FabSwingers.com forum: Feeling guilty

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I recently met up with a lovely couple.

Had a fun evening

and everything seemed fine. However 24 hours later the husband left our group chat and the wife then informed me that what they thought was a MMF fantasy was actually a reason for the husband to leave his wife.

She reassured me that it wasn’t my fault, however I’ve been feeling so bad and guilty about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to do with you, they agreed to a meet. You did your part by participating, any issue's they had together are their own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can’t help but feeling guilty for it.

God damn it

Had a really fun time and they were even up for meeting regularly. Clearly wasn’t meant to be x

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

Looks like one less couple account on here. Surely it will have to be deleted.?

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

I would tend to agree with symona1. They must have spoken about it and raised the possible issues of jealousy, motive and feelings etc

It's good to see you're human and showing remorse for them but also not for you to feel guilty over.

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By *lipy123TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I can’t help but feeling guilty for it.

God damn it

Had a really fun time and they were even up for meeting regularly. Clearly wasn’t meant to be x"

Not your fault that he instigated the meet to use to fit his own ends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure it's not still the husband chatting and continuing some kind of fantasy he has?

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

Go back and fuck her again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you sure it's not still the husband chatting and continuing some kind of fantasy he has?"

Was Definately the wife that messaged me x

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

And as Topman said...

Is she still up for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would tend to agree with symona1. They must have spoken about it and raised the possible issues of jealousy, motive and feelings etc

It's good to see you're human and showing remorse for them but also not for you to feel guilty over.

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And as Topman said...

Is she still up for it

That’s the million dollar question lol.

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

I would keep out of the way they have enough to be dealing with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are plenty of couple that split having tried swinging we seen loads over the years ...swinging will never fix a relationship thats in trouble in the first place .... but also op dont alkways belive what you are being told there are lots of couples who like to play silly games too

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

You're a single bloke on FAB, so guilty for everything from climate change to covid and everything in-between so this is nothing to worry about. Get her to give you a vari before he gets a chance to delete their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not your fault OP..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't waste your energy feeling guilty about something you can't possibly have known was going to happen, it's pointless.

A strong marriage would survive a fantasy gone wrong, I'm willing to bet there were far greater issues than having a threesome.

I don't mean this harshly but you really won't have been important enough to break their marriage up.

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

maybe he was just looking for a excuse to dump her. if it wasn't you it would have been another guy.

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