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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.

I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We're with you on that

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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

"We're with you on that

Perfect pics

. I have always wanted to tease and push a sensory deprived lady to multiple orgasms with her partner joining me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

^^thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.

I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known

Love this side of BDSM. Especially if you find someone with lots of sexual chemistry thrown in - only been the one guy so far! My god how immense was it

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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.

I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known

Love this side of BDSM. Especially if you find someone with lots of sexual chemistry thrown in - only been the one guy so far! My god how immense was it

. Can only agree with the chemistry and the effect when you get to the point of having it all. I met someone new this year and who ticked all the boxes and it has been a few perfect meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore this too. I love reactions, and chasing the next high for him

It's such a wonderfully sexy and erotic sight to see a man completely lost in pleasure which I've given him. The addition of a blindfold and some soft restraints is also hot.

It's amazing when you find someone who shares your passion for mutual sensuality, tease and pleasures.

When that chemistry is there its actually mind blowing.

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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

"I adore this too. I love reactions, and chasing the next high for him

It's such a wonderfully sexy and erotic sight to see a man completely lost in pleasure which I've given him. The addition of a blindfold and some soft restraints is also hot.

It's amazing when you find someone who shares your passion for mutual sensuality, tease and pleasures.

When that chemistry is there its actually mind blowing.

Love the way you describe it and I can relate deeply. Do you like receiving as much as giving?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

This is why we love collar and lead play. There’s nothing more erotic for us than another woman letting us fasten a collar around her neck, and seeing the pleasure it brings her to display her submissive intent so clearly.

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By *usicmaidWoman
over a year ago

fabbington

Puts hand up and waves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I adore this too. I love reactions, and chasing the next high for him

It's such a wonderfully sexy and erotic sight to see a man completely lost in pleasure which I've given him. The addition of a blindfold and some soft restraints is also hot.

It's amazing when you find someone who shares your passion for mutual sensuality, tease and pleasures.

When that chemistry is there its actually mind blowing.

Love the way you describe it and I can relate deeply. Do you like receiving as much as giving? "

With the right person I do, absolutely yes. I do much prefer to give though.

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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

"This is why we love collar and lead play. There’s nothing more erotic for us than another woman letting us fasten a collar around her neck, and seeing the pleasure it brings her to display her submissive intent so clearly."

Collared female with eye contact listening to instructions - super sexy

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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

"Puts hand up and waves

Hola

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

My experience of attempting to post bdsm images have been met with site mods quickly rejecting them, so think things will have to be limited to vanilla type bdsm on here, no more than that of 50 shades..

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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

"I adore this too. I love reactions, and chasing the next high for him

It's such a wonderfully sexy and erotic sight to see a man completely lost in pleasure which I've given him. The addition of a blindfold and some soft restraints is also hot.

It's amazing when you find someone who shares your passion for mutual sensuality, tease and pleasures.

When that chemistry is there its actually mind blowing.

Love the way you describe it and I can relate deeply. Do you like receiving as much as giving?

With the right person I do, absolutely yes. I do much prefer to give though. "

Likewise. It’s rare to find someone who genuinely switches to take control. But blissful when you find one you can trust and like what they are doing

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.

I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known

Orgasm control and denial is the biggest part of it for us. We’ve been playing more and more with breath play as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it, prersonally i am enjoying the swap of power control espacially when being ballbusted

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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

"My experience of attempting to post bdsm images have been met with site mods quickly rejecting them, so think things will have to be limited to vanilla type bdsm on here, no more than that of 50 shades.. "

True. But I haven’t found an issue if it was tastefully done. It depends on who approves I guess

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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.

I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known

Orgasm control and denial is the biggest part of it for us. We’ve been playing more and more with breath play as well. "

Breathe way in combination with orgasm play is intense. Restrictions just when she is about to cum..

On a different note, there is a lot of interest from the north and Scotland.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Yep we can’t post a pic with a hand print ! Gets taken down after a few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.

I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known

I love this but it’s been a long time since I’ve had the the trust and connection with someone to enjoy this. I’m always hopeful of enjoying this again.

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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.

I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known

I love this but it’s been a long time since I’ve had the the trust and connection with someone to enjoy this. I’m always hopeful of enjoying this again. "

I tend to start with social and sensual play. This side needs a lot of trust built as you say. I find a massage and sensual session helps build that sense of intimacy and connection.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Been in to it for quite some time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is very much how I like to focus this aspect of my play, ultimately I'm a giver, and want to give the person I'm playing with the most fabulous time, and this doesn't even have to include penetrative sex..

A lot of ladies don't seem to understand that bit that's fine, it's just because they haven't experienced yet,

Bit also it's not a walk in service, it does require talking, understanding and prep work prior, on my side and theirs and many folk don't seem to get that either... Which is sad

Yes I could just play with you from 'cold' but it'll be a poor experience, and that's not what I want to give...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love exploring this side together and now looking to introduce others into our play. Miss B is the dominant one… mmm love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgasm control is definitely one of the most under appreciated BDSM activity.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I love this

All the teasing and learning what gets someone going

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

Very much enjoy orgasm control and denial, edging and post orgasm torture BUT it has to be a trusted playmate for the chemistry to work it’s wonderful magic!

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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

If you are fan of erotic sm, say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waves

Good morning all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Waves

Good morning all

Morning

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over a year ago

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By *rygveMan
over a year ago

The Shires

Like the OP I really enjoy this. Takes time to build up the connection and trust but so worth it in the end.

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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

Nice early interest. Morning all

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By *ellsuitedMan
over a year ago

Elstree

I have always said that bdsm is sex for clever people. The sensations and the variations are absolutely incredible.

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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

"I have always said that bdsm is sex for clever people. The sensations and the variations are absolutely incredible."

Sex for thinking people - I like the sound of it. But it is 90% not sex where bits go in and out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the erotic sensual dynamics of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Waves

Good morning all

Good morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.

I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known

I am dominant and very much a fan of this side of BDSM. A practicing devotee, if you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love a BDSM party more the erotic play side.

Mrs likes Dom side as well!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love a good erotic, sensual BDSM play, the feeling of giving yourself to your partner is tremendous total trust

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I would say it’s our style of play but we do like variety too. Sometimes a quick and spontaneous animalistic outdoor fuck hits the spot just as well. We just go with the flow.

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By *erseus1968Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

I love being teased and denied

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Edging, orgasm denial and forced is the main part of our bdsm play.

The punishment side is purely down to how well the edging goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sensual BDSM play, denial and ropeworks. Especially when used together mmm A woman tied up, blindfolded and teased. When it clicks with right person it's great, the total trust between sub and Dom. Told the orgasm when allowed is total different feeling and the payback is great

Rope work just looks so good if the time is taken. It's something I love to do more of and get better at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I adore this too. I love reactions, and chasing the next high for him

It's such a wonderfully sexy and erotic sight to see a man completely lost in pleasure which I've given him. The addition of a blindfold and some soft restraints is also hot.

It's amazing when you find someone who shares your passion for mutual sensuality, tease and pleasures.

When that chemistry is there its actually mind blowing.

Chemistry is definitely important x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An utter fav

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By *arker66Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Definitely love the erotic side off bdsm play I do love too switch.I would love to chat with people who are likeminded in this

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Like others, I am a reaction junkie and like to see how bottoms react to different stimuli.

If I was to categorise play, I would distinguish between sensual play and sadistic play,and not erotic and sadistic as I find both sensual and sadistic types of play each to be erotic. I don't see them as an either or choice. I see the position in two ways. I see it as a spectrum that overlaps or a box of mixed sweets, where you can mainly choose one type of flavour or mix it up a bit.

This also feeds into having to take into account that some types of pain can be sensual, and also that individuals process pain differently.

Another key matter is the skill and ability of the Top, to guage reactions and deliver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a lady who is brilliant at this. I don't think I've experience everything she wants from me yet but I can't wait to be on the receiving end of it

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.

I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known

We're certainly here; although, 'here' is not where the community you seek is generally found. Google is your friend...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a kinky playroom in our home equipped with a swing and shackles and chains on the wall. We are looking forward to chaining my tranny cuck up to watch Vixen in action on the swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The joy we have found is switching control together. Learning how to submit makes dominating all the more pleasurable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The joy we have found is switching control together. Learning how to submit makes dominating all the more pleasurable

Totally agree with this. I think being submissive has helped me as a dominant when the chance arises

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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

Love to see so many fans of this and to read the responses.

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

It has been some if lifes greatest pleasures to pleasure some of lifes greatest women and the odd couple to intense pleasure And the artistic and erotic dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is very much how I like to focus this aspect of my play, ultimately I'm a giver, and want to give the person I'm playing with the most fabulous time, and this doesn't even have to include penetrative sex..

A lot of ladies don't seem to understand that bit that's fine, it's just because they haven't experienced yet,

Bit also it's not a walk in service, it does require talking, understanding and prep work prior, on my side and theirs and many folk don't seem to get that either... Which is sad

Yes I could just play with you from 'cold' but it'll be a poor experience, and that's not what I want to give..."

So many guys on here are only interested in a f**k and go - no pleasure for me in that at all.

Sensual bdsm is exactly what I enjoy and crave.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I do this I fuck the mind first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.

I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known

here I am, looking for a sensual Dom to come and get me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seen this. Exactly what we like

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Anything described as erotic definitely appeals to me. I love the sound of this OP.

Pushing boundaries in the most sensual way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of our favourites. Blindfolds, restraints and orgasm denial is great but also more to explore.

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.

I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known

I’m a Domme and I live all aspects of BDSM

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