cover ball trap devices here. When the penis gets erect, it will push against the tube it is in, pushing it away from the body, the base ring is held back by the balls. So depending on how things go, either the erection is contained inside the body or the cage is pushed out before it is caught by the balls. The latter can get a little uncomfortable but the body naturally regulates itself and soon softens and draws the erection back in before softening completely. Smaller cages make it more likely the pushing out won't occur. Hope that helps. "Thank you | |||
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"it would be impossible to piss at the urinals with a cage .... anyone who wears a cage would know this as you would make a compleate mess your trousers would be covered in pee hence guys who wear a cage / chasity alway sit to pee or ask too take the cage off.... even if you sit to pee youll need plenty off loo roll to dry up down there after so its always sit down anyway the saying in the cuck world is only men stand to pee cucks sit "It's not accurate to say it is impossible. I'm permanently caged and although I've had cages where it has been impossible to use a urinal without everyone in the room getting sprayed, my current cage (as pictured on our profile) allows me to use a stand up urinal without drama. I'm quite happy for the guy stood next to me to see me caged. If he's looking, he's looking for a reason, right? At the same time I'm always careful not to upset or offend anyone. | |||
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