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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know and am fully aware of why the majority of people insist on a social meet

But does anyone actually like the idea of a spontaneous and quick meet

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Nope

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By *ohnnyGentMan
over a year ago

london

I’m always up for a spontaneous meet but doesn’t seem to be the vibe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one which was good. Spontaneous meets are more widespread on the sister site fab g*ys. Make of that what you will lol

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know and am fully aware of why the majority of people insist on a social meet

But does anyone actually like the idea of a spontaneous and quick meet "

Years ago yes!

People's lifestyles are so full on now aren't they....

Lots need to find a connection of sorts! Who can blame them!

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Usually means they aren't serious or are fake had a single guy turn up at the door once... He was removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneity is still there but you need to be on fab at 2.43am when someone posts a new status asking for a kebab with bj in exchange as they can’t drink and drive

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I know and am fully aware of why the majority of people insist on a social meet

But does anyone actually like the idea of a spontaneous and quick meet "

I used to but I think it's all too much effort to be spontaneous these days lol

I like short notice meets with people I know but not wham bam thank you mam with ramdons anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Only if a freshly, straight out of the oven, cake is involved

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not for me x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Spontaneous with sometime you've already met definitely yes.

With a stranger?

Done it once and it was all about her so I won't be repeating it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah xx

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"I know and am fully aware of why the majority of people insist on a social meet

But does anyone actually like the idea of a spontaneous and quick meet "

No because we're interested in a lot more than just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s why we prefer clubs. You have a certain amount of spontaneity in that you’ve not arranged to meet anyone (generally). You can chat to anyone and if you don’t make a connection you can simply move on to the next one.

Just meeting someone you’ve never met before without a social just seems to add pressure to the situation. What if they turn up and you aren’t attracted to them or them to you?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not for me,

Had a quick meet years ago and I didn't really enjoy it, felt like he wanted to just please himself and go.

All my best meets I've chatted a while and had a social, same when I met my other half of almost 6 years now.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No because want a bit more than just sex and by asking questions before hand you find that the sex is far better when you know something about the other person their likes and dislikes. It kind of awkward having to asks questions whilst in the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last spontaneous shag with a stranger was awkward and I couldn’t wait to leave but with a fwb it was fun and freaky

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

We only do spontaneous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to get to know them a little first

Though recently and in perfect timing, a spontaneous meet happened whiting acting out a role play fantasy.

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"That’s why we prefer clubs. You have a certain amount of spontaneity in that you’ve not arranged to meet anyone (generally). You can chat to anyone and if you don’t make a connection you can simply move on to the next one.

Just meeting someone you’ve never met before without a social just seems to add pressure to the situation. What if they turn up and you aren’t attracted to them or them to you? "

This is why I like clubs too

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I have experienced social meets that were not pleasant - imagine what would it have been like if I had agreed to have sex on the first meet? It would have been so much more difficult to get out of that situation which also raises the consideration of safety for me.

Spontaneous may be safer for men than for women so for me it is a definite "no thanks"

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"That’s why we prefer clubs. You have a certain amount of spontaneity in that you’ve not arranged to meet anyone (generally). You can chat to anyone and if you don’t make a connection you can simply move on to the next one.

Just meeting someone you’ve never met before without a social just seems to add pressure to the situation. What if they turn up and you aren’t attracted to them or them to you?

This is why I like clubs too "

Absolutely x

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Spontaneous meets don't do much for me, I like to get to know people and have some kind of connection

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I had a spontaneous after a couple of hours chatting, suggested as a social by the couple being in the same area as each other, i wasn't pushy and had no expectations beyond a chat and it developed nicely. it was a thrill as much as the thrill of getting to know someone over time before a meet so there is a place for both.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We've had a few - one went so well, we've been friends with the other couple for years!

It's often easier for us than trying to plan around when the kids will be out, as they often change their minds last minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t really do spontaneous meets but it would have to be with someone I already got to know. I’ve had a few quickie car meets with someone I got to know on here when I was passing his way and that was fun, but we had already had a social and hotel meets before hand. It’s so much better when they know what does it for you than some random fumble. Though that’s different in a club as there is a certain excitement there.

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By *ombull15Man
over a year ago

essex

I love spontaneous meets some of the best I had 3 so far all great usually early morning fun I find

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I’ve had spontaneous meets a couple of times ..

Luckily everything turned out great ..

The people are still on here and we still chat ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just like going out to a club and having a one night stand. All depends on how it starts to how it ends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous yes Quick no has to be more to it than just sex

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No i dont fuck strangers

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By *harlotteBigBoobsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I like meets where you do plan to meet ,meet for drinks in hotel bar or drinks at theres but know full well sex is on the cards also. Spontaneous no as i like to feel fresh and good as in shower, hair done make up done x

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I know and am fully aware of why the majority of people insist on a social meet

But does anyone actually like the idea of a spontaneous and quick meet "

That's why we go to clubs. All the sex is spontaneous and sometimes entirely anonymous.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've played with people in clubs after only exchanging a few words, though we don't make a habit of it!

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