FabSwingers.com forum: Licking pussy with no erection..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have found a few guys don't get an erection whilst giving oral...

& then don't get hard when I reciprocate...

I like oral to lead to penetrative sex...

So I end up frustrated...

Do some guys just think oral is enough? I do say on my profile I like penetrative sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get very hard

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By *jduk56Couple
over a year ago

warringotn

lol

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

I understand this I must say happens to me but it depends on the build up if your turned in man will get hard and then receive a bj

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By *p478Man
over a year ago

norfolk

Nothing gets me hard like licking a big wet loose pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am concentrating on your pleasure, my erection my subside, however as you approach orgasm your excitement would revive my cock. If that doesn't do it a bit of attention with hands or lips soon gives me a tumescent hard on. Ready to fuck.

"I have found a few guys don't get an erection whilst giving oral...

& then don't get hard when I reciprocate...

I like oral to lead to penetrative sex...

So I end up frustrated...

Do some guys just think oral is enough? I do say on my profile I like penetrative sex..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always get hard when giving oral. Nothing easier in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always get hard when giving oral. Nothing easier in my opinion"
definitely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving oral but I definitely don’t always stay hard. Receiving oral is obviously different, always hard then

If I’m giving for a while and there’s nobody touching my dick I can lose my erection but it doesn’t mean I’m not enjoying it

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By *errero RochelleWoman
over a year ago

Chocoville

I'm not a fan of oral either way. 69 can be a good foreplay but I need penetration to get the things going.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Instant erection here while licking a pussy

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By *edsmudgeMan
over a year ago

oxford

Always hard giving like really hard , pre cum hard

Receiving ,meh ; kisses left and right of ..like the pubic area is much more of a hot spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get very hard

Same

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Well if there was no erection then I would simply lose interest and move on

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a very easily arroused man, if my partner is getting ready in a sexy outfit and im in the shower knowing whats coming then i can be fairly arroused or atleast have a bit of pre cum.

If not the above then literally just seeing her in her outfit gets me hard before weve even started anything lol

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By *ogging-funMan
over a year ago

stone

No way, I've got erection now just thinking about giving oral to a lady

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

"No way, I've got erection now just thinking about giving oral to a lady

Amen brother I’m Hard just entering the room !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way, I've got erection now just thinking about giving oral to a lady

Amen brother I’m Hard just entering the room !!

This is why id feel totally awkward going into a swingers club id be rock solid before entering snd walking around id feel so awkward lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way, I've got erection now just thinking about giving oral to a lady

Amen brother I’m Hard just entering the room !!

This is why id feel totally awkward going into a swingers club id be rock solid before entering snd walking around id feel so awkward lol"

It's not an issue at all just wear a towel tight around the waist with your erection pushed to the side whilst walking about.

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By *atentHeelsCouple
over a year ago

Salford

I know several guys who don’t get hard from giving it to a woman so I’d say it’s not abnormal. Some guys are into it and some guys aren’t but do it for the woman so I’d guess it’s pretty normal to not get hard if it’s not your thing. As for giving a BJ, it’s happened a couple of times with M but usually he’s distracted or stressed by something. It’s much more difficult for guys to function than for us women. We don’t have to get an organ hard to play so I feel for guys a lot of the time as the pressure can have an impact on many. Probably would if I was a guy tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My erection comes and goes during giving oral to my wife. It's nothing to do with my horniness, I absolutely love giving her oral and it turns me on so much, it's just because there's no direct stimulation to my dick. The moment she looks at it it's back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ogging-funMan
over a year ago

stone

"I know several guys who don’t get hard from giving it to a woman so I’d say it’s not abnormal. Some guys are into it and some guys aren’t but do it for the woman so I’d guess it’s pretty normal to not get hard if it’s not your thing. As for giving a BJ, it’s happened a couple of times with M but usually he’s distracted or stressed by something. It’s much more difficult for guys to function than for us women. We don’t have to get an organ hard to play so I feel for guys a lot of the time as the pressure can have an impact on many. Probably would if I was a guy tbh. "

I've definitely felt the pressures of not rising on 2 occasions it's so embarrassing, the first time to embarrassing to even think about it the second not to bad laughed it off chilled out it soon appeared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I'm hard sometimes I'm not. All depends how horny I am. Regardless whether I'm hard or not, I'll wank while licking pussy as it's a turn on. The Mrs loves guys wanking over her as well so she's happy. I don't wank for the entire duration of oral though as I also like to use my fingers on/in the Mrs at the same time as licking and sucking the Mrs gorgeous labia.

Seen a few guys who stay soft but they don't give themselves direct stimulation while doing it. Maybe they think they are not allowed to touch their cock while playing. Lol

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By *urnhambiguyMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I'm always hard whenever I start playing with a pussy. I might lose it a little when I'm concentrating on her pleasure but it soon comes back when she starts making noises and hitting her climax. For me, oral (both ways) is foreplay leading up to vaginal penetration. I very rarely cum in her mouth as we've usually moved on to penetration before getting anywhere near that close

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

If it's 69, I'll definitely be rock hard. If I'm licking her, I don't stay hard all the time. Not because I'm not enjoying it, but giving oral expertly and properly requires full concentration. As she approaches orgasm, the excitement gets me erect and ready for penetration. Some prefer me to continue licking and have a few orgasms before sex, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to concentrate on giving to the lady.

I tend not to get hard if it's a 69 or on me.

Her straddling my face making me lick her never fails to have me rock hard though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My erection comes and goes during giving oral to my wife. It's nothing to do with my horniness, I absolutely love giving her oral and it turns me on so much, it's just because there's no direct stimulation to my dick. The moment she looks at it it's back."

I’m with you on this. Taking pleasure from someone else’s pleasure isn’t the same as direct stimulation. It’s also what is in your mind at the time too. If you are fully focused then the erection can wane a little. If you are thinking about what is to come afterwards then you aren’t fully in the moment but then can maintain the reaction throughout

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

I have notice last guy I met had same issue x I end up giving him a blowjob which made him hard but he cum so quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found a few guys don't get an erection whilst giving oral...

& then don't get hard when I reciprocate...

I like oral to lead to penetrative sex...

So I end up frustrated...

Do some guys just think oral is enough? I do say on my profile I like penetrative sex..."

Makes me hard just thinking about giving you oral!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest turn on for me. I'm rock hard while I'm eating ur pussy

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Mmm pheromones

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"I have found a few guys don't get an erection whilst giving oral...

& then don't get hard when I reciprocate...

I like oral to lead to penetrative sex...

So I end up frustrated...

Do some guys just think oral is enough? I do say on my profile I like penetrative sex..."

Oh god, I get so hard and dripping wet of pre-cum when eating delicious wet lips and clit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have notice last guy I met had same issue x I end up giving him a blowjob which made him hard but he cum so quickly

Well yeah some man can overthink and over react so you don’t need much to tip them over the edge

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Hubby doesn’t get hard while giving oral… but jeez does he respond if I start playing with him afterwards xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Just like women, men get turned on by different things. I'm not going to judge a guy by when and how he gets an erection just like I hope men wouldn't judge me by when and how I get aroused.

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By *orkswatcherMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

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By *orkswatcherMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

The flag is raised straight away with me. Never get why it wouldn't for anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the feedback. If a lady is clearly enjoying my efforts (words, noises, movements,”moisture” etc) then it’s not an issue at all. If not it can have a cold shower effect sometimes.

Although in the course of a long session of filth, things can wax and wane. I don’t think the loss of hardness means that a man isn’t enjoying giving at all. To be honest if you weren’t turned on you wouldn’t really want to be down there anyway!!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I tend to massage his cock with my feet when he is down there to keep it alive.

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By *impey5Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

My cock stays hard when playing even after cumming

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I tend to put all my energies in to pleasuring the lady while I have my head between her thighs, so yes, it’s quite normal for me to lose my erection as I do. Having her cum on my tongue though, especially if she’s a gusher, soon has me hard again……

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

"I love giving oral but I definitely don’t always stay hard. Receiving oral is obviously different, always hard then

If I’m giving for a while and there’s nobody touching my dick I can lose my erection but it doesn’t mean I’m not enjoying it "

Agreed - I get turned on by giving, but without some sort of physical stimulation I probably won’t stay hard

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I love giving oral but I definitely don’t always stay hard. Receiving oral is obviously different, always hard then

If I’m giving for a while and there’s nobody touching my dick I can lose my erection but it doesn’t mean I’m not enjoying it

Agreed - I get turned on by giving, but without some sort of physical stimulation I probably won’t stay hard"

Exactly this

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Love giving oral, love receiving oral. Giving is a turn on for me and an even bigger one if the lady is really into it, moving, moaning.

Oral is foreplay for me, a prelude to penetration.

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By *ig_Liam1Man
over a year ago

North

I love eating pussy. I love everything about it, I love sticking my tongue right in there. I’ve never not, got an erection from eating pussy.

Coming up from eating pussy and then sliding my cock right into that hot wet mess.

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

Giving oral, and especially being face sat is the quickest way to give me my best hard on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love giving oral, love receiving oral. Giving is a turn on for me and an even bigger one if the lady is really into it, moving, moaning.

Oral is foreplay for me, a prelude to penetration."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the man

Perhaps use a toy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a guarantee for me, as soon as my face goes near those thighs and I get the first wiff of it im hard as a rock. And yes they all have their individual aromas and tastes before anyone goes on about the word wiff, not meant in a bad way.

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