FabSwingers.com forum: Cuckold... 1st occasion.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are planning to give cuckold a try... Its not something we will be getting into as a full on thing, essentially we are trying it each way, cuckold and cuckquean, just to try it out, get a feel for it, tick the experience off the bucket list sort of thing...

Of course never having done it before we are full of trepidation, nerves etc. We aren't really sure how we will feel until afterwards, which is nerve racking..

So, my question is for either cuckold or cuckquean...

What was the first experience like? Was it everything you though it would be?

But more importantly, for those who tried it and it wasn't for them, how did you feel afterwards? Did it cause any problems?

All help is greatly appreciated...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"We are planning to give cuckold a try... Its not something we will be getting into as a full on thing, essentially we are trying it each way, cuckold and cuckquean, just to try it out, get a feel for it, tick the experience off the bucket list sort of thing...

Of course never having done it before we are full of trepidation, nerves etc. We aren't really sure how we will feel until afterwards, which is nerve racking..

So, my question is for either cuckold or cuckquean...

What was the first experience like? Was it everything you though it would be?

But more importantly, for those who tried it and it wasn't for them, how did you feel afterwards? Did it cause any problems?

All help is greatly appreciated... "

As with everything there are different degrees so I think the one thing you want to make it abundantly clear is what you are wanting… for example, I would argue that there is a degree of cuckold in a threesome at one end of the spectrum.. and there is full on abusing of partner at the other

Other than that I would argue it isn’t really that different than other things in swinging such as a degree of trust is needed and meeting people who understand what you both want out of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Of course never having done it before we are full of trepidation, nerves etc. We aren't really sure how we will feel until afterwards, which is nerve racking..

So, my question is for either cuckold or cuckquean...

What was the first experience like? Was it everything you though it would be?

But more importantly, for those who tried it and it wasn't for them, how did you feel afterwards? Did it cause any problems?

All help is greatly appreciated...

Other than that I would argue it isn’t really that different than other things in swinging such as a degree of trust is needed and meeting people who understand what you both want out of it"

Thank you for your reply! We are relatively new to exploring different dynamics, so I think the only way for us to really work out the dynamics we are comfortable with is to just try them out, but of course that always has a potential of going wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not sure its something you can switch on or off ?? i think and i could be wrong here so this is just my opinion your either a cuck/cuckqueen or your not ...far to much to go wrong otherwise ... id stick with a hotwife situation and push those bounderies a little at a time.. i dont think its something you can switch with either ..but as said its just my opiniion either way hope it works x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_abio is right too hotwife fun is the mildest form of cuckolding in many ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im not sure its something you can switch on or off ?? i think and i could be wrong here so this is just my opinion your either a cuck/cuckqueen or your not ...far to much to go wrong otherwise ... id stick with a hotwife situation and push those bounderies a little at a time.. i dont think its something you can switch with either ..but as said its just my opiniion either way hope it works x"

Thank you for your reply!

Well, Athena does have the cuckquean fantasy, and has seen me with another woman but during a 3sum, so it's different to see me with another woman while she is watching, and we have done cuckold talk, her talking about being with another man whilst we are having sex etc which is a turn on, and we are planning a meet where she plays with a guy while I watch, she is aiming just for hand job and oral to just test how things feel for us both in that scenario, because she may even feel uncomfortable with it and we have subtle signals set up so we can communicate how we are feeling at the time.

We want to test what we are both comfortable with slowly but surely so we can tailor our profile to it and so that we both know what we are happy with during meets in general and in a club etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been (and enjoyed) cucking a few guys. Also had a situation where I was keen to assist, but decided against after a number of chats with the woman. I got the distinct impression she wasn't confident of the impact it would have on their relationship. I always say at the outset, be sure this is what you both want. I don't want to be the trigger for difficulties......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have been (and enjoyed) cucking a few guys. Also had a situation where I was keen to assist, but decided against after a number of chats with the woman. I got the distinct impression she wasn't confident of the impact it would have on their relationship. I always say at the outset, be sure this is what you both want. I don't want to be the trigger for difficulties......"

Yeah, I think that's why we want to slowly test out different dynamics, to see what we truly like and are comfortable with so that we don't end up playing ourselves into something that could damage us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

make sure your clear with the guy and woman you plan to play with too ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

make sure your clear with the guy and woman you plan to play with too ..."

Yes we will be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure everyone is happy otherwise it can turn into a nightmare

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By *adForGood69Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

We haven't been on here long but the wife has had a few hot encounters already.i love watching her but I'm not sure my wife is so keen for me to go all the way with another woman.she says she will let me try it and see how it goes but it seems to me that if there is any doubt whatsoever,its just not worth the risk.just best to take baby steps and I keep asking her if she's OK and we have a pre-arranged signal to let me know she wants out of a situation.

Hope you find what you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We haven't been on here long but the wife has had a few hot encounters already.i love watching her but I'm not sure my wife is so keen for me to go all the way with another woman.she says she will let me try it and see how it goes but it seems to me that if there is any doubt whatsoever,its just not worth the risk.just best to take baby steps and I keep asking her if she's OK and we have a pre-arranged signal to let me know she wants out of a situation.

Hope you find what you are looking for

See, with us it's the reverse, Athena is happy to see me with another woman, we have had ffm play and she loved it, however I have never seen her with another guy, so that's where the trepidation comes from, I don't feel in any way disgusted or unhappy about the idea, and we have done some cuckold talk between us, her talking about being with another man while we are doing stuff, and that is a turn on. However, that is just talk and fantasy, I don't know what I will feel in real life and its not something I will know until during or after, and also neither does she... Which is why at the moment we have limited any possible play between her and another man to just hand and oral play, and set up signals for each other.

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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Agree that is right approach

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

We tried it loved it and can't go back cuckolding is so addictive but the best experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We tried it loved it and can't go back cuckolding is so addictive but the best experience "

For us, its not going to be a full time thing, cuckold or cuckquean, just an occasional added extra for dynamics fun, but of course, we are going to dip our toes in slowly, we have set up signals for the first time and also agreed between us what we are happy with and not happy with so that we know and so we can inform anyone invited so that lines aren't crossed, for example, the submission and dominance dynamic is purely between myself and Athena, the third person can't join in with that, and we have agreed that for the first time we will limit it to oral at max, and then discuss and see how we feel going forward.

Thank you, BTW, to all that have helped and given us advice, it's truly appreciated, this is a big thing for us and it is really nice to have you guys here to help!

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