FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for Club first timers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All,

We've been playing for a while, meeting people from the site etc. and have love every second of it all.

We both really want to attend a club but have no idea whatsoever what to expect. What do people wear (if anything) what are the 'rules' on approaching people (other than general politeness).

We have thought its possible we would just have fun with each other first time round but this might be a bit inrealistic as we tend to be very easy to lead astray haha. Is it preferable to find a couple to go with on our first time who we get on with toake it easier?

Sorry for all the questions, just haven't got a clue what to expect really. Any info, tips or advice appreciated!

J & R xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it depends which club you go to re the dress code, as many are different, best to look up the club you are thinking of going to on here in the reviews and their own website.

Also, don't expect anything, you will be nervous, but just have fun and relax together.

Enjoy chatting to people, no pressure to play and see how you get on.

Also I would recommend going on a quieter night so that you don't feel overwhelmed and can get used to the surroundings.

Do you know which club you are thinking of going to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also could meet up with another couple who are familiar with the club so they can show you round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress a sexy as you like....

If you don't want to want to play with others then tell them so.

There is nothing stopping you from watching others etc.

A lot of clubs have rooms that you can close so no one can come in xxx

If your a newbie they tend to show you round.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well it depends which club you go to re the dress code, as many are different, best to look up the club you are thinking of going to on here in the reviews and their own website.

Also, don't expect anything, you will be nervous, but just have fun and relax together.

Enjoy chatting to people, no pressure to play and see how you get on.

Also I would recommend going on a quieter night so that you don't feel overwhelmed and can get used to the surroundings.

Do you know which club you are thinking of going to?

We wouldn't expect anything other than a sexy environment to play in together and if anyone else is interested then game on! Haha

Club F seems to be the place to be where we come from

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By *lkloncoupleCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

When we got started, it was hit and miss we took our time so we went to clubs and did not play, when we were both comfortable we took the leap. We tried singles and couples nights , however our experience was that a lot of single men were just following us around,(not nice) We switched to couples and ladies and it was better. we even found a single lady, to play with!

Ultimately it's what you as a couple are comfortable with. no one is going to force you to do anything, most couple are terrified of the playing in clubs anyway

but everyone is polite and understanding.

Good luck and if there is anything else you would like to know pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it depends which club you go to re the dress code, as many are different, best to look up the club you are thinking of going to on here in the reviews and their own website.

Also, don't expect anything, you will be nervous, but just have fun and relax together.

Enjoy chatting to people, no pressure to play and see how you get on.

Also I would recommend going on a quieter night so that you don't feel overwhelmed and can get used to the surroundings.

Do you know which club you are thinking of going to?

We wouldn't expect anything other than a sexy environment to play in together and if anyone else is interested then game on! Haha

Club F seems to be the place to be where we come from "

Well I don't know that one but you will I am sure have great fun, you seem up for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks, what we are slightly lacking in experience we definitely make up for in enthusiasm!

We'll be taking the plunge very soon. It will be nice to meet some like minded people as much as anything.

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