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By *orthWestUKCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

We’re thinking of giving it a try. Have bought a harness and a few attachments for it, but am a bit nervous to try. Anyone any advice and is it fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go for the real thing

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By *iss_KateTV/TS
over a year ago

Redhill

Can be painful for some the first time they receive anal so lots of lube is a good start. Start small and work up. Butt plugs can be a good way to start off for 30 mins or so and then the strap on.

Using a douche first to clean is also a good idea as mess is a big turn off for me.

Once you get used to anal it is very pleasant and satisfying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just lots of lube and go really slow. It'll feel really odd at first. Might take more than once to get used to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would advise against doggy as a starter position, missionary is usually more pain free. Also if your strapon has a curve to it, have the curve oriented to point up/down towards the belly button in any position, hits the prostate that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would advise against doggy as a starter position, missionary is usually more pain free. Also if your strapon has a curve to it, have the curve oriented to point up/down towards the belly button in any position, hits the prostate that way! "

I found doggy easier and more comfy when a lady had her wicked way with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re thinking of giving it a try. Have bought a harness and a few attachments for it, but am a bit nervous to try. Anyone any advice and is it fun?"

Defo start with a finger or two, then a larger butt plug.

I found doggy less painfull.x

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By *orthWestUKCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Thanks all, great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it fun? Absolutely. One of my favourite things to do is to receive it.

Advice, you have the basic stuff like:

1) Use lots of lube

2) Take it slowly

3) If you feel anything painful, stop there

4) Relax yourself when receiving it

5) Better use a douche to have a clean experience

6) Start small

I can suggest my personal trick about 4. It's easy to ask someone to relax. But it's hard to do it. When something knocks the backdoor, our body's immediate response is to tighten up. You need to consciously relax your anus.

I learnt it by fingering myself. When it's your own finger, your mind develops an understanding and allows it to enter easily. You do it for three or four times and you will learn how to relax your anus. So when pegging, you just have to think about how you relaxed for your own fingers and repeat the same. Hope it helps.

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By *orthWestUKCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Thanks, 4 and 5 I hadn’t thought of. Best get me fingers warmed up

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By *oozleMan
over a year ago

high wycombe

It’s strange to start with, lots of lube and I found doggy style best to start, gets more fun the more you do it though!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Lots of lube and take it slow

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Thanks, 4 and 5 I hadn’t thought of. Best get me fingers warmed up "

Just be aware 6 is incorrect! Lol something decent sized is much easier to get used to

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Thanks, 4 and 5 I hadn’t thought of. Best get me fingers warmed up

Just be aware 6 is incorrect! Lol something decent sized is much easier to get used to "

And doggy style… so you’re not so concerned about what your face is doing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bend over and get on with it ! Lol maybe wear a gag if your starting at the deep end with a 12 inches

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By *ig bear 65Man
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

I'm bi do single ladies like pegging bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Select a size that is not too big it’s painful. Do some clenching exercises. This will tire your anal muscles and allow for a bigger diameter toy.

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By *zNoobTV/TS
over a year ago

Nawtyville


"Thanks, 4 and 5 I hadn’t thought of. Best get me fingers warmed up

Just be aware 6 is incorrect! Lol something decent sized is much easier to get used to "

I would agree with that

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Is it fun? Absolutely. One of my favourite things to do is to receive it.

Advice, you have the basic stuff like:

1) Use lots of lube

2) Take it slowly

3) If you feel anything painful, stop there

4) Relax yourself when receiving it

5) Better use a douche to have a clean experience

6) Start small

I can suggest my personal trick about 4. It's easy to ask someone to relax. But it's hard to do it. When something knocks the backdoor, our body's immediate response is to tighten up. You need to consciously relax your anus.

I learnt it by fingering myself. When it's your own finger, your mind develops an understanding and allows it to enter easily. You do it for three or four times and you will learn how to relax your anus. So when pegging, you just have to think about how you relaxed for your own fingers and repeat the same. Hope it helps."

Add something in as number 4.5

When you feel something pushing against you trying to gain entry, push as if you're trying to (crude words here) take a dump but not so hard that you actually do? It'll make entry so much easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it fun? Absolutely. One of my favourite things to do is to receive it.

Advice, you have the basic stuff like:

1) Use lots of lube

2) Take it slowly

3) If you feel anything painful, stop there

4) Relax yourself when receiving it

5) Better use a douche to have a clean experience

6) Start small

I can suggest my personal trick about 4. It's easy to ask someone to relax. But it's hard to do it. When something knocks the backdoor, our body's immediate response is to tighten up. You need to consciously relax your anus.

I learnt it by fingering myself. When it's your own finger, your mind develops an understanding and allows it to enter easily. You do it for three or four times and you will learn how to relax your anus. So when pegging, you just have to think about how you relaxed for your own fingers and repeat the same. Hope it helps.

Add something in as number 4.5

When you feel something pushing against you trying to gain entry, push as if you're trying to (crude words here) take a dump but not so hard that you actually do? It'll make entry so much easier "

Ha ha. That's a new trick. I never had to try it.

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