FabSwingers.com forum: Find a FWB south east/west

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I recently seen this types of threads for other areas, and thought I would start one for us southerners! I for one would love to find a fwb (male of female)

But feel free to use the thread to make some connections

fire away

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x"

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

Take me with you! Haha there seems to be alot more clubs up north too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

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haha we thought that travelled to Birmingham for our 1st club

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

Take me with you! Haha there seems to be alot more clubs up north too x "

Oh there is yes and my friend and I are planning to go to one at some point.x

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

haha we thought that travelled to Birmingham for our 1st club

How did you find it? Planning on going up to Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

haha we thought that travelled to Birmingham for our 1st club

How did you find it? Planning on going up to Manchester "
were really new to scene & didn't play there but really liked it was relaxed great staff will definitely go again we had good nite

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

Take me with you! Haha there seems to be alot more clubs up north too x

Oh there is yes and my friend and I are planning to go to one at some point.x"

There is just the one tgirl club where I live, and the t girl nights ain’t back up and running yet, so my closet one after that is over 20 miles away lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

Take me with you! Haha there seems to be alot more clubs up north too x

Oh there is yes and my friend and I are planning to go to one at some point.x

There is just the one tgirl club where I live, and the t girl nights ain’t back up and running yet, so my closet one after that is over 20 miles away lol x "
would it just be tgirl nites ud go to? Do any go at other times? Just wondered never thought about it before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

haha we thought that travelled to Birmingham for our 1st club

How did you find it? Planning on going up to Manchester "
ul have to let us know how u find it

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

You can be my friend. I ha e no benefits though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

Take me with you! Haha there seems to be alot more clubs up north too x

Oh there is yes and my friend and I are planning to go to one at some point.x

There is just the one tgirl club where I live, and the t girl nights ain’t back up and running yet, so my closet one after that is over 20 miles away lol x would it just be tgirl nites ud go to? Do any go at other times? Just wondered never thought about it before?"

As tori yes would only be t girl clubs,

When I’m in male mode, I’ll go to regular clubs too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

Take me with you! Haha there seems to be alot more clubs up north too x

Oh there is yes and my friend and I are planning to go to one at some point.x

As tori yes would only be t girl clubs,

When I’m in male mode, I’ll go to regular clubs too x"
ah I see IL have to add it to the list of things to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

Maybe your blocks are holding you back?

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By *ustdoomnowMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm from Portsmouth, I'd love to find a lady living in cal or a couple. No luck here either.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Count me in. Would love a regular fwb.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm looking for a fwb too. Been searching for a while. The thing is, finding someone is not the hard bit, it's finding someone that you click with that seems to be the issue and often those that you do click with, lives on the opposite side of the country more or less

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

From Taunton here!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

You are quite picky though

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’m still trying to find someone with amazing _kills in the kitchen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a FWB, something a little more than a quick shag.

I would also hope she, or they if it is a couple, would embrace my TV side, and hopefully offer makeup and clothes tips.

I am also looking for a new housemate, so maybe I can get the best of both worlds, lol.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

You are quite picky though

Hah looking for local is not picky

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By *oc30Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I travel an hour or two around cheltenham in a radius and have been to clubs ! But yeah local FWB is like finding a needle in a haystack! Also I sometime worry finding my patients on here! Once came across mum of a child I treated !

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

You are quite picky though

Hah looking for local is not picky "

It’s not and for you I would make the effort to the degree that you would think I lived down the road

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

It is out there. Just gotta be patient x

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By *rnymattMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I’m from Kent south east

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

You are quite picky though

Hah looking for local is not picky

It’s not and for you I would make the effort to the degree that you would think I lived down the road

Nice try

, though I’m not just thinking of myself in this. Imagine travelling all this way and I have to cancel last minute. I’m thoughtful like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m looking for an FWB in Bridgwater/Taunton area Southwest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

How about finding a shepherd !! If that’s the case then youve found one !! Would never cancel either ! And not too far away !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I recently seen this types of threads for other areas, and thought I would start one for us southerners! I for one would love to find a fwb (male of female)

But feel free to use the thread to make some connections

fire away

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hows the search coming on ??

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By *key1980Man
over a year ago

Okehampton

Okehampton,ladies pm me please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I recently seen this types of threads for other areas, and thought I would start one for us southerners! I for one would love to find a fwb (male of female)

But feel free to use the thread to make some connections

fire away

hows the search coming on ?? "

I’m extremely fussy so not very well haha

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Well I’m counting myself in this genral area don’t judge people. So I’m in

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

How about finding a shepherd !! If that’s the case then youve found one !! Would never cancel either ! And not too far away ! "

Haha I won’t meet with someone just because they are a shepherd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use to be quite easy on this site in the past, now it just seems to be another social media site!

Yes there's plenty of people here, some success stories & plenty of clubs again, but those looking for some one on one fun I'm not convinced anymore!

If I read another 'be patient', 'a picture might help' or 'try making your profile different', comment I'll scream!

Think I've more chance at the local Wetherspoons!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Portsmouth for me

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

"Use to be quite easy on this site in the past, now it just seems to be another social media site!

Yes there's plenty of people here, some success stories & plenty of clubs again, but those looking for some one on one fun I'm not convinced anymore!

If I read another 'be patient', 'a picture might help' or 'try making your profile different', comment I'll scream!

Think I've more chance at the local Wetherspoons!

To be fair though. Your profile tells any prospective person nothing.

If you messaged us we’d ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

I’ve recently just moved back from Liverpool , I had two socials while up there and multiple meets that vanished on the day we were supposed to meet but I also managed to have fun without the site

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Any ladies living in Hants/ Berks or Surrey ?

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By *.B.FMan
over a year ago

north London

Any women in Hertfordshire, Essex and north London x pm me lets talk x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SW is so quiet for everything. I guess it being a big area with limited transport links... Big opportunity for a swinging hub tho ... If only I had time and money!

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

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Try the South East before you venture up North

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live most of my time around Derby and there seems to be a lot of people who play within 40 miles of here

In the future I will spend time around Barnstaple and I do think there are not so many people who want to have fun on here around there

Maybe it is just down to population density - more cities around here = more people = more swingers

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We’ve always thought the North seems more lively than down this way when it comes to Fab fun.

Having said that, Fab’s been great to us and we’ve met lots of lovely South Westerners through here, so mustn’t complain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I recently seen this types of threads for other areas, and thought I would start one for us southerners! I for one would love to find a fwb (male of female)

But feel free to use the thread to make some connections

fire away

Yes I would definitely like to find a FWB. Seams almost impossible to find. But I live in hope. Any Female's interested please send me a message or a wink will do. Here's hoping x

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By *arty84Man
over a year ago

Orpington

Oh! finally one of these for an area I'm in!

Although it's been up for debate if Bromley gets counted for being part of the South East these days.

Count me in as interested if any ladies in the London, South/South East areas are in need of a fwb.

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By *MattyMan
over a year ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

South West sort of here and looking for a FWB as well.

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By *itchayWomanTV/TS
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I would like to get involved! Though I only just count as south east.

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By *itchayWomanTV/TS
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Oh dear I killed it haha

I must not be anyones cup of tea then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

South East here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

London older chap here looking for the same, female or M/F couple. Not had much luck on here but still hopeful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coastal Sussex not far west of Brighton

I'd love to make more poly friends and have more cuddle buddies and FWBs!

No expectations or pressures on either, look at my profile, see how we match up and take it from there. Xxx

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

South East here, you are right, I think southerners are a bit frigid! I have loads of chats with interesting people from the north east and as for Scotland, they are the horniest people around! Down south, nothing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m close to Banbury …….. any takers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Near Worthing here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m from Essex and would love a FWB but just can’t seem to find anyone! Am I that unappealing to people?

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By *killsMan
over a year ago

Never Never Land

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

It depends if your holy grail is 6 foot tall. That seems to be the general preference for round here.

Makes it super easy for me being a massive 5’6 lol

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

It depends if your holy grail is 6 foot tall. That seems to be the general preference for round here.

Makes it super easy for me being a massive 5’6 lol"

Well I’m 5’7 so anything over me is good not necessarily 6ft. I don’t really like to tower over people in heels

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"South East here, you are right, I think southerners are a bit frigid! I have loads of chats with interesting people from the north east and as for Scotland, they are the horniest people around! Down south, nothing....."

Haha I am not frigid thank you

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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago

essex and norfolk

Essex here,very quiet in this neck of the woods

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By *killsMan
over a year ago

Never Never Land

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

It depends if your holy grail is 6 foot tall. That seems to be the general preference for round here.

Makes it super easy for me being a massive 5’6 lol

Well I’m 5’7 so anything over me is good not necessarily 6ft. I don’t really like to tower over people in heels"

I’m great at walking on my tip toes

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

It depends if your holy grail is 6 foot tall. That seems to be the general preference for round here.

Makes it super easy for me being a massive 5’6 lol

Well I’m 5’7 so anything over me is good not necessarily 6ft. I don’t really like to tower over people in heels

I’m great at walking on my tip toes

you could wear heels too

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By *killsMan
over a year ago

Never Never Land

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

It depends if your holy grail is 6 foot tall. That seems to be the general preference for round here.

Makes it super easy for me being a massive 5’6 lol

Well I’m 5’7 so anything over me is good not necessarily 6ft. I don’t really like to tower over people in heels

I’m great at walking on my tip toes

you could wear heels too "

Deal

It wouldn’t be the first time I had lol

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

"So I recently seen this types of threads for other areas, and thought I would start one for us southerners! I for one would love to find a fwb (male of female)

But feel free to use the thread to make some connections

fire away

Yes I would definitely like to find a FWB. Seams almost impossible to find. But I live in hope. Any Female's interested please send me a message or a wink will do. Here's hoping x"

If you block people foe expressing a preference, when I thought there was potential it makes it much harder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fwb/regular would be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in Watford if there's any ladies out there that might like little old me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

I am surprised you haven't found the holy grail already. Stunning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I,m looking for an FWB in Bridgwater/Taunton area Southwest x"

I'm Taunton area and looking for FWB. Do you fancy chatting and see if there is anything there?

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

I am surprised you haven't found the holy grail already. Stunning. "

Unfortunately not, there is many a factor to consider when looking. It’s harder than it looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love a regular Fwb pm me if anyone fancies a chat about it

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

"Oh dear I killed it haha

I must not be anyones cup of tea then

You’re our cup of tea!

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By *killsMan
over a year ago

Never Never Land

Now if I could find a fwb that can make a good cup of tea. That indeed would be the holy grail for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to have one but who would have me though?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Did I hear cups of tea being mentioned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somerset here! But I agree with some of the other comments, there are lots of factors that make finding a fwb difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looking for a FWB... But happy to chat to local SWers. (I'm Swindon ATM, don't judge!)

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By *itchayWomanTV/TS
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Oh dear I killed it haha

I must not be anyones cup of tea then

You’re our cup of tea!

yay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Essex here, South East/London borders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met eachother off fab

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By *ewiscypherMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

You are quite picky though

Hah looking for local is not picky "

You could always extend your age range

Some of us slightly older chaps are still in pretty good nick... lol

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

**jumps up & down, waving**

I’m in Swindon

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By *irtybrit27Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

Indeed! Preaching to the choir, I’m south east and it’s non existent! Lol x

Think it’s time to relocate to the north, it seems that’s where all the fun’s at…. Well from the messages I get :

Take me with you! Haha there seems to be alot more clubs up north too x "

Feel exactly the same. I look on all the posts about clubs up north (which is everywhere from here!) with envy. I appreciate the libs events and venue but would love some other nearby places to visit and actually meet people. Feel that's my best chance to find a genuine fwb rather than online timewasters or people after quickies. You can really push boundaries and explore the more you know people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been to club play in Blackpool quite a few times I can only say that maybe we should get a few of us together and maybe go up together for a weekend in Blackpool !! Could be fun having a night out and also a night at the club !

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

You are quite picky though

Hah looking for local is not picky

You could always extend your age range

Some of us slightly older chaps are still in pretty good nick... lol

The reason it’s there is because you get messages saying I’m 55 but are usually past that and I don’t want to be rude. Plus younger guys will find me to old before long so I might as well make the most of it

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

I’ll be in south west and my guy is going away for a month so defo looking a fwb x

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By *exymansexyMan
over a year ago

Warfield

It is a nightmare trying to find a FWB type thing.

I was told recently I am on the wrong site if thats what I am looking for since this site is for 'swingers'.

It does not help that most of the ladies in my area expect you to 'apply' to them like you are applying for a job.

And the ones who do speak to you mostly want a guy ten years their junior.

It's a free world of course but I do not see the above as a aiding my search for a FWB.

Isn't it ironic that men love older women and that women love younger men. What would Freud make of that!

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"It is a nightmare trying to find a FWB type thing.

I was told recently I am on the wrong site if thats what I am looking for since this site is for 'swingers'.

It does not help that most of the ladies in my area expect you to 'apply' to them like you are applying for a job.

And the ones who do speak to you mostly want a guy ten years their junior.

It's a free world of course but I do not see the above as a aiding my search for a FWB.

Isn't it ironic that men love older women and that women love younger men. What would Freud make of that!"

I don’t love younger men, it has nothing to do with age it’s about how I get along with them personality wise and if we are into the same sexually. It just so happens these are usually in their 30’s. I met a guy in his 50’s but found we were on totally different paths sexually.

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By *MattyMan
over a year ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

Shhhhhhhhhhh don;t tell them all or they will want to come to Swindon

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By *oc30Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I lived in swindon before moving up the road to Cheltenham ! Absolutely loved the magic round about

I still have quite a lot of friends there ! And not too far !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

finding a fwb anywhere is a challenge the worse bit is those who lie in the first place just to get in your knickers ...some are pretty sad like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"finding a fwb anywhere is a challenge the worse bit is those who lie in the first place just to get in your knickers ...some are pretty sad like that"

I have had that with some guys too, but I am really looking for someone to share experiences with.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Still looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few FWBs all existing along a broad spectrum of predilictions and varying needs in our lives.

Emphasis always on the F.

The SE is anything but frigid lol!

Have fun making your connections and new friends xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone near Bath?

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

A FWB would be the dream on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me about it lol

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

"Anyone near Bath?

I’m in Swindon?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ello all

Born n bred londoner.

Preff in london for time & quality.

Will travel abit further surrounding area's being flexi and love driving.

Any takers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone near Bath?

I’m in Swindon?! "

I'm often in Swindon too. I think we should be friends

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Reading here. Happy to travel too

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Its ultimately what I'm still looking for I'm in south east x

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

South West and looking for someone with excellent _kills in the kitchen (baking and bending over

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Still looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use to be quite easy on this site in the past, now it just seems to be another social media site!

Yes there's plenty of people here, some success stories & plenty of clubs again, but those looking for some one on one fun I'm not convinced anymore!

If I read another 'be patient', 'a picture might help' or 'try making your profile different', comment I'll scream!

Think I've more chance at the local Wetherspoons!

To be fair though. Your profile tells any prospective person nothing.

If you messaged us we’d ignore. "

Sorry for the late response but I wouldn't message you, why would I?

Re the profile: So what do people want then? The full fucking biography, details of every woman I've fucked, every position I like, what my stools measure in the morning, how many pints I piss in the evening?

But seriously the site ain't the same & the pubs got more chances for most single blokes these days!

The profile, yes I've tried in the past with the bullshit, all the works of art, all the information & it got me no-where so I don't bother anymore!

I clearly state if people want to know more send a message & we can chat. I'm not for writing epics like the majority on here, I did my creative writing 40+ years ago at school. Yes I've done more since but then I am a songwriter! I've no need to brag or spend time talking about conquests of the past 45yrs for other's amusement or jerk off material!

It hopefully eliminates the socialites that this site tends to attract these days. Those looking for a social night out, a chance to flaunt & flirt, dance whilst being lusted after by several blokes! Check out the biggest wallet & brand of shoes, make of car & fake tan! Christ I hate all that shit even though the music they all listen & dance to usually pays my salary!

I'm more for the woman whose happy to cut through all the usual bullshit, get together for a drink & if there's any connection & attraction arrange something more.

There use to be so many on this site at one time, the housewife looking for an afternoon of discreet pleasure, the office girl after a lunch hour of lust, the school mum looking for a little extra cream in her morning coffee, the college girl looking for a safe smoke & fuck before heading home for the family evening meal, you get my drift?

Simple really, not looking for a public social event or such, those who swing that's fine, enjoy yourselves, I was doing it before most of you were fucking born but it's not like it use to be. It was more for those in the the know, some show offs, vanity, but not like now, at times some women looking for sugar dads sure! Maybe because there was no internet & sites full of forum threads about mindless bollocks!

Maybe this site & the majority on it aren't for me anymore? Hell I've thought about leaving often enough, life's too short to fuck about on it too often!

Maybe coming back & trying again that was a mistake, the thought of possible new ventures & treats, variety from the previous experiences, not there's many left! Best to have left it alone? It's having been seriously ill & then Covid shut downs with re-openings not being the same, things that have kept me from the usual social events I attend, gigs I play, travelling & numerous women I meet with those usual opportunities?

Nuff said, time to consider quitting & sticking to the people I know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

You are quite picky though

Hah looking for local is not picky "

North Devon any good for you?

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By *attoolad1234Man
over a year ago

Newport

Isle of Wight here but often travel to Southampton or Portsmouth. Love that meet a women or couple for fun times and it’s very quiet over here!

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

You are quite picky though

Hah looking for local is not picky

North Devon any good for you?"

A little to far out sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

South east here, no luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

You are quite picky though

Hah looking for local is not picky

North Devon any good for you?

A little to far out sorry "

Bath must be fairly local?!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

You are quite picky though

Hah looking for local is not picky

North Devon any good for you?

A little to far out sorry "

Bath/ Bristol here. Any good ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Warminster here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Southampton here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the above posts cover most of the South West. Where are you? Middle of Dartmoor with out transport haha

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By *odkaboy2Man
over a year ago

bristol

"I’m from the southwest, it’s like trying to find the holy grail!

I’m a bloke in the south west and if you think it’s a holy grail mine is like splitting the atom with a butter knife

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By *onseagullMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"Anyone near Bath?

I’m in Swindon?! "

If only I were in Swindon. Brighton here and finding it difficult to get replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bristol South West here

There are a lot of fakes here but some of us are genuine..

As for South West...I think around here weston super mare is the swinging epicentre

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'm in the South, it's difficult. I've met lots of nice guys on socials, but then it's getting your schedules to align, how regular you want it to be, or they may only be here temporarily (military).

So it's not easy even for us single females! And then some guys will expect you to be exclusive and don't like the fact you might sleep with others from time to time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C here been trying for a fwb for ages,

East Sussex area x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I always looking for additions to my harem

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