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Swinging Clubs aside, where do you meet your 'third'?

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By *r. Joystick OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I think we all know that swinging clubs are a great place to meet people in the lifestyle.

But when you're actively looking for a 'third person' to join you as a couple (etc), where else to you like to 'fish'?

(I say the term 'fish' very loosely!)

Certain types of bars, areas (or even apps which we know we all use) are all welcome answers, as are any others.

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

Following as I'd love to be a third x

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By *uckIslandCouple (FF)
over a year ago

East of England

My honest advice would be to stop looking and focus on meeting people, getting to know them as friends and see what happens.

Good luck on your journey!

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By *r. Joystick OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"My honest advice would be to stop looking and focus on meeting people, getting to know them as friends and see what happens.

Good luck on your journey! "

I'm not looking for this personally. I've always preferred the natural approach, as much as it is not a path to knowing others would be into it.

Just canvassing to see what other people's perspectives have been.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We don't. In 23 years we've never dreamt once of approaching anyone randomly to join us.

Our 3rd would only be a lady and clubs, social events and Fab are the only place we look.

Lets be honest here, Fab company excluded, the vast majority of women probably wont and don't want to be chatted up by a random couple in a bar or supermarket or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab. Failing that - corrupt someone from outside the lifestyle

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By *otcplmidsCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

Back in the day, I was approached by a very sexy couple at a rave club. I was there with my hubby, so had to decline. But they got me thinking about this lifestyle, they woke the devil in me.

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By *ewfie02Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Hard to find a regular bisexual guy on fab swingers that is not married and can meet us at weekends. They all seem to be married and cheating on their wives.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

A bunch of places. Regular social media, POF, real life… through friends… knowing people we fancied and saying “want a threesome?”

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I still need a 2nd lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been trying to figure out how to become a third for a month now - not doing very well at this swinging jazz! ????

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By *r. Joystick OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"A bunch of places. Regular social media, POF, real life… through friends… knowing people we fancied and saying “want a threesome?”"

You keep it simple! If you're open around others too, must make it easier.

Haven't used POF in a fair few years. Still going strong?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We just use here and another app. Had more success with single women than men

Happy to chat to exceptional singles

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We've never been to a club and Fab has managed to be all we've ever needed to find our third wheel.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"A bunch of places. Regular social media, POF, real life… through friends… knowing people we fancied and saying “want a threesome?”

You keep it simple! If you're open around others too, must make it easier.

Haven't used POF in a fair few years. Still going strong? "

Not sure as POF wasn’t one we’ve used in a while now. But yes, everyone we know knows what we do and it’s been… useful Esecially when you know a few 20-something girls who are all enjoying life hah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

different perspective.. but as a third, ive usually been approached on here, or at a club.

that's how i'd find couples i'd like to get to know too.

Px

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By *ewfie02Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"We've never been to a club and Fab has managed to be all we've ever needed to find our third wheel."

You should try going to a swingers club. They are a great night out. Mostly like a pub atmosphere where you can dress as sexily as you want and flirt and tease without any problems! Obviously you can do a whole lot more if you want to in the playrooms but it's not essential.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Reenactment beer tents work for us

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By *euve4usCouple
over a year ago

Teddington

Our “third” has usually been from Fab although recently started visiting clubs so that is expanding…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do couples hang around, I need a 2nd and a 3rd?

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

Fab for us

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By *xpressionistMan
over a year ago

ST. ALBANS

My old school mate used to regularly fuck my wife every time he came round.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Biscuit aisle of Waitrose...

Still looking

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Fab. It's why we joined. Worked for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A third. F*** you buddy!!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Funny enough we were out on a vanilla night in a bar in Blackpool on Sunday. A couple kept giving us the eye, but our kids were back at the apartment

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Outside of clubs, parties and fab, we’ve played with some people who are friends, and also just met some in bars and clubs etc.

We like to socialise and talk to people anyway, and are pretty good at reading the signs and would be happy chatting to people anyway, but it’s easy to drop a bit of innocent sexual talk in and then we’d usually just ask if they’d be interested.

Can’t say it’s ever offended, we aren’t pushy and don’t have any expectations, just make the offer. Sometimes they laugh and say we thought you guys seemed adventurous but not for us, and other times we make a new friend.

We just see it as how the world probably worked before fab and tinder etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a unicorn female at work and enjoyed some fun with her xx

As fun as it was be careful what you wish for it became a little complicated because of the closeness between us all xx

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

A longtime ago there was a website called LookItsMe

We met a unicorn on there, it lasted for a few years until she wanted a relationship and kids. That meant we had to separate from the fun, she explained it all to her now hubby he’s banned the three of us from ever meeting up

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By *elilah999Woman
over a year ago

Malton


"I think we all know that swinging clubs are a great place to meet people in the lifestyle.

But when you're actively looking for a 'third person' to join you as a couple (etc), where else to you like to 'fish'?

(I say the term 'fish' very loosely!)

Certain types of bars, areas (or even apps which we know we all use) are all welcome answers, as are any others.

"

Private parties maybe?.

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