FabSwingers.com forum: No shame in Bare

By *orrow my wife OP Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

I dont have many meets and myself and disabled hubby simply enjoy me playing bare back with select guys. I have just received some awful judgemental comments.

Please dont judge we all have needs and certain enjoyments

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

It is a risky pass time but as long as everyone involved is happy with those risks then if it does go wrong it’s just part and parcel of things.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

People can do as they wish. Some sniff white powder, some drink gallons of vodka, some smoke strange smelling leaves. Some like playing with strangers cocks and pussies. Live and let live

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Its a very strange world.

We all have,our desires.

Just enjoy your's and let them get on with theirs.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's totally unacceptable for us to judge and send abuse. We are better when respectful of each other, our different tastes, personalities etc. We are richer for being diverse, rather than Stepford wives, husbands and singles. Any public shaming of others is very wrong too.

We will never know the full details of others and are ignorant of circumstances behind choices. If we test, manage our own choices, whilst respecting others having the same freedom to do the same, it's always the right approach, even if we think we're well intentioned.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Your body, your choice

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

It's no ones business but yours and whoever is involved.

You're an adult. It's not for anyone else to assume you're not educated to the risks, take the precautions you can or get regular testing.

Far to many on here judging others for who they will or wont meet and what they will or wont do.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

It’s your choice no one should judge you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont have many meets and myself and disabled hubby simply enjoy me playing bare back with select guys. I have just received some awful judgemental comments.

Please dont judge we all have needs and certain enjoyments

Absolutely not .

There shouldn't be any shame or regret what you like to do.

As long as you are aware of the risks involved then it's fine. Afterall you are an adult to decide how you want to treat your body.

Ignore them judgemental people .

We personally don't play with people who practice bare with others but best wishes to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used these two words in another thread this morning: "consent and trust".

Who wouldn't prefer sex without condoms? Unfortunately they are a necessary precaution without knowing where your partner (at that moment) has been. And as we've learnt over the past 18 months or so, there's a lot worse out there than STD's!

So where there is a low chance of infection, why not? But you take a chance and the consequences if it backfires.

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By *aves14Man
over a year ago

bourne

No one should judge or abuse you for what you like. There are lots of judgemental people out there or should that just be mental!

Most of them are just hypocrites and probably have taken bare inside them too.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Ignore the haters, it's your body, your choice

I'm also bareback only it's simply my preference, I don't enjoy sex with condoms, it's feeling a guy shoot inside me that makes me cum, they'd be no point in me being here if everyone insisted on safe sex only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont have many meets and myself and disabled hubby simply enjoy me playing bare back with select guys. I have just received some awful judgemental comments.

Please dont judge we all have needs and certain enjoyments

i hope youve reported them and blocked thing is these people are mainly sheep who follow other sheep ...your life your bodies do as you please not what others think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To bare or not to bare ? That is the question. If all involved are happy to play how they all enjoy then why not. If someone who has previously played bare then has a meet who requests safe sex they surely should comply or it doesn't go ahead. We are all adults, we surely should all be able to make our own minds up and do what we enjoy as individuals as long as it brings no harm to themselves or others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How times change. A year or two ago if you mentioned going bareback on here you were pilloried and the Russian roulette comments were rife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully agree

Everyone is welcome to do what they enjoy, it's not for others to judge, if you're interests don't align then just don't meet. As long as people are honest with each other, lying about it isn't right.

The majority play bareback, but only the minority admit to it...

I'm a bareback only girl

. Xx

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's not for me, but I wouldn't have a go at anyone else who does Bb.

As long as you're honest and those you meet are happy to, then I see no problem.

I suspect many more do Bb but on the sly .

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

The odd thing here is that when we play, bare is never an option. This is my wife’s choice, includes when she is giving oral, and is generally well respected. There is the obvious fear of her being at risk of sti’s. HOWEVER, we are currently in the process of arranging some group meets with some guys that we will have not met before, yet neither of us are letting a little inconvenience called covid put us off !

I guess it’s all about what each individual perceived as acceptable risk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with bareback as long as all parties are fine with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate judgemental people. You carry on having fun like you do, ignore the haters as that is what I do everyday, don't understand why people do this. We didn't ask to have a disability etc. BTW cracking profile and pics x

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By *orrow my wife OP Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

Thank you all my faith is restored xx

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex

Bare is best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between consenting adults, I don’t see the problem.

Each to their own.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Fully agree

The majority play bareback, but only the minority admit to it...

I'm a bareback only girl

. Xx"

That may be the case for singles but definitely isn't for swinging couples. Most but not all couples use condoms. A pregnancy after a bit of fun has the potential to cause a few problems!

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"How times change. A year or two ago if you mentioned going bareback on here you were pilloried and the Russian roulette comments were rife! "
give it time

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"I dont have many meets and myself and disabled hubby simply enjoy me playing bare back with select guys. I have just received some awful judgemental comments.

Please dont judge we all have needs and certain enjoyments

Bareback is a personal choice, and it is not as if you are doing anything wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fully agree

The majority play bareback, but only the minority admit to it...

I'm a bareback only girl

. Xx

That may be the case for singles but definitely isn't for swinging couples. Most but not all couples use condoms. A pregnancy after a bit of fun has the potential to cause a few problems!"

I certainly agree more couples play safe than singles. But I've spoken to and met many couples happy to bareback, with or without protection. Xx

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"Fully agree

The majority play bareback, but only the minority admit to it...

I'm a bareback only girl

. Xx

That may be the case for singles but definitely isn't for swinging couples. Most but not all couples use condoms. A pregnancy after a bit of fun has the potential to cause a few problems!"

Omg the exact opposite is true ..

Very few ladies have ever mentioned bareback to me.. but majority of couples seem to love it ..

Apparently hubbies like sloppy seconds..

it’s absolutely rife ..

Many messages to prove it ..

Couples act so self righteous on here

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple
over a year ago

Lingfield

"I dont have many meets and myself and disabled hubby simply enjoy me playing bare back with select guys. I have just received some awful judgemental comments.

Please dont judge we all have needs and certain enjoyments

No shame at all, I'd certainly love to fuck you bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fully agree

The majority play bareback, but only the minority admit to it...

I'm a bareback only girl

. Xx

That may be the case for singles but definitely isn't for swinging couples. Most but not all couples use condoms. A pregnancy after a bit of fun has the potential to cause a few problems!"

I see two different things here; the risk of an STI and the risk of pregnancy - playing bare does not mean you are not taking birth control.

Between consenting adults, I do not see a problem.

I am so pleased to see this being very different from bare post of old.

Mr HH

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Fully agree

The majority play bareback, but only the minority admit to it...

I'm a bareback only girl

. Xx

That may be the case for singles but definitely isn't for swinging couples. Most but not all couples use condoms. A pregnancy after a bit of fun has the potential to cause a few problems!

I certainly agree more couples play safe than singles. But I've spoken to and met many couples happy to bareback, with or without protection. Xx"

You could get pregnant by the Husband of a couple. Would you keep the baby?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fully agree

The majority play bareback, but only the minority admit to it...

I'm a bareback only girl

. Xx

That may be the case for singles but definitely isn't for swinging couples. Most but not all couples use condoms. A pregnancy after a bit of fun has the potential to cause a few problems!

I certainly agree more couples play safe than singles. But I've spoken to and met many couples happy to bareback, with or without protection. Xx

You could get pregnant by the Husband of a couple. Would you keep the baby? "

Possibly xx

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"Fully agree

The majority play bareback, but only the minority admit to it...

I'm a bareback only girl

. Xx

That may be the case for singles but definitely isn't for swinging couples. Most but not all couples use condoms. A pregnancy after a bit of fun has the potential to cause a few problems!

I certainly agree more couples play safe than singles. But I've spoken to and met many couples happy to bareback, with or without protection. Xx

You could get pregnant by the Husband of a couple. Would you keep the baby? "

This whole thread is about not shaming or being negative to someone for their life choices ..

And here you all are being just that ..

Classic passive aggressive behaviour..

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Fully agree

The majority play bareback, but only the minority admit to it...

I'm a bareback only girl

. Xx

That may be the case for singles but definitely isn't for swinging couples. Most but not all couples use condoms. A pregnancy after a bit of fun has the potential to cause a few problems!

I certainly agree more couples play safe than singles. But I've spoken to and met many couples happy to bareback, with or without protection. Xx

You could get pregnant by the Husband of a couple. Would you keep the baby?

This whole thread is about not shaming or being negative to someone for their life choices ..

And here you all are being just that ..

Classic passive aggressive behaviour..

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of the better ever posts in the forums. Honest opinions and a really good discussion. We are very excited that perhaps people will not judge as much as they have in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ignore the haters, it's your body, your choice

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"I dont have many meets and myself and disabled hubby simply enjoy me playing bare back with select guys. I have just received some awful judgemental comments.

Please dont judge we all have needs and certain enjoyments

How dare they.

I do love a spunky mess. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can do as they wish. Some sniff white powder, some drink gallons of vodka, some smoke strange smelling leaves. Some like playing with strangers cocks and pussies. Live and let live

Very well said x

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

There's no need to be mean to others who enjoy something.

People make judgements all the time, some may judge you in a positive way as they enjoy the same as you, whilst others will not as that isn't for them. Just the way things are.

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By *urreySunSeekersCouple
over a year ago

Camberley

"Fully agree

The majority play bareback, but only the minority admit to it...

I'm a bareback only girl

. Xx

That may be the case for singles but definitely isn't for swinging couples. Most but not all couples use condoms. A pregnancy after a bit of fun has the potential to cause a few problems!

I certainly agree more couples play safe than singles. But I've spoken to and met many couples happy to bareback, with or without protection. Xx"

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By *urreySunSeekersCouple
over a year ago

Camberley

"Thank you all my faith is restored xx"

And so it should you are perfectly entitled to your opinion and preference. Adults playing and making a choice. Perfectly acceptable. Those with differing views can just enjoy themselves in their Willie wellies, nobody objects to them having a choice too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you all my faith is restored xx

Not heard Willie wellies before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can do as they wish. Some sniff white powder, some drink gallons of vodka, some smoke strange smelling leaves. Some like playing with strangers cocks and pussies. Live and let live

Well said x

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By *_the_impalerMan
over a year ago

canterbury

Everyone makes their own decisions

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Fully agree

The majority play bareback, but only the minority admit to it...

I'm a bareback only girl

. Xx

That may be the case for singles but definitely isn't for swinging couples. Most but not all couples use condoms. A pregnancy after a bit of fun has the potential to cause a few problems!

I certainly agree more couples play safe than singles. But I've spoken to and met many couples happy to bareback, with or without protection. Xx

You could get pregnant by the Husband of a couple. Would you keep the baby?

This whole thread is about not shaming or being negative to someone for their life choices ..

And here you all are being just that ..

Classic passive aggressive behaviour..

Mr Elixir of life, you're attempting to show more aggression in your profile pic by trying to flex your muscles than we have in both of our bodies put together (that's coming from a psychologist). By calling someone passive aggressive when they are simply having a discussion, you are showing a classic sign of being passive aggressive yourself. We shall repost our first post, then leave bareback threads alone.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"People can do as they wish. Some sniff white powder, some drink gallons of vodka, some smoke strange smelling leaves. Some like playing with strangers cocks and pussies. Live and let live

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Do what you like, as long as everyone involved is in agreement. There will be people who disagree with things in life, be it sex or what colour curtains you have.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Your choice, consenting adults, Not our or they’re problem… ‘fuck ‘um’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its up to you, not sure how your husband being disabled has anything to do with it tho, we are both disabled, although you wouldnt know to look at us, it has no impact on our sexual choices.

if you want to bb then fine, at least you are open about it its your choice, we wouldnt meet you because of it, thats our choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was talking to a lady last week and she was saying she met someone who she agreed to bareback with and two weeks later was at her local std clinic..got a bad case of herpes …just be careful as anyone can tell you anything

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Ignore the negative comments and do what's right for you and your hubby hunny.

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By *um6a9funMan
over a year ago

Messy End

I share your frustration OP.

I’ve posted in the forums as I seek a certain scenario, and if it isn’t direct abuse, it’s comments about how I feel or what I like.

We can’t help liking or disliking anything, so surly an open profile is better than a dishonest one?

Don’t be ashamed to like, or crave anything.

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

What someone thinks about you is their problem not yours. Do what makes you happy and let others get on with their life.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

People can and will judge people based on their preferences. That’s totally fine. It helps you decide who you want to also play with.

But to give people abuse about a different preference is just weird… it’s a very sad existence to feel the need to message people who like different to you

We all judge people all the time, most of us are still polite, block the ones who aren’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying bare sex, it is absolutely nothing to do with anybody else.

It's your body and you can do whatever you want. We unfortunately live in a world these days where there are a lot of people that are so self righteous it's unbelievable.

If you all consent to going bare then there's nothing wrong with doing so x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Unfortunately there always has to be a balance of good and bad but well done for being brave

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By *issusWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"It's totally unacceptable for us to judge and send abuse. We are better when respectful of each other, our different tastes, personalities etc. We are richer for being diverse, rather than Stepford wives, husbands and singles. Any public shaming of others is very wrong too.

I cant help but feel the irony by reading this post

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By *orkieBiFemWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Hi Sarah,

Bareback is a risky activity but totally understand why you prefer it. I would only say, make sure you protect yourself as much as possible. You can order free chlamydia and gonorrhoea plus hiv and syphilis home testing kits from your local sexual health clinics website.

I’ve also noticed one of your meets is a bicurious male. If he is having or has had sex with another man you would be entitled to a free course of hepatitis B immunisations and also a medication called PrEP which is a preventative medication to stop you acquiring HIV. Again, available from your local sexual health clinic for free. Your GP doesn’t need to know, it’s all confidential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do what ya want as long as everyone knows the deal its up to them i guess the only thing is that if you or those who play with you play bareback then they tell other future people that they meet that they have so that they can make there own decision if they are happy to play as some dont want to take the risk

but if everyone is aware and happy go fill your boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Sarah,

Can you not contract those illnesses from having anal sex with anyone of any sexual persuasion?

I'm asking that question honestly btw.

I play bare but my partners are few and long term, I test regular too.

I am also Bisexual.

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

I think more people are having bare sex.

We have just been through a pandemic and if you are reading this you have survived and are determined to enjoy life again.

I think most if not all would say bare is preferable to wearing a condom and some have made a judgement call that bare is worth the risk.

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By *orkieBiFemWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

You can catch any of these infections through heterosexual sex but STI’s in general, especially HIV, Hepatitis A and B and Syphilis are more prevalent in men who have sex with men. Chlamydia and Gonorrhoea also more common.

Hence why if you are a man who has sex with men and you let your local sexual health clinic know they will offer you the following vaccines:

Hep A

Hep B

HPV (protects against high risk HPV and some strains of genital warts) it’s offered because MSM are more likely to suffer from head and neck cancers caused by HPV virus

You will also be offered PrEP if you’re having unprotected anal sex with another man/trans person.

I really encourage any gay or bi males or if you’re straight and having unprotected insertive or receptive anal to get screened and ask about PrEP.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I think it’s perfectly ok to say that you think bareback sex on Fab is ok. It’s also ok for people to say that they think it isn’t. Expecting people not to be judgemental about the folk on the opposite side of the argument is unrealistic though. Everyone is judgemental. It becomes a problem when people feel like everyone needs to hear their judgment and get nasty about it.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

"I dont have many meets and myself and disabled hubby simply enjoy me playing bare back with select guys. I have just received some awful judgemental comments.

Please dont judge we all have needs and certain enjoyments

If the reason, why you had some judgemental comments is because you gave that person/person's a knock back? Then imho, you swerved a wrong un.

But anyways, if it's what you like and need. Then nobodys business except yours, as a couple. imho.

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"Used these two words in another thread this morning: "consent and trust".

So where there is a low chance of infection, why not? But you take a chance and the consequences if it backfires."

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"its up to you, not sure how your husband being disabled has anything to do with it tho, we are both disabled, although you wouldnt know to look at us, it has no impact on our sexual choices.

if you want to bb then fine, at least you are open about it its your choice, we wouldnt meet you because of it, thats our choice"

Same. To us it just seems silly to take the risk of all those dreadful diseases when wearing a condom is so easy. However it’s a free country so each to his own.

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By *hestercplxxCouple
over a year ago

Chester

I certainly agree more couples play safe than singles. But I've spoken to and met many couples happy to bareback, with or without protection. Xx

We prefer bareback as like it to be real, however in clubs , if it's a complete stranger then we use protection.

If they become regular and someone we trust , no hesitation in bare.

And yes some horrible judgemental people on this site , we are all free to do as we please

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

Way too many judgemental people on here just looking to put others down...most never meet....i hope your double jabbed though lol

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By *hestercplxxCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Fully agree

The majority play bareback, but only the minority admit to it...

I'm a bareback only girl

. Xx

That may be the case for singles but definitely isn't for swinging couples. Most but not all couples use condoms. A pregnancy after a bit of fun has the potential to cause a few problems!

I certainly agree more couples play safe than singles. But I've spoken to and met many couples happy to bareback, with or without protection. Xx

You could get pregnant by the Husband of a couple. Would you keep the baby?

Possibly xx"

When my Mrs got her first fuck buddy, part of the cuckold talk was of pregnancy risk which massively turned me on. For the record she was on birth control.

She was happy to bareback him as she had known him for years , if he had been a proper genuine boyfriend she would not use condoms anyway so saw no difference, we all enjoyed it , our choice , live and let live !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never judge bareback cpls . Only thing we hate is ,very few mention it on their profiles ,not everyone .

Single guys are the worst when it comes to puting bb sex on their profile.

Ok if you don't want to be open about it on your fab profile then DO NOT contact people who practice safe sex .

Simple .

Why pretend ?

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By *reampie_yourwifeMan
over a year ago

barnsley

I really can’t understand why bb fun isn’t an option to tick on interests , if it was then people could let everyone know if they do or don’t enjoy it and seek it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really can’t understand why bb fun isn’t an option to tick on interests , if it was then people could let everyone know if they do or don’t enjoy it and seek it "

Even though some people wouldnt have ticked it .

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By *reampie_yourwifeMan
over a year ago

barnsley

True, but it might help to de stigmatise what is, in my opinion a genuine kink and desire same as any else….what would be interesting though, would be to see how many tick both that and the safe sex option

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"We never judge bareback cpls . Only thing we hate is ,very few mention it on their profiles ,not everyone .

Single guys are the worst when it comes to puting bb sex on their profile.

Ok if you don't want to be open about it on your fab profile then DO NOT contact people who practice safe sex .

Simple .

Why pretend ?"

Some think that if they’ll wear a condom with you then they don’t have to mention if they bareback with everyone else. I don’t agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We never judge bareback cpls . Only thing we hate is ,very few mention it on their profiles ,not everyone .

Single guys are the worst when it comes to puting bb sex on their profile.

Ok if you don't want to be open about it on your fab profile then DO NOT contact people who practice safe sex .

Simple .

Why pretend ?

Some think that if they’ll wear a condom with you then they don’t have to mention if they bareback with everyone else. I don’t agree. "

We don't agree either .

It's like a straight male saying he won't mind bi play with us .

We get that a lot

Whatever you do ,just be open about it and let others know .

Now people are even updating their profiles that they are double jabbed, so others are aware .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your body and you should feel free to play as you feel right to - it is all about mutual trust OP

J x

ps; yes I would

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

Ignore the haters and ignore the negative comments your life your body enjoy.

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By *adushaMan
over a year ago

Fifth avenue

"I dont have many meets and myself and disabled hubby simply enjoy me playing bare back with select guys. I have just received some awful judgemental comments.

Please dont judge we all have needs and certain enjoyments

I am intrested to give you bareback cum

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By *ookinforfun6972Couple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

"People can do as they wish. Some sniff white powder, some drink gallons of vodka, some smoke strange smelling leaves. Some like playing with strangers cocks and pussies. Live and let live

Just that live your life so long as you think of othes enjoy what you like

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Do as you wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really can’t understand why bb fun isn’t an option to tick on interests , if it was then people could let everyone know if they do or don’t enjoy it and seek it "

It's been raised on the site feedback board countless times. They never seem to action anything xx

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By *aydshMan
over a year ago

chesterfield

Those that feel the need to judge others are usually those that do not led a blameless life. It does not matter whether something is right or wrong. What does matter is those involved agree to it.

Do not cast the first stone

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By *odkaboy2Man
over a year ago

bristol

You are consenting adults at the end of the day and no doubt aware of the risks such meets entail. Therefore it is no one else’s business. You are open with your preferences so if someone disagrees they can simply pass on by - there are enough people on here

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By *eanieggMan
over a year ago

UXBRIDGE

its a strange one this.... the last couple of ladies i met.. talked about using a condom .. then when we became intimate .. never asked for me to use one.. and in their sexual urgency just told me to fuck them without one .. i hate condoms so i duly obliged.. i get regularly tested and even in clubs .. i have played with and seen women bareback so i think if you are soo aroused it didnt matter .. now afterwards .. that is another topic

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sadly on fab there are to many judges. You are a consenting adult. Keep doing what you do and f**k what anyone else thinks.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

The veris from so called "safe" players who carried on meeting during the strictest lockdowns

When we we told you can't even go and visit others as it's not safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The veris from so called "safe" players who carried on meeting during the strictest lockdowns

When we we told you can't even go and visit others as it's not safe

The best ones were

" We play bb but won't play due to Covid "

Wonder which is more unsafe ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont have many meets and myself and disabled hubby simply enjoy me playing bare back with select guys. I have just received some awful judgemental comments.

Please dont judge we all have needs and certain enjoyments

Bare is best

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