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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone,

Im a virgin and looking for women to chat to and potentially have fun with.

Before you ask why, have social anxiety and i rarely went out when i was younger so just never happened.

Had some rude messages on these forums mostly from men so if you are one of those, dont bother replying to this post.

Hope i can chat to some nice women.

Have a nice day everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck and God speed

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I wish you well. I recommend you don't put all your eggs in one basket and seek in different places.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I wish you all the best OP, but am unsure that Fab is the best option for you.

Unfortunately, I can't suggest an alternative off the top of my head.

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

I agree the posts above, FAB really isn't the place you should be looking.

There's plenty of sites online where people chat and maybe take things further. Also online mobile games that have a chat feature can be very entertaining lol

Try and be fun and friendly, don't open conversations with - hey I'm a virgin and would like to fuck you. Most women would just take that as a line to try and get them on bed.

Build friendships first and the rest will come naturally - trust me there's plenty of people both male & female looking for some fun online.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Hi everyone,

Im a virgin and looking for women to chat to and potentially have fun with.

Before you ask why, have social anxiety and i rarely went out when i was younger so just never happened.

Had some rude messages on these forums mostly from men so if you are one of those, dont bother replying to this post.

Hope i can chat to some nice women.

Have a nice day everyone x

"

They were probably Birmingham Fans

Plenty of guys on this site and not as many women. So keep your expectations low about the site, use the forums and build friendships first, then hopefully you’ll find the right Lady.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried the MeetUp app? It may help with your social anxiety by joining local groups where people share common interests as yourself Never know, it may result in you meeting someone which leads to intimacy.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will try that

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I wouldn't say FAB was the right platform to try and lose your virginity through.

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By *l MateMan
over a year ago

Sheffield Centre

Verified by 4 people. That's a better start than most.

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Verified by 4 people. That's a better start than most."

They're only by cam though, doesn't count as getting your dick wet. Still, he's been posting the same thing for the past 24 weeks, maybe he'll listen to some of the advice given.

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By *ilda934Woman
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

To be honest I would try to work on your social skills first or maybe hire a professional and get the 1st experience out the way

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By *l MateMan
over a year ago

Sheffield Centre


"Verified by 4 people. That's a better start than most.

They're only by cam though, doesn't count as getting your dick wet. Still, he's been posting the same thing for the past 24 weeks, maybe he'll listen to some of the advice given. "

If he's getting people to view him on webcam he must be doing something right. Some people don't get that far.

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich


"Verified by 4 people. That's a better start than most.

They're only by cam though, doesn't count as getting your dick wet. Still, he's been posting the same thing for the past 24 weeks, maybe he'll listen to some of the advice given. "

Doubt he will listen after posting more than half a dozen threads on the same subject and still expecting a different outcome. This is supposedly Einsteins' definition of insanity.

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Verified by 4 people. That's a better start than most.

They're only by cam though, doesn't count as getting your dick wet. Still, he's been posting the same thing for the past 24 weeks, maybe he'll listen to some of the advice given.

If he's getting people to view him on webcam he must be doing something right. Some people don't get that far."

I'm fairly certain he wants to lose his alleged virginity, not have people watch him wank. I could be wrong though.

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By *l MateMan
over a year ago

Sheffield Centre


"Verified by 4 people. That's a better start than most.

They're only by cam though, doesn't count as getting your dick wet. Still, he's been posting the same thing for the past 24 weeks, maybe he'll listen to some of the advice given.

If he's getting people to view him on webcam he must be doing something right. Some people don't get that far.

I'm fairly certain he wants to lose his alleged virginity, not have people watch him wank. I could be wrong though. "

The first step is making contact. Maybe I'm too optimistic about things like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like the advice ppl have given you every few weeks (since that's how often you post about this) on this subject. Go out and meet ppl. Try dating apps. Women of fab want a man that knows what he's doing, we out grew a fumble years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

Im a virgin and looking for women to chat to and potentially have fun with.

Before you ask why, have social anxiety and i rarely went out when i was younger so just never happened.

Had some rude messages on these forums mostly from men so if you are one of those, dont bother replying to this post.

Hope i can chat to some nice women.

Have a nice day everyone x

"

Keep it on the forum. No need to private message

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By *l MateMan
over a year ago

Sheffield Centre


"Just like the advice ppl have given you every few weeks (since that's how often you post about this) on this subject. Go out and meet ppl. Try dating apps. Women of fab want a man that knows what he's doing, we out grew a fumble years ago"

Not trying to be rude, but the OP sounds a bit obsessed. I didn't realize he had posted the same thing multiple times.

What I do know is nobody hands you anything you have to go out and do it for yourself.

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By *ilda934Woman
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Just like the advice ppl have given you every few weeks (since that's how often you post about this) on this subject. Go out and meet ppl. Try dating apps. Women of fab want a man that knows what he's doing, we out grew a fumble years ago

Not trying to be rude, but the OP sounds a bit obsessed. I didn't realize he had posted the same thing multiple times.

What I do know is nobody hands you anything you have to go out and do it for yourself. "

Probably wants people too feel sorry for him maybe I dunno

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By *l MateMan
over a year ago

Sheffield Centre


"Just like the advice ppl have given you every few weeks (since that's how often you post about this) on this subject. Go out and meet ppl. Try dating apps. Women of fab want a man that knows what he's doing, we out grew a fumble years ago

Not trying to be rude, but the OP sounds a bit obsessed. I didn't realize he had posted the same thing multiple times.

What I do know is nobody hands you anything you have to go out and do it for yourself.

Probably wants people too feel sorry for him maybe I dunno "

There's worse ways to get a sympathy fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seek help for your anxiety issues and build from there... Sex should be the last thing on the agenda tbf

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

You will be ok on fab as long as you make the lady aware or else you risk an embarrassing moment.

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By *l MateMan
over a year ago

Sheffield Centre


"You will be ok on fab as long as you make the lady aware or else you risk an embarrassing moment. "

I think women can tell without it being mentioned.

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Didn't realise he keeps posting the same thing. Can't see many women on FAB being interested in being his 'first' if in fact he really is a virgin.

Trying that angle here is like going to a high level cookery class and asking for someone to make cheese on toast with him.

OP there's plenty of good advice been given. If you choose not to take it then don't complain when you get abuse over it.

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