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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x

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By *ecret desire 2Man
over a year ago

South West

Hey I am definited interested if invite is extended

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x"

Have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x"

Next time ,invite male halves of cpls and see the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a strange one that as a single guy, I've never understood. You manage to get thru the messages and whatever selection criteria the couple have (which is understandable) and then ghost them? So,do they get so turned on over it and have a wank and lose the excitement or do they bottle it? Is it all fantasy and they are actually stuck indoors watching MOTD with the Mrs? God only knows what goes thru their minds.

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By *ayleedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

A lot are not single gus so carnt get out and also a few will bottle it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

last time we tried to organise one, we invited loads expecting 10 to turn up, all were keen and sent messages till the last min, must have been about 29, we wanted 10, 1 turned up, hope it goes better for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x"

Lose their bottle. Piss take tbh after people have organised a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they are A holes, I wish I could get invites, I certainly would turn up, I’d be at the door 24 hrs in advance ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just gangbangs, it's a standing joke at most town / city organised parties. 50 - 100 single blokes ask for details at most 5 turn up.

You need to be on this site to find genuine meets

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x"

I’d certainly show up to gangbang you!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Give them a chance, they’ve still got two days yet to turn up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always turn up if invited. It’s rude not to. Us singles rarely get invited sadly

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I had the same. 4 invited, 4 reserves, only one being there... I cancelled the hotel room at my own cost.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Do you meet them first for socials? I think if they show reliability for socials, you have a slightly higher attendance success at gangbangs. If I wanted 4, I'd have 10 potentials, with about 8 invites.

Agreed confirmation message on the morning, or they lose the invite and offered to another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the same. 4 invited, 4 reserves, only one being there... I cancelled the hotel room at my own cost.

"

Damn! I wouldn’t have missed that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the same. 4 invited, 4 reserves, only one being there... I cancelled the hotel room at my own cost.

"

I'd re-arrange if I were you...you'd have 2 this time, at least....??

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I think there are too many dreamers or guys that bottle it.

Last 1 I went to in Derby it was 4 invited and only I turned up. The couple were even chatting to the one guy by text he was saying he was in the bar of the hotel, and I went down with the hubby to look for him and he wasn’t there.

However I had a great night with them

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire and Hampshire


"I had the same. 4 invited, 4 reserves, only one being there... I cancelled the hotel room at my own cost.

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This is why we don't pay for hotels anymore, our money is better spent going to clubs where there is always the chance of a good gang bang

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x"

I have no idea why guys wouldn't turn up for a gang bang with you, I'd be there early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coz many guys are just fantasists and like the idea of stuff like that but don’t have the balls for it

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x"

Why not invite the same 6 guys that are fucking you in your photos, surely they have friends they could bring as well ?

Your in MK isn’t the Red Bull F1 team down the road, they have big pit crews

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had a fb who loved a gb I would in invite 30 guys and be lucky if even half showed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x"

Firstly, I do feel that some guys are fantasists.

Secondly, I feel there is a.lack of confidence in their own abilities, so bottle at last minute

Third, some just like the chase.

Four... How the fuck would anyone turn down a chance with you both

Hope next time, things go perfectly for you

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

Must be married and therefore never really could make it out on a weekend.

You have a great profile so anyone who is genuine would be mad to not turn up

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why dont they turn up? They get stage fright usually.

Most men like the idea of a group or gang fuck but when it becomes a reality a lot chicken out because the cannot cope with the competition. With being naked with other men. Being watched as they perform. Being found to be a liar after all the stories they told when chatting. Cock size comparisons etc etc.

Why agree and then backout? It's wank fodder until after by which time they are persuing another woman. If they have no group or GB veris don't ask them.

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By *ob sMan
over a year ago

southam

Because there all mouth and trousers and that why the genuine guys like me have a hard time

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By *anchestercreampieloversCouple
over a year ago

manchester

In our experience, Most guys are extremely turned on by the fantasy of a gang bang , but in reality they are scared of being watched, close contact with the other guys, not being able to preform, etc etc !!

That’s why we like to play with guys that are experienced in group sex & are comfortable with each other’s presence, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In our experience, Most guys are extremely turned on by the fantasy of a gang bang , but in reality they are scared of being watched, close contact with the other guys, not being able to preform, etc etc !!

That’s why we like to play with guys that are experienced in group sex & are comfortable with each other’s presence, x "

In some of my gb I held for my old fb I saw just that some guys couldn't get it up and would leave or just watch n wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (M) was once the only guy that turned up to a gangbang. I felt so bad for the woman - she had booked a hotel room, got dressed up, etc.

When I set up Slut's first gangbang I basically three-stage interviewed the guys but also set our expectations really low. Luckily they all turned up and we had a great time.

Though, Covid-willing, we prefer clubs nowadays.

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By *anchestercreampieloversCouple
over a year ago

manchester

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By *hestercplxxCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x"

Crazy , I would pay for an invite just to turn up and watch !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (M) was once the only guy that turned up to a gangbang. I felt so bad for the woman - she had booked a hotel room, got dressed up, etc.

When I set up Slut's first gangbang I basically three-stage interviewed the guys but also set our expectations really low. Luckily they all turned up and we had a great time.

Though, Covid-willing, we prefer clubs nowadays."

After id done a few successful gb I'd invite the guys that turned up and got full involved to any others I did after

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

I've never failed to turn up for a meet.

Just saying...

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

I wonder if it's the same single bloke who turns up to all these gang-bangs?

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

Maybe live out your gang bang dreams in a club/party setting. At least there'll be people there.

This seems to have always been a problem. Choose the right guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having ran these sort of events in the past - we found it best if you kept GB's etc just to those who you'd previously met and build up from there - it worked for me and my ex FB on here some time back

J xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, as this is only our 3rd. First one all 3 turned up

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill


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Your in MK isn’t the Red Bull F1 team down the road, they have big pit crews

"

Katie might want the GB to last longer than 1.9 seconds though (and they’re at Monza this weekend)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coz many guys are just fantasists and like the idea of stuff like that but don’t have the balls for it "

Not all of us. But the non shows are the ones that get us all a bad name. I still think fab should do a poss or neg section like e bay. Show everyone the people that let them down.

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

This is a problem for which rudness should be held to account.

When you meey, there is the potential to do verifications.

Why not do a verification that shows who was invited, who confirmed and who showed up.

Then people can see that there is a hostory of people who honour commitment and those who do not.

Organising a GB seems to be a painstaking task of advertising then selection, organising on the day, not to mention hotel costs etc.

If I say I will do something, then I will do my utmost to keep that promise.

I am mot proposing a name and shame or vitriolic, but simply those who do actually turn up are reflected as such and an invite to another event will be more likely.

Another idea is that men gather and set up an MMM+ profile for this particular activity and they self manage and agree protocol and actions if non attendance occurs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a problem for which rudness should be held to account.

When you meey, there is the potential to do verifications.

Why not do a verification that shows who was invited, who confirmed and who showed up.

Then people can see that there is a hostory of people who honour commitment and those who do not.

Organising a GB seems to be a painstaking task of advertising then selection, organising on the day, not to mention hotel costs etc.

If I say I will do something, then I will do my utmost to keep that promise.

I am mot proposing a name and shame or vitriolic, but simply those who do actually turn up are reflected as such and an invite to another event will be more likely.

Another idea is that men gather and set up an MMM+ profile for this particular activity and they self manage and agree protocol and actions if non attendance occurs."

This is almost what i mean. Feedback ratting like e bay. That way the person will show up as a timewaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the same. 4 invited, 4 reserves, only one being there... I cancelled the hotel room at my own cost.

Damn! I wouldn’t have missed that one "

but would you tho

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm just putting this out there ...if I was invited ...I would definitely cum

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

If you think a successful GB will be organised by putting a meet up and asking for “applications” it’s destined to fail. I have organised a few now(3-4 guys) and significant dialogue took place prior and as a result everyone showed.

I now have another profile on fab that I run called ‘two big guys’ ( actually 3 of us now ). offering 2-3 guy experience. Next MFM is on Tuesday.

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By *ailor45Man
over a year ago

truro

was he worth all the trouble ?

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think the guys who will turn up are those who have turned up to a gb before. If you are inviting guys who have never turned up to a gb before then I think it is likely that they will bottle it.

If you have an existing relationship (meet/social) with someone then I think they will be more likely to turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had three guys stand me up for a mini bang. Then arranged to meet another guy so I got some use out of the hotel room, he stood me up. This happened two more times so I was stood up 6 times in total. The guy who did show up send a photo of a dick that was not the dick he provided (totally cockfished) and lasted 4 minutes. You couldn't make this shit up lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I had three guys stand me up for a mini bang. Then arranged to meet another guy so I got some use out of the hotel room, he stood me up. This happened two more times so I was stood up 6 times in total. The guy who did show up send a photo of a dick that was not the dick he provided (totally cockfished) and lasted 4 minutes. You couldn't make this shit up lol"

Cockfished lol

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By *aul_j80Man
over a year ago

Bloxwich

This always happens it seems, a couple of months back a couple organised a gangbang in Surrey, they’d invited 6 guys including myself, the girlfriend was sexy, but only I turned up, well the gangbang ended up being a mfm, fun was had by all, but disappointing if group fun is what we were expecting.

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By *aul_j80Man
over a year ago

Bloxwich


"I had three guys stand me up for a mini bang. Then arranged to meet another guy so I got some use out of the hotel room, he stood me up. This happened two more times so I was stood up 6 times in total. The guy who did show up send a photo of a dick that was not the dick he provided (totally cockfished) and lasted 4 minutes. You couldn't make this shit up lol

Cockfished lol "

It wasn’t a cockfish but a tiddler

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


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Your in MK isn’t the Red Bull F1 team down the road, they have big pit crews

Katie might want the GB to last longer than 1.9 seconds though (and they’re at Monza this weekend)"

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By *triker0079Man
over a year ago

London

That sucks ... Some guys don't have the balls it seems.

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough


"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x"

Well, today's the day Katie and I hope all 4 guys turn up for you.

Please update us on what happens. I hope you have lots of fun xxx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I had one and all 8 turned up. It was organised by a friend and he knew all the men involved well. Think it is better to know and trust the men in advance rather than pick random men on here. Maybe women should start taking £50 from men beforehand and return it on the night when they turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x"

A lot of them get their satisfaction from the excitement of being invited but lack the nerves to attend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in MK today...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non shows drive me mad, if I say I'm going to turn up I do. There are so many people who talk but don't meet on here. It's a sex site, not the National Trust dating site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's the risk of covid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People just bottle it. I went to one a few years ago where the lady wanted 8 guys and 3 turned up, which by the looks of it is pretty decent turn out.

I think most guys get horny thinking about it, have a wank and get post nut clarity and then that’s them staying in for the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's the risk of covid. "

No. It's the fear of being naked with a bunch of other naked guys. Never been a problem for me, if there is a chance of fucking a willing woman I find attractive I do turn up. I'm a simple man, operated by one lever.

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By *69meMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x"

Wow! Fab profile!

I would love to attend one of your meets - either as a participant or as an official cleanup guy if you need one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x"

Ive organisers a few GB, best get a mobile number off the guys wanting to attend. That way you sort out the TW from the gen

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

So op

- did they all turn up? I’d love to know how it went!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !

Why do guys do that ?

Katie x

Next time ,invite male halves of cpls and see the difference "

100% this

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

Sneaks in and sits in the corner, how did it go OP we are all ears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sneaks in and sits in the corner, how did it go OP we are all ears. "

Not very well apparently

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By *rLibertineMan
over a year ago

North Suffolk

I went to one last week supposed to be 5 of us but ended up just 2 of us turning up - from sounds of the above these seems quite good!

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

If you are arranging a gangbang try speaking to someone who has arranged a few before, they know who will turn up every time and those who cry off at the last minute.

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