FabSwingers.com forum: Staying safe

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get nervous about staying safe, like physically safe, on meets. I worry about it going bad. Anyone got advice on how they ensure they avoid or at least minimise risk?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Tell someone where you are?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Always meet in a public place for a social first op

It's worked well for me.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Always meet for a social first somewhere public and chat for a while before you meet. People can't keep up a facade for too long and red flags will usually show after a bit.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

All the above and clubs as well.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Take a photo of the car number plate and send it to a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a pic of their car and sent to a friend also tell a trusted friend where you are and get them to text or call you..then tou can tell them alls ok or use it as a get out clause,worked well enough for me,any genuine person wont mind and will understand.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Also, never feel afraid to bail out if things don't feel right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its good to feel nervous as it means your alert ..... never put yourself where it could be unsafe ..trust no one trust has to be earnt

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By *est Mims LookingCouple
over a year ago

Crofton

"I get nervous about staying safe, like physically safe, on meets. I worry about it going bad. Anyone got advice on how they ensure they avoid or at least minimise risk? "

I mostly meet in parking lots with cameras & ppl around. There was a titty bar with bouncers & cameras near my work so that was a good place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally relatable!

So firstly they have to meet me for a social meet in a public place (while I’m in male mode)

And then I can judge them based on that meet, always listen to your gut, if something seems off then your in public so your be able to leave

Safety is always important, if you can, always tell a close friend where your going etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always meet for a social first somewhere public and chat for a while before you meet. People can't keep up a facade for too long and red flags will usually show after a bit."

^^^^^^^

So true. I always need to chat for ages before a meet...true colours show eventually. Always trust your Instinct also...it never lets you down.

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

"Always meet for a social first somewhere public and chat for a while before you meet. People can't keep up a facade for too long and red flags will usually show after a bit.

^^^^^^^

So true. I always need to chat for ages before a meet...true colours show eventually. Always trust your Instinct also...it never lets you down."

Very very true. Talking to people long enough you see who they really are.

We have considered meeting people on here but then things put us off.

Ask others have said trust your gut, and dont be scared to ask questions you need answering.

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By *atentHeelsCouple
over a year ago

Salford

Simple. Don’t meet randomers and use clubs

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

"I get nervous about staying safe, like physically safe, on meets. I worry about it going bad. Anyone got advice on how they ensure they avoid or at least minimise risk? "

If you don't want to tell "normal" people who don't know about your activities maybe tell someone you have met and trust from here to check in in you.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I always tell a friend where I'm going, usually give them a photo of the guy, my neighbour has a key to my house, always meet in a very public place, take a photo of their car reg. Ask someone to call you.

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By *oldupsnheelsCouple
over a year ago

bideford

Trust your instincts!!! If something feels wrong or not right to you, trust yourself theres a pretty good chance you were right. Plus if you were wrong you can brush it off as the excuse you used, (friends fallen ill) and try again

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