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By *unes OP   Man
over a year ago

scarborough

Met up with guy this morning for a mutual play, suck and wank.

No wedding ring, profile says single.

Couple of veri's from other guys.

Noticed the wedding ring had been taken off, lighter shade of skin, no tan.

Asked if he was actually single, yes sure am, replied.

After his phone rang and I saw a woman on his screen saver.

I know she is married and very straight.

She is a co worker.

Should I say anything to him or to her?

Shut up and move on?

I feel that its behind her back, which I dont approve of....

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By *unes OP   Man
over a year ago

scarborough

Obviously wrong time of day to ask questions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it to yourself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nothing to do with you so keep it to yourself

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Keep your mouth shut.

If you had any doubts your should have stopped the meet it no good feeling guilty now.

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By *ooroo2019Woman
over a year ago

Chester

Definitely keep it to yourself and don’t see him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely keep it to yourself and don’t see him again."

I like married guys

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By *reason69Couple
over a year ago

Blackburn

Best way , Dont say anything, not your problem

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By *aoulDuke1Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Met up with guy this morning for a mutual play, suck and wank.

No wedding ring, profile says single.

Couple of veri's from other guys.

Noticed the wedding ring had been taken off, lighter shade of skin, no tan.

Asked if he was actually single, yes sure am, replied.

After his phone rang and I saw a woman on his screen saver.

I know she is married and very straight.

She is a co worker.

Should I say anything to him or to her?

Shut up and move on?

I feel that its behind her back, which I dont approve of....

"

Let him know you know, and will absolutely keep your gob shut, but you don't like being lied to.

You've done nothing wrong, it's down to him and his wife.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

It could be his sister, a neighbour, a friend

It could be his ex hence the no ring & she hasn't wanted to tell the whole office as yet

I personally wouldn't say anything but if I were to I'd have said something this morning, like 'Ooos small world, thats Sarah from the office' then it's down to him if he wants to explain further

Only other thing I'd possibly do is if he messaged again to meet I'd then say 'I'm not sure if this is a good idea as I think the woman you took the call from at the end of our last meet is someone from my office & I prefer to keep these things private'

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Met up with guy this morning for a mutual play, suck and wank.

No wedding ring, profile says single.

Couple of veri's from other guys.

Noticed the wedding ring had been taken off, lighter shade of skin, no tan.

Asked if he was actually single, yes sure am, replied.

After his phone rang and I saw a woman on his screen saver.

I know she is married and very straight.

She is a co worker.

Should I say anything to him or to her?

Shut up and move on?

I feel that its behind her back, which I dont approve of....

"

What! A male on fab lied about his marriage status! I suppose there has to be a first time for everything though

If I were you I'd keep quiet. It's certainly not your fault, but would you be willing to destroy their marriage? Just leave that to him as he seems more than capable of doing that himself.

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By *irty Fun GuyMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Keep in to yourself as it’s not really your issue just block him and move on

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I would block and move on,

If it feels off it probably is.

People will tell you anything here for a meet, if he is cheating hopefully she will find out herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met up with guy this morning for a mutual play, suck and wank.

No wedding ring, profile says single.

Couple of veri's from other guys.

Noticed the wedding ring had been taken off, lighter shade of skin, no tan.

Asked if he was actually single, yes sure am, replied.

After his phone rang and I saw a woman on his screen saver.

I know she is married and very straight.

She is a co worker.

Should I say anything to him or to her?

Shut up and move on?

I feel that its behind her back, which I dont approve of....

"

Why would you even consider breaking up a marriage?

Not your business. You weren’t intending on being in a couple with him were you?!

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Snitches get stitches

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By *unes OP   Man
over a year ago

scarborough

He contacted me an hour ago and apologised, told me the truth and he knew I worked with his wife....

He is trying to get her interested in a 3some with me....telling her how it would be interesting to get to know work colleagues better, maybe go out for drinks or have people round.

He days he has good sex life with her, just wants that edge, wich he finds with mutual madturbation....

Im now thinking that outside of work, maybe I would think her differently...

Maybe suggest cuckold if it ever got that far...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He contacted me an hour ago and apologised, told me the truth and he knew I worked with his wife....

He is trying to get her interested in a 3some with me....telling her how it would be interesting to get to know work colleagues better, maybe go out for drinks or have people round.

He days he has good sex life with her, just wants that edge, wich he finds with mutual madturbation....

Im now thinking that outside of work, maybe I would think her differently...

Maybe suggest cuckold if it ever got that far...

"

Things That Never Happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s been to forget about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He contacted me an hour ago and apologised, told me the truth and he knew I worked with his wife....

He is trying to get her interested in a 3some with me....telling her how it would be interesting to get to know work colleagues better, maybe go out for drinks or have people round.

He days he has good sex life with her, just wants that edge, wich he finds with mutual madturbation....

Im now thinking that outside of work, maybe I would think her differently...

Maybe suggest cuckold if it ever got that far...

Things That Never Happened "

literally just about to put the same, oh well hopefully he managed to crack a wank out of his story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it for yourself. You do what's right for you. Let others do what's right for them. You don't know their situation or arrangements. Not your place to question, judge or interfere.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"He contacted me an hour ago and apologised, told me the truth and he knew I worked with his wife....

He is trying to get her interested in a 3some with me....telling her how it would be interesting to get to know work colleagues better, maybe go out for drinks or have people round.

He days he has good sex life with her, just wants that edge, wich he finds with mutual madturbation....

Im now thinking that outside of work, maybe I would think her differently...

Maybe suggest cuckold if it ever got that far...

"

What are the chances!?

If I were you I'd steer well clear of what to me, sounds like a load of drama

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By *rue_ColoursCouple
over a year ago

Measham


"

Things That Never Happened "

Lolz

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By *rue_ColoursCouple
over a year ago

Measham

Think this has been answered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He contacted me an hour ago and apologised, told me the truth and he knew I worked with his wife....

He is trying to get her interested in a 3some with me....telling her how it would be interesting to get to know work colleagues better, maybe go out for drinks or have people round.

He days he has good sex life with her, just wants that edge, wich he finds with mutual madturbation....

Im now thinking that outside of work, maybe I would think her differently...

Maybe suggest cuckold if it ever got that far...

Things That Never Happened "

100%

Total waffle

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"He contacted me an hour ago and apologised, told me the truth and he knew I worked with his wife....

He is trying to get her interested in a 3some with me....telling her how it would be interesting to get to know work colleagues better, maybe go out for drinks or have people round.

He days he has good sex life with her, just wants that edge, wich he finds with mutual madturbation....

Im now thinking that outside of work, maybe I would think her differently...

Maybe suggest cuckold if it ever got that far...

What are the chances!?

If I were you I'd steer well clear of what to me, sounds like a load of drama"

Totally fictitious drama. Much like Eastenders or Corrie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had my now ex husband do this to me behind my back. After i got told i confronted the man my ex was meeting.he confessed everything.we both then went to my home to confront my ex.marriage over there and then.the wife has a right to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He contacted me an hour ago and apologised, told me the truth and he knew I worked with his wife....

He is trying to get her interested in a 3some with me....telling her how it would be interesting to get to know work colleagues better, maybe go out for drinks or have people round.

He days he has good sex life with her, just wants that edge, wich he finds with mutual madturbation....

Im now thinking that outside of work, maybe I would think her differently...

Maybe suggest cuckold if it ever got that far...

"

Yea. In his and your dreams mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had my now ex husband do this to me behind my back. After i got told i confronted the man my ex was meeting.he confessed everything.we both then went to my home to confront my ex.marriage over there and then.the wife has a right to know."

100%

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Enjoy the moment

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Well it depends whether you have a guilty conscience,or one at all you do what you think is the correct thing to do as you'd prefer if you were in the woman's situation

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