FabSwingers.com forum: Given that our status states this:

By *lirty-Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Bexley

"Please don't send us winks, friends requests or "Hey how are you?" type one line messages. Thanks"

Why do guys keep sending us winks, friends requests and one line messages? It's really quite bizarre. What do they expect to happen? It's almost as if they want to be blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think some people view messages as throw as much shit at the wall and hopefully some will stick.

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By *lirty-Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Bexley

"Think some people view messages as throw as much shit at the wall and hopefully some will stick. "

Well sh*t certainly describes a lot of the stuff we get.

Had 2 more since posting this. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Please don't send us winks, friends requests or "Hey how are you?" type one line messages. Thanks"

Why do guys keep sending us winks, friends requests and one line messages? It's really quite bizarre. What do they expect to happen? It's almost as if they want to be blocked.

Exactly this

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

""Please don't send us winks, friends requests or "Hey how are you?" type one line messages. Thanks"

Why do guys keep sending us winks, friends requests and one line messages? It's really quite bizarre. What do they expect to happen? It's almost as if they want to be blocked.

Because, especially on mobile where most guys are doing this, pictures come up before profile text, so they see boobs and bums and a woman that likes sex and their dick takes over and they have to message immediately. They simply don't get as far as reading anything.

It's a great filter, though - easy to see who's bothered to read a profile or not.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

And actually......couples (can't say about single women as they never message) are even worse - at least some of the single guys make an effort, whereas most couples seem to think they're exempt from having to read anything.

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By *lirty-Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Bexley

"And actually......couples (can't say about single women as they never message) are even worse - at least some of the single guys make an effort, whereas most couples seem to think they're exempt from having to read anything."

A good number of them (couples) are men too. They're the ones who disappear suddenly when you ask to see them both on camera or chat to the female. Odd that eh...

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By *lirty-Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Bexley

""Please don't send us winks, friends requests or "Hey how are you?" type one line messages. Thanks"

Why do guys keep sending us winks, friends requests and one line messages? It's really quite bizarre. What do they expect to happen? It's almost as if they want to be blocked.

It's a great filter, though - easy to see who's bothered to read a profile or not."

It is a great filter.

They all get blocked but I'm sure a good few then post here about how badly they've been treated by couples who didn't respond to their messages. lol

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

Honestly it’s because most people on fab can’t read. Unless it’s to do with anything sexual

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By *edandLouCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Why not just block men ?

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

"Why not just block men ?"

Because that’s who they are looking for

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Why not just block men ?"

Because we like a new guy every month or so. And as they generally have even less to go on with regard to profiles and pictures, it's easier to get them to message us than to search for them.

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

Yes this is sooooo true

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

You can limit the mails you get from this page, then do the mailing instead

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Status updates are generally posted for attention and that’s what they receive, wanted or otherwise.

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

"Status updates are generally posted for attention and that’s what they receive, wanted or otherwise. "

I find when I put it on my bio people still ignore and do whatever they want,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Status updates are generally posted for attention and that’s what they receive, wanted or otherwise. "

Is everything about this site not seeking attention? Profile pic, bio, status updates, new pics, verifications, forum posts.....

Maybe I'm just an attention whore

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

"Status updates are generally posted for attention and that’s what they receive, wanted or otherwise.

Is everything about this site not seeking attention? Profile pic, bio, status updates, new pics, verifications, forum posts.....

Maybe I'm just an attention whore

Everyone on this site wants attention

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We would just like people to read our profile before messaging, it even says that on the first line yet 9 out of 10 messages we receive clearly haven't.

The excuse is usually "oh I must of missed that bit"....it's the first shitting line you absolute goons!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Status updates are generally posted for attention and that’s what they receive, wanted or otherwise. "

this times ten, its abit like harry and meggan saying they want to stay out of the public eye then being on every front page with a new story, if you dont want it then dont court it

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I suspect they see the pics and just want to try to convince you to meet them no matter what.

Wish I had a pound for all the unwanted winks and messages i get from the people I am not looking to meet, I'd be very well off by now lol.

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks

Its the nature on here that most do not bother to read the profile or think this does not apply to them as they are exceptional......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect they see the pics and just want to try to convince you to meet them no matter what.

Wish I had a pound for all the unwanted winks and messages i get from the people I am not looking to meet, I'd be very well off by now lol.

Where do I send the pound too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not just block men ?

Because that’s who they are looking for "

They can block men and do the searching themselves, that way they avoid what they're moaning about. This site gives you all the tools you need to run your profile in a way that suits you and avoid stuff like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My title says “Dick pic = block” but still they send them. Shrugs.

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