FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging couples, how did it start?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was wondering how swinging couples started? Were you a couple prior, and, if so, was is it one if you who had the idea first? Or both? Were you already swinging and met your partner then?

I am curious because there is no way my ex wife would have done anything as kinky, nor the gfs I had since. So really interested by your stories.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

He suggested it, I asked loads of questions, we talked and here we are

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It was so long ago we can't even remember the conversation, we've just always been kinky! It was before Fab, when you would send photos to a contact magazine and wait 2 weeks for a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He invited me a gangbang on here and we met up to discuss details x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He invited me a gangbang on here and we met up to discuss details x"

Now that's some date!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It was so long ago we can't even remember the conversation, we've just always been kinky! It was before Fab, when you would send photos to a contact magazine and wait 2 weeks for a reply!"

I remember those times before tge internet (not that long ago, really)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He suggested it, I asked loads of questions, we talked and here we are"

I would have been terrified of the wife's reaction. How did you react at first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He invited me a gangbang on here and we met up to discuss details x

Now that's some date!

And the GB never happened lol

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

We met through the scene

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By *ot Wife BeckyCouple
over a year ago

Near Bergerac

We were in bed for our second or third date.

Becky had a few guys that she was seeing on a regular basis and they were the topic of conversation.

Just developed from there.

Here we are over 20 years later still at it…!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was watching porn in bed. There was a girl in the film who was enjoying a spit roast. I asked her if she ever wanted to try that and she went all shy. I said I didn't mind if she did, so we went to our local club just to watch and take in the atmosphere. It progresses from there at her pace. Now she isn't shy anymore

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By *ammy4funMan
over a year ago

wantage

We used to watch a bit of porn for fun then a friend of ours mentioned that she had found her husband had been on a website called fabswingers. So I took a look and joined, after a while mentioned it to the then wife and pretty quickly we were having Skype meets, this turned into a meet with one of the couples we skyped with and on to chams after an afternoon social..... the girls had lots of fun together

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Was on Holiday and I told him when I was younger done quite few threesomes and one with a lady I worked with , it then went from there

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By *andS1Couple
over a year ago

Poole

We were meeting up with somefriends for an indian who never made it as they broke down (looking back, thank god). In a passing comment S said she would have a 3some with another woman and I needed to hear no more. Few months later it was ticked off the list. At the time we never thought we would go any further and have another couple or man join. After watching an episode of the reality program 'swingers' we both though that it looked fun. After months of talking about it between the sheets we got tickets to a fever party in london and had a blast. Haven't got off the ride since. Thinking back if our friends turned up for the Indian none of this might ever have happened

See everything works out for the best :p

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"He suggested it, I asked loads of questions, we talked and here we are

I would have been terrified of the wife's reaction. How did you react at first? "

I was concerned that he thought I wasn't enough.

Why terrified?

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

I suggest we look in to it, and if she fancied it. Here we are and still meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m hoping to convince my current partner. She knows I’m on here and does show an interest in it. Hopefully one day it will go from fantasy to reality.

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I read about a couple in love it magazine who were swingers and went to clubs lol. Asked the Mr if he fancied going for a look

Googled closest club which was la chambre at the time, went the week after and have been regular club goers for nearly 10 years now

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By *RayMan
over a year ago

essex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby suggested it. We want to club, swapped on our first visit her and enjoyed it. Hoping for more meets with decent couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We actually met here as singles. Deleted our singles profiles soon after and a few months later after we made sure we were solid and on the same page created a couples profile

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Always had a taste for more out-there sex like in a car outside role-play just seemed to be the next logical step for us.

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By *outhsuffolkcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We are fairly new to the swinging scene. We would always talk about involving others as a fantasy but at the beginning of this year we joined Fab and took baby steps.

Cait had her first mmmf this week so things have certainly progressed

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Cait had her first mmmf this week so things have certainly progressed "

fun, aren't they lol

Hubby found me here,

I was looking for ladies,

he's happy about that...

so we still are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here what was meant to be a meet turned into falling for each other and now live and play together

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

We met as singles on here after a year of meeting created a couple's profile then moved in together last year. Fun topic when people ask how we met....through our mutual female fuck buddy after arranging a threesome

Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

I asked my former partner one night if I could take her anally and shortly after that she said she liked to be double penetrated; we did a bit a of research and met a lovely couple whom we felt we could trust, after a couple of socials, where we discussed what we wanted from the experience.

Soft swap progressed in time to full swap, then to DP, DVP and eventually bareback.

The ultimate was myself and former with strapon DVPing the other fem and partner being simultaneously fucked anally.

An amazingly intense experience for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were both on here separately & met in a zoom group held by a mutual friend.

Always knew we’d be friends but when we met, it became apparent chemistry was firing. So we became a couple & now only play together with others.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We were lying in bed one night and S (mrs) said she thinks she might be bi and wants us to have a threesome with another lady.

Oddly enough I was a little reluctant at start but then I realised there really was no downside

Anyway we did a bit of research and joined here. And then this covid thing came along and plans have slowed

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We'd been interested in the scene for quite a few years and had been tempted many times over the years to give us a go, but what gave us is the final push is that on a night out someone said we'd make great swingers. That was based on the fact that we both get turned on if someone shows intrest in either of us, unlike vanilla couples who don't even like their partners being looked at. We really don't understand that mindset.

Anyway that's how it started but unfortunately it was just before the world went to shit.

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By *it for TattCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

We’d been married for 25 years and been vanilla. We were at a beach party in Ibiza and a twenty something woman came up to me and said she’d like to fuck us both……after I eventually got my jaw to close, it got us chatting about it…..never looked back since.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I used to mention her taking another cock during sex so I set it up ,meeting a guy on the pretence of getting some software from him. After meeting him in the pub we went back to his, messed about on his pc,had more wine then he put a blue movie on. She didn't object I run my hand up her dress and started playing with her pussy, he was behind her and I gave him the nod,he started massaging her neck then he ran his hands down the front of her dream and caressed her tits. We slowly undressed her and he went down on her. She was loving it. Again I gave him the nod and he stripped and got on top of her, she reached around and pulled him inside her. We spit roasted her swapping around she sucked him and me. It was mind blowing. We seen him again several times before moving on to our second victim.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We met on a swinging site. Our first meet was just going to be a one off, FBs for a while an after 4 months Debs moved in with me.

I remember the conversation (post shag):

Debs "You know I'm falling for you don't you?"

Me "Falling?, I've already fallen"

And here we are, 20 years later (married 13 years this year)

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Mrs suggested it. I thought about it for about a millisecond and the rest as the day is history.

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By *aybail-238Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

We had a trip to Amsterdam on the dfds ferry. We were meant to go with our friends, another couple. When the day came they had a falling out over something stupid but our friend ‘John’ still came along as they had paid for it his then girlfriend didn’t come.

A few drinks on the night and him hearing us and seeing us play on the night he ended up joining in. Never looked back since.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We’d been together for years, the sex was great and we were always trying new things, pushing back boundaries. Threesomes were the next stage, we loved it and it grew from there.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Been together 20 years and had our bedroom fantasies but never did anything in real life because of jobs. Job change happened in 2012 and after a long walk on the beach where we discussed things decided to wanted to try things before we became to old. In our research noticed links to Fab and so took the plunge and joined. Have never looked back met some great people over the last 9 years.

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By *oolkoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We met on here so it was natural from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He suggested I could if I wanted to go with another man. Then I found myself being seduced by a guy I met on the underground who invited me for a drink and then back to his flat.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Paul was a swinger when I met him. I was intrigued, we talked a lot, I wanted to try it and we went to a club...the rest is history.

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By *umKinkwithUsCouple
over a year ago

Camberley

We had been together for 6 weeks. Amie asked me (Steve) if I would like to try it. Signed up to fab that evening and still loving it 4yrs later.

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By *s1984foruCouple
over a year ago

derby

Saw a drama on tv years ago both liked it wife told me she had a thing with a fem cousin at school and it got us going then I went on internet and couldn’t believe how many swingers there were then going shopping you thinking are they swingers lol So joined site

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Married, together for 15yrs . Signed up to find the ever elusive single female to join us both. Ended up realising we would enjoy playing with couples and the odd single male.

Never found a single female on here however had the fun experience with a close friend instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife at the time mentioned that she had previously had a bi experience and missed it. She also mentioned that she had been a regular threesome addition to a couple. We chatted about unfulfilled fantasies and ended up at a sex party/orgy in london. We played but she didnt want to join others. Later we went to a swinging club and did play.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It's someone we went into together. Started with fantasy then webcam then the real thing.

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I have always been bi, we enjoy outdoor fun together and then one night he asked me if I wanted to go watch others at a club, we got so horny we are still at it xx

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

We met in a purely vanilla context and started dating. After a few months, with things starting to get more serious, MrB decides he needs to confess his sordid past so that there are no secrets or skeletons in the closet.

MrB reveals that he and his former girlfriend got up to all sorts, that she was bi, they went to fetish clubs and used to play with other couples. When they split up MrB continues playing as a single guy “on the scene”. MrB deliberately didn’t use the word “swinging”.

MrB then made a point if saying he did not expect the then future MrsB to be into that sort of thing but that she needed to know the truth.

MrsB then replied “what makes you think I haven’t done swinging before?”

MrB picked his jaw off the floor realising he may have both presumptuous and a tad patronising and then a few weeks of excited and heated discussions started (inc text and emails) revealing what each other had done previously.

Our first play together was about a month later with a couple MrB already knew and had played with. By the end of the year we had several MFMF, a FFM, a MFM, been to Club Rub, Club Wicked and Torture Garden and also a few Fever Parties and a house party. Never looked back.

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