FabSwingers.com forum: Consent From Partners To Play

By *bsolutley Fab OP Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Why is it the male half lets his wife play? But not so popular the other way around?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Pretty sure it's the same both ways?

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Pretty sure it's the same both ways?"

Agreed.

Frank

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

"Pretty sure it's the same both ways?"

Yup agreed, we love it both scenarios

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Why would anyone need "permission" to play? The whole idea that I am somehow allowed to deny my spouse's free will seems totally wrong.

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Why would anyone need "permission" to play? The whole idea that I am somehow allowed to deny my spouse's free will seems totally wrong."

But have you not both come to an agreement that allows you to play separately? Therefore giving each other permission, otherwise it would just be cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a both way thing here but hubby has no interest in playing with other fems.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Why would anyone need "permission" to play? The whole idea that I am somehow allowed to deny my spouse's free will seems totally wrong.

But have you not both come to an agreement that allows you to play separately? Therefore giving each other permission, otherwise it would just be cheating."

As swingers we don't need to give permission, we are free to do as we please. This is the essence of the swinging lifestyle.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

Mr Pc is free to play with whoever he likes should he wish to chose so! Miss Pc

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Why would anyone need "permission" to play? The whole idea that I am somehow allowed to deny my spouse's free will seems totally wrong.

But have you not both come to an agreement that allows you to play separately? Therefore giving each other permission, otherwise it would just be cheating."

For me, discussion and agreement around swinging isn't the same as "permission".

I have a single profile for meeting other ladies, but have ni interest in meeting couples or men alone. Cal currently has no interest in meeting alone.

In the event that we do meet alone, permission wouldn't come into it, but we would let each other know where we are and who we're with.

Nita

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By *r and Mrs SexploitCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

We both meet alone. Mr more than Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving Em permission to go enjoy herself

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Mr M is free to play, as am I I think the new terminology is "hot couple"? I could be wrong.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Why is it the male half lets his wife play? But not so popular the other way around?"

Think you will find a lot of couples not interested in men just filter them out and you never see them..

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Women ate jealous creatures, or the male half has a low sex drive so just watches the wife.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"It's a both way thing here but hubby has no interest in playing with other fems."

^^^This

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Yeh I’ll echo what other have said. It’s not about permission, it’s about trust and understanding. Not for us, we only meet together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve noticed this, I sometimes play alone if we can’t both get to the clubs but it’s never even second looked..but there seems to be stigma about the male side. Maybe it is just that girls are more sought after so they let their morals slide.. although even though I play alone i would only play with a male half if I knew through their partner that it was ok. Some here do go behind their partners back and im not into that. So I can see where the worry is but should be for males and females

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

While I play more than my partner, when she and I agreed to an open relationship it was mutual permission to play within agreed boundaries and rules. We stick to those rules because it’s a trust issue. I can and have turned people down for trying to push me to break those rules.

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