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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it wrong for an older guy to message young ladies if they state 18-99 on profile

Are there any younger ladies out there who prefer the older guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think if your over the age of 18 as you need to be so what if an 18 year old woman wants to meet older good luck and go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or vice versa of course. X

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By *oozleMan
over a year ago

high wycombe

The worst that can happen is they say no or block you

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By *ikiLoverMan
over a year ago

Brighton

If it says 18 to 99 then no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about preferences, some ladies like an older guy. Whats the worst thing that can happen...go for it

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By *ate_BMan
over a year ago

London

Age ain’t nothing but a number.

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By *ip7Man
over a year ago

caister

I'm 65 and most ladies or couples have no interest at all

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By *ip7Man
over a year ago

caister

I'm 65 and most ladies or couples have no interest at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm 65 and most ladies or couples have no interest at all "

At least you're a repeater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 65 and most ladies or couples have no interest at all

At least you're a repeater "

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By *uyfrombristolMan
over a year ago

Bristol

If they put that on their profile, 99% of the time they are fake as fuck.

How many teens/twenties have you or anyone else ever met?

It's not everyone obviously; I met someone almost fifteen years my junior and it was amazing. That's because she wasn't a delusional bitch.

This site has a massive, endemic issue with fake profiles that I could (through twenty years of moderating websites) halve fairly easily, but it would mean giving up a degree of anonymity.

That said, it's be better than this shi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they put that on their profile, 99% of the time they are fake as fuck.

How many teens/twenties have you or anyone else ever met?

It's not everyone obviously; I met someone almost fifteen years my junior and it was amazing. That's because she wasn't a delusional bitch.

This site has a massive, endemic issue with fake profiles that I could (through twenty years of moderating websites) halve fairly easily, but it would mean giving up a degree of anonymity.

That said, it's be better than this shi."

Bit bitter there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age really is just a number. Attraction is key surely. Yes we have age put on profile but I for one as a couple have fairly lose goal post on that if the couple is to our liking and attraction.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Perhaps , I will word carefully. Out of 100% of females. Between say ages 20 to 30. Say they like older. Perhaps 98 % are fake . Other two percent . 1% are most probably ? Uni students etc ? Who want older to help fund Uni etc. They last 1% do like older. Reason why I am not sure of. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps , I will word carefully. Out of 100% of females. Between say ages 20 to 30. Say they like older. Perhaps 98 % are fake . Other two percent . 1% are most probably ? Uni students etc ? Who want older to help fund Uni etc. They last 1% do like older. Reason why I am not sure of. ? "

Depends what you class as older, 5,10 or more years because I think your percentages are a little out there

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Perhaps , I will word carefully. Out of 100% of females. Between say ages 20 to 30. Say they like older. Perhaps 98 % are fake . Other two percent . 1% are most probably ? Uni students etc ? Who want older to help fund Uni etc. They last 1% do like older. Reason why I am not sure of. ?

Depends what you class as older, 5,10 or more years because I think your percentages are a little out there "

I did say, ? Between ages twenty to thirty. Reason was allowing for Uni etc. Perhaps if not agree as a statistic? Then only 1 % of females of all ages would meet anyone say 20+ Years older than them. Refering to a female?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said females between 20 and 30 didn't mention how much older? I definitely think much more than 1% of women like older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally have a thing for older guys, i cant be the only one. 20 year gap is my biggest so far

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading


"You said females between 20 and 30 didn't mention how much older? I definitely think much more than 1% of women like older. "

If you had read last post I did. I put 20 + years older than female age. I have been on Fab, plus other site for over 15 years. Last few years big influx of fakes etc. For example . Yesterday . Contacted by 23 year old female on another site , according to profile. Once message between . Asked to go to chat app. I asked for their phone number to add them . Female ? Refused . Very easy to check if they do not have UK number. I was blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think it is a lot more than 1% of women who like the older guy.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Is it wrong for an older guy to message young ladies if they state 18-99 on profile

Are there any younger ladies out there who prefer the older guy. "

We've seen a 19 year old women banging a 60 year old guy in the club just as I've seen a 57 year old woman shagging the hell out of a couple of 20 something year old guys.

You're all consenting adults and free to do as you wish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally have a thing for older guys, i cant be the only one. 20 year gap is my biggest so far"

I'm 22 yrs older and not so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wink them and then it's in their hands

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's not wrong just be aware that many are too lazy to change the age preference setting, so 18-99 is not usually purposely set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife has a young lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in my late 20s and I have always liked older men and women so not all 20 something is fake x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally have a thing for older guys, i cant be the only one. 20 year gap is my biggest so far"

Mines is a 40 year age gap x I was 19 he was 59 x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally have a thing for older guys, i cant be the only one. 20 year gap is my biggest so far

Mines is a 40 year age gap x I was 19 he was 59 x"

He's one lucky guy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally have a thing for older guys, i cant be the only one. 20 year gap is my biggest so far

Mines is a 40 year age gap x I was 19 he was 59 x

He's one lucky guy xx"

I was lucky he didn’t have an heart attack lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, if she's not specified an age range then any age is fine to message. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally have a thing for older guys, i cant be the only one. 20 year gap is my biggest so far

Mines is a 40 year age gap x I was 19 he was 59 x

He's one lucky guy xx

I was lucky he didn’t have an heart attack lol x"

I've got a strong heart. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not at all, if she's not specified an age range then any age is fine to message. Xx"

Thank you. Xx

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By *lim Jim 69Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Good question but I guess if they have put an age range down then message away, hopefully they will message back politely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with messaging OP. The age range is there choice. If they come back to you and say you are older than they are looking for then just politely point out they may want to change their age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all, if she's not specified an age range then any age is fine to message. Xx

Thank you. Xx"

I hope so I have a gangbang on the 16th so if you want my young pussy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not at all, if she's not specified an age range then any age is fine to message. Xx

Thank you. Xx

I hope so I have a gangbang on the 16th so if you want my young pussy x"

Where is this event. Xx

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By *lim Jim 69Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Not at all, if she's not specified an age range then any age is fine to message. Xx

Thank you. Xx

I hope so I have a gangbang on the 16th so if you want my young pussy x"

Busy girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all, if she's not specified an age range then any age is fine to message. Xx

Thank you. Xx

I hope so I have a gangbang on the 16th so if you want my young pussy x

Where is this event. Xx"

Elsemere port details are on my profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all, if she's not specified an age range then any age is fine to message. Xx

Thank you. Xx

I hope so I have a gangbang on the 16th so if you want my young pussy x

Busy girl "

That’s how I like it x

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By *illieporterWoman
over a year ago

newcastle

It’s not about age it’s attraction I try not to limit myself by what age I would meet because I’ve been with older guys and we had a great connection! Just because I would go with one 55 year olds doesn’t mean I would meet eveyone that’s 55 though so many factors X

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I'm 65 and most ladies or couples have no interest at all

At least you're a repeater "

OMG spat my tea out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not at all, if she's not specified an age range then any age is fine to message. Xx

Thank you. Xx

I hope so I have a gangbang on the 16th so if you want my young pussy x"

Where is this event. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong for an older guy to message young ladies if they state 18-99 on profile

Are there any younger ladies out there who prefer the older guy. "

If they state they are looking for older guys! Then go for it… why can’t an older man go for younger ladies? I love meeting older ladies and they sure as hell don’t mind a younger guy!

Go for it my friend

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