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Swapping / watching your partner but no kissing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So ive read on profiles that couples are happy to swap or the male is wanting to watch his partner with another man but strictly no kissing.. is this common within swapping couples ect?

Ive not thought about it too much but it was on my mind that kissing strangly i found abit too personal on a connection level but then i think well theyre having sex so does kissing really make much difference lol..

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

As a single male I’ve been with a m/f couple and From experience and a conversation before hand we had all agreed that the female performing oral on myself and kissing was a little more intimate and to keep those activities for the couple themselves x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single male I’ve been with a m/f couple and From experience and a conversation before hand we had all agreed that the female performing oral on myself and kissing was a little more intimate and to keep those activities for the couple themselves x"

I guess its nice to keep something between only the couple esp if your new to swapping ect. Some people ive spoke to before have been like, youll let s guy fuck your wife but wont let them kiss? Kinda see it but being the 1 in the couple its a bit of a romantic/personal level thing for me, kissing during sex is passionate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally couldn't do it, kissing is a huge turn on for me and a great start to any kind of sex or for play.

Mrs

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Yes exactly! As much as we’re all involved if there’s something the couple want to keep for themselves then I’ll respect that, at the end of the day I’m helping their fantasy become a reality so if that means I’m not kissing the female then that’s that!

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

The male of the couple I was with took the lead and I followed to keep within the ‘rules’ per say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the kissing part would be what adds the cli.ax of the meet watching a guy kiss my Mrs is more of a turn on than the fucking in a way

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

To be fair I think it all about personal preference

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By *atentHeelsCouple
over a year ago

Salford

I’m generally not a kisser even if some is playing due to the more personal aspect. It’s obviously person dependant but if I kiss then I really really have to fancy them. But to play I only have to quite fancy them. It is weird but fucking is less personal than snogging. I don’t know where that switched as when you’re young you song loads and fuck little. When you’re older it switches the other way (for us anyway) haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m generally not a kisser even if some is playing due to the more personal aspect. It’s obviously person dependant but if I kiss then I really really have to fancy them. But to play I only have to quite fancy them. It is weird but fucking is less personal than snogging. I don’t know where that switched as when you’re young you song loads and fuck little. When you’re older it switches the other way (for us anyway) haha"

Agree

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By *ot Wife BeckyCouple
over a year ago

Near Agde

When started on this journey we had a strict no kissing on the lips rule. Shagging was fine..!

Yes it is strange that a lot of people feel the same but it really is a lot more personal.

That rule along with a few others were amended as we found what was a comfortable level for us both.

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

Definitely think this is common. First couple I met swinging wanted no kissing so thought it was the norm.

I kinda understand how it can be more personal, guess without kissing in a very advanced dildo.

Personally I look for couples who like to kiss as find the whole evening much more sexy then

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So ive read on profiles that couples are happy to swap or the male is wanting to watch his partner with another man but strictly no kissing.. is this common within swapping couples ect?

Ive not thought about it too much but it was on my mind that kissing strangly i found abit too personal on a connection level but then i think well theyre having sex so does kissing really make much difference lol.. "

It isn't common but more people prefer not to kiss than you'd think

If it's important ask. We state on our profile that it's off limits.

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