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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you prefer polite respectful normal messages

Or the descriptive what I'd like to do to you messages

I'd like to know where I'm going wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The second type make me want to barf!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The second type make me want to barf! "

So I think I'm polite but is there a possibility that to polite is off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite definitely...and don’t ask for a face pic or number right away!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Polite definitely...and don’t ask for a face pic or number right away! "

Thank you I generally never ask for numbers face pics only if we seem to be getting along ok

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Unless the ladies profile specifically states that she wants to receive sexual messages, I would expect many would respond with a block.

My reaction is usually

Clearly shows they didn't read any of my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unless the ladies profile specifically states that she wants to receive sexual messages, I would expect many would respond with a block.

My reaction is usually

Clearly shows they didn't read any of my profile. "

I always try to read profiles and never message if there is anything in there I either am or can't live up to. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A polite enquiry, followed by a little getting to know you, followed by a disgusting description of what you're going to do to me is generally the preferred order. Going in reverse will be a delete, and retries will probably be a block xx

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Most of my messages are from those that haven't bothered to read my profile.

Politeness wins, but must be with the ability to read profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A polite enquiry, followed by a little getting to know you, followed by a disgusting description of what you're going to do to me is generally the preferred order. Going in reverse will be a delete, and retries will probably be a block xx"

I'm not great at disgusting descriptions of what I'm going to do to you sadly xx

But your reply has made me smile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most of my messages are from those that haven't bothered to read my profile.

Politeness wins, but must be with the ability to read profiles."

Any particular make of car.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Do you prefer polite respectful normal messages

Or the descriptive what I'd like to do to you messages

I'd like to know where I'm going wrong. "

I like witty but not crude messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you prefer polite respectful normal messages

Or the descriptive what I'd like to do to you messages

I'd like to know where I'm going wrong.

I like witty but not crude messages."

Understand that but what if we don't share a similar sense of humour.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Polite and a face pic…..

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I find nothing worse than a message telling me someone wants to enter (it's called breaking in if you don't know them or invite them) into my house and take me from behind whilst I'm washing the pots, or similar.

That's not sexy and can very easily be creepy or down right scary.

If the profile states they are in to that type of thing, then have at it.

Would you seriously approach someone in real life with your fantasy? Politely show an interest. Start a conversation and engage my mind please.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Polite and a face pic….."

Then it must be my face letting me down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find nothing worse than a message telling me someone wants to enter (it's called breaking in if you don't know them or invite them) into my house and take me from behind whilst I'm washing the pots, or similar.

That's not sexy and can very easily be creepy or down right scary.

If the profile states they are in to that type of thing, then have at it.

Would you seriously approach someone in real life with your fantasy? Politely show an interest. Start a conversation and engage my mind please. "

That's just wrong

I'm just off to read your profile if that's ok.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Polite or I will block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Polite or I will block"

Well I'm on the right track at least with my messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The second type make me want to barf!

So I think I'm polite but is there a possibility that to polite is off putting. "

There is no such thing as too polite... Someone being too apologetic n grovely about everything is pretty off putting though... Or constantly saying they are nice/genuine, find that a little weird

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Not just polite, but I need them to ask me a question, so I have a reason to reply. Makes life so much easier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not just polite, but I need them to ask me a question, so I have a reason to reply. Makes life so much easier. "

That's good advice thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The second type make me want to barf!

So I think I'm polite but is there a possibility that to polite is off putting.

There is no such thing as too polite... Someone being too apologetic n grovely about everything is pretty off putting though... Or constantly saying they are nice/genuine, find that a little weird "

Again good advice thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite and respectful messages. Anything else gets deleted and blocked!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Polite and respectful messages. Anything else gets deleted and blocked!"

Thank you for reply and get well soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like introduction messages or questions about my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like introduction messages or questions about my profile"

How do you define larger than life. X

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket


"Most of my messages are from those that haven't bothered to read my profile.

Politeness wins, but must be with the ability to read profiles.

Any particular make of car. "

A clean one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most of my messages are from those that haven't bothered to read my profile.

Politeness wins, but must be with the ability to read profiles.

Any particular make of car.

A clean one"

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Polite and conversational with a reason to respond, happy if it’s a bit flirty given where we are, but the endless trail of messages asking “for a go on me” don’t really do it.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Polite!

I really hate the long paragraphs about what someone wants to do to me. Incredibly disrespectful, as they have no idea what I like.

Instant block.

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By *illieporterWoman
over a year ago

newcastle

Polite and conversation which will lead to naughty stuff.

paragraphs of what people will do to me get deleted without even reading them sheer disrespect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite always. Long descriptions of what they are going to do to me are a massive turn off, how do they know what I like?

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