FabSwingers.com forum: No photos of the man

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This has probably been covered here before, but why do so many couples' profiles only have photos of the female half?

Are the men shy or do they think that women will shag anything and it therefore doesn't matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we both like to show off lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's good to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've only just started thinking about meeting other couples. We will add some of me (hubby) when I am back in the UK next month. I have been away since July

Can't wait to get home

We do have pics of the two of us in private (face pics) but with only looking for single guys previously there seemed little point in having any of me on the public gallery

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I dislike profiles where its all about the woman. You can take great pics of the man if you try. When choosing who to meet if a profile is all pics of the lady and I need to ask to see pics of him then am not intrested in them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do so many feel the need to scrutinise the profile of others?

if you dont like a profile,move onto the next one,you may just like that one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why do so many feel the need to scrutinise the profile of others?

if you dont like a profile,move onto the next one,you may just like that one.

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Sorry, we thought this was a discussion forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is the discussion only open to a select few?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even worse are the single men profiles which only have pictures of cocks and women on them x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"why do so many feel the need to scrutinise the profile of others?

if you dont like a profile,move onto the next one,you may just like that one.

The OP opened a discussion and people posted their thoughts on the subject.

When I dont like a profile......I do move on x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"is the discussion only open to a select few?"

I dont think I have seen a discussion on invite only. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is the discussion only open to a select few?

I dont think I have seen a discussion on invite only. x"

neither have i,thats why i added to the discussion,wether appreciated or not

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By *oco_slimCouple
over a year ago

lewisham

I totally agree, a couples profile should have pictures of both. I want to see from the off what may potentially be playing with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I can only answer on why we don't have any public pics of Mr Iconic.

It is not because he isn't attractive or has a small penis or I can't take pictures of him or he's shy. We don't have public pictures of him because he doesn't choose to display any. He only wants people who have a genuine interest in meeting us to view a pic, not every tom, dick and harry who just fancy being nosy to see what he looks like.

I don't care if people don't like it or disagree with it. We are never going to display them and we are happy with the potential outcome of some people being bothered by that fact. For those who turn away from our profile because of the pic issue, then so be it, we aren't going to worry about potentially not meeting you. We couldn't give a stuff.

So yes that sounds blunt I'm sure, but it is the honest answer and there you have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be an ego thing.

I find it funny where the female half has 1000+ FAbs on her pics whilst the man barely scratches 10 on all of his.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pictures of both of us in our public gallery, mainly me though, as it is harder to take pictures of the both of us.

However the are lots of both of us in our private gallery, being face shots, we prefer them there and not open to the general viewing public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could be an ego thing.

I find it funny where the female half has 1000+ FAbs on her pics whilst the man barely scratches 10 on all of his.

Yeah you're right, it could be an ego thing, it certainly is in my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In many cases the guys moreso than us girls hold down pretty responsible positions at work and it wouldn't be appropriate to have a face pic of the guy in the public gallery. This is why BamBam's pics are all in our private gallery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not problem here, as we both like to show off

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

"Even worse are the single men profiles which only have pictures of cocks and women on them x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to thier own but in my opinion and thats MY opinion i prefer to see both peeps on a couples profile i mean im not going to be playing with the woman so bring on the men i say...

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By *_midland_cpl_xCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

we show both as how can ppl make there mind up on if they want to meet a cpl if they cant see both of them

and also makes it a problem if you message saying you look great and ask for a picture of both and well the other half is not for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each to their own, what business is it of anyone elses? In my case I am a woman on here my man is very unlikely to play with anyone, perhaps play with me alone, so its not a major thing. Can always cam to see him, plus that proves we are who we say we are. Too many 'professional' swingers on here

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"This has probably been covered here before, but why do so many couples' profiles only have photos of the female half?

Are the men shy or do they think that women will shag anything and it therefore doesn't matter?"

We think many cases the men do the profile amd pics and the women does nothing...

The guys use the wife as a bartering tool and if the women match the deal is done and who cares what the men look like .. Its amazing how many couples with bi fems will only care what he girl looks like and fuck he man whatever ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has probably been covered here before, but why do so many couples' profiles only have photos of the female half?

Are the men shy or do they think that women will shag anything and it therefore doesn't matter?

We think many cases the men do the profile amd pics and the women does nothing...

Is this what happens with you?

If not then why are there only female pics on your profile? You just have to ask yourself why you did it and if there's a perfectly reasonable explanation, then there probably will be for others as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's annoys me too I always read profiles 1st before opening messages n if it's a message from a couple n only the woman's on show, I won't even bother to open the mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to see em both on a couples profile, as there's no such thing as a lucky dip in swinging. Things are hidden for a reason usually!

Wolf

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

If the meet is going to be with a couple then I would expect the profile and picks to be about both...not just the lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are pics of my cock on our profile, trust me, that is all you'd want to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the couple want to meet other couples then they should have photos.

If they just say want single guys and the centre of attention is the women then I don't see that the bloke has to put pics on. I'm not going to play with him even if he joins in so it's kinda irrelevant to me.

Just my opinion though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we had picks of me, the male, in public we would scare everyone off. But once we have lured them into beeing friends they get to see their awful mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we had picks of me, the male, in public we would scare everyone off. But once we have lured them into beeing friends they get to see their awful mistake

Lol love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the meet is going to be with a couple then I would expect the profile and picks to be about both...not just the lady x"

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"This has probably been covered here before, but why do so many couples' profiles only have photos of the female half?

Are the men shy or do they think that women will shag anything and it therefore doesn't matter?

We think many cases the men do the profile amd pics and the women does nothing...

Is this what happens with you?

Nope its not because we don't arrange meets via any internet site,we go out and meet people the old fashioned way.There was a picture of myself on here but it got removed without us knowing due to there being an animal in it,bit stupid but hey ho.I didn't say everyone but there are many cases where the men use the women,even happens in clubs often.normaly when the bloke is not very attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we choose to show the male half face wen were good and ready due to his employment and 9times out of ten the couple that were chating/mesageing understand that and respect that after al that is wat veryfications are al about yes i understand not al of us have verys on profile but saying that surely theres yet another thread if u know wat i mean EACH TO THERE OWN I SAY X JUST OUR OPINION X

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By *agansCouple
over a year ago

Burham, Kent

In general we find one sided profiles are hiding something important about their physicality.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"In many cases the guys moreso than us girls hold down pretty responsible positions at work and it wouldn't be appropriate to have a face pic of the guy in the public gallery. This is why BamBam's pics are all in our private gallery

I'd say theres also plenty of women with very important jobs these days also,so i wouldn't say the guys more so at all..

A body picture of the male half isn't going to do anything as regards getting found out by somebody,this is just a cop out excuse..

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

There is no reason in my mind why a mans body/torso can be on view to the public. Sorry but in my opinion they can give all the excuses they want. Not talking face pics here. If its a couple profile then write the profile as a couple and have the pics of both. Stop making excuses.

Yes to all those .....if you dont like it move on but profiles lacking in information pics etc are gonna raise suspiciin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have face pics that can be sent on request and there are a couple of photos with v in. the difference is, I love taking photos etc and V doesn't. Also discretion is key and he has very distinctive tattoos on his leg, arms, back, side... However we would of course cam with anyone that wanted to meet us and/or take other pics to send.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could put clothed pictures up, asas it doesn't matter which way i turn a tattoo will always be in the picture, and i believe that's against the site rules?

Shame really, but as we have found so far, women aren't interested in me, its all about my large breasted wife. Lol

V xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a common Occurrence when receiving messages from couples , always pics of the woman but almost never any of the male half which would help to see who you may be fucking !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have no interest in cpls with just fem pics...... a "cpl" is two people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have no interest in cpls with just fem pics...... a "cpl" is two people."

To the couples who show fem only pics because of the guys job, what about the

company Christmas party, night out, even holiday pics, surely if they recognise her from the site they'll know he's the other half of the couple.

Anyone who knows her will usually know him too.

As others have said "job" is a bit of a lame excuse.

And for all those who say they have no male pics because he's a minger or would frighten people off, it could be a case of "many a true word spoken in jest", as the saying goes.

XXXX

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say theres also plenty of women with very important jobs these days also,so i wouldn't say the guys more so at all..

A body picture of the male half isn't going to do anything as regards getting found out by somebody,this is just a cop out excuse.."

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"we have no interest in cpls with just fem pics...... a "cpl" is two people.

To the couples who show fem only pics because of the guys job, what about the

company Christmas party, night out, even holiday pics, surely if they recognise her from the site they'll know he's the other half of the couple.

Anyone who knows her will usually know him too.

As others have said "job" is a bit of a lame excuse.

And for all those who say they have no male pics because he's a minger or would frighten people off, it could be a case of "many a true word spoken in jest", as the saying goes.

XXXX"

Thats the fact of it at the end of the day in most cases..like i said you have photoshop for tattoos and faces,so theres really no excuse hat there can't be a pic of the guy.You even see it in the clubs the minger husband pushing his sexy wife towards the female of another couple,in the hope the girls connect meaning the minger husband is in...

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I just realized my pic is now missing on here lol, as must have deleted it while adding rope pics.. ahh well guess it was time to take a new pic anyway.

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By *orn_To_PerformCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Totally agree. It's the biggest problem we find on Fab. We want to meet couples where both parties are atractive to us. That doesn't mean film star good looks, but there needs to be some physical attraction. That may sound a little shallow but Fab isn't about emotional relationships - it's just sex! We have body shots of both of us on our public profile and face pics for our friends.

The OP has pics of both and they are a very attractive couple!

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"Even worse are the single men profiles which only have pictures of cocks and women on them x"

I obviously break the mould there, then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this one I think there should be more of the men but in our case f seems to not want to put any of me up hard one to figure out .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have no interest in cpls with just fem pics...... a "cpl" is two people.

To the couples who show fem only pics because of the guys job, what about the

company Christmas party, night out, even holiday pics, surely if they recognise her from the site they'll know he's the other half of the couple.

Anyone who knows her will usually know him too.

As others have said "job" is a bit of a lame excuse.

And for all those who say they have no male pics because he's a minger or would frighten people off, it could be a case of "many a true word spoken in jest", as the saying goes.

XXXX

This post really is silly and childish, especially as you do not have any public pics of the male either.

I never make excuses about why there aren't public pics of my OH. It isn't about work or anything like that. We don't because its his choice, and noone on here is remotely important enough for us to put up a public pic. We don't do requests.

He is an attractive and confident businessman, he will not do 'poses', its just not his thing. He doesn't have such a big ego as I do. We have face pics of the two of us together for only those we wish to meet.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"we have no interest in cpls with just fem pics...... a "cpl" is two people.

To the couples who show fem only pics because of the guys job, what about the

company Christmas party, night out, even holiday pics, surely if they recognise her from the site they'll know he's the other half of the couple.

Anyone who knows her will usually know him too.

As others have said "job" is a bit of a lame excuse.

And for all those who say they have no male pics because he's a minger or would frighten people off, it could be a case of "many a true word spoken in jest", as the saying goes.

XXXX

This post really is silly and childish, especially as you do not have any public pics of the male either.

Maybe its hitting a nerve as you feel the need to bite and get so defensive over it..

I explained why there is no pic of myself and there will be one on our profile soon,i've nothing to hide..It has nothing to do with him posing etc your a couple advertising yourself to other couples so endless pics of a female is pointless when people are meeting both of you..

Theres nothing childish about the thread,its asking a serious question,more so than some of the other pointless crap peopke post about..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh your one of those ill do it later types.

I am not getting defensive, I just have little tolerance for daft statements. I seriously doubt that every single man who hasn't got a public picture is unattractive.

The people that we meet have never commented on the lack of public pictures of the OH, I imagine that's because we send them face pics privately. So no need for you to be concerned over the way we do things.

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By *weetcorruptionCouple
over a year ago

At home

"Totally agree. It's the biggest problem we find on Fab. We want to meet couples where both parties are atractive to us. That doesn't mean film star good looks, but there needs to be some physical attraction. That may sound a little shallow but Fab isn't about emotional relationships - it's just sex! We have body shots of both of us on our public profile and face pics for our friends.

The OP has pics of both and they are a very attractive couple!"

We agree,there should be some idea of both the male and female of the couple on the profile.

i (S) is put off if there are no pictures of the guy as it feels the couple are just selling themselves via the woman,and also makes me worry if theres a reason the bloke has no pics.

After all Im the one that would be playing with him.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

each to their own .. we only have pics of me the female. Dont see the need to put pics of my fella on the profile as we only meet single fellas

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"Oh your one of those ill do it later types.

I am not getting defensive, I just have little tolerance for daft statements. I seriously doubt that every single man who hasn't got a public picture is unattractive.

Don't read the forums then if daft statements bother you that much,because its full of them !!

I recon that nearly all single guys profiles have some kind of picture on them be it a cock shot or whatever,but as the thread is talking about couples that irrelevent i guess..

Comments were made as an opinion we have,something of which others have also made or agree with...

You are entitled to your view exactly the same as we are and weather you agree or not we couldn't really care to be honest..

Did i say i'm concerned how you do things ?

Think you maybe need to read back through as i don't think i ever mentioned you,infact i didn"t even notice you until you started to rant ...

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