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By *ust fun9 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

What are the better meets? A slow build up and a pre arranged meet, maybe days or weeks. Or a bit more spontaneous when you are feeling really horny?

Obviously have to be compatable either way first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to text, call, cam, chat first. Connection makes a meet a lot better generally. I am usually very choosy about who I meet with great results.

Spontaneous is much more risky, both to safety and quality of sex. That said, I have had a couple of meets which we're basically an address on a text and a photo, followed by me turning up and him just slipping it straight in with barely a hello. One was a great meet, the other wasn't xx

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

I quite like the variety in terms of people and arrangements. For example, just after lockdown had ended I saw a message on here from a lady stating she'd had a no show.

A couple of messages between us and an hour later she was straddling me on her settee.

Whereas in 15 minutes I'll be off out as I have a prearranged meet with a couple a short drive from me.

I've been very lucky so far in that I've yet to have a disappointing session with anyone.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Spontaneous by a country mile ..

Meeting when both are horny..

Arranged meets are too clinical.. I don’t know if I’m going to be at my horniest a week on Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it spontaneous meets I rarely planner meet more than day in advance.

I am not looking to make friends just a bit of fun. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to chat to someone a bit and arrange something! I cant really meet on a whim due to my home situation! But I also love chatting to someone to build the anticipation and get each other totally wound up before even getting your hands on each other!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've had one spontaneous meet with someone I'd never spoken to until the night before.

She was staying in an hotel I was driving passed so it wasn't out of my way.

Neither of us knew what the other looked like until she opened the door.

Half an hour later I had to leave when her friends in the next room rang to arrange breakfast.

It was all about her pleasure and I remained fully dressed throughout.

She claimed she had never done anything like that before but sent me a thank you message later that day and then blocked me.

It was an experience but not one I'd be interested in repeating which is why I don't meet without a social first and getting to know people.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I prefer having a build up and the anticipation leading up to meeting someone. I'm not a big fan of getting straight down to it, unless it's someone I know

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

A slow build up in advance has always been the best for me.

I had a quicker meet once, but it wasn't that good.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

My meets are always spontaneous when I'm horny

I only meet local people who can meet straight away

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By *ust fun9 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

Lots of different approaches to what each individual is comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meets are always spontaneous when I'm horny

I only meet local people who can meet straight away"

So you are a local wife, for local people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both ... there is something very hot about a quikly arranged meet just as is going out on the town and getting frisky but i also like a good session and thats were the longer planning comes in but im talking about over a week not mounths there is a case for too much chat too

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By *ilkmothMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Chatting and maybe voice / video calls is a great way of building the anticipation and testing if there is a connection prior to arranging a meeting. The prelims may last a few days or a few weeks / months. A social meet is always a must, preferably with a hotel nearby, just in case.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Bit of chatting on here juat to.get an idea of who.they are and what they're looking for then straight to a social meet if we feel it can work.

No point drawing it out. You're either going to meet people, get one with them.then fool around or you're not. Honestly preffer the old fashioned way of doing it face to face.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Never got that far so wouldn’t know

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Spontaneous by a country mile ..

Meeting when both are horny..

Arranged meets are too clinical.. I don’t know if I’m going to be at my horniest a week on Thursday "
I really hate arranging meets full stop. Hence I just go to clubs x

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

A slow build up leads to a more exciting meet

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By *dventureSeeker23Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"What are the better meets? A slow build up and a pre arranged meet, maybe days or weeks. Or a bit more spontaneous when you are feeling really horny?

Obviously have to be compatable either way first. "

For me personally its a mixture of both. Planned meets can lose the spark if not chatting on a regular basis.

Spontaneous can go either way i've been lucky to expirence good and bad ones wouldn't rule out any.

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By *ust fun9 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea


"both ... there is something very hot about a quikly arranged meet just as is going out on the town and getting frisky but i also like a good session and thats were the longer planning comes in but im talking about over a week not mounths there is a case for too much chat too"

Similar to me. It's about the mood and what you desire I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow build up are better than any meets

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

What's a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to see if we have the same interests sexually good to know where you stand and what turns each other on

Biggest problem the ones I find are miles awayyyyyyyy

Blindfolds just if your curious

Xx

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Wish we could do spontaneous....but Char needs time before a meet to rest and also after, so we have to plan carefully. Means we generally have at least a week between arranging a meet and it actually happening and we think that might be one of the reasons that over half of our meets don't turn up.

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Heathrow

Unfortunately here and now meets are just not possible for us due to “normal” life commitments. We usually plan a week or so ahead when we know we have a free evening coming up.

Agree with the comment “don’t know I’m going to be horny a week next Thursday”, but the other side of the argument is that it gives us time to tease each other for days about what is going to happen which works well for us. Then, on the day, the real nerves kick in and the hard foreplay takes place while getting read to go out.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Build up which has been spontaneous leaving each other gagging to meet anything at that time just unravels

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