FabSwingers.com forum: Winks

By *rhuges OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm now quite mystified what winks are used for. I thought they meant liked your profile please get in touch if you like ours.

Apparently not. In the last few weeks I've have 3 couple wink at me. I've sent back polite replies saying thank you for the wink I've looked at your profile and interests and would be very keen to have a chat .

None of the couples have replied.

I know I'm going to get the " they don't have to" but in that case why wink in the first place.

Getting a communication going on here is hard enough without this.

End of Rant

By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

A wink is being lazy

By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Agree with you Op, why wink if you’re not interested ?

The only reason I can guess is that one half of the couple was interested but the other half not, so sent the wink independently, rather than as a couple.

Either way sorry it happened to you and good luck with the future

By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Some winks are accidental, we've done a few. We've had many many winks where we've winked back, but they don't follow with a message.