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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some people on here think I expect women to be falling over themselves to get to me ii never thought this so please no cheeky comments all adults here any positve advice welcome

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

How dare they think that about you? Can't they see that you even provide your phone number for a quick call to shag??? Don't mind them. Delete messages from all those ladies you don't want. Block those who are bombarding you with their naughty messages. After all you don't want them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the site.

It's nice you have put a face pic on that's always a great start. Perhaps add a pic of torso/body.

I'd also say you need to write a bit more about yourself so you stand out from every other single guy. As you can't accomedate that will put some off but not everyone. It will make some think you are attached/married. Perhaps add when you are available to meet? Some people's work and home life mean play is limited to certain times and I always found it useful to see on profile when someone available as saves wasting time messaging if they can't meet when we can.

Good luck

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

First of all, welcome to the site. Your profile is a bit rubbish, to be honest! Nothing makes you stand out from the massive amount of single men on here - have a quick look at some other mens profiles and take a few tips. Great that you have put a face pic on tho, good start. Good luck

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Some people on here think I expect women to be falling over themselves to get to me ii never thought this so please no cheeky comments all adults here any positve advice welcome"

That may be due to your other post in the Swinging forum, which looked nothing more than a four word moan about not getting a shag in the first week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typical moaning whingeing man. Second post on the subject already. How dare these sluts not be falling over themselves to gobble your cock, eh'. After all, you are so amazingly good looking, and have such a charming profile and way about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I commented on the other post and it came across that you thought you had some kind of entitlement.

My opinion wasn't meant to offend, perhaps it could have been written a little softer.

The thing is that people will look at you and make the assumption that you wrote the one line prpfile to get onto the site as quickly as possible in order to search and message women. Its clear that you haven't researched and thought about swinging. Its clear you haven't spent a lot of time promoting yourself.

No doubt you are a lovely guy, but it looks as if you have nothing to say about yourself. If you went up to a woman in a bar and just said 'hi I'm looking for sex, fancy it', do you think she would respond favourably?

Now I accept this site is not about dating and the approach will be somewhat different as most people aren't looking for the romance aspect. But a one line profile won't help in trying to find out what kind of person you are. If people see you've made no effort in a simple thing like a profile, then will assume you won't make effort during the sexual fun. Noone wants to end up with a meet that has very little to say for himself or where the communication is stilted.

In swinging you have to express yourself and communicate well.

Let yor personality shine through on that profile, there is more to you than one line I'm sure

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