FabSwingers.com forum: Would you let a good friend have sex with your partner?

By *hestercplxx OP Couple
over a year ago

Chester

I was always a bit wary , but after me and my friend swopping naughty pics of our wives, we arranged a 3some with him , that everyone enjoyed. Carried on quite regular we all enjoyed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did his wife enjoy it as well?

I dont think i would ever want to get involved with anyone in a close friendship with either of us. Not worth the risk to the friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I definitely would

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

I’ve dropped wife pics with my best friend and it’s been good fun to talk about our sexy wives.

Mine plays but not with friends or any people we know.

His had an affair so it’s a little tender.

I fantasise about a threesome with my wife and him after the pub but it will never happen.

Eventually it’s sure to affect your relationship, surely?

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By *ilvermaleMan
over a year ago

Derry

I have done it with my good friend for years she alway wanted sex with me we had a threesome and she love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, the world is full of people to fuck, good friends are rare. It's not worth the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, with a good friend of 20+ years.

Having said that, he is bi and fucks both of us so it's a slightly different dynamic.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Sounds the perfect arrangement then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more concerned about the guys who say they swap/share pics of their wives.

It rarely sounds like the wives are aware

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more concerned about the guys who say they swap/share pics of their wives.

It rarely sounds like the wives are aware "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a no from me, and a no from him.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I'm more concerned about the guys who say they swap/share pics of their wives.

It rarely sounds like the wives are aware

Totally agree

Horrible behaviour

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By *ickyquimCouple
over a year ago

north west

No, sometimes it can mess up the dynamics of the friendship between you all.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Totally agreed

Get real messy real fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the thought of sharing MrsE with friends. But a tricky subject to bring up, and like other have said, could ruin the friendship

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Strangers are much safer in the long run

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside

We've done it, it was fun at the time but wouldn't do it now.

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By *tstillworksMan
over a year ago

Darlington

If my best friend asked me to have sex with his wife I already know the answer.

I’d probably say I’d think about it because I’d be too worried he’d think that I thought his wife wasn’t good enough or sexy enough or whatever if I said no right away.

Then on the flip side what if I said yes and she thought

Ooo

That was good and decided she wanted more but my friend only wanted it as a one off

Too many ‘what ifs’ for me to even consider saying yes.

I think whatever answer I gave him our friendship would definitely be somewhat different from that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If my best friend asked me to have sex with his wife I already know the answer.

I’d probably say I’d think about it because I’d be too worried he’d think that I thought his wife wasn’t good enough or sexy enough or whatever if I said no right away.

Then on the flip side what if I said yes and she thought

Ooo

That was good and decided she wanted more but my friend only wanted it as a one off

Too many ‘what ifs’ for me to even consider saying yes.

I think whatever answer I gave him our friendship would definitely be somewhat different from that point."

Brilliant points, but I feel the fantasy of MrsE with a friend is a lot more horny than with a stranger

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By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

No not for me! I know that mr would have no problem with it, but it really wouldn’t be good for me if he slept with one of my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah xx

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

It's how we started. But I don't think we would do it again.

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By *tstillworksMan
over a year ago

Darlington

"If my best friend asked me to have sex with his wife I already know the answer.

I’d probably say I’d think about it because I’d be too worried he’d think that I thought his wife wasn’t good enough or sexy enough or whatever if I said no right away.

Then on the flip side what if I said yes and she thought

Ooo

That was good and decided she wanted more but my friend only wanted it as a one off

Too many ‘what ifs’ for me to even consider saying yes.

I think whatever answer I gave him our friendship would definitely be somewhat different from that point.

Brilliant points, but I feel the fantasy of MrsE with a friend is a lot more horny than with a stranger "

Can I be your friend then

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

A step too far for me, even friends talk, so wouldn’t want to take the risk of losing the friend or being ‘the talk of the town’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to think no, that was pushing my boundaries. But actually now I think it would be nice to share my husband with a friend...

I have also become friends with woman on fab who I have shared him with

It's all good

Claire

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I'm not comfortable with the word 'let' for a start as it suggests ownership over a person. I certainly would not be happy if I discovered a partner was sharing pics of me with anyone without my knowledge.

As far as sharing partners with real world friends goes, it'd be a definite no for me. I prefer to keep the two sides of my life very separate, les potential for drama that way.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Wise opinion that

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

No chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife is having sex with the son of my best friend

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

"My wife is having sex with the son of my best friend"

There’s a song in there somewhere

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By *ildatnightCouple
over a year ago

leeds

No our private life is kept separate from our sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like it'd be better left as a fantasy

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We wouldn't go there. It would involve alot of trust and faith in others to keep this private, that's if you want to keep it that way. Anonymity takes the stress out of all that, we'll stick to strangers.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Let" her? She's ac autonomous human being. I don't control her.

And we've both had sex with friends. We're open about our lifestyle so if someone wants to, they usually feel it's OK to ask.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

No, I like my male friendships to be kept separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have enjoyed several MFF threesomes with a close female friend but we wouldn't make a habit of it xx

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Yes and they were at it for 3 years regular till sadly he moved out of town

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

There is a couple that I'm friends with and I've been having sex with the lady for almost as long as they have been a couple.

Normally get a text every few weeks from the husband asking if I would like a cup of tea.

Which seems to be the excepted code for, Come over and fuck my wife.

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

This is often where you find the illusive unicorn and have a MFF or FMF relationship, they tend to last longer than MFM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't have many friends and so wouldn't want to risk losing a friendship if things ended up going wrong.

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes I did.

Ended up being out first FFM

Was great fun need to do it again.

Mrs x

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Would absolutely love too. However most are attached and the logistics are virtually impossible. Still, it’s a fantasy

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

An old team mate (footy) is letting me smash his amazing wife

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

A female friend of mine asked about a possible mmf 3some and if I knew anyone. It didn't happen , and I never got to fuck her. Still friends, that's maybe why.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Have done it with my mate he invited me round to his and without me knowing his misses came in naked and sat down then started to suck him of then said are you going to fuck me or not

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Definitely not … it could and possibly would mess up the dynamics of the relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife is having sex with the son of my best friend"

That’s very naughty

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness

"I’ve dropped wife pics with my best friend and it’s been good fun to talk about our sexy wives.

Mine plays but not with friends or any people we know.

His had an affair so it’s a little tender.

I fantasise about a threesome with my wife and him after the pub but it will never happen.

Eventually it’s sure to affect your relationship, surely?"

My best mate has wanked over pics of my wife for years - we're still mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no wouldnt mix friendships and swinging, to much at risk

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