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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it appropriate to message someone privately who responds to a post you have posted.

Reason for asking I have had some replies to another post from some really interesting ladies and I don't want to misread anything.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

This is when you need to use your judgement. Mostly people just respond to your post and aren't interested in private conversation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is when you need to use your judgement. Mostly people just respond to your post and aren't interested in private conversation"

Great advice duly noted

So is it better to wait (hope) for contact

Thanks for replying.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think it depends, have received a few messages just recently as I think some people are put off posting what they feel as they will get a lot of abuse thrown at them if they post public.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think it depends, have received a few messages just recently as I think some people are put off posting what they feel as they will get a lot of abuse thrown at them if they post public."

Guess that is a part and parcel of a public forum that's not to say I agree

Imagine subject matter is key to that if it's emotive or not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This is when you need to use your judgement. Mostly people just respond to your post and aren't interested in private conversation

Great advice duly noted

So is it better to wait (hope) for contact

Thanks for replying. "

I think it's best to try and judge from the tone of a response. Some women are happy to enter into private correspondence some not so much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is when you need to use your judgement. Mostly people just respond to your post and aren't interested in private conversation

Great advice duly noted

So is it better to wait (hope) for contact

Thanks for replying.

I think it's best to try and judge from the tone of a response. Some women are happy to enter into private correspondence some not so much."

Judging tone I think is a weakness of mine especially as most people here are quite friendly

I'll learn.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This is when you need to use your judgement. Mostly people just respond to your post and aren't interested in private conversation

Great advice duly noted

So is it better to wait (hope) for contact

Thanks for replying.

I think it's best to try and judge from the tone of a response. Some women are happy to enter into private correspondence some not so much.

Judging tone I think is a weakness of mine especially as most people here are quite friendly

I'll learn. "

I think if you're polite and not pushy you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is when you need to use your judgement. Mostly people just respond to your post and aren't interested in private conversation

Great advice duly noted

So is it better to wait (hope) for contact

Thanks for replying.

I think it's best to try and judge from the tone of a response. Some women are happy to enter into private correspondence some not so much.

Judging tone I think is a weakness of mine especially as most people here are quite friendly

I'll learn.

I think if you're polite and not pushy you'll be fine "

That's how I would describe myself. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'll soon tell you to 'KEEP IT TO THE FORUM ' if they think it's inappropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people mainly post to the forum for a open chat so unless they indicate on the post that they want private messages then i would keep it to the forum ...

i get people who want to talk privately rather than on the forun i just block them now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All great replies many thanks.

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