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"Whats its like having a threesome with 2 men? Does it feel like you're having to pleasure 2 blokes? Are you the lady receiving more pleasure? Does it depend on the 2 gents as to the dynamic? I’m curious/interested to hear about others experiences. Not fantasy story hunting just the more practical aspects of it all… " For me it has always worked best when the guys are friends or experienced at 3 sums together. I like to be sub sexually and if they can co-ordinate things well then the action can flow much better. I’d love to find 2 guys for regular fun again, but not tarts. | |||
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"Whats its like having a threesome with 2 men? Does it feel like you're having to pleasure 2 blokes? Are you the lady receiving more pleasure? Does it depend on the 2 gents as to the dynamic? I’m curious/interested to hear about others experiences. Not fantasy story hunting just the more practical aspects of it all… " You really need to plan ahead as it’s not easy sucking whilst being pounded from behind. It can turn into twister if you’re not careful. Yes there is some pressure of having to please 2 men. I think pleasing ff is harder for a man. | |||
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"It wasn’t as good as I thought it would be " This is my worry! | |||
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"It helps if one or both men enjoy voyeurism" I agree whole heartedly, I am regularly part of a mfm play and its not just the generic spitroast that most people tend to think. Yes that's good for part of the play but its so much better tagging each other in and out so to say. Its great to sit back and watch for a little bit before joining back in. I know this thread asked for the ladies point of view but the lady hit the nail on the head with voyeurism being a part of it. | |||
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"Whats its like having a threesome with 2 men? Does it feel like you're having to pleasure 2 blokes? Are you the lady receiving more pleasure? Does it depend on the 2 gents as to the dynamic? I’m curious/interested to hear about others experiences. Not fantasy story hunting just the more practical aspects of it all… For me it has always worked best when the guys are friends or experienced at 3 sums together. I like to be sub sexually and if they can co-ordinate things well then the action can flow much better. I’d love to find 2 guys for regular fun again, but not tarts. " This I've had a few, some good some horrendous lol. But the best ones were with guys who knew each other and had done it together previously. They seemed to know what they were going to do without having to speak. It flowed so naturally and it was an amazing experience I'd love to do it again | |||
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"My wife found it a bit intimidating at first but with the gent she found out it was about her pleasure. " it's got to be about her pleasure | |||
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"Firstly, work out what you want from it. Do you want to feel like the one that's pleasuring two guys or do you want to feel desired, the one being pleasured?. We have a guy we meet on occasion, could say a regular, though the pandemic put a halt to it. The two of us are very like minded, we both enjoy the woman, the giving and we're both attentive. We also both enjoy the voyeuristic aspect. So, Mrs feels completely desired in the moment. She's not expected to keep both of us going throughout, several times during a threesome each of us guys will take a step back and observe. We work well together, recognising when Mrs wants to concentrate on the One and when she wants both together. Next up is to find the guys with the attitude to act out the dynamic you wish to achieve." yes ..sounds like you really have this sussed out | |||
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"It's probably best if you know one of the guys quite well already and you're the one who finds the other guy too. It also helps if the only aim is for all 3 of you to enjoy the experience, rather than have a list of things/positions to tick off. It's all of the things you enjoy when having sex with one guy, but heightened cos there's 4 hands and 2 mouths." This is true for me too, I enjoy the attentions from 2 men, sometimes both together, sometimes one of them while the other takes a break and watches. Any other way would probably be way too exhausting for me. | |||
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"It wasn’t as good as I thought it would be This is my worry!" It’s amazing and highly recommend it!! | |||
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"In my experience it’s fantastic when you’ve explored and enjoyed both men individually a few times before doing a fmm. They both have learned your kinks, boundaries and body language and you have theirs. I always know which fwb would be great in a threesome and the ones it wouldn’t work with. Personally though, nothing beats a serving my Sir and another. " This sounds the way I'd like to do it. When I do it! | |||
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"Whats its like having a threesome with 2 men? Does it feel like you're having to pleasure 2 blokes? Are you the lady receiving more pleasure? Does it depend on the 2 gents as to the dynamic? I’m curious/interested to hear about others experiences. Not fantasy story hunting just the more practical aspects of it all… " If you go to a meet thinking about all those things you won't enjoy your meet. Sex should be spontaneous and one thing should flow into another rather than be a mechanical I have to make sure I am pleasing A or B needs this now. Go to a meet without preconceived ideas and enjoy the experience, if you have certain limits such as condoms for penetrative sex, no cum in hair or no anal, etc. make them clear preferably before the meet but certainly before any fun begins. The same goes for your male partners, if they are frightened that cocks touching during DVP makes them gay then they are probably not mature enough to try that but those things should be worked out before the meet. We are all adults and if you go thinking I am going to enjoy the new experience you will | |||
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"I love being made the centre of attention and overwhelmed with pleasure in this scenario. I agree about having at least one guy you know well, and all three of you having got to know each other first. Have some idea about what you want from the experience, then just let go and enjoy whatever happens. We've enjoyed MMFs where the guys haven't cum at all - they just wanted to focus on me. (you can even up the score another time ) There's room for any kinds of play combinations. As long as you are all working together with the same agenda, a good time is forecast. C" I hate being the centre of attention. Starting to wonder if it's for me! | |||
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"I love being made the centre of attention and overwhelmed with pleasure in this scenario. I agree about having at least one guy you know well, and all three of you having got to know each other first. Have some idea about what you want from the experience, then just let go and enjoy whatever happens. We've enjoyed MMFs where the guys haven't cum at all - they just wanted to focus on me. (you can even up the score another time ) There's room for any kinds of play combinations. As long as you are all working together with the same agenda, a good time is forecast. C I hate being the centre of attention. Starting to wonder if it's for me! " Playing with two bi/orally bi guys will even out the focus of attention. I guess you need to understand where your curiosity lies C | |||
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"I love being made the centre of attention and overwhelmed with pleasure in this scenario. I agree about having at least one guy you know well, and all three of you having got to know each other first. Have some idea about what you want from the experience, then just let go and enjoy whatever happens. We've enjoyed MMFs where the guys haven't cum at all - they just wanted to focus on me. (you can even up the score another time ) There's room for any kinds of play combinations. As long as you are all working together with the same agenda, a good time is forecast. C I hate being the centre of attention. Starting to wonder if it's for me! Playing with two bi/orally bi guys will even out the focus of attention. I guess you need to understand where your curiosity lies C" I have some idea, this thread is helping with that. I've always enjoyed the idea of watching men together. | |||
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"If a lady feels in an mmf that she has to concentrate on pleasing the guys. It's all being done wrong. From my point of view, a woman in that position is there to be pleased herself..tut tut tut" Well said Andy. The whole point is that the two guys should be prioritizing the pleasure that the woman receives and that in itself should be a turn on for them. | |||
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"If a lady feels in an mmf that she has to concentrate on pleasing the guys. It's all being done wrong. From my point of view, a woman in that position is there to be pleased herself..tut tut tut Well said Andy. The whole point is that the two guys should be prioritizing the pleasure that the woman receives and that in itself should be a turn on for them." | |||
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"If a lady feels in an mmf that she has to concentrate on pleasing the guys. It's all being done wrong. From my point of view, a woman in that position is there to be pleased herself..tut tut tut" This! Gbat | |||
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"I’ve only had one mfm , I did find it exhausting mentally and physically. Constantly worrying about neither of them feeling left out. Would I do it again ? Possibly though I’ll need to acquire some sort of “selfish-ish” kinda hat " What you need is the right attitude from the fellas. My philosophy is that straight MFMs are all about pleasing the lady. Find two fellas with that attitude and you can relax back and simply enjoy. | |||
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"From a man's perspective. I had one session many years ago where I was the plus 1 in a mmf play. A woman I knew wanted me to join her and her bf in a 3sum. Her partner was quite up for it but unfortunately he was a bit to turned on. He came within a few minutes and after about 5 minutes watching me fuck his gf he became quite angry and wanted to fight me. I still chuckle about it. " Oh no thats awful but hilarious | |||
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