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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, the idea of cuckolding turns you on? Do you think that is enough for you to call yourself a cuckold? Not at all. Cuckolding is as powerful as it is, for a reason. It addresses a plethora of erotic interests. Some get turned on by the idea of seeing their significant other debase and degrade themselves by being sexually promiscuous. This appeals to the closet sadist that poses as a submissive cuck. These individuals also find themselves turned on by just about any/every fallen angel scenario. Others find cuckolding erotic because they like to watch in real-time and in real life. They are wannabe cucks that are essentially satisfying their interest in voyeurism. Cuckolding may also be of interest as a gateway into the swinging lifestyle. Get the spouse with others and the door is open for you to get some strange, or so you think at some level of subconsciousness. Although all the above may be true in a variety of cases, the real cuckold’s drive is born out of two reasons and two reasons only. One is out of deep love to see his partner have sexual pleasure at a level he can never provide. The other is a deep-seated need to be masochistic. There is no/zero/nada/zip desire to have his wife debased, nor is there any thought of him having sex with anyone else but his wife. She is his goddess, and he wants to please her and only her. I don’t want you to think I’m passing judgement on those who like to degrade or watch or swing. Done with open consent, there is absolutely nothing wrong with any of them. However, they are all activities that are proactively sought after by choice. The impetus behind a true cuckold’s mind is not a choice. It’s not just what turns them on. It’s what they are, deep in their heart and mind. The choice is not theirs to make.

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By *inyppMan
over a year ago

watertown

Could not have stated my feelings as a cuckold any better. I have known my entire life this is what I am. It’s not a choice or a fetish to me. My sole desire is to have my wife be as happy as possible - realizing that I’m not man enough to sexually satisfy her. My sole focus and desire is to serve my wife and her bulls to the best of my ability. When I’m allowed to watch or clean up - that is my ultimate reward. My wife and I have never been happier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could not have stated my feelings as a cuckold any better. I have known my entire life this is what I am. It’s not a choice or a fetish to me. My sole desire is to have my wife be as happy as possible - realizing that I’m not man enough to sexually satisfy her. My sole focus and desire is to serve my wife and her bulls to the best of my ability. When I’m allowed to watch or clean up - that is my ultimate reward. My wife and I have never been happier. "
Wishing you happy life

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By *inyppMan
over a year ago

watertown


"Could not have stated my feelings as a cuckold any better. I have known my entire life this is what I am. It’s not a choice or a fetish to me. My sole desire is to have my wife be as happy as possible - realizing that I’m not man enough to sexually satisfy her. My sole focus and desire is to serve my wife and her bulls to the best of my ability. When I’m allowed to watch or clean up - that is my ultimate reward. My wife and I have never been happier. Wishing you happy life"

That’s very kind - wishing you the same!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliantly put.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Brilliantly put."
Just wanted to share our view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree ...being cuck or cuckold is a basic feeling in a simple way .... everything else is simply add ons

and nothing wrong with the add ons as long as the cuckold bit is true..

alot of wannabes for the wrong reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are cuckold couple and love to chat with others in this dynamic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cuckold was tabu subject for so many years and we hope that more people will understand this sexy dynamic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we are cuckold couple and love to chat with others in this dynamic"

Happy to chat guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happy to chat on cuckolding--please pm us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

I can’t reply in person because of our age

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By *entleman JimmyMan
over a year ago

Hove

What a very well thought through post! I have had repeat meet arrangements with one or two couples over the years but only one proper cuckold relationship - which I loved!

In this case the situation was that she was his Goddess and they were both aware that they had married early and her experience had been limited to hubby and one earlier boyfriend. She felt she had missed out and he was more than happy to indulge her. We "met" on a site like this and arranged to meet properly for a drink in a pub where we just hit it off immediately. From there it developed marvellously! I was offered (and accepted) exclusivity, trust built quickly and bareback was mutually desired. A three way friendship developed and we found we are all very comfortable with each other. Sometimes he would watch and sometimes not, sometimes he would "help" - a little aiming or the like...

Eventually it cam to an end because their family situation changed and they became carers. Interestingly he was the most upset of all when this happened.

I would love to find another such couple - but they are few and far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What a very well thought through post! I have had repeat meet arrangements with one or two couples over the years but only one proper cuckold relationship - which I loved!

In this case the situation was that she was his Goddess and they were both aware that they had married early and her experience had been limited to hubby and one earlier boyfriend. She felt she had missed out and he was more than happy to indulge her. We "met" on a site like this and arranged to meet properly for a drink in a pub where we just hit it off immediately. From there it developed marvellously! I was offered (and accepted) exclusivity, trust built quickly and bareback was mutually desired. A three way friendship developed and we found we are all very comfortable with each other. Sometimes he would watch and sometimes not, sometimes he would "help" - a little aiming or the like...

Eventually it cam to an end because their family situation changed and they became carers. Interestingly he was the most upset of all when this happened.

I would love to find another such couple - but they are few and far."
sounds like great time by all involved

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By *alhamCoupleCouple
over a year ago

London


"So, the idea of cuckolding turns you on? Do you think that is enough for you to call yourself a cuckold? Not at all. Cuckolding is as powerful as it is, for a reason. It addresses a plethora of erotic interests. Some get turned on by the idea of seeing their significant other debase and degrade themselves by being sexually promiscuous. This appeals to the closet sadist that poses as a submissive cuck. These individuals also find themselves turned on by just about any/every fallen angel scenario. Others find cuckolding erotic because they like to watch in real-time and in real life. They are wannabe cucks that are essentially satisfying their interest in voyeurism. Cuckolding may also be of interest as a gateway into the swinging lifestyle. Get the spouse with others and the door is open for you to get some strange, or so you think at some level of subconsciousness. Although all the above may be true in a variety of cases, the real cuckold’s drive is born out of two reasons and two reasons only. One is out of deep love to see his partner have sexual pleasure at a level he can never provide. The other is a deep-seated need to be masochistic. There is no/zero/nada/zip desire to have his wife debased, nor is there any thought of him having sex with anyone else but his wife. She is his goddess, and he wants to please her and only her. I don’t want you to think I’m passing judgement on those who like to degrade or watch or swing. Done with open consent, there is absolutely nothing wrong with any of them. However, they are all activities that are proactively sought after by choice. The impetus behind a true cuckold’s mind is not a choice. It’s not just what turns them on. It’s what they are, deep in their heart and mind. The choice is not theirs to make. "

Thank you for the thoughtful post. It is such a wide, popular and yet so misunderstood post. I am turned on by my partner looking sexy and other men and woman wanting her. I get a buzz when she kisses another woman, holds a woman's hand or see a man grab her arse. Perfect. Makes sex all the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuckold was tabu subject for so many years and we hope that more people will understand this sexy dynamic "

Yes well said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, the idea of cuckolding turns you on? Do you think that is enough for you to call yourself a cuckold? Not at all. Cuckolding is as powerful as it is, for a reason. It addresses a plethora of erotic interests. Some get turned on by the idea of seeing their significant other debase and degrade themselves by being sexually promiscuous. This appeals to the closet sadist that poses as a submissive cuck. These individuals also find themselves turned on by just about any/every fallen angel scenario. Others find cuckolding erotic because they like to watch in real-time and in real life. They are wannabe cucks that are essentially satisfying their interest in voyeurism. Cuckolding may also be of interest as a gateway into the swinging lifestyle. Get the spouse with others and the door is open for you to get some strange, or so you think at some level of subconsciousness. Although all the above may be true in a variety of cases, the real cuckold’s drive is born out of two reasons and two reasons only. One is out of deep love to see his partner have sexual pleasure at a level he can never provide. The other is a deep-seated need to be masochistic. There is no/zero/nada/zip desire to have his wife debased, nor is there any thought of him having sex with anyone else but his wife. She is his goddess, and he wants to please her and only her. I don’t want you to think I’m passing judgement on those who like to degrade or watch or swing. Done with open consent, there is absolutely nothing wrong with any of them. However, they are all activities that are proactively sought after by choice. The impetus behind a true cuckold’s mind is not a choice. It’s not just what turns them on. It’s what they are, deep in their heart and mind. The choice is not theirs to make. "

THANK YOU FOR YOUR POST WELL DONE GUYS!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, the idea of cuckolding turns you on? Do you think that is enough for you to call yourself a cuckold? Not at all. Cuckolding is as powerful as it is, for a reason. It addresses a plethora of erotic interests. Some get turned on by the idea of seeing their significant other debase and degrade themselves by being sexually promiscuous. This appeals to the closet sadist that poses as a submissive cuck. These individuals also find themselves turned on by just about any/every fallen angel scenario. Others find cuckolding erotic because they like to watch in real-time and in real life. They are wannabe cucks that are essentially satisfying their interest in voyeurism. Cuckolding may also be of interest as a gateway into the swinging lifestyle. Get the spouse with others and the door is open for you to get some strange, or so you think at some level of subconsciousness. Although all the above may be true in a variety of cases, the real cuckold’s drive is born out of two reasons and two reasons only. One is out of deep love to see his partner have sexual pleasure at a level he can never provide. The other is a deep-seated need to be masochistic. There is no/zero/nada/zip desire to have his wife debased, nor is there any thought of him having sex with anyone else but his wife. She is his goddess, and he wants to please her and only her. I don’t want you to think I’m passing judgement on those who like to degrade or watch or swing. Done with open consent, there is absolutely nothing wrong with any of them. However, they are all activities that are proactively sought after by choice. The impetus behind a true cuckold’s mind is not a choice. It’s not just what turns them on. It’s what they are, deep in their heart and mind. The choice is not theirs to make.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR POST WELL DONE GUYS!"
You welcome its development over a long time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, the idea of cuckolding turns you on? Do you think that is enough for you to call yourself a cuckold? Not at all. Cuckolding is as powerful as it is, for a reason. It addresses a plethora of erotic interests. Some get turned on by the idea of seeing their significant other debase and degrade themselves by being sexually promiscuous. This appeals to the closet sadist that poses as a submissive cuck. These individuals also find themselves turned on by just about any/every fallen angel scenario. Others find cuckolding erotic because they like to watch in real-time and in real life. They are wannabe cucks that are essentially satisfying their interest in voyeurism. Cuckolding may also be of interest as a gateway into the swinging lifestyle. Get the spouse with others and the door is open for you to get some strange, or so you think at some level of subconsciousness. Although all the above may be true in a variety of cases, the real cuckold’s drive is born out of two reasons and two reasons only. One is out of deep love to see his partner have sexual pleasure at a level he can never provide. The other is a deep-seated need to be masochistic. There is no/zero/nada/zip desire to have his wife debased, nor is there any thought of him having sex with anyone else but his wife. She is his goddess, and he wants to please her and only her. I don’t want you to think I’m passing judgement on those who like to degrade or watch or swing. Done with open consent, there is absolutely nothing wrong with any of them. However, they are all activities that are proactively sought after by choice. The impetus behind a true cuckold’s mind is not a choice. It’s not just what turns them on. It’s what they are, deep in their heart and mind. The choice is not theirs to make.

Thank you for the thoughtful post. It is such a wide, popular and yet so misunderstood post. I am turned on by my partner looking sexy and other men and woman wanting her. I get a buzz when she kisses another woman, holds a woman's hand or see a man grab her arse. Perfect. Makes sex all the better. "
You are heading the right direction love is powerful ?

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