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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Say we are at swingers club or swingers party. What is the best way to show someone you fancy them and happy to play.

Is that a wink, a touch or something else?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

You ask them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk up and make polite conversation

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By *odieCI5Man
over a year ago

Solihull

When I first started my swinging journey, found the etiquette strange a first “ excuse me my good lady, may I play with your breasts “ ha ha but soon got used to it, but always best to ask ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You ask them"

pretty much

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Start a conversation. Definitely don't touch without permission.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"Say we are at swingers club or swingers party. What is the best way to show someone you fancy them and happy to play.

Is that a wink, a touch or something else? "

Tell them, don't be shy.

Don't fucking wink, will think you have something in your eye or a nervous tic.

And don't touch...no, no, no. Unless asked to.

Not looking for a new husband or boyfriend so don't need any chat up lines.

I love swingers parties as I find asking strangers for sex and sitting down with no knickers showing my lady bits causes problems in Wetherspoons.

Bit of general chat and ask would you be interested in playing. Don't ask if the husband has just nipped to the toilet, looks bad.

If it's a couple, engage them both.

Good luck.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"Say we are at swingers club or swingers party. What is the best way to show someone you fancy them and happy to play.

Is that a wink, a touch or something else? "

What would you do in a night club? Would you walk up to someone and grope her? I doubt it, so why would you do it in a swingers club?

Act like you would in a vanilla club. If you like someone, let them know. Simple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your suggestions...

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire


"Thanks for all your suggestions...

x"

We ve found eye contact, talk to them or if in public rooms and they are watching ask them to join in

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

Friendly interaction without an ounce of pressure

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Talk to them

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Take the opportunity to talk with them,then gradually just be upfront what's the worst that could happen.besides being told thanks but they don't seem to see you in the same way but happy to still chat with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for all your suggestions...

x

We ve found eye contact, talk to them or if in public rooms and they are watching ask them to join in "

I like eye contact with women

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast


"Say we are at swingers club or swingers party. What is the best way to show someone you fancy them and happy to play.

Is that a wink, a touch or something else? "

Slap their thigh with your hard cock and shout ‘hey up lass’

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By *irty Fun GuyMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Just talk to them the rest will take care of itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never touch unless invited. Don’t think anyone would

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By *ambscouple2015Couple
over a year ago

Not in Wisbech but near


"Say we are at swingers club or swingers party. What is the best way to show someone you fancy them and happy to play.

Is that a wink, a touch or something else? "

The best way is obviously the same way as a lot of single blokes on here do it. Get your cock out and just say "Hi" and nothing else

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"Say we are at swingers club or swingers party. What is the best way to show someone you fancy them and happy to play.

Is that a wink, a touch or something else?

The best way is obviously the same way as a lot of single blokes on here do it. Get your cock out and just say "Hi" and nothing else "

How about if u throw a full condom their way and say, hey next time

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By *ambscouple2015Couple
over a year ago

Not in Wisbech but near


"Say we are at swingers club or swingers party. What is the best way to show someone you fancy them and happy to play.

Is that a wink, a touch or something else?

The best way is obviously the same way as a lot of single blokes on here do it. Get your cock out and just say "Hi" and nothing else

How about if u throw a full condom their way and say, hey next time "

Wow that would have Mrs CC dropping her knickers in no time

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"Say we are at swingers club or swingers party. What is the best way to show someone you fancy them and happy to play.

Is that a wink, a touch or something else?

The best way is obviously the same way as a lot of single blokes on here do it. Get your cock out and just say "Hi" and nothing else

How about if u throw a full condom their way and say, hey next time

Wow that would have Mrs CC dropping her knickers in no time "

Lol. Whoooo I like the sound of yr Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make eye contact, not too much though as this can be pretty intimidating and make them feel uncomfortable....

Make conversation, like others have said, if it's a couple involve both otherwise it's quite rude and shows you just want in the females panties with no thought for her partner/husband, whether he'd be involved or not..then maybe politely ask if they are interested...don't assume they are, just because they are chatting, some of us are just friendly or not very good at reading signals

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