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By *hathappensnow OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rotherham

Is this a way of just excluding one part of a couple.. we have found this to be the case and both parties didn’t like it

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Soft swing doesn't mean excluding one person

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Pretty sure soft swing just means no penetrative sex

LvM

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth


"Pretty sure soft swing just means no penetrative sex

LvM"

that's what I akways understood it to mean.

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By *hathappensnow OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rotherham

It might not mean it, but in practice we have found that’s a way for others to just play with the female part, my Mrs hated it

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is this a way of just excluding one part of a couple.. we have found this to be the case and both parties didn’t like it "

By both parties do you mean both couples or you and your partner ?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Is this a way of just excluding one part of a couple.. we have found this to be the case and both parties didn’t like it "

I don't see how it excludes one part of a couple.

If you don't like it, don't do it. If others like it, that's up to them.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"It might not mean it, but in practice we have found that’s a way for others to just play with the female part, my Mrs hated it "

It may be used as an excuse for that in some cases, but it doesn't mean that it will always be that way and nobody should think about doing it. Maybe you were unfortunate. Ultimately, if it doesn't work for you, don't do it. It does work for some.

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton


"It might not mean it, but in practice we have found that’s a way for others to just play with the female part, my Mrs hated it "

Certainly not the case for us, all four very much involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree that it’s anything goes but no penetrative sex. Touching, kissing and sensual enjoyment.

We did play with a couple once whereby she wouldn’t indulge but her partner could. Very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we would love to enjoy drinks, flirt with another couple and then swap for a BJ from either women before having sex with our own partners

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By *aughty nerdsCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Yeah we are soft swap for the moment. Just no penetration that's all, but Mr nerdy certainly isn't excluded!

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By *moretwoCouple
over a year ago

Feltham

We have had soft meets in the past which have been more fun than full swap and everyone has been fully enjoyed themselves with no-one left out.

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Soft swing as we understand it is two couples having sex in the same room but not swopping partners.

The degree on "interaction" can range from no physical contact at all to everything short of full sex.

Wanking, fingering, oral indulged in if all parties agree to it.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Done soft swing with my partner and other couples,

None of us were left out,

Plus I'm straight, so would only be playing with the male of the couple anyway.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have often done soft swing with Cal.

As others have said, nobody was left out. Maybe you need to be more assertive in your wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had some soft swing fun with a couple from here. We all thoroughly enjoyed it

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We only do soft swing, and have had some great meets. Nobody gets left out that’s for sure it can be really good fun x

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By *ravefuncplCouple
over a year ago

Durham/Newcastle

We are soft swap couple and to be honest nobody gets left out when we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us soft swing means including everyone.

we have chosen soft swing as our preferred way to play and especially on first playdates because of the intensely sensuous hedonistic orgasms it produces.

Another reason we have chosen soft swing for first playdates is because of past experience with inexperienced couples where it was the Male's sole purpose just to fuck another female with his wife's or girl friend's approval and after he had had cum he had absolutely no interest in either their partner's, our pleasure or that of others at the house party, etc.

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By *igtone2310Man
over a year ago

Beverley

Nobody should ever feel left out, i do worry about others xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a soft swing friendship with a couple ,it definately did not mean anyone was left out ,in fact the opposite .

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By *ndwhynot42Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Some lovely soft swap couples on here, shame so far away.

and yes everything but full sex. Someone might sit out for alittle bit just to watch before getting back involved, but not left out.

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

From what we have come across soft swing means different things for different people, some don't include oral in soft swing for example. When we joined this scene years ago we were very reserved and didn't do much at all and gradually added more and more to it.

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

met couples as a couple in clubs where you start to play and as her husband is just about to mount your wife they mention his wife doesnt do full sex lol it is a shitty tactic used by some couples and we have just stopped proceedings and it does ruin an evening because they couldnt be upfront, sneaky sad fucks.

Have also met couples where they say we're soft swap and had a great time, coz everyone knew where the goal posts were.

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